The best view of love is: I love you, you are free.

I saw such a passage a long time ago: I have thought many times what is the best love, if there is a road ahead that I have fallen beyond recognition, and you insist on going, I hope that the way I love is not to desperately hold you, saying that you can't go, but to prepare the most durable shoes for you and prepare an umbrella, and tell you that the second intersection is very slippery, there are thieves on the fifth street, don't buy the cut cake on the side of the road, tell you to go, come back and have food at home, I think the best love should be, I love you and you are free.

When we are young, we don't understand anything, so we will always use all our strength to love someone, thinking that is the most correct way to love someone, so the first love often can't go to the end, because we don't know how to love too hard at that time, it will make people breathless, and we don't understand that a person wants to love others first to learn to love themselves, so that you can have the ability to love others, when we gradually grow up, experience enough parting and pain, will know true love, Instead of holding the other person tightly in your hands and carefully pleasing each other, doing everything you think is loving the other person, but spreading the palm of your hand to give him freedom and space.

Love is not to give unilaterally, let alone unconditionally to take, not that you pull him close to you, or that he holds you and does not let go, but that two equal souls are entangled and grow together, and a large part of growth is to accept, accept, part, accept the impermanence of the world, accept loneliness, accept frustration, accept sudden powerlessness, accept your own shortcomings, and then change from the heart, find a balance, get along with the world, and first get along with yourself

You won't get angry because the other party didn't reply in time, and you won't get emotional because you said the wrong word, you've seen each other's truest appearance, even if the other party is embarrassed, you feel clumsy and cute, he will complain to you about the unpleasantness that happened childishly, you don't have to be strong in front of him, you can hide behind him at any time, he won't laugh at your whimsy, you won't care about his carelessness

They are the closest people to each other, they have seen all the unbearable and weak of each other, and still choose to stay by their side, they will not worry about losing each other because they say something wrong or do something wrong, and they will release their love for each other to the fullest, and they will unswervingly go on no matter what, and spend all the three and five years in their next life

So far, people's greatest self-confidence should be not afraid to leave anyone, and the best love should be that I love you, but you are free, the more you love, the more confident you are, not careful, you have seen each other's truest appearance, and still love each other deeply