Chapter 246: Husband and Wife Night Talk
In the evening, a light rain began to fall, bringing a touch of coolness to the hot summer day.
Lin Jiayin lay beside Jiang Xiaobai and said softly: "Husband, parents all want a grandson, what if I give birth to a daughter?" ”
Jiang Xiaobai put his arm around her shoulders, tightened it gently, and said softly: "Actually, I would prefer to be a daughter." ”
Lin Jiayin snorted, she didn't believe it.
Jiang Xiaobai said: "Wife, what I said is true, how good my daughter is, that's my father's little padded jacket, giving birth to a kid will only make trouble, which makes people feel uneasy." ”
Lin Jiayin didn't know if what Jiang Xiaobai said was true, but when she heard him say this, a feeling of emotion surged in her heart, the obsession of her father-in-law and mother-in-law to have a grandson was like a huge stone pressing on her heart, which made her breathless.
Fortunately, my husband is not like my father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Otherwise, she really didn't know what to do.
"Actually, I also want to conceive a son." Lin Jiayin said.
Jiang Xiaobai said softly: "Wife, son, daughter, they are all our children, everything is natural, don't think too much about your parents' words." ”
Lin Jiayin said: "It's not all because my parents said it, I just think that we already have Shanshan, and if we have a second child, we will have both children and daughters, so it's better." ”
After a pause, he continued: "But when I give birth to a boy or a girl, no one knows before the child is born, I am just worried that I will be a daughter in my life, and my parents will not be happy when the time comes." ”
In the countryside in the eighties and nineties, almost everyone regarded giving birth to a son as the top priority in life, if a daughter-in-law gave birth to a son, her father-in-law and mother-in-law would generally treat her well, saying that she was a great hero of the family, but if she gave birth to a daughter, most mothers-in-law did not like her daughter-in-law everywhere, openly and secretly squeezed and ridiculed, and even spoke ill of each other, blaming the daughter-in-law for the sin of not being able to give birth to a son.
As everyone knows, whether a wife gives birth to a boy or a daughter actually depends on the husband.
Even Lin Jiayin was also a person who had read books, but she didn't have this knowledge at that time, but she saw a lot of daughters-in-law who gave birth to daughters in the bay and was angry with her parents-in-law, and she couldn't help but think about it.
Jiang Xiaobai sighed in his heart, it was a good thing that his wife was pregnant with a second child, but because of this good thing, there was a depressing atmosphere in the originally harmonious and beautiful home, which made him feel helpless.
Can you blame your parents?
No!
The elderly are traditional and difficult to change.
He could only comfort his wife and minimize her stress.
"Here, let me see if it's a boy or a girl!"
As he spoke, he turned over, and a big hand also reached under Lin Jiayin's pajamas.
Lin Jiayin hurriedly stopped it, and said angrily: "Don't make trouble, go to sleep!" ”
Jiang Xiaobai didn't comply, and said softly: "Don't don't, I want to listen to Xiaobao's voice and talk to him." ”
Lin Jiayin was amused by him, and said angrily: "It's only been more than a month since I was pregnant, and I haven't even been pregnant yet, how old is the baby, and what sound can I hear?" ”
Jiang Xiaobai said seriously: "Wife, you don't know this, the fetus is in the mother's body, it is aware of the outside world, and parent-child communication with him can enhance feelings, tell stories, play music, etc., and stimulate the baby's auditory development." ”
Lin Jiayin listened to what he said magically, and said a little disbelievingly: "Is it true?" ”
Jiang Xiaobai said as a matter of course: "Of course it's true, this is called prenatal education!" ”
Ahem......
Jiang Xiaobai actually doesn't know much about prenatal education, after all, he was a lonely old man in his last life, where would he study this?
But I've never eaten pork, I've always seen pigs run.
In his previous life, his planning team gave him a project report and suggested that he develop prenatal education products, but he vetoed it.
But he had read the report, and vaguely remembered that it seemed that prenatal education could be carried out after four months of pregnancy.
Therefore, prenatal education is really there, but time, Jiang Xiaobai doesn't care so much, he just wants to interact with his wife, otherwise such a beautiful wife can't do anything in his arms, wouldn't it be blind.
It was the first time Lin Jiayin had heard of the term prenatal education, and she felt amazing, and said, "How do you understand so much?" ”
Jiang Xiaobai said curtly: "Reading, I used to read a foreign book that was written. ”
Lest his wife ask, he directly threw off the foreign books, and then said: "Quick, you lie down, I'm going to have prenatal education, and I have a parent-child communication with my Xiaobao." ”
Let Lin Jiayin lie down, put her head on her abdomen, and put her ears against her belly, as if she was really listening.
After a long time, Lin Jiayin couldn't help but ask, "Did you hear anything?" ”
Jiang Xiaobai said softly: "No! Xiaobao is not noisy or noisy, very well-behaved. ”
Lin Jiayin was amused by his words and laughed, and he couldn't figure it out.
But in this way, Lin Jiayin's mood is a lot more relaxed.
When Jiang Xiaobai lay down beside her again, she snuggled into his arms and fell asleep.
The next morning, the family had breakfast together.
Wang Xiuju persuaded Lin Jiayin again not to go to work, so she raised the fetus at home, Lin Jiayin said: "Mom, I go to work very easily, the doctor said that you should exercise moderately, and you can't be idle all the time." ”
After speaking, he looked at Jiang Xiaobai, "You say, did the doctor say that!" ”
Jiang Xiaobai: The doctor clearly said that he was going to reduce exercise.
However, under his wife's gaze, he didn't dare to say a word, nodded and said, "Mom, Jiayin is right, she only goes to work in the office now, it's very easy!" ”
Lin Jiayin was satisfied, pursed her lips and chuckled, giving Jiang Xiaobai a commative look.
Wang Xiuju was not happy, her son actually turned his elbow outward!
It is said that women are not staying, and so are sons!
Seeing this situation, Jiang Xiaoqing couldn't help but worry about her sister-in-law, and said, "Brother, my sister-in-law is pregnant with a baby, anyway, I don't have anything to do at home, so I'll go into the city with you to help!" ”
As soon as she said this, Jiang Xiaolei also said, "I'll go too!" ”
Jiang Xiaoyu was not to be outdone, "Then I want to go too!" ”
Wang Xiuju had a fire in her heart, and she had nowhere to send it, so she scolded Jiang Xiaoyu: "Eat your food, what a mess!" ”
Lin Jiayin said to Jiang Xiaoqing: "My affairs over there, your brother has arranged it, you don't need to help anything, you just play at home for a while, and you won't have time to play when school starts." ”
Jiang Xiaoqing saw that her sister-in-law's side didn't work, so she said to Jiang Xiaobai: "Brother, let me follow me into the city, do whatever you want, I can help you and your sister-in-law share a little." ”
Jiang Xiaobai's gaze swept over the faces of Jiang Xiaoqing, Jiang Xiaolei and Jiang Xiaoyu, and said, "You all want to go into the city?" ”
"Hmm!"
"Hmm!"
"Hmm!"
The three of them nodded in unison, and they all looked at the eldest brother expectantly.
Jiang Xiaobai groaned slightly, and said, "Okay, I'll take you into the city the day after tomorrow, and I just have something for you to do." ”
"Great! It's finally time to get into town! ”
Jiang Xiaolei cheered, he hadn't entered the city yet.
Jiang Xiaoyu was also looking forward to it.
Jiang Xiaoqing has been in high school in the city for three years, and she has no expectations for entering the city, she just thinks that she can help her eldest brother and sister-in-law, so she is happy, and asks: "Brother, why is it the day after tomorrow, what are you going to let me do?" ”