Chapter 1248, go to the Jin family to discuss the wedding

Tian Tian generously admitted, "Yes, I was indeed stronger at first."

"But after falling in love, I found that sometimes I have to be soft and soft, and I can't be too strong all the time."

If you should be soft, you will be soft, and if you should be coquettish, you will be coquettish, and lowering your attitude appropriately will make the relationship between the two better.

If both of them are strong and tough, they will only go further and further.

You have to give in to each other, sometimes you let me, sometimes I let you.

Change each other, compromise with each other, reflect on each other.

If one of them doesn't change, it's useless to do more.

Two people have to run it together.

Orange Orange gave her a thumbs up, "You've summed it up so right."

"I was too self-conscious before, I didn't care about Momo, and every time I ignored his feelings and made him sad."

"But not now, now I will stand on his side first, protect him first, and give him a sense of security."

Instead of just thinking about your own face.

"Now I also understand that a man's self-esteem needs to be maintained, and occasionally I have to hold him a little and give him some rainbow fart."

After all, the other party loves you, and you have to pay a little, and you can't just enjoy the good of others.

The two paid together, and the relationship was really sweeter.

Mrs. Chi was very relieved to see that they had all made progress.

"It is naturally best for you to grow, and you have to run the marriage with your husband when you get married in the future to last a long time."

Especially after giving birth, that's the time to test the feelings.

Orange and orange have never been born, and they can't be experienced yet.

"We'll talk about that later."

None of them want to have children so early, and play for a few years first.

Mrs. Chi was not happy, "Give birth as soon as possible, and recover while the young are intact."

Orange Orange doesn't, "It's painful to have a baby, so I don't want to suffer so early."

If I could, I wouldn't want to give birth.

Old Lady Chi's eyes widened, "How can that be! You want our house to cut off the incense!"

Orange Orange smiled, "Isn't that still winged?"

The eldest grandson doesn't count on her, counts on her.

Mrs. Chi didn't care, "Anyway, you have to live, otherwise Momo will cut off the incense."

"Your in-laws are so good, your Grandpa Jin and Grandma Jin are so good, you can't bear to let them regret it?"

This is serious, where does Orange Orange dare to be really regrettable, pouting, "Ouch, I know, I will give birth, but not now."

Mrs. Chi brainwashed her, "You stupid child, you have a child and it won't affect your life."

"You gave birth, grandma and your grandmother Jin helped you bring it."

"I teach it to do business, and your grandmother Jin teaches it to read, you don't have to be busy, you should go to work, you should travel, and you won't be delayed at all."

"And after you give birth, the task will be completed, love the waves, there are no worries at all, how good."

Orange Orange thought, "It seems to be too."

Her family loves to take care of children so much, and there are indeed people who take care of them when they give birth.

"Okay then, then I'll think about it."

Old Lady Chi was already thinking about the full moon wine, and the corners of her mouth were crooked, "Then you talk to Tiantian for a while, I'll be busy."

Orange Orange waved her hand, "Go ahead."

Tian Tian covered her mouth and snickered, "Grandma really likes children."

I can't wait for all my grandchildren to have children.

Orange Cheng teased, "I really gave birth to her so much in the future, make a noise about her, and see if she dares to give birth."

Tian Tian looked up and smiled, "Yes, if you really want to give birth to her old man together, she should scold the street."

Orange laughed, and the room was filled with the laughter of the sisters.

After the subsequent engagement, the two families had a meal together, and they waited for the wedding day.

During this period, Orange Orange and Jin Fanmo went to work as usual.

The old lady of the pool, the old lady of Jin, and the new face of Lan Jiaojiao Zhuang have been busy.

Mrs. Chi first got the wedding hotel in Beijing ready, and then went back to old age with Mrs. Jin

Home lane Chinese-style.

The concubines of the Jin family didn't expect Mrs. Chi to come.

In private, she quietly asked Mrs. Jin, "Our Jin family marries a daughter-in-law, why does one of her in-laws still come over to command?"

"Isn't it too strong?"

Old Lady Jin waved her hand, "No, I specially asked her to help, she is used to presiding over big things, and she has a very good set of these small things, I am very relieved to have her to arrange them."

The concubines didn't understand, "You are the man's family, how can you let the woman's family point fingers, and how can you be majestic in the future?"

Mrs. Jin said to her, "That's what you think wrong."

"Now it's all about the two sides living in peace, helping each other and taking care of each other."

"Mrs. Chi is very capable, and I am relieved that I can ask her for help."

Otherwise, for such a big matter as getting married, many rules and details have to be handled by careful people.

But her group of concubines said, "Then you don't need to call her, she is not from our city, how can she understand our rules here."

"Besides, don't you have us? Wouldn't it be nice to ask us to help you?"

Old Mrs. Jin didn't want this group of concubines to help.

When they were young, they were at odds with each other, they only maintained a superficial peace, and they didn't actually like to do things with each other.

Like Jin Fanmo getting married, Mrs. Jin didn't think about asking her for help.

It's better to find them than to find Mrs. Chi, everything is easy to discuss.

If you look for this group of concubines, if it doesn't suit her wishes, she refuses, and it is estimated that she will have to hold a grudge, so it is better not to.

But you can't say it explicitly, you can only say implicitly, "Since you want to be an in-law, it's a family, and it's better for a family to get married together."

This group of women don't think so.

"You stupid, we are men, and men should make up their minds. It's up to them to do whatever they want, but we'll have the final say."

"Otherwise, they will control you in the future, and you won't be able to do whatever you want."

For a long time, there was no status.

Old Lady Jin didn't believe it, "No, the Chi family is very good, they are not strong people."

After speaking, he continued to find Mrs. Chi.

Mrs. Chi saw them gathered around from afar, and she knew that she was talking about her.

Mrs. Jin didn't hide it from her, "My group of ladies is also a young lady from a big family in ancient times, and she is very arrogant."

"But they don't have bad intentions, they just don't have a very likable personality."

Old Lady Chi could see it, "It's okay, I've watched a lot of ancient Hou Mansion dramas, and I know how to deal with them."

"You don't care about them, anyway, no matter what you do well or not, some people say it's better to be happy."

Mrs. Jin felt that she was right.

Whether she asked Mrs. Chi to help or asked Yuli to help, they had something to say.

It's better to do what you want.

Mrs. Chi accompanied her to see the wedding venue first.

But the concubines said, "Since you are married, you will run it at home and go to any hotel."

"That is, since it is Chinese-style, just like our era, it is directly married into a red sedan chair."

Since it's Chinese, what kind of hotel do you go to?

"No, just do it at home, there is such a big yard at home, there are enough people to come."

Old Lady Jin frowned when she heard this, for fear that Old Lady Chi would be unhappy.

But Mrs. Chi thought it was okay.

"Actually, it's okay to marry in, but there are few people in our Chi family to marry, and they will definitely come over when the time comes, I'm afraid that your courtyard won't be able to sit down."