Chapter 291: Psychological Construction
The further you go to the back, the more painful it is.
A person like Shen Ye, who was quite able to endure pain, also had cold sweat on his forehead, and his hand was tightly gripping the armrest of the chair.
His arms are exposed, and the green tendons on the back of his hands are sexy and rough when they look like they are usual.
Looking at it at this moment, it just makes He Shuibei feel painful.
Yes, she hasn't experienced it yet, just by seeing Shen Ye hurt, she can feel that she is hurting.
She has been well protected since she was a child and has a physical check-up every year.
In addition, I am in good health and have basically not had any major surgery.
The most serious one was an accidental fracture.
That pain was already a pain that He Shuibei didn't want to recall.
In the end, the nurse added Shen Ye to level ten.
The man also snorted in the end, and the expression on his face was not as calm and calm as before, but more silent.
Yes, silence.
After he began to slowly accept that he would have a child with He Shuibei and that he would become a father, he suddenly found that giving birth to a child was so painful.
The pain that traveled from the abdomen to the limbs was not the same pain that had been injured in the past.
It's intermittent, stitch after stitch, stacked repeatedly.
He remembered that when he got the tattoo before, the pain was actually superimposed, but the pain was completely bearable.
Of course, he wasn't in great shape at the time, and that kind of pain could have made him sober.
As for the pain of giving birth, the nurse said that if the delivery is smooth, it will take two or three hours if it goes well, and it is possible to have a day and a night if it doesn't go well.
This is something that Shen Ye is not very acceptable.
He couldn't accept He Shuibei's pain for so long, just to give birth to a child.
The nurse only saw that Shen Ye was sweating, but there was no strange expression on his face made by other men who came to experience it.
The nurse said, "Mr. Shen can endure the pain so much, other men can hold on to the pain for two or three minutes at most when they reach level 10." Mr. Shen, it's been a quarter of an hour, are you going to end today's experience? ”
Shen Ye shook his head slightly.
It's only fifteen minutes.
Shen Ye remembered that his mother had told him before that she had given birth smoothly and had been giving birth for five or six hours, and she was crying out in the delivery room until her whole body was weak, but his irresponsible father was drinking outside that day.
The next day, photos with his rumored girlfriend were spread everywhere in the circle of friends.
He suddenly understood a little bit of his mother's hysterical state in the past.
"It's over." He Shuibei opened his mouth and said to the nurse.
His face was a little bad, but there was no need to make a psychological shadow for herself.
When the nurse removed the instrument from him, He Shuibei handed over the tissue.
Let him wipe the sweat from his head.
At that time, the nurse poured them two cups of warm water and put them on the table, "Let's take a rest, if you have anything to ask, you can go to the nurse's desk to find us." ”
The two watched the nurse leave, and He Shuibei handed the water cup to Shen Ye, "I don't think you came to experience it, you brought me here and then persuaded me to leave." ”
Shen Ye wiped the sweat from his forehead and took the water cup she handed over, "It's really not, how did you know that you couldn't help but be scared?" ”
"The cold sweat on your forehead just now hurts more than those who shouted out that it hurts." Because he knows Shen Ye's personality and understands that he is not a person who shows his emotions on his face.
It hurts, it hurts, it hurts.
Shen Ye didn't hide it from He Shuibei, and told her very bluntly: "It really hurts, it should be much more painful than when you were in your menstrual period." Your menstrual period is over with a pill of painkillers, but ...... having a baby"
"There is a laparotomy, there is no pain." He Shuibei thought about it and felt that maybe the pain would be reduced.
Shen Ye pointed to the pictures of the caesarean section displayed in the hospital, "Look at it." ”
“……”
Seeing that her expression was not good, Shen Ye could only say: "Since we have decided to have a child, we should understand everything that we have to go through to have a child." If you understand it thoroughly, you will have a mental preparation when the time comes, don't you say? If I don't understand, when the time comes, I may blame the doctor for not alleviating your pain, for the child for being disobedient and causing the mother to hurt, and for why I have to agree to have a baby. ”
This person does things without leakage.
There's nothing wrong with that.
Probably mostly justified, so she couldn't refute it.
He Shuibei finally said: "You have given enough psychological preparation. ”
Who would have thought that he would lose to himself in the end.
It's so embarrassing, I'm so afraid of pain.
He Shuibei asked him in a low voice, "Does it really hurt?" ”
"I don't lie to you, it hurts." Shen Ye was a little distressed and let He Shuibei see it, "But you know, this is not the only way to give birth to a child. ”
Of course, He Shuibei knew what Shen Ye was talking about, but that way didn't work.
She was a little unacceptable.
And it's not legal.
He Shuibei shook his head, "I'll do psychological construction again." ”
Shen Ye nodded.
It took him two years, almost three years, to gradually accept that he would become a father in the future, and it would take time for He Shuibei to overcome his physical pain.
So about the child, Shen Ye felt that he still had to plan step by step.
I can't understand what people who suddenly have it, and then decide to give birth emotionally, are thinking in their heads?
Is it all paste?
There are not so many accidents in this world, and 99% of things are controllable.
When He Shuibei came out of the hospital, his mood was heavy.
Shen Ye asked her if she was still thinking about the pain, and told him that now he didn't have a glimpse of the two children, and he shouldn't think about it so much in the future.
He Shuibei just thought for a while before saying, "You said, Shen Shuyan was eight months pregnant at the time, and she could have a caesarean section at that time." ”
"In a car accident, when the operation was taken out, the child had no heartbeat. Moreover, she herself was bleeding profusely, and at that time, all the hospital's type O blood was sent to the operating room, and blood was transferred from other hospitals. Shen Ye said.
He only got the news later, and rushed to the hospital with the people of the He family.
"She must have had a hard time at the time, after all, she had been in her belly for eight months...... I almost saw my son alive. ”
The dead child was a boy.
It was her brother's first child.
Shen Ye rubbed her head with his free hand, "Don't think about it so much, it's all over." It can only be said that the child has nothing to do with the He family. ”
He Shuibei nodded, but he didn't feel that there was a fate or something.
Mainly as a woman, in the process of gradually understanding the matter of childbirth, she will feel more and more that Shen Shuyan was really desperate at that time.
She stood emotionally and sympathized with Shen Shuyan.
There is also no definite generalization as to who was right and who was wrong in that matter.
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