Emperor Fan Wai 6: Before becoming a mother, we are first ourselves

Du Qiushi's background is not low, and he also has real talent and learning.

was named Tanhua by the first emperor back then, because his appearance was the most outstanding among the top three.

So if you don't consider the appearance factor, he might be the champion of that year. The talent of the champion is not easy to obtain.

If such a person is reused, he can directly ascend to the sky in one step.

But Du Qiushi said that he lacked court qualifications, and he still hoped to go through the experience step by step. Li Jingmo knew that the young man was thin-skinned, and his status as a descendant of the Du family inevitably made people feel as if they relied on their cousins to be glorious.

After all, most of the talented people are high-minded, and Li Jingmo also hopes that his subordinates are capable of doing things.

So Du Qiushi said that he wanted to experience first, and Li Jingmo agreed.

I just didn't expect that this kid went to the Ministry of Industry to play for a year and didn't stop. If it weren't for the sudden snowstorm, I'm afraid I would still be wandering around the Ministry of Industry now.

Li Jingmo said: "Even if it took me a year to clear the forces inside, it was still difficult to clean up the entanglements. Didn't he want to get some experience? I went to the ministry to train."

Li Zhen was amused by these words, looked at Li Jingmo and shook his head.

These two little brothers......

The brothers in the back were chatting about government politics, and Zhao Fuling and Xu Yingrong in front were talking about daily interesting things.

Now that they have children, they talk about children the most.

Xu Yingrong said: "Doudou hugged my belly every day and called my sister, and told her to be obedient and not toss me. As a result, after shouting here, I turned my head and went into the palace to find my sister."

Zhao Fuling chuckled: "She likes the little girl so much, if she is born as a younger brother, she doesn't know how disappointed she should be."

When Xu Yingrong heard this, she leaned into Zhao Fuling's ear and said, "Other royal families all want to have a group of children and grandchildren, but the two we marry seem to be women over men."

Li Jingmo can understand that he treats his daughter as an eyeball, after all, he is such a child, and he will not have it in the future.

But Li Zhen also spoiled Doudou to the sky, and said that his daughter should be pampered, and if the second child is a boy, he will be spanked every day if he is disobedient.

When Xu Yingrong said this, she was a little depressed: "The child has not been born yet, so he says that he wants to spank the child every day, you say this person ...... Why are you so annoying? I don't even want to give birth to what I said."

Zhao Fuling covered her lips and snickered, she didn't expect Li Zhen, who looked serious, to be so interesting in private.

But also, the two brothers still have some similarities in the end.

After Xu Yingrong finished speaking, she lowered her voice and asked Zhao Ling, "You really don't want to be reborn?"

Zhao Fuling shook her head, then thought about it and added: "I don't want to give birth for at least five years, and maybe I don't want to give birth for ten years."

The pain of giving birth to a child and the torment of pregnancy are vividly remembered to this day, Zhao Fuling has been brave for love once, and there is really no way to be brave for the second time in a short time.

When she just gave birth, her belly was very loose, and she collapsed on the bed like a piece of rotten meat.

And maybe it's a problem with the hormones in the body, she will always be very depressed, and she wants to cry when something doesn't go her way.

At that time, she didn't quite understand that the people around her did their best to treat her well, but Li Jingmo, as the emperor, did ten or twenty times better than some fathers in later generations, why did she still feel so sad that she couldn't control her emotions?

She is such an emotionally stable and calm person.

Later, I gradually understood.

Giving birth itself is a process that consumes the mother's body, and people's emotions are sometimes not only affected by the surrounding environment, but also by their own body.

And women who have given birth to children have changed the most during this time.

Most women's postpartum depression also comes from this.

At that time, Zhao Fuling felt that she was not like herself, as if she had become another person.

It wasn't until the child grew up and she slowly passed the confinement period that she found her former self again.

"I think it was a horrible time." Zhao Poria

frowned, "It seems that in an instant, I am not me, I can't find myself.".

Her horror and worry made Xu Yingrong not very understanding, but Xu Yingrong could also experience Zhao Fuling's experiences.

Because she has also given birth, she has also lost control of her emotions and felt uncomfortable.

It's just that everyone around her said that a woman doesn't have children, which made her also fall into this circle, and felt that giving birth to children was commonplace.

It is normal for a woman to give birth to a child in a healthy way, and if she is not born, she can only blame her fate......

But Zhao Fuling didn't think so, she said seriously: "Mother is a great identity, but I don't think anyone is qualified to ask for it, and a woman must be a mother."

Her expression was very calm, and her eyes were very determined, and she said, "Before we can be mothers, we must be ourselves."

These words brought a great shock to Xu Yingrong.

Zhao Fuling saw that she was a little stunned, thinking that she was pregnant, and it was inconvenient to say too much.

Then he immediately changed the subject and said, "But after giving birth to children, watching them grow up little by little, and then there are many changes, and finally calling us mother softly, you will feel that all the hardships you have suffered are worth it."

Xu Yingrong instantly came back to her senses and nodded: "Yes, just being called a mother, I think it's worth it."

Zhao Fuling comforted her: "I know that my aunt has made you taboo eating a lot, saying that you can't eat this and that, for fear that it will not be good for the fetus. But now that you're throwing up so much, as long as it's not poisonous, you can try to eat some. It's good to be able to eat, don't go back and starve yourself."

The most important thing is that frequent vomiting will damage the esophagus and make Xu Yingrong's own body problems.

Xu Yingrong nodded gratefully after hearing this, and walked forward intimately holding Zhao Fuling's arm.

The two went to the beauty shop they opened first, and there were many customers in it as usual, especially the private room on the second floor for cleaning, which was simply overcrowded.

The rule was set to make an appointment in advance, and since then, the entire shop has not stopped making reservations. According to the steward's account, the New Year has not yet ended, but the appointment will be scheduled until the end of February.

It's a good thing that there are more people, after all, they are the bosses and they are making money.

After walking around the shop here, the two went to Sun Yiyue's grocery store again.

Xu Yingrong also liked many groceries in the shop, and asked someone to buy them back, Sun Yiyue said with a smile: "Sister Yingrong likes to pick whichever she likes, how can she still pay?"

Xu Yingrong smiled: "Everything in your shop is full of good things, I can't take everything I like, right? Are you still in business?"

"I still have the money to give you this." Sun Yiyue said, picked out some good things by herself and asked someone to send them.

After visiting Sun Yiyue's grocery store, the two left the Li Jingmo brothers behind, made an appointment to meet at the academy at noon, and took Sun Yiyue to Ji Wanniang's shop again.