People's Park is located in the center of SH, the park is roughly divided into east, middle and west three scenic spots, the main scenic spots in the northeast are the monument of the Wuxi Movement, the statue of Zhang Side, there are scenery building tea room, open-air theater, dance hall and other buildings in the west area scenic spots are the more concentrated places of garden architecture, there are pavilions, corridors, exhibition halls, rockeries, ponds and wisteria corridors, there are many kinds of plants, there are traditional landscape areas such as Begonia Garden, Cuibi Lake, Lotus Pond, Xishan Waterfall in the four parks, and there are colorful and romantic modern landscape areas such as Magnolia Garden and Hundred Gardens, It is a park with a comprehensive leisure function.

There are golden sentences such as "a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan is a beggar", "education is a bronze medal, ability is a gold medal, and connections are a trump card...", "without a degree, what can you do to make money", "parents say that an annual salary of 1 million has just gotten rid of poverty" and other golden sentences.

"Er Dsheng finally found a young man to give birth, so I didn't want that."

It is easy to be labeled as a 'three-no product' by Shanghai uncles and aunts, household registration, house, and salary.

"No house, no car, no hukou, are you a three-no product?" "Mercedes can, but small can't!" I can't look at more than 300,000 domestic cars, and neither can the northern ones, but BJ's can talk about it"......

This happened in the blind date corner of Shanghai People's Park, and the aunt's answer is also more sophisticated! I almost laughed, I don't know if you're looking for a son-in-law or a deal?

Every weekend, Shanghai's People's Park and Century Park are turned into open-air markets for children to meet on blind dates, with hundreds of people and thousands of people. To be honest, I can also understand the current parents, aunts who raised their daughters with their hearts and livers, and especially hope that their daughters can find a good family to marry.

The standards of the elders in Shanghai are basically as follows: Shanghai hukou is basic, a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan is begging, and a car and a house are considered third-rate people. Such a "high" blind date standard also left a deep impression on the hearts of the younger generations.

The young man has a house in Shanghai?

The nurse's salary is 6,000, and the 20,000 yuan is looked down on, and the old is stable

Ah Fei found a small corner and set up a stall, and the guy was a little embarrassed to just play with his mobile phone. After a while, an aunt in a bright red coat came to Ah Fei and glanced at his personal information, and the three companies were as sharp as a cannon: "Young man, are you out of town?" Has the hukou come up? What about the house? ”

"Nope." Ah Fei's confidence was lowered a lot.

"Those three no products!" The aunt in the red sweater said with a smile.

"Does your daughter have a house in Shanghai?" Ah Fei was a little unwilling and wanted to win back a game.

The aunt said that they had a suite, and the couple wanted to live in it, but Ah Fei retorted: "Then your daughter doesn't have a house, why do you ask me to have a room?"

"We just don't have a house, that's why we ask the boys to have it." Auntie said confidently.

"Do you think it's okay for me to make a down payment and then the two of us pay off the loan together?" Ah Fei asked tentatively.

Unexpectedly, the aunt said that it doesn't seem to work, my daughter is a baby, so my daughter's pressure is too great, and I can't let her suffer with you.

At this time, an uncle next to him said that he was still young in 92 years, so did he consider his son-in-law?

Ah Fei joked that whose surname does the child have? Uncle said it was negotiable.

After a while, another aunt in a white down jacket came and asked Ah Fei how much he earned in a year. Ah Fei honestly replied four or five hundred thousand a year.

Unexpectedly, the aunt said disdainfully, "Your income is not high in our Shanghai!" ”

Ah Fei asked her rhetorically, "Then how much does your daughter earn a month?" ”

"She earns 7,000 a month, but she's a nurse and has a very stable job." Auntie replied with great pride.

Then the aunt asked Ah Fei if he had a car, and Ah Fei said that he drove a small Mercedes-Benz. As a result, the aunt said that the kind of domestically produced Mercedes-Benz is only more than 300,000, and it doesn't seem to work.

Ah Fei wondered a little in his heart, why did he look down on those who rode electric cars and drove Mercedes-Benz, maybe they had a Shanghai hukou.

It didn't take long for an older aunt to get straight to the point and ask Ah Fei if he had bought a house in Shanghai.

Ah Fei honestly told his aunt that there were none, but there were five or six houses in his hometown.

"You have five or six houses in a small place in your hometown, but you can't buy a single attic in Shanghai." Auntie waved her hand.

"My hometown is in BJ." Ah Fei joked.

The aunt changed her face instantly and quickly took out her mobile phone, saying add a VX, the north can't do it, BJ can still do it.

In the public space of the blind date corner, parents and young men and women showed obvious surprise in their self-presentation: parents paid more attention to family cultural capital when interacting with others, and young men and women paid more attention to showing their personal cultural capital, and the attitude of the two towards the blind date corner was diametrically opposed, with parents being the stigmatizers of the blind date corner, and young men and women who were more positive about the blind date corner.