It is true that this society has much higher requirements for women.

Previously, when He Shuibei wanted to get married and have children, many netizens persuaded her that she should not get married at this age, but should develop her career at this age.

Because the lifespan of female stars in the entertainment industry is very short, they also eat youth rice.

If you get married and have children in the past few years, when you go back, there may be no place for He Shuibei in the entertainment industry.

He Shuibei didn't listen to netizens at the time, anyway, he was chased and educated for several months.

At that time, He Shuibei felt quite speechless, her own parents didn't educate herself like this, why should these netizens care so much?

Because you like her and don't want to see her bury her career so early?

For a while, He Shuibei was also given this idea of "because we like you, so we really think about you".

Later, after He Shuibei gave birth, he would take on a play every year, and sometimes there would be some commercial activities.

At that time, netizens would say that when she came out to work and took over business activities, she had no time to take care of her children and did not accompany her children.

Persuade her to focus less on work and spend more time taking care of her family and children.

Children who are married and have babies should not have so many jobs.

Otherwise, how pitiful it would be to be her child and not feel the company of her mother.

When she went back to take care of the family and children, some netizens persuaded her not to be a full-time wife, but to have her own job.

Therefore, no matter what He Shuibei does, there will always be people who pick bones in eggs.

They asked He Shuibei to be perfect, to be comprehensive, to do everything well, and to make everyone satisfied.

Conversely, no one is asking men to balance work and family.

Basically, no one taught Shen Ye how to do it.

He Shuibei felt very annoyed at first, but later he knew that no matter what he did, no one would be satisfied.

So simply don't care what they say.

Moreover, this is her own life, just live her own life.

Some people always want people to live their lives according to their ideas.

If you care too much about other people's eyes, you are tired of yourself.

However, He Shuibei knows very well that it is because he has such confidence that he can not care about the eyes of others.

Therefore, He Shuibei will also tell Shen Ye not to care about other people's eyes, just be yourself.

Whether he is a good father or not, Shen Ye knows it himself.

In fact, Shen Ye understood the truth, but he just enjoyed the process of He Shuibei enlightening him.

Shen Ye thought about this carefully, how could He Shuibei not understand.

The two have been married for so long, and with one look at each other, they can probably understand what each other means.

But He Shuibei felt that the process of enlightening Shen Ye was also quite interesting.

There is a feeling of being needed.

Just like He Shuibei, he actually does a lot of things on weekdays, but as long as he is in front of Shen Ye, he seems to have become an idiot in life, enjoying Shen Ye's services.

Shen Ye didn't feel that this kind of behavior was boring, but he had a feeling of being needed.

Isn't it this feeling of mutual need that husband and wife want?

He Shuibei felt that even if he was seventy or eighty years old, he probably still encountered something, and the first thing to do was to call Shen Ye.

As long as Shen Ye came, it seemed that everything could be solved.

If Shen Ye didn't come, he felt like the sky was about to fall.