Originally, it hung in the sky like a glowing grit in the dark, but now it was pulled by the man's curse, the stars gathered, and hung densely above the mountain villa, and the powerful person borrowed the light of the stars to lead down from the nine heavens, which was better than a waterfall galaxy connecting the heavens and the earth.

There are sword-wielding people who swing their swords into a dance, there are those wearing silk and arcades into flowers, and there are spell seals forming a formation to disperse the sound of the jokes on the mountain; In short, those who can go up the mountain today are all among the best in some aspects, and their voices and colors are pleasing to the eye.

"The scenery in the world is nothing more than mountains and rivers, and today is a fortunate thing, how can you only see mountains and not rivers?" A person's voice came from outside the mountain, and there was already a cool air coming from afar, it was the royal court sent Houtu to come, this strange beast with the head of a snake,

Late at night, the smell of wine on the mountain almost makes the trees drunk.

After all, the eldest grandson Daosheng did not have a hole room like he said at the beginning, because when they saw the girl in Lu Han's mouth, she was a shy and gentle person, and Lu Han was a person from two worlds part-time.

But in the end, they became Taoist couples.

The candles in the cave room were handed over to the little couple after all.

Li Chen was reading at night at this time.

Ever since he heard Lu Han talk about marriage that day, and talking about this matter is what a layman should have, he has been selective in the bookstore to look at those extremely vulgar trivialities and fireworks in the world.

is still the author I saw before, because he is now the most scolded literati in the upper realm, and the reason for being scolded is very simple: it's too cheesy.

Li Chen is in great need of vulgarity now, and he needs to understand what Lu Han said that day, the most cheesy thing in ordinary people's lives is marriage.

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A few days ago, I had dinner with my friends, and I didn't talk a few words, and my friends sighed.

I asked him what was going on, and he talked about the recent quarrel with the Taoist couple:

I feel bored when I talk about this, when I was cooking together last night, because of a plate of tomato scrambled eggs, she wanted to put the eggs first, I put the tomatoes first, but she nagged for half an hour.

Later, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I just sat in the yard and played with the puppy, and she was not happy that I was cooking there anyway. As a result, she changed her ways to trouble me, and I had to say that I deliberately didn't want to pay attention to her.

I'm really wronged, let me tell you, when is it usually a quarrel that she doesn't have a stinky face on me? Every time I go over and ask two questions, and I refuse to say a word for a long time, I am treated like air. Occasionally make a noise, and the words you say can choke people to death, and you have nothing to say.

Originally, this is all a trivial matter, once or twice, and I don't need to be angry. But we've been married for more than 20 years, and she's like that for nine out of 10 days.

Think about it, the second half of our lives can be long, we are both now in a state of forgetting our worries, how can we say that we can live for hundreds or thousands of years, who can stand it?

After listening to his complaints, I persuaded two sentences: between husband and wife, be more responsible.

My friend still can't get over the threshold in my heart: it's because I think so that I have endured it. However, you can relax a little at home and vent your unhappiness, but you can't become a cactus full of thorns.

I didn't continue to persuade him, because looking at his sad face, I suddenly understood one thing:

These small details he said are not accidental negligence, not that I accidentally broke the bowl today, and accidentally made you sleep, and I should not do it again in the future.

Those details are the things in life that he needs to endure every day.

Most importantly, behind so many small details, a key problem is revealed: they can make another person feel disrespected.

Two people live together, respect is the premise.

Many people think that after being married for so many years, they are all old husbands and wives, they know what to say with one mouth, and they know what to do when they raise their feet.

Let's not say whether this sentence is right or wrong.

Think about it, the original intention of the two of you to get married must not be to make your life as boring as it is now.

Just because the two of them are too familiar, so they don't need to say anything, what kind of truth is this?

What's more, there are many details that you will pay attention to when facing strangers, but when you face the people closest to you, you don't feel the need?

I often hear people around me say: Two people live a life, just have to run in with each other, a little problem, tolerate each other and it will pass.

Of course, this sentence is true, two of the closest people get along, and being considerate and tolerant is the most important thing.

But now, when there is an easier way to solve these problems, why let another person endure it all the time?

I remember reading a sentence in a certain movie: Can you endure a day or two, a year or two, can you endure it for a lifetime?

What should I do if I can't bear it? One very simple thing, change.

Many contradictions are things that can be easily solved by paying attention to them, so why should another person have a pimple in his heart?

Don't forget, we are not Li Chen, we can't be the kind of immortal-like characters who are high up in the sky, for us ordinary people, Taoist couples are often more important than cultivation.

Marriage is a city, and the details are brick by brick.

If you don't pile up bricks and tiles, what wind and rain do you expect it to experience?

Finally, let's talk a few more words, many people have asked me recently, what do you care about other people's family affairs? I'm bored and all the time.

I've been asked a lot, so let's say: I hope that in some things, my attitude and ideas can help them to some extent, that's all.

But where did you come from to meddle in your business?

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Not long ago, I heard a funny thing.

A man in his 300s, married for more than 100 years, has a child, and the relationship with the Taoist couple is not bad, and the two of them have made an agreement before they become Taoist couples, because their talents are not very good, and the life expectancy is 800 years old, so remember not to have three wives and four concubines, or three husbands and five men.

According to his own words, he originally thought that this life would go on like this.

Unexpectedly, he attended a party in September this year, and it was his original classmate, and it happened that he met a girl who had some relationships.

It's a bit of a coincidence, the two are very close, so there is a lot of talk at the table, and both of them are a little emotional, anyway, they are just talking about it, and I don't know how to talk about the things that happened back then.

