"Husband, ma'am~"

Aunt Xiyu suddenly came back to her senses.

pulled out a stiff smile, "Mrs. Hui, the slave is fine, the slave and maid lost their minds just now." ”

"I don't think you're very erotic, and you've been tired during this time."

Li Shulan didn't know what she was thinking.

I just thought that she was not young, and she should be tired with herself.

I can't help but show guilt, "It just so happens that we don't have anything special to do during this time, so you can rest for a few days." ”

"Madam, the slave is really fine."

Aunt Xiyu's eyes flashed with helplessness, "Don't worry, if there is anything wrong with the slave maid, I will definitely tell the lady that the slave maid still wants to always be by the side of the lady to support the elderly." ”

"Aunt Xiyu, you're kidding."

Li Shulan laughed when she heard this, "You are still young, and you are not very old, it is the time to live a good life, and it is not too late to wait for you to retire for another twenty years." ”

"Madame will make the slave and maid happy."

Aunt Xiyu smiled, "The slave maid is used to following the lady now, as long as the lady does not dislike the slave maid is useless, the slave maid wants to live like this for the rest of her life."

Follow the lady to watch the two sons and young ladies grow up, guard the lady to become the old lady, and have no regrets in this life. ”

"Are you thinking too long?"

Li Shulan smiled, "If you are still by my side twenty or thirty years later, that is the rhythm of really becoming an old lady." ”

Aunt Xiyu suddenly asked, "Will Madame remarry?" ”

"Remarry? How is this possible. ”

Li Shulan was stunned for a moment.

He shook his head with a smile, "I have been guarding my three children all my life, and I also believe that I can live well without relying on men."

Men are a nuisance, and it's best for me not to have them, and I don't want to ask for trouble. ”

"Madam, men are trouble?"

Aunt Xiyu was stunned by her words.

Whoever has a woman without a man, it's like the sky is falling.

Why did you come to Mrs. here as if she wished there was no man, and it was more comfortable to live alone with children? Freely? Still is......

She couldn't figure it out, and she couldn't guess the mind of the person in front of her.

"Of course it's troublesome."

Li Shulan blinked, looked at her and asked with a smile, "Aunt Xiyu, you have also been in the imperial capital for many years, and you have also seen a lot of ladies and ladies get married, what do you think is the difference between them before and after they get married?" ”

Aunt Xiyu was stunned again, "The difference? ”

"Yes, when they are girls, they are babies, spoiled by their parents, spoiled by their brothers and younger brothers, and after they get married."

Li Shulan smiled, the smile didn't reach the bottom of her eyes, "They serve their in-laws, serve men, and most importantly, take care of men's concubines, she lives for others, not for herself, don't you say?" ”

"Well, that's true."

Aunt Xiyu followed her train of thought and thought about it again.

It seems that those noble ladies in the capital were lively and smart, delicate and cute before they got married, and when they got married, they became the same noble ladies.

There is no difference between the Thousand Faces and the others, and it is rare to see in them what is true happiness and pleasure, freedom, and joy.

For their own interests, for the interests of their families, and for the interests of the people around them, they put down everything to fight and fight, and finally lived as the least favorite before they got married.

After a pause, he couldn't help but say again: "There is a difference between having a man in the family and not having a man, at least others dare not bully easily if there is a man in the family." ”

"Who said we don't have a man?"

Li Shulan smiled, "We have Wenxi and Wenxuan in our family, no matter who it is, they don't dare to underestimate me."

Of course, if it were just me and Rong'er, maybe it would be difficult for me to live this kind of life.

At least the people of Sujia Village won't try so hard to help us, don't you say? ”

"Yes, Madame's words are very true."

Aunt Xiyu smiled and nodded.

In my heart, I secretly marveled that Mrs. was smart and transparent.

I have to admit that what Mrs. said is right, the noble ladies in the capital seem to have no worries about food and clothing, and their lives are even more cruel.

Rural couples are running around for three meals a day, and the so-called poor couples mourn everything, and they will also make trouble over trivial things.

It seems that a person like Madame has the ability to support a family, and life is hundreds of times better than those people.

I just don't know what the prince will think after he knows......

Come to think of this.

Aunt Xiyu couldn't help but look forward to it.

The days ahead should be wonderful.

The next day, Lin Qingyi came to play for a day.

Unknowingly, this girl had a good time with Su Qiaorong.

The two of them sketched in the study for a day, which surprised Li Shulan.

Before leaving.

Lin Qingyi hesitated for a moment, and whispered a few times in Li Shulan's ear and said, "Sister-in-law Lan, do you think that the man who is the master is reliable, or is it better to be a military general?" ”

"This ......"

Li Shulan didn't expect her to ask this question suddenly.

I couldn't help but be stunned for a moment.

I noticed that her pretty face was slightly flushed, and I immediately realized something.

A smile flashed in his eyes, and his tone was relaxed, "Qingyi, in fact, I think it doesn't matter what work a man does, the most important thing is character, the most important thing is character, and the most important thing is whether he respects his daughter-in-law." ”

"Sister-in-law Lan, why?"

The answer came as a surprise to her.

Lin Qingyi couldn't help but say: "It is said that the master knows etiquette, and the military generals are reckless and rude, and they will beat women." ”

"Haven't you heard the term 'Sven scum'?"

Li Shulan smiled and smiled, "I've always heard that 'every time you slaughter dogs, most of them are scholars.'" That's it.

This shows that there are not no bad people in the readers, and the generals are not murderous people at all, but everyone takes a different path.

Of course, I'm not saying that there are no bad people among military generals, nor that there are no righteous people among scholars, I mean that there are no absolute things in this world. ”

Lin Qingyi was stunned.

She was silent, not knowing what she was thinking.

Li Shulan settled down and spoke again, "Everyone's background environment has a great impact on the individual, at least the people in this family are affectionate and righteous, so the children cultivated will definitely not be too bad."

Even if there are one or two, it only means that there is no good education, and it is normal for the good and the bad to be uneven.

If this family belongs to the kind of family that has a bad reputation, the so-called upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked, even if there are one or two people with good temperaments, it is limited.

Girls need to pay attention to all aspects in the selection of people, and they can't just use their status to evaluate a person, everyone's character and character are different.

Personally, I think it's important to understand it thoroughly, don't listen to the wind or the rain, don't say what you haven't seen with your own eyes, and sometimes what you see with your own eyes may not be true.

When we encounter things, we mainly need to understand the cause and effect, so that we can make judgments, and we can't listen to one side, and we can't just know what they are saying, understand? ”

"Sister-in-law Lan, thank you."

Lin Qingyi nodded solemnly.

There was a look of gratitude on his face.

She didn't say anything more, chatted for a while, and left.

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