Chapter 399: Bi Wenli is down
"Oh? What did Xu Xing say?"
Speaking of Xu Niannian's search for a partner, Bi Wenli immediately became energetic.
In terms of marriage, Bi Wenli is a very traditional woman.
At home, she always listened to Xu Yi's advice on major matters, and was responsible for cooking, cleaning, laundry, and taking care of the children at home, all of which were handled single-handedly, so that Xu Yi could work with peace of mind.
The idea of patriarchy is more serious, and when I first got married, I wanted to give Xu Yi a boy, but I couldn't conceive it.
Later, after going to the hospital for examination, I learned that I am not easy to get pregnant, and the probability of wanting to conceive is similar to winning the lottery.
With Bi Wenli's original thinking, women naturally want to have children when they get married, and women who can't have children will suddenly fall to the dust in their value.
As a result, she fell into a slight depression and was depressed all day long.
There was even a desire for revenge for a while, and he pestered Xu Yi all night, wanting to use quantity to make up for the low probability.
The whole person was stunned.
If it was an ordinary family at that time, or a family that valued children over children and grandchildren, Bi Wenli might really be kicked out of the house, divorced or something, no matter how bad it was, it was the hidden cold violence of family members.
But fortunately, Xu Yi himself is relatively open-minded, and the computer he learned in college earlier also caught up with the first wave of the Internet after he came out, and he is more open-minded.
After learning that it was difficult for his wife to get pregnant, she didn't have too many feelings of loss, and even comforted Bi Wenli all the time and helped her slowly come out of that shadow.
Later, he went to adopt a child in a welfare home, on the one hand, to make up for the regret that the two may not have offspring, and on the other hand, it was actually Xu Yi to take care of Bi Wenli's emotions.
Especially when Bi Wenli originally wanted to adopt a boy, in the end the two chose a girl, and Xu Yi himself expressed his stance with practical actions - men and women are not important, and even as long as it is a child raised by the two of them, it is not the point whether it is biological or not.
Since adopting Xu Nian, Bi Wenli's mood has gradually stabilized and she has changed back to that virtuous wife.
The two of them raised Xu Niannian with peace of mind, and about a year after adopting Xu Niannian, it happened that Sun Wanhui and Xu Jian were also pregnant and gave birth to Xu Xing.
After hearing that they gave birth to boys, although Bi Wenli has psychologically reduced a lot of patriarchal thoughts, it is still inevitable that she will entrust part of her desire for her son to Xu Xing.
In addition, since the two families moved to the city, they have always lived opposite the door, and it is convenient to come and go, and several children are basically raised as their own children.
Bi Wenli's kindness to Xu Xing is obvious to all.
Usually, if there is anything delicious at home, Xu Xing is the priority, even if Xu is old, he has to be at the back, but generally Xu Xing will let his sister eat first.
"It doesn't matter what he says." Sun Wanhui pondered and said, "It's just that I have to explain some things clearly to you, so that you can know what's at stake."
Hearing Sun Wanhui say this, Bi Wenli restrained her expression slightly, the movements of washing the dishes in her hands slowed down a little, and she became serious: "Tell me, I'll listen."
"Well, then I said it." Sun Wanhui prepared for a while, and after sorting out her thoughts, she said slowly, "Look, you said before, let Xu Xing's kid introduce Xu Niannian to Xu Niannian, right?"
"That's right." Bi Wenli nodded, "This is not thinking, he must have seen a lot of outstanding young people in this freshman company now, it should be very easy to introduce his sister, right?"
"It's easy." Sun Wanhui agreed, but changed her tone again, "But I have to ask you a question first, how do you want your marriage to be every year? Is it just to find someone who is rich and has good family conditions, or does it have other requirements?"
"Then I must like it every year." Bi Wenli said helplessly, "I'm not really a feudal tradition, no matter how I say it, I have to like it myself, it's not that she hasn't found one in college for so many years, and she doesn't pay attention to me when I introduce her to a blind date, then I."
Thinking about it, it's always okay to let Xu Xing introduce him, right?"
"That's right." Sun Wanhui smiled and said, "But you have to know, what is Xu Xing's identity now? It's his sister every year, and we really can't ignore that now."
"You asked Xu Xing to introduce the subject, what is the condition in the ears of that person?"
"She is the sister of President Xu of the Qunxing Group, and she has a very good relationship, and even after graduating every year, she will take up an important position within Qunxing."
