Chapter 98: The so-called marriage

"Tell me about it."

Xie Yuncang flipped through the folds on the bookcase in his hand, his voice was faint, and he still couldn't hear any emotion.

Xie Songhua stepped forward a little further, "My daughter knows that my father doesn't want any of us to marry into the royal family, so why don't you take the lead in setting up the family affairs for us?"

The second sister has been married, and she is about to leave the cabinet, and she is also lined up to us in order, and now the countryside test has just passed, and my father might as well choose two young people with good character and good knowledge and ordinary family background, and we will be matched to the past, only to say that we will wait until the spring and then formally discuss the marriage. ”

When she said this, Xie Yuncang's movements couldn't help stopping, and he raised his eyes to look at Xie Songhua for a while before saying, "Are you willing to marry an ordinary lifter?" ”

From a princess to an ordinary lifter, the gap between this is not enough to describe the difference between cloud and mud.

Even if Xie Yuncang knew that Xie Songhua did not have the idea of climbing the dragon and attaching the phoenix, she could be the daughter of the Xie family, and marrying a wealthy family was the right thing to do, but she was willing to sacrifice like this?

Xie Songhua replied with extra sincerity, "Why don't you want to?" A person can pass the examination before the weak crown, at least it means that this person is smart, willing to study hard, and is already better than most people in the world, why don't I? ”

This is not nonsense, under such a imperial examination system, it will never be an ordinary person to be able to pass the examination at a young age, at least Xie Songhua feels that with her brain, there is a high probability that she will not be able to do it.

She is now the daughter of Xie Gelao, her grandfather was an imperial teacher, an uncle is a gentleman who can be counted in Beijing, and an uncle is also a serious court official, and her brother has been promoted, and he is just around the corner to become an official in the court.

With her current status, if she marries a man from an ordinary background, not to mention that she can walk sideways after marriage, at least her husband's family will not dare to bully her.

Isn't this better than marrying into the royal family and getting involved in the whirlpool of all kinds of power?

Xie Yuncang threw down the fold in his hand, stood up from behind the bookcase, looked at her condescendingly with his hands, and said for a while: "Get up!" ”

But for Xie Songhua's proposal, whether it is adopted or not, whether it is feasible or not, Xie Yuncang did not give an answer.

Instead, Yu Ruzhuo asked, "How did you come up with such a solution?" ”

Xie Songhua sent Lilac back, and simply sat alone in the pavilion on the bridge, "Isn't this the best way right now?" The Xie family doesn't want to get involved in disputes, but I'm being targeted again, who would dare to marry me if anyone with some status in Beijing wants to marry me? Didn't that directly offend the queen and the noble concubine? ”

Yu Ruzhuo said: "Then you marry with your eyes closed like this?" ”

Xie Songhua raised his eyebrows, a little puzzled: "How can this be called marrying with your eyes closed?" Didn't I say the conditions? At least you can't be old, your knowledge must be good, and your character must be good, isn't this a choice? ”

"But ......," Yu Ruzhuo was a little speechless for a while, and then said, "But you don't know what kind of person your father will choose for you, as long as he chooses according to this standard, will you agree?" ”

Xie Songhua rightly said: "This is nature. ”

"You, you don't care?"

Xie Songhua squinted at the water in the distance, raised his hand to block the wind blowing over, and said lightly after a while: "I don't care, if you meet the conditions I proposed, you are a very good person." ”

After she finished speaking, she chuckled, "Everyone in this world has different pursuits, such as Xie Shuhua, who pursues status and honor, and she wants to be a princess."

There are also people who seek wealth, such as the eldest aunt, who complains all day long that he does not use his fame to recruit students.

There are also people who pursue a lifetime and a couple, such as the third uncle and the third aunt, the husband and wife are harmonious and ming, and they raise their eyebrows.

As for me......"

She paused, as if thinking for a moment, "I just want one to be safe." has a good character, he will at least have a moral bottom line, and it should not be difficult to get along with; If his knowledge is good, then he also has a certain ability, and he can probably live by relying on him alone; The family background is ordinary, so if I marry in my identity, there is a high probability that their family will look up to me, and such a day is already very good. ”

After she finished speaking, seeing that Yu Ruzhuo hadn't answered for a long time, she couldn't help laughing at herself: "Do you think I'm very unproductive?" ”

"Hmm."

Xie Songhua just laughed, that was because Yu Ruzhuo, including these people from the Xie family, were used to the life of a master, but she was not, she was a very ordinary soul from another world.

The life of ordinary people is the life she is most accustomed to.

"You just said that your third uncle and third aunt pursue a lifetime and a couple, don't you think so?"

Unexpectedly, Yu Ruzhuo would ask this, Xie Songhua was stunned for a moment, and then smiled helplessly: "How low is the probability of this?" Not to mention what kind of parents' fate matchmaker words this marriage has to be, you can't see two sides before marriage, how can you have unswerving love?

Even if you take shit luck and really meet such a true genius, but these rich and noble people, who doesn't have two people in the house? These men, who don't seem to have one or two concubines, are embarrassed to call themselves big families.

For example, my third uncle, I heard that there were also two intercourse before marriage, but after the third aunt got married, he took the initiative to send people away, just like that, I don't know how many boudoir women I envy! ”

"You're talking about a jealous woman."

Hearing his words, Xie Songhua rolled his eyes unceremoniously, "This is that you have too high requirements for women in this era, in fact, you are just doing things of cooperation in the name of marriage, requiring women to take care of housework, be filial to their in-laws, and raise children, but nominally this partner has to be a wife."

What's even more helpless is that most of the women in this world can't see this lie clearly, and they really love each other as husbands, so they give their feelings. Later, because of this feeling, when she couldn't accept other women, the men turned their faces and labeled her as a jealous woman, which became the woman's fault. ”

"You think it's unfair?"

This is simply a funny question, Xie Songhua was unceremoniously, "Of course it's not fair, if you want to say it's fair, it's okay to get married as usual, the male protagonist is outside the female protagonist, the man can take a concubine and carry the house, and the woman can also raise the first trick of the house, it's pretty much the same." ”

"You ......"

Yu Ruzhuo was obviously shocked by her remarks, and was dumbfounded for a while.

Xie Songhua couldn't help laughing, "It's impossible, isn't it, don't say you think it's impossible, I think so, so, do you know where the correct solution is?" ”

The smile on her face was a little sarcastic, but it was also a little arbitrary, and there was a happy look between her eyebrows and eyes.

Yu Ruzhuo's tone suddenly calmed down again, "I want to hear it in detail." ”

"That's business, don't talk about feelings, women's human rights should be to enter another institution to survive, the man is responsible for earning money to support the family, and the woman is in charge of housekeeping, as for the ...... of concubines or not concubines"

She paused, her eyes showing a bit of melancholy.

After a while, he sighed: "As long as the family is financially supported, and the laws of the court allow, why not?" It also saves that effort and energy to serve people. ”

In such an era, expecting a marriage based on love is simply a false proposition, in this case, it is better to be rational and change the way of thinking, and there is nothing difficult to accept.

But in this matter, she is a soul of the next generation, and she still feels melancholy after all.

Yu Ruzhuo was probably shocked by her idea, and was silent for a long time without speaking.

It wasn't until Xie Songhua got up and was about to go back that he chuckled, "I'm afraid your idea is going to come to naught." ”