Seeing Wang Daqing asking curiously, Wang Yun repeated what he meant just now, but changed the way he asked, "I saw that Brother Sun just talked about marriage like a river, and he was a thief when he spoke, presumably he had already thought about it and wanted to fulfill his promise." ”

"Do you still have a promise between you, does it have anything to do with what you just said?"

"Yes, closely related?"

"What exactly?"

"He promised to answer me about the essence of my marriage, what does a proper marriage look like?"

"This question has real meaning for those of us who are wandering, tell us about it?" When Wang Daqing heard this, he was immediately full of interest.

"Hehe, Daqing are you also interested?" Song Fengwu was in the bathroom, and after taking over, he didn't know when he would come back, so he joined them in the middle of the conversation.

"Is it only you who are interested, and there is still me, who is about to enter the marriage hall, of course, you have to know in advance." Song Fengwu didn't care whether others responded or not, he expressed the reason for his concern in a timely manner.

"Are you alright?" Wang Yun looked at Song Fengwu, and couldn't help laughing alone with the two of them just now.

"Let's start sharing your opinions?" Song Fengwu's mood at this time was stronger than Wang Yun's, and he couldn't wait to urge Sun Chaohua.

"This is what I have felt after coming to this factory for almost four years, and it is not necessarily right,"

He sorted out his thoughts, "Marriage should be a win-win relationship, a reasonable allocation of family relationship resources, and a relationship of interests that advance together with each other and develop synchronously. ”

Seeing that everyone was at a loss, Sun Chaohua gave an example of this phenomenon.

"Think about it, why is marriage more stable in rural areas? That's because the couple has not made much progress, and most of them have been on the same level all their lives, they support each other, cooperate with each other tacitly, and are easy to satisfy. And the more geniuses, the more entrepreneurs, the more celebrities, the easier it is to divorce, not because they have changed their minds, but because they fly too fast and get more benefits, and if the other party can't keep up with the pace, it is unprofitable, divorce is inevitable, and when there is a big difference in the height of husband and wife, this mutual utilization relationship is irreconcilable. ”

"It seems to be such a truth, I kind of understand," Wang Daqing listened to Sun Chaohua's explanation and felt that it was indeed the case.

"In this way, the relationship between husband and wife is like a balance, and only when the balance is progressed from an unbalanced state to a state of relative equilibrium at the same time, will the balance not be broken?"

Wang Yun realized something, and accidentally said her feelings, she secretly felt in her heart that Sun Chaohua asked him to insist on learning Japanese and improve his skills.

"It can be understood in this way, but it is a bit cruel to analyze the marriage relationship that people yearn for and value very much, and it sounds sad," Sun Chaohua himself said it, and he felt a little too realistic, although it seemed cruel, but it was indeed an unavoidable reality.

"But this is an unavoidable reality, our Northeast was originally a heavy industry base, after the restructuring of enterprises, laid-off workers flocked to the society like a tide, it was the original good family, the husband and wife divorced, this is not because the original fixed work income was broken, those who can make money feel that they can't make money is their own burden, of course, they yearn for a better life."

"This is the pain left to us by history, the enterprise restructuring, the whole country is getting better, but I can't help but say, for those of us who are laid off after 60s and 70s, it is indeed a pain, some have lost their families and lost their marriages, but this is also no way, sheep follow the crowd and do not suffer whips, this is also a cruel reality, we are adrift here today, after the vicissitudes of life, first bitter and then sweet, and the efforts are not in vain."

"Compared with their wives, we are lucky," Wang Daqing said with emotion, "It is also because of the economic development here that I have the opportunity to come here and make money to support my family, which is quite lucky." ”

Wang Daqing said, not sad, on the contrary, he felt that he had caught up with a good opportunity, he said that without the reform and opening up here, staying in the closed countryside, the cost of the two children's schooling is a big problem.

"Then Brother Wang, are you happily married?"

Wang Yun suddenly asked about Wang Daqing's marriage, which made Sun Chaohua surprised, and hurriedly came forward to explain for Wang Yun, "The general phenomenon I said, why did you apply it to Daqing." ”

"Don't complain about Wang Yun, I haven't cared about it yet, what are you anxious about?" Wang Daqing saw that Sun Chaohua blamed Wang Yun, and was afraid that the two of them would have a dispute, so he hurriedly came forward to relieve Wang Yun.

Seeing that Wang Daqing was relieving himself, Wang Yun suddenly realized his reckless move, and hurriedly said, "I understand Brother Wang's kindness, but Brother Sun said that I was not wrong, I didn't go through my brain, so I casually blurted out such a very impolite question, offended, Brother Wang." ”

"The same words, when they come out of your mouth, disappear like smoke, and a stormy dispute will not be made at once."

Wang Daqing said, glancing at Sun Chaohua, "I was worried that the two of you would have a dispute just now, it seems that I underestimated the emotional intelligence of the two of you." ”

"How can I argue with Brother Sun in front of your two eldest brothers? Just want to play a little bit of sex, it depends on his mood? Wang Yun said as he was very proud of his emotional intelligence.

"No wonder Sun Chaohua also secretly learned Japanese, but he said to me in private, it's more difficult than English?" Song Fengwu revealed Sun Chaohua's details.

"You misunderstand this Brother Song, it's not so much that he is for me, it is better to say that I am all for him."

"No matter who it is for, as long as it is conducive to work and promotion and salary increase, that is the best last word."

"Look at us here, although Daqing's education level is a little inferior to ours, his comprehension ability is not worse than any of us, you two have to admit it!"

"I think that's right," Mr. Wang immediately responded to Mr. Sun's statement.

"Isn't there a saying that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, and I often chat with you, and I can't help myself if I don't make progress," Seeing everyone praising himself, Wang Daqing behaved very modestly and said his true feelings.

"But then again, Feng Wu, you and Lao Sun are highly educated, but your spirit of hardship and tenacity to do work really have to study hard like Lao Sun."

Wang Daqing's words reached Song Fengwu's heart, "I really should review it, and I can't waste time anymore." ”