Chapter 35: Identity
"You two put the screen?"
Qin Shu's eyebrows narrowed, feeling that he was close to the truth of the matter.
"Madame told us to let it go."
The two little maids panicked for a moment, and quickly adjusted. Mrs. is also kind-hearted, if the relationship between husband and wife is good, the heir will not be a problem, this is also helping Mrs. Qin.
Qin Shumei remembered Wu's several unclear eye hints, and a few vague prompting speeches, and also understood what she meant.
This is because I am afraid that my marriage status is unstable, so I am in a hurry to create a honeymoon atmosphere for her!
Qin Shumei supported his forehead with his hand, sister-in-law, you are too thoughtful and considerate, I really can't stand it!
The next day, when Wu appeared in front of Qin Shumei with a smile and a dignified demeanor, Qin Shumei didn't dare to look at her squarely. I'm afraid that this person will have another idea to come up with some new ideas to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
The discussion of the women's tea party is still focused on maintenance, but this time, Qin Shumei has been reborn.
She directly clicked on the hugely expensive "Women's Daily Health Encyclopedia", bribed 004 with 20 points, and asked it to take on the mission of a search engine and be on call to consult it at any time.
As soon as the question came out, Qin Shumei made a thinking motion, and 004 took this opportunity to directly put the hot answer she had just found on the interface, so that she could sort out her language and answer accordingly.
In the eyes of the two concubines of the Xu family, this Qin lady was not in a hurry, and in the face of their questions, after careful thinking, she talked eloquently, which shows that she is a woman with insight, and she can't help but be even more convinced by her words.
The old lady of the Xu family was just listening to the excitement, after all, Qin Shumei was just a little lady who had just married in her eyes, and she didn't expect her to understand much.
It wasn't until the eldest daughter-in-law blushed and consulted about postpartum urine leakage that the old lady looked at Qin Shumei's face with a little curiosity.
How can a little daughter-in-law who has not yet given birth know the troubles of the people who have given birth and raised, I am afraid that she has never even heard of it.
She saw that even Tao Jiajia pricked up her ears with interest, and hurriedly asked people to break her away. If she is frightened, she will be frightened of childbirth, which is not conducive to having children in the future.
The old lady just wanted to branch out her second daughter-in-law who had not yet given birth, and Dong rushed to the front to ask for help.
"Mother, I also heard from Qin Niangzi that in the future, I will take care of my body and give birth to a few more to Erlang."
Qin Shumei knew the old lady's concerns. The woman's birth was already very hurtful, and the people who came over concealed it, firstly, they felt that it was embarrassing, unnecessary, and embarrassed to tell them, and secondly, in order to cover up these truths, lest the young woman be frightened.
But this kind of thing, everyone covers it up, and regards it as the most secret and evasive existence, but it is not conducive to women's physical health at all, and it is the women themselves who suffer in the end.
Qin Shumei had heard the old man say a common saying before, called "dropping eggplant". Middle-aged and older women treat it as an embarrassing thing that they take for granted.
But in fact, the "loss of eggplant" is uterine prolapse, the organs in the body are forcibly exposed to the body, making them have to endure pain every step they walk, and it is difficult to urinate, but even if the condition is so serious, the older generation who go to the hospital for treatment is still rare.
It is this idea of "covering shame", which has been passed down from generation to generation, that delays the treatment of these women and makes them endure pain that they should not endure.
Qin Shumei couldn't refute the old lady's idea in person, so he could only try to persuade them to exercise diligently.
"Postpartum urine leakage, mainly caused by pelvic floor muscle relaxation and ** relaxation, if it is not too severe, appropriate exercise can be improved."
She patted her arm and continued to explain.
"Being able to lift multiple objects is related to the strength of the arm, and the muscles in the arm determine how strong the arm is.
"Giving birth is like lifting a heavy load, and a woman needs strength to give birth, and this strength is also related to the muscles, and exercise can help to recover and give birth."
The three women of the Xu Mansion nodded again and again, although they didn't understand what "muscles" were, but she used her arms to compare, and the principle was clear at all.
"What kind of exercise, strength, what kind of people like us want to use, is it possible that we also want to be like the mountain village woman, can we give birth to a child with half a pillar of incense?"
Dong shook her head gently, she still remembered that when her sister-in-law gave birth to Xu Zhenying, it was a day and a night, and she had a son after a lot of hardship.
The more noble the queen house, the more pampered she is, and if the birth is as easy as a sow, the preciousness of the child will be greatly reduced.
Qin Shumei was stunned by her insight. What is this shaking M thought, she also heard for the first time that someone wants to have a child and is a little painful.
Wu shook the handkerchief and dipped the floating powder on the wing of his nose to hide his disdain for the concubine's words.
This kind of thing is only said by a little woman who has never given birth to a child, and when it comes to the delivery bed, the pain is really not something ordinary people can bear. If she could really give birth to a child with half a pillar of incense, she wouldn't care what kind of country woman she was treated for.
Those reputations and faces are empty, and it is only right that they are not guilty.
"The second daughter-in-law hasn't gone through this, and what she said is all nonsense, it's rare that you still understand, can you write down this method and let my two daughters-in-law also remember it?"
The old lady thought that Qin Shumei couldn't say anything, but although she was not a medical woman, she also knew something about this aspect, and it made some sense.
With her coming forward to support Qin Shumei, Dong immediately became dumbfounded.
Qin Shumei drew the exercise method of Kegel exercise on paper, accompanied by an oral description, and circulated it to the three of them, and by the way, drew another copy, ready to bring it to Tao Jiajia, who was absent, in case she needed it in the future.
After chatting all morning, this discussion could not come to an end, Qin Shumei said goodbye and returned to the hospital, and happened to meet Tao Jiajia who stretched out his head and brain on the way.
"What did you all say? Why didn't my mother let me listen? ”
Tao Jiajia is not a person who will hide his thoughts. When she first saw Qin Shumei, her vigilance and contempt were written on her face, but after talking to Qin Shumei for a night and half a day, she felt that Qin Shumei was not like a bad person, and she thought that the relationship between the two of them was heating up rapidly, and gradually revealed her lively nature.
"If you want to hear it, I'll tell you about it."
She directly told Tao Jiajia the truth about her pregnancy and postpartum experience, which scared her so much that her face turned pale and her legs were weak.
"Do I really have watermelon-like lines on my belly?"
"It depends on the physique, some people don't have it."
"Then I can't help but pee when I cough?"
"If you exercise diligently, it won't be that serious."
Tao Jiajia sat on the stone pier in the garden, crying with a sad face, probably thinking that she would have to have a child if she got married, she muttered in a low voice: "Then I don't want to marry Second Brother Xu." ”
Qin Shu's eyebrows jumped, what is it? Isn't Xu Dingkun, that big fool, already married to the Dong family?
"You want to marry Xu Dingkun? As a concubine? ”
She had just discovered Tao Jiajia's rectal potential. I feel that her undisguised character has a unique charm in this house full of twists and turns. As a result, these good impressions that can be established were shattered by her words.
Tao Jiajia didn't want to hide it from Qin Shumei, so she simply made everything clear and asked her to be a bystander to help with the idea.
"I'm just a righteous daughter, and I can live well in this house, but if I get married, I may not be able to live such a good life." She touched the gold bracelet on her wrist with some nostalgia.
"Do you know what Mrs. Dong thinks?"
Qin Shumei didn't have a good impression of the concubine who was in a hurry, but she still wanted to hear Tao Jiajia finish speaking. If you don't see the whole leopard, you can only see it, and you can't nail people to death with a word.