Vision (Asking for a monthly pass~)
Lin Feiwan's words also directly attracted the discomfort and disgust of the audience in the live broadcast room.
[The Sang family is amazing? Can the Sang family look down on the poor? May I ask you that your current position has been achieved by your efforts alone? 】
[That is, isn't it still a hundred years of inheritance to be continued? Wasn't it an ordinary person a hundred years ago? What's there to be proud of? There is also class discrimination. 】
[What's wrong with us being poor? No matter how poor we are, our money is earned by our own efforts, why look down on us? 】
But Lin Feiwan's next words not only did not make the audience feel bored, but also felt very reasonable.
"It's not that I look down on the poor, those ordinary people are also working hard to live in their own way to survive, I admire them, because they have a different starting point, so they are actually more difficult than us."
Lin Feiwan paused: "But I have to say that there is indeed a decisive difference between us, that is, vision. ”
"Ordinary people have been working hard for a better life since they were born, and they don't have time to look at the outside world, and their cognition and vision are not broad."
"Just like Ah Wan and Ah Yan have traveled to every country in the world when they were eight or nine years old, and they have basically visited several cities in China, so they know the customs and culture of many countries."
"Naturally, their horizons are broader, and they can understand what others say."
"But if you change to the children of ordinary families or poor people, they may not even go to the cities in China, and the difference in vision will make people look at things in different ways, and there will naturally be fewer common topics, and feelings without common topics will not last for a long time."
"Then the two of them will quarrel a lot. For example, if we see a watch that is hundreds of thousands or hundreds of thousands, ordinary people or children from poor families can only look at it and leave, even if they like it. ”
"But we are different, we will buy it directly without looking at the price, if the two of them are together, and they still maintain this way, the other party will think that we are extravagant and wasteful, and we will think that they are petty."
"Others may pay more attention to the material aspect, but we already have the material aspect, so what we pursue is the spiritual fit."
"In the long run, the other party will have low self-esteem and suffer from gains and losses, they will not be happy together, or they will just fall in love with our family's money, and there will be no true partner."
"That's why I think it's really important to be a good match, but I won't interfere too much in their love life, if they like it, they can't leave behind the hardships they should endure, until they find the partner who feels the most suitable."
"As parents, we just need to bless them, as long as they feel good, it's good, after all, I always think that the most important thing is for two people to be happy together."
After all, Jiang is a good example.
She will only give advice on the lives of the two of them, and will not interfere too much, after all, it will be the husband and wife who will live in the future, not the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If he thinks it's appropriate, it's appropriate.
Even if she doesn't like that daughter-in-law anymore, she will only send blessings, and then don't interfere and ask too much.
Anyway, they are all such big people, they know how to be sensible and distinguish between right and wrong, and it will be a little ridiculous for her to manage them like when she was a child.
(End of chapter)