Chapter 387: Don't persuade others to be kind
Xu Chunliang said: "You still have to fight, there is a kind of person who doesn't fight and doesn't have a long memory, I beat him to save him."
Qiao Laoxin said that this kid is bold, and he dares to speak like this in front of me, but he appreciates this kid's daring character.
"People must learn to be able to stretch and bend in the world, and to pay attention to strategy in solving problems, and not to blindly use violence, if all the problems in this world can be solved by violence, then human beings only need war, and there is no need for diplomacy at all."
Xu Chunliang said: "Xiaoxue often says that I have courage and no strategy, and I often review myself, in fact, there are some things I can take, but I always feel that a straightforward approach is more relieving."
Qiao Laoxin said that you are not brave and unstrategic, you like to use yang strategy.
Wang Sixuan came to the door just now not to say the law, but to apologize, he realized that he had offended Qiao Lao in Qiao Rulong's arrangement, so he came to admit his mistake to Qiao Lao in person as soon as possible.
If it was just Qiao Rulong's matter, Qiao Lao might give him a chance, but Wang Zeqiang and Xu Chunliang's brawl, Wang Sixuan didn't give him face, Qiao Lao saw through these two things that Wang Sixuan no longer put himself in his eyes, thinking that he couldn't use himself anymore when he retreated.
It is said that there are no more than three things, and here in Qiao Lao, a person is not allowed to have a third chance to make a mistake.
Wang Zhengdao made a mistake, Wang Lao made amends in time, and he came forward to pave the way for Qiao Rulong's appointment, if there was no such sincerity, Qiao Lao would also not give face to this old partner.
He has already accepted the reality of retreating, it doesn't matter what others think of him, anyway, he has seen through the warmth and coldness of people in this world, but some people who have inherited his favor are not qualified to give him a face, I could have supported you at the beginning, I can also let you get off the horse now, Qiao Lao thinks about it more long-term than most people, and the reason why he does not come forward directly is not to take care of face, but to disdain.
Even if there was no conflict between Xu Chunliang and Wang Zeqiang, Qiao Lao would have to teach Wang Sixuan a profound lesson, from this point of view, Xu Chunliang's public beating of Wang Zeqiang appeared just right.
Qiao Lao asked Xu Chunliang why he came to Beijing this time.
Xu Chunliang pondered for a moment, but still mustered up the courage to say, "Don't hide it, I'm here to find Xiaoxue."
Old Qiao said, "Listening to your tone, it seems that you have some resentment towards our Qiao family."
Xu Chunliang felt that his tone was fine, it was Qiao Lao who thought that he had a grudge against the Qiao family, and he smiled at Qiao Lao.
Old Qiao said, "Don't you dare to say it?"
Xu Chunliang said: "If you want to say that there are really resentments."
Qiao Lao laughed, "Let's hear it."
Xu Chunliang said: "What age is it now, and it seems that my relationship with Xiaoxue can't be interfered by the family, right?"
Qiao Lao said, "If you have a baby daughter, she is at the age of love, can you ignore it and let it go?"
Xu Chunliang was asked by Qiao Lao, if it really fell on him, he would definitely have to help with his palms, if he didn't like it, I was afraid that he would have the heart to kill that kid.
Qiao Lao said: "Don't go through the suffering of others, don't persuade others to be kind. If others suffer, there may not be any goodness for others."
Xu Chunliang took a sip of black tea and said, "You used to do ideological work, right? How do I feel like you're brainwashing me?"
Qiao Lao smiled and said: "That is, you also admit that I have a point, as parents, everyone wants their children to find a partner who knows the right thing, you shouldn't know that when Xiaoxue was a child, an old friend and I made a marriage contract for our two children."
Xu Chunliang guessed that it was Wang Jiancheng, Xu Chunliang said: "What era is it, you are still engaged in arranged marriages."
Qiao Lao said: "In fact, there are too many elders around us who intervene in the reason of marriage, and they are all very happy." There are successful examples in his family, his grandson Qiao Rulong and his granddaughter-in-law Ye Qingya. However, Qiao Lao suddenly remembered his son Qiao Yuanshan, and his heart tingled.
"Happiness or not is only known by the person concerned." After Xu Chunliang finished speaking, he smiled apologetically to Qiao Lao and said, "I speak straight, don't be surprised."
Qiao Lao secretly thought, Xu Chunliang is young after all,
In fact, people live in the world, love is not the most important, if only for love, only for a small family to live would be too selfish, a person with a view of the overall situation should have great love, if necessary, for the family, for the country to sacrifice their own interests, this Xu Chunliang may never understand, but he hopes that the children and grandchildren of the Xu family can understand.
Qiao Lao said: "People are constantly maturing, the most stable family relationship should be based on the premise of equality and common progress of both parties, if the balance is lost, this relationship is destined to not last, Xiao Xu, I don't have any prejudices against you, I will not object to you and Xiaoxue, I just hope that you can be sensible, slow down, see yourself clearly and understand each other better."
Xu Chunliang nodded, "Thank you for your understanding."
Qiao Lao smiled and said, "I also hope you will understand me more."
At this time, Mei Ruxue came over and asked them to go to dinner, Qiao Lao asked her to call Qiao Rulong, and originally said that Qiao Rulong and the two of them were going back, but for some reason they haven't appeared yet.
