Chapter 8 Sincerity
The parents did not agree with Xu Xiaoqiang's suggestion, and Lou Xiao'e naturally had no choice.
But it's not so easy for her to give up Xu Xiaoqiang, once a girl falls in love with someone, she will be desperate, she will love more and more, give up?
How can it be?
In fact, with Lou Xiao'e, Xu Xiaoqiang also has trouble here.
According to the unit and level of the parents, they will definitely not be able to get married, and they will not be approved for marriage at all.
Therefore, from last night to now, Xu Xiaoqiang has been thinking, in addition to persuading Lou Xiao'e to let his parents make a choice.
What should I do?
Breaking up with your parents? Changing jobs for parents?
Apparently unlikely.
But is there any other way to do it?
He thought about it for a long time, except for shaking his head, he still shook his head.
Originally, he thought that he couldn't think of a good way, so he dragged it back, but now it seems that dragging it is not a solution.
"Qiangzi, what do you say you should do?"
Xu Xiaoqiang was thinking about it, Lou Xiao'e looked at him with a frown, and seeing that he didn't react, she asked again directly.
Xiaoqiang looked at Lou Xiao'e with a smile and said, "There is actually a way, but is it effective?" I can't guarantee it.
In addition, this method will cause you harm, especially reputational damage, so I dare not say. ”
"What hurts and doesn't hurt? As long as you marry me? I've always been kind to me since then, and I'm not afraid of anything. ”
Lou Xiao'e stood up to the already tall place, and the expression on her face was very firm, as if she had eaten a weighing stone and had an iron heart.
Seeing that Lou Xiao'e was so sincere and trusting of herself, Xu Xiaoqiang overturned what he wanted to say before.
I felt a little too much, and at the same time I felt that the time was not ripe, so I thought about it and said, "Is this good?" You take me to meet your parents.
Later, my uncle and aunt would ask and say that the two of us had formalized our relationship, and then I would talk to them. ”
"What do you mean? Are we formalized? ”
Lou Xiao'ehu's eyes flashed, a little unconvinced, and at the same time very surprised.
Of course, she expected that the sooner the better, but she still felt that it was too fast, after all, the other party hadn't even pulled her own hand.
Is this considered love? If that's love, isn't it?
In short, Lou Xiao'e frowned, biting her lip, a little unsure.
Xu Xiaoqiang saw the contradiction in the other party's heart and understood that he couldn't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
There is a saying that if you want to hurry, you can't reach it.
So he smiled and said, "Didn't I swear by everything?" If you still don't believe what I say, if you don't believe my heart, we don't need to spend it like this.
The most basic thing between people is trust, you know? ”
With that, he straightened up, put the car keys in his pocket, and prepared to go back.
Lou Xiao'e pushed the bicycle and quickly stopped him: "Xiaoqiang, I didn't mean that, of course I believe you, I'm worried about my parents." ”
"In that case, let's talk about it another day, okay? Anyway, I'm not too old, so I'm not in a hurry, maybe it's better to think about it calmly. ”
Xu Xiaoqiang doesn't care what Lou Xiao'e's reaction is? waved his hand to her and went directly to the supply and marketing cooperative.
Taking advantage of the fact that he is not at work today, he is going to buy some delicious food and buy a bottle of wine.
I bought all the things I needed at home, how about matches and salt? Soy sauce, rice, noodles and so on.
A home, don't look at it as just one person eating, but oil, salt, firewood and rice, everything is indispensable, and nothing is missing.
Just crossed over, Xiaoqiang went to the supply and marketing cooperatives to buy vegetables for the first time, and the meat, oil, rice and noodles of the year had to be floated.
Meat needs meat stamps, oil stamps for oil, rice, noodles for grain stamps, it's easy to say if you have a ticket, you can't do anything without a ticket.
However, sometimes it can be bought on the black market, and the price is more expensive, so Xu Xiaoqiang plans to go around the black market.
It's best to buy a chicken, make a chicken stew with mushrooms, and treat yourself to a good meal.
I'm going to work tomorrow, but I'm driving a big truck, and I can't do it without strength.
Besides, every month, my cheap father and mother, who have money and food stamps, send them back, why do you save them if you don't eat them?
In these years, he didn't plan to save money, just enough to spend every month.
Besides, now that the job is regular, the salary should be higher, and a person can feed the whole family without hunger, even in such an era of material scarcity, he should live better than others.
Xu Xiaoqiang thought as he staggered forward.
He thought Lou Xiao'e was going back, but Lou Xiao'e was alone outside the gate of the rolling mill, pushing her bicycle and being stunned for a while.
Eventually, the bike caught up.
"Xiaoqiang, wait for me, where are you going? Take my car and go. ”
Xu Xiaoqiang turned around, Lou Xiao'e arrived in front of him in the blink of an eye, wearing a plaid skirt, quickly got off the bicycle, flashed her bright eyes, and said expectantly:
"Don't do that, okay? I don't mean anything else, why don't you come with me to my house? You don't go to work today, you just happened to accompany me, how about eating at my house at noon? ”
"But is that good? Isn't it too abrupt? Xu Xiaoqiang hesitated.
Regarding this matter, he felt that he was not purely in love with Lou Xiao'e, but greedy for their family's wealth.
Suddenly realizing that he regarded love as a transaction, Xu Xiaoqiang slapped himself hard, and scolded himself in his heart: "What is it?" ”
Lou Xiao'e didn't know what happened to Xu Xiaoqiang suddenly? You actually hit yourself, and asked with wide eyes and surprise:
"What's wrong with you? Angry with me? ”
"Oh, no, no, I suddenly have a little headache, I want to see a doctor, you go back first, let's think about it, don't worry.
I'm sorry I didn't think about it myself. Xu Xiaoqiang said and continued to walk forward.
His words were like a stuffy stick, which directly blinded Lou Xiao'e.
Lou Xiao'e bit her lip tightly, pushed the handlebars of the bicycle with both hands, and stood there for a long time without moving.
The little head kept spinning, not knowing what was wrong with me? Did you say the wrong thing?
Why Xu Xiaoqiang seems to be repeated, one after another, making her heart rise and fall, and she even has the heart to die.
But what did Lou Xiao'e think in her heart? Xu Xiaoqiang didn't know, and of course he didn't want to know, at this moment, he was also very conflicted.
He wants to be good with Lou Xiao'e and live with her, but he can't tolerate himself, he treats love as a transaction, and as a traverser, he should have his own bottom line.
No matter what, I still have a golden finger, I have the experience of my previous life, and I will live better than others, how can I value the wealth of Lou Xiao'e's mother's family so much?
Is this something you can do?
Thinking of this, Xu Xiaoqiang sighed heavily, slapped himself heavily, and finally woke himself up.
Then he shook off his steps and strode towards the supply and marketing cooperative, feeling more relaxed than ever before.
Yes, love can't be a transaction, no matter what, you have to rely on your own ability and ingenuity to create wealth and live your own small life.
You can't pin your hopes for a good life on others, and you can't lose face with the traverser.