Speaking of the past, a man and a woman couldn't help but feel a little regretful, regretting that they didn't go on well at that time.

Well, since both of them have said this. This time we finally met, of course, we have to talk for a while.

After the meeting, the two of them found a place to drink alone.

This eldest brother's original words are like this: To be honest, I didn't think anything about her at first, after all, at this age, how can I have so much energy to think nonsense, just to talk about what has happened over the years and talk to each other.

Although that being said. But the two of them drank into their throats and began to pour out their hearts, and when they talked about emotion, they couldn't help but kiss each other.

After kissing and returning home, the man saw the Taoist couple who was busy at home, and repented in his heart for half an hour, thinking that he couldn't do this in the future.

But the next day the girl came to him again, and the note said that she was waiting for him in the old place.

He endured and endured, and after a mental struggle in his heart, he still couldn't hold back and went.

Before he went, he kept struggling psychologically, saying that he shouldn't be like this, sorry for Daoist Yunyun and so on.

I have to say that this man is the best, bad and cowardly. I want to have a double match with the old man, but I can't get over the hurdle in my heart, women are also the best, and they don't think about right or wrong when they do things.

He said that his struggle at the beginning was like a person who had done something bad, and in order to avoid self-condemnation in his heart, he gave himself a step down, like: I already know that I was wrong, I have apologized, so don't hold me accountable, right?

The psychology of that friar, probably the same.

They themselves know that they kissed the last time they met, and there is a good chance that there will be a substantive relationship at this meeting.

Therefore, he must repent first, and then he can start his second spring with peace of mind.

I've been thinking about one thing: we ordinary people don't have a long lifespan, and we are not characters like His Royal Highness Li Chen, but we live in this life, and we will inevitably have intersections with many people.

The territory of the upper realm is endless, the population is also endless, and there are people who live no way, and like them, there are not a few people who have agreed to live for a lifetime at the beginning.

In their case, you must be mentally prepared from the beginning: people who have crossed paths should feel like dead in your heart from the moment you decide you want them.

Before writing this article, I asked many friends for their opinions, and later I found out that there are many people like this.

I met a female monk because of writing articles before, and her talent was the same as the one above, and she lived no more than eight hundred, but she was married for a longer time.

According to herself, the Taoist couple treats her well, but every time she stays at home alone, she always feels that there is something missing.

In this case, she and one of her friends who had crossed paths, and began to renew the relationship, she admitted that she felt guilty every time she went out, but this person was romantic and humorous, and these were things that Taoist couples usually couldn't give her.

And she felt that as long as there was no substantial progress between the two of them, it would be fine. Until last month, the two of them were wandering around the city and were seen by Taoist monks.

They were still hugging their waists.

The Daoist's reaction was very violent, no matter how she explained, it was useless, and she almost made a move in the city.

The friar finally said this: Now that she is determined to write a letter of resignation, she feels that although she is at fault, she has not really done anything, and there is no need for such a big fuss, as long as she does not contact her in the future.

When she said this, she hoped that her friend would give her a move, and if there was any way for her to redeem it.

Seriously, after listening to the whole process, not only did I not want to help her recover, but I even wanted to do it.

Let's not talk about whether she can stop the precipice or not, she really broke off contact with the person she used to be. With the attitude of these few words, I think that the Taoist couple has done too much to write a letter of resignation.

If you have a hot temper, you can see the Taoist couple and other men hugging your waist, it is not a matter of almost doing anything, it is estimated that someone will die on the spot.

You said that holding hands with that person and hugging the waist is not cheating. I think it's necessary to ask you one thing, you said that the person is funny and humorous, makes you feel happier than a Taoist, and is more perfect than a Taoist. If so, why did you and him separate?

Since you were able to break up in the first place, it means that there must be something in the other party that you can't stand it. As a result, after a few years, they have all married and had children, and now they are beginning to be ambiguous again.

It's like jumping twice in the same pit, and, this time the pit has a shameful name, it's cheating.

No matter how many good memories you have in the past, even if you are really vigorous, you are really the mountains and the sky and the world, and you dare to be with you, from the moment you cheat, you are just a dog man and woman in the eyes of others.

Whether your fellow Daoist will forgive you in the end, I can't say for sure. But you came to me to talk about it, purely to scold.

Recently, I heard such a sentence, and I think it is particularly true: the more feelings remain in the memory, the more beautiful people will feel.

What to say, you have broken up with that person for so many years, and sometimes you think about it, it is basically all about two people together, those happy things.

Let's take a look at this one in the family:

You are together every day, no matter how special you used to be, after a long time, it seems that you will become the most ordinary character and character, and the only advantage may be that he is really good at quarreling.

One can't find anything wrong, and the other is so vulgar that it seems to be all over the body.

That's why there are a lot of people who have sex with that person who used to be.

But don't keep thinking that it was good.

If you think about it, in the past few decades, you have met so many people, and it was not easy to get married to the people around you, why don't you dare to say: What I have now must be the best.

Finally, what's the best way to relate to that person?

It is still necessary to be decisive and not to engage and socialize. The best way to chat with that person is not to talk.

Even if you have to deal with the same person you used to be for some reason, there must be one thing clear in the hearts of two people:

I am someone else's Taoist. When two people get along, once they go beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends, they must immediately stop the relationship.

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Li Chen has a bit of a headache now, and he feels as if he has been exposed to a lot of things outside of cognition.

He understands the truth very well, a person goes to another person after he has already had a lifelong contract, as if one of the parties tore up the contract, which is a very unrighteous thing.

And what Li Chen hates most in his life is not righteousness, a person who loses righteousness is not a good thing no matter how you look at it.

However, Li Chen felt as if he still didn't fully understand the key to this.