Mei Ruxue hasn't called yet, Ye Qingya arrived, Qiao Rulong originally came with her, but received a call from her mother Wang Siqi halfway and rushed to her uncle's house, it is said that Wang Zeqiang was always emotional after beating the medical staff in the hospital today, and he was just sent home with a tranquilizer.
The hospital suspected that he had mental problems and suggested that he be sent to a psychiatric hospital for a check-up, but Wang Sixuan insisted on taking him home. Their Wang family has no history of mental illness, and their son's health has always been healthy.
Qiao Lao was not very interested in Wang Zeqiang's affairs, and chatted with Xu Chunliang about the past in Dongzhou, and chatted very happily.
Mei Ruxue was happy in her eyes, although her grandfather did not clearly agree with their relationship, at least he did not object.
When the family was having a happy meal, Qiao Rulong called Mei Ruxue, and he asked Mei Ruxue to leave the table and talk to the side.
Mei Ruxue left the restaurant: "Brother, what's the matter?"
Qiao Rulong said in a low voice, "Is Xu Chunliang a doctor?"
Mei Ruxue said, "He's not."
Qiao Rulong said, "Don't hide it from me, your sister-in-law told me everything that happened at the concert."
Mei Ruxue said: "You should have misunderstood, he is just from a family of traditional Chinese medicine, and although he is now in the hospital, he is engaged in administrative work."
Qiao Rulong said: "Zeqiang is crazy, full of nonsense, and attacks when he meets people, you ask him if there is a way."
Mei Ruxue secretly wondered in her heart, how could the eldest brother think of looking for Xu Chunliang. Although he was a little reluctant, the eldest brother spoke, and it was always difficult to refuse, so he returned to the restaurant, called Xu Chunliang out, and told Wang Zeqiang about his current situation.
Xu Chunliang said, "How could he think of me?"
Mei Ruxue said, "I don't know, I guess it was recommended by my eldest brother." The eldest brother doesn't know Xu Chunliang's medical skills, it must have been his sister-in-law who told him, but this matter is still strange, with the relationship of the Wang family, you can find the best medical resources in China, why did you choose to come to Xu Chunliang?
Xu Chunliang said, "I do have a way, but I don't want to go."
Mei Ruxue guessed that he was going to use this incident to rectify the Wang family, anyway, she didn't like the Wang family, and she didn't want Xu Chunliang Zhao to go to troubled waters, so she relayed Xu Chunliang's words to her eldest brother.
Waiting for Mei Ruxue to go back, I didn't expect Xu Chunliang to have already explained this matter, this guy was obviously deliberate, and asked Qiao Lao for advice: "Qiao Lao, do you say I should go or not?"
Qiao Laoyan can't see his little Jiujiu, this kid is slippery enough, he directly throws the problem to himself, if he doesn't express his position, it means that he doesn't agree with him to go, if he lets him go, he goes to the Wang family In case of a good deal, the responsibility must be pushed to himself, this kid actually dares to trick himself, am I really confused?
Old Qiao said, "Can you cure this strange disease?"
Ye Qingya glanced at Xu Chunliang, anyway, she believed it, the sequelae of her father's facial paralysis was solved by Xu Chunliang, and Adele's sudden tinnitus at the concert was also his wonderful rejuvenation, don't look at Xu Chunliang's cynicism on the surface, but this person can really be called hidden.
Xu Chunliang said: "It's just a small problem with him, I'll just prick him with a few stitches."
Seeing that he was full of confidence, Qiao Lao smiled indifferently, "It all depends on your own mood whether to go or not." Don't drag me into the water, you kid, it's nothing to do with me.
Xu Chunliang said: "Contradiction! In fact, it's okay to save him, but I don't have a medical qualification certificate, and I'm worried that after saving him, people will not only appreciate it, but also
may take revenge and make a fuss about this."
Ye Qingya was shocked when she heard this, she didn't have a medical qualification certificate? So how dare he treat my dad in the first place? But after thinking about it, Xu Chunliang's words may not be credible.
At this time, Mei Ruxue's mobile phone rang again, it was still her eldest brother's phone, and she sighed helplessly.
Xu Chunliang said, "For the sake of your old man's face, I'll still go."
Qiao Lao looked at this kid with deep meaning, you are forcibly kidnapping, seeing that I don't accept it, you have to tie up me, an old man, you are not looking at my face, but you are going to go.
Ye Qingya wanted to laugh a little, she really hadn't seen anyone dare to treat the old man like this.
Mei Ruxue was about to go out to answer the phone, Xu Chunliang said, "You tell him that I can cure that little bastard, but I have to be a little sincere in finding someone to see a doctor, and let him come to pick me up in person."
Mei Ruxue was dumbfounded, of course she knew Xu Chunliang's flamboyant temperament, but she scolded Wang Zeqiang in front of her grandfather for being a little bastard, and asked Wang Sixuan to come over in person, which seemed to be a bit high-profile, I hope grandpa won't be angry.
Qiao Lao said casually: "Since you want to ask someone to help you see a doctor, you really have to show some sincerity." He suddenly felt that Wang Zeqiang's illness this time should not be accidental, could it be that Xu Chunliang left a follow-up move at the beginning? No wonder he dared to provoke the Wang family, this kid's methods are really a bit angry with himself.
If this is the case, it means that Wang Zeqiang's madness was caused by him, and that a person can control the mental state of others has only been heard of in the past, but has never been seen.