"This prospect, if you simply want to find someone who makes you and each other like each other, it is really more difficult than climbing to the sky."
Hearing this, Bi Wenli came back to her senses and probably understood what Sun Wanhui meant.
After being clicked through, she also understood the truth.
Bi Wenli is not stupid, although she usually plays mahjong, but the gossip exchanges with the good sisters, everyone is like a good person, and she can think about human nature thoroughly.
Especially in mahjong for so many years, all the sisters who are irritable or yin and yang weird because they lose money playing mahjong have now been excluded, and those who can stay and play mahjong together are basically in a better state of mind.
When Bi Wenli heard Sun Wanhui say this, she roughly understood.
If you want to say that in the early years, it was normal to give Xu Nian a blind date, but now as long as she is Xu Xing's sister, this identity is destined to affect the perception and purpose of outsiders.
Although Bi Wenli is a little more traditional in her bones, she doesn't want her daughter to live an uncomfortable life in the future just for the sake of getting married.
Otherwise, she would have pushed Xu Niannian on a blind date a long time ago, how could she just be just nagging.
"It can't be said that just because the conditions are too good every year, it's even more difficult to find a partner, right?" Bi Wenli was a little speechless, "I rubbed a little bit of Xu Xing's light, and I ended up running for the older leftover girl?"
"Ahem...... Ahem, pour, pour not necessarily."
Speaking of this, Sun Wanhui couldn't help coughing twice, and her original confident tone became a little less unbreakable.
Bi Wenli didn't think about it so much, but when she heard Sun Wanhui say this, she thought that Sun Wanhui had helped find a good blind date.
So I asked curiously, "Do you have any recommendations?" Tell me about it."
"How old is she every year, and how old will she be when she graduates with a master's degree?"
"If you drag out the blind date for a few more years, if you are unlucky to delay it after getting married, and wait until you are in your thirties to get pregnant again, it will be an advanced maternal age, how dangerous it is."
"You're right, but let's talk about it first." Sun Wanhui touched her nose, and her emotions finally began to become a little nervous, "No matter what I say for a while, let's be calm, you can discuss anything with me, okay?"
"That's going to work." Bi Wenli agreed, and her trust in Sun Wanhui was still quite sufficient, knowing that she would not be able to pit herself and Nian Nian.
Speaking of which, if you really want to mention the good or bad relationship, Sun Wanhui is closer every year, Bi Wenli, who is a mother, doesn't know.
So Bi Wenli wasn't too worried at this time, but she was just curious about what plan Sun Wanhui had prepared.
But in the next second, Sun Wanhui changed the topic and said, "Nian Nian was adopted by you and Xu Yi in the welfare home, right?"
Bi Wenli was stunned for a moment, wondering why this came back to this topic, but she still nodded her head and asked, "Yes, why are you talking about this?"
"Then, look at it...... Sun Wanhui completely stopped the dishwashing work in her hand, wiped her hands on her apron, took a deep breath, turned her head to look at Bi Wenli seriously, and asked, "What do you think of Xu Xing?"
"Huh?"
Bi Wenli was completely stunned, and she couldn't react for a while.
The chaotic thoughts in my mind were brainstormed, and after contacting and summing up, it took a long time to come back to my senses and clarify the meaning of Sun Wanhui's words.
But her face was shocked, and she felt that she had misunderstood, and her voice was a little quieter: "Sister, what are you talking about......
What do you mean?"
Sun Wanhui coughed, and continued stubbornly: "It's, it's literal, what do you think?"
"No......" Bi Wenli completely understood the situation, her brows were twisted together, and she looked at Sun Wanhui with a puzzled face, "What do you think about this?" This, this, this...... How is this possible? They're brothers and sisters!"
"But it's not a brother or sister, and it's not even related by blood, right?" Sun Wanhui took a deep breath and said, "What do you think if you are willing every year?"
"That's not going to work!" Bi Wenli frowned and vetoed, "Xu Xing doesn't have a girlfriend, he can't break up with Vinegar Vinegar and be with Nian Nian, aren't you messing around, people are easy to bully?" No, no, no!"
Bi Wenli's thinking is very normal, anyway, she is a normal mother, and her first reaction when she hears this kind of suggestion must be a refusal.
If it weren't for Sun Wanhui, Bi Wenli would probably have been slapped in the face at this time.
