Chapter 50: It's okay, I just love her

In the evening, when Ding Ning came home from work, he found that Li Hao had brought a rare guest to the house.

"This is Rong Chuqin, President of the Rong family, Mr. Rong, this is my wife Ding Ning."

Ding Ning was stunned, not that she didn't know this person, but what did this famous President Rong do at her house?

Li Hao and Ding Ning are both doctors, both serve in private hospitals with a high degree of confidentiality, and both have extremely high professional ethics. Ding Ning only knew that Li Hao's family had worked in Rong's Hospital for three generations, and Li Hao only knew that his wife was a psychiatrist, and although they would talk about cases, they would never ask patients.

Therefore, Rong Chuqin could only rely on his friendship with Li Hao to find Ding Ning in private.

"You are Song Tang's husband?" When Rong Chuqin expressed his intentions, Ding Ning felt incredible, "It turns out that you are her husband!" …… But Mr. Rong, we are not allowed to disclose the patient's privacy, even if you are her husband. ”

Li Hao raised his eyebrows, is it so faceless?

Ding Ning glared at him back, your face is worthless in front of professional ethics!

Rong Chuqin said eagerly and sincerely: "Okay, then please tell me, as her husband, the closest person around her, what should I do to help her condition?" ”

Li Hao helped on the side, "Yes, yes, this can always be said, right?" You give him something to say...... ......"

Ding Ning slashed at the white of his eyes, and he was so coerced that he held back the words behind him.

Rong Chuqin also swept over with a cold look, and he didn't know who the man who patted his chest and promised him just now, heh, it really fulfilled that sentence, a man's mouth, a deceitful ghost!

Li Hao lowered his head and buttoned the tip of his nose, adding tea to everyone, "Don't patronize talking, drink tea, drink tea......"

Ding Ning saw that Rong Chuqin was not as abusive as the Internet rumored, combined with Song Tang's description of her newlywed husband, she seemed to stand on God's vision and saw the whole thing more thoroughly.

The purpose of a doctor is to treat the sick and save lives.

In addition, for people with emotional illness, it is important for family members to help them.

Ding Ning turned her head to look at her husband and ordered, "Li Hao, you go to the study and stay, don't come out if you don't shout." ”

"Huh? I can't listen to it either? ”

"What qualifications do you, an outsider, have to listen to my patient's privacy?"

“……”

Rong Chuqin smiled and said nothing, it turned out that Dr. Li Hao, who always threatened people with a scalpel, was so cowardly in front of his wife.

Li Hao got up and prepared to go to the study, and deliberately emphasized, "It just so happens that I have a case to study, so I'm busy, don't call me if I have nothing to do." ”

Ding Ning: "Let's go in, there's so much nonsense!" ”

Li Hao: "......"

The tea was a little cold, and Ding Ning refilled the hot water, "Weak tea, drinking a little will not affect sleep." ”

"Thank you."

As soon as Li Hao left, Ding Ning spoke much more openly, and his words were more direct, "You are much more handsome than in the photo, no wonder Song Tang spent seven years and couldn't forget you." ”

Rong Chuqin was stunned, it was an accident, a surprise, and the greatest luck.

"You broke up seven years ago, and she had a relapse."

The brows immediately frowned, and this simple sentence dug a piece of meat into Rong Chuqin's heart, and it hurt and hurt.

Ding Ning took a sip of hot tea and said: "She experienced a car accident when she was a child, had post-traumatic stress disorder, and lost her speech for a while. However, as she grew older, she slowly got better. Seven years ago, she experienced a broken love, she had insomnia every day, remembered the scene of the car accident at night, and would have uncontrollable self-harm, so she came to me. At that time, I saw that her condition was not serious, and I only gave her some diazepam, she was able to fall asleep, her emotions were stable, and her condition was quickly controlled. ”

Maybe I've seen too many cases, Ding Ning's words don't carry any emotion, and the expression is also very objective.

But to Rong Chuqin's ears, every word was beautiful, and every sentence was crying blood, it turned out that she had relapsed seven years ago because of herself.

Later, she went to college in Haicheng, and she came to me three or four times intermittently, and she regarded me as a friend, and every time she came to share some interesting stories with me. It seems to me that she has been cured. ”

"But today, she came to me, and I saw that she was in a particularly bad situation. The injury on her finger was caused by herself buttoning the cement flower bed, and she said that it was not controlled at all at that time, which was an act of self-harm. I asked her what had happened to her before, and she said that it was her husband who had eaten coriander by mistake and had severe allergies, and when he was wheeled into the emergency room, she was sitting outside, and the scene of the car accident when she was a child was recreated in her mind. Obviously, that car accident was the allergen, and you, were the trigger. ”

The more Rong Chuqin listened, the more he blamed himself, and the more he listened, the more distressed he became.

"She already had a definite pattern of self-harm, so I prescribed her some medication to see what happened next."

Rong Chuqin opened his lips and asked with difficulty, "What can I do?" ”

Ding Ning spread her hands, "At present, it seems that as long as you don't have an accident, she has suffered two episodes, both because of you, and there have been great mood swings." ”

Rong Chuqin clenched his fists and smiled bitterly.

Ding Ning saw his helpless and helpless appearance, and said: "Mr. Rong, Song Tang told me today that she felt that you loved her very much, and she wanted to love you too, but she didn't know how to love you. ”

Rong Chuqin looked dazed, I don't know if this news is good or bad, I don't know if it's worth being happy or not.

"I think her symptoms are also a manifestation of PTSD, where she has emotional problems, which in layman's terms, she has lost the ability to love someone."

“……”

Both sides fell silent, Ding Ning was a psychiatrist, and she knew that Rong Chuqin needed time to digest this information.

After a long time, Rong Chuqin seemed to have adjusted his emotions, his eyes were resolute, his demeanor was calm, and he said very calmly: "It's okay, I just love her." ”

Even if she never gets a reciprocal response, even if she will never fall in love with him again.

Ding Ning: "She wants to secretly cure the disease and give you a normal wife, so I speculate that she wants to love you very much, but she is sick, and the hardware conditions do not allow it." ”

Rong Chuqin: "Does her illness have an impact on herself?" ”

Ding Ning shook her head, "It's hard to say, at present, it seems that as long as she doesn't relapse, she can live a normal life, if you think about having a child, at least you have to wait for her condition to stabilize for more than a year." ”

Rong Chuqin: "Is there any way to treat it, and will it be very uncomfortable during treatment?" ”

Ding Ning: "There are many treatments, which have to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and whether it is difficult or uncomfortable depends on the patient himself." For example, hypnosis, we will let the patient face the things that make him fearful, some patients will step over, and the spring will bloom from then on, while some patients will not be able to cross over, and they need to be woken up in time, and it will be more painful afterwards. ”

Rong Chuqin's brows furrowed again.

"If you really want to do something, make her happy." Ding Ning finally instructed.