"I know what you mean." Sun Wanhui sighed, rubbed her eyebrows, and added, "What if it's vinegar and vinegar every year?"
Bi Wenli: "......"
Looking at Sun Wanhui, Bi Wenli's eyes were strange at this time, as if she was looking at a stranger: "Did you take the wrong medicine today?" Or did Xu Xing ask you to say it? If he wants to help his sister, and doesn't want to introduce a few people as I said, just say it."
"And what should I do with this diaphragm?"
"Does this bad idea come out every year? Just so that I don't have to find her a blind date? You can even think of such a move?"
Bi Wenli's brain circuit is also very clear, and she didn't think that Xu Niannian and Xu Xing really had that kind of thing at all, and she didn't even think about it.
But after thinking about it, Bi Wenli felt that something was wrong, frowned and asked, "No, is it difficult to know about adoption every year?" But the family never mentioned it to her."
"Is there a possibility?" Sun Wanhui said helplessly, "Did she overhear it before?"
"Really?" Bi Wenli's frowning brows never stretched, and when she heard this, she chuckled in her heart, "When?" I've told you every year?"
"When you were pregnant, it is estimated that when you were chatting with Xu Yi, you happened to overhear it for her, and you have been hiding it until now." Sun Wanhui said.
Bi Wenli was silent, and for a while, the thoughts in her mind flew up, and she connected with Sun Wanhui's words to test her all the way in front of her, and finally understood a little.
If that's what to say...... Sun Wanhui asked herself before, how is Xu Xing, could it be that Sun Wanhui asked Sun Wanhui every year?
But...... Even if you agree, what about vinegar? It's impossible to really let the family accept two daughters to serve one husband, right? It's not the same as it used to be.
To put it simply, isn't this just a sideways kick?
Bi Wenli can't accept this.
"Where are you now? I'll have to talk to her." Bi Wenli's eyebrows and eyes were worried, and she was a little worried about her daughter's mental problems at this time.
But Sun Wanhui was prepared, grabbed her, pulled Bi Wenli back, who had just turned around and was about to go out, and hurriedly said, "You listen to me first, you don't understand this matter clearly."
"What if you know it better? She wants to be with her brother, and he has a girlfriend!" Bi Wenli was already a little irritable in her heart.
But in the next second, Sun Wanhui's words made her freeze in place.
"Is there a possibility?" Sun Wanhui sighed helplessly, "Actually, the two of them are already together?"
"Huh?"
Bi Wenli blinked, and the whole person was stunned and stunned.
In my mind, which was already a brainstorm, it suddenly exploded with a bang as if another atomic bomb had been stuffed.
The brain went straight down, and some couldn't think.
But Sun Wanhui thought about it and said everything, so she simply said, "Not only are we together, but we also know about this matter, and we all accept it now."
The relationship between the three of them is very good......
Taking advantage of the fact that Bi Wenli hadn't gone out at this time, Sun Wanhui hurriedly told all the information she knew, and explained the current situation clearly.
These words drilled into Bi Wenli's ears, and every word was like a huge bell ringing in front of the Buddha Gate on the top of the mountain, buzzing and knocking on her brain.
It took another long time for her to come back to her senses and digest the large amount of information a little.
It's just that something was a little unexpected by Sun Wanhui, Bi Wenli didn't show any angry emotions, but was a little calm, just raised her eyes and asked, "How long has it been?"
"If it's been more than two years since they've been together." Sun Wanhui replied.
"And when did you find out?"
"It's just recently, just a few days ago." Sun Wanhui sighed, "I've talked a lot with them, and seeing that they are more persistent, I can't do anything to stop them, so I can only help convince you."
Bi Wenli took a deep breath to calm her mind, and her mood was very complicated: "What about the other than you? Does anyone else know?"
"Your husband also knows, probably on the National Day, but he wasn't sure how to convince you, so he looked for me first." Sun Wanhui was also quite speechless, "I am quite helpless to put this mess in my hands, but it is all for the happiness of the children in the future, so I have to take advantage of the fact that only the two of us have to work hard to make things clear."
Bi Wenli closed her eyes, raised her head and pondered for a while.
When she opened her eyes again, she turned and opened the sliding door of the kitchen, and was about to go out.
Sun Wanhui was so frightened by her that she immediately grabbed her again: "What are you doing?"
"Don't worry, I won't quarrel." Bi Wenli broke Sun Wanhui's finger and reassured her, "I'll talk to Xu Yi first."