Chapter 850: I don't understand, how did such a good home become like this!
Aunt Li was comforted a lot by Sun Qing's words, but she was still unwilling.
"She's like this, haven't I worked hard with our family Lao Li all these years?"
Sun Qing knew that she would say this, and immediately said in the tone she had just said: "I also have a child now, and I only know your feelings." We are tired and tired to live all our lives, we just don't want our children to suffer and suffer, and we want them to live well. Xiangmei doesn't go to school, there must be a reason why she doesn't go to school. She is happy to do this, and those of us who are parents should support it. “
Aunt Li felt that it was wrong for Sun Qing to say this, and she couldn't say anything wrong, so it took a long time to hold back a sentence: "There will be times when she regrets it in the future." “
Sun Qing raised his eyebrows and then said: "Auntie, I used to have a classmate who had a good academic performance, but the family conditions were not good, so she was not allowed to study. She was also angry, and she went to the construction site to move bricks for others, and later the contractor thought she was young and a woman, so she didn't recruit her, so she went to pick up the rags. Her family stopped her in various ways and didn't let her go to school, and they just got out of the exam with their own hard work. “
Aunt Li was silent and did not speak.
Sun Qing continued: "I still have a classmate whose family conditions are very good, but he can't study. Her parents wanted her to come down to take over, but she didn't do it, and then her grades were really bad, and she couldn't go down, so she read at home every day, didn't do anything, and asked her parents to cook and eat for her and raise her. Do you think everyone has it? ”
Aunt Li was still silent and did not speak.
Sun glanced at her lightly and continued: "Aunt Li, if you are allowed to choose, these two people, who do you want to be your daughter?" ”
Aunt Li finally spoke: "It must be the one you said earlier, how self-motivated people are, how much they know how motivated!" ”
Sun Qing asked directly: "Do you know what happened to her family later?" ”
Aunt Li immediately looked at Sun Qing without blinking: "Help the family well, what else can you do?"
Sun Qing: "She broke off her relationship with her family and stopped contacting her!" ”
When Aunt Li heard this, she couldn't sit still anymore, and immediately asked nervously: "Why, could it be that she hates her family or she goes to school?" No matter where the conditions are at home, there is no way to do it! ”
Sun Qing looked at her and said seriously: "She doesn't hate the poverty of her family, she hates the family for stopping her and not letting her go!" ”
Aunt Li didn't understand: "If the family has that condition, can you still stop her?" ”
Sun Qing: "A condition is a condition, and an attitude is an attitude." Just like my mother, someone borrowed something from her, and she borrowed it with a black face. It's obviously a generous thing, but others say that my mother is fierce and stingy. A good thing always ends up being a bad thing! ”
Aunt Li lowered her head and stopped talking.
Sun Qing was not in a hurry, and poured a glass of water for her and herself.
"Auntie, you drink water!"
Aunt Li said after a long time: "Qing'er, I called and scolded Xiangmei before, do you think she hates me?" ”
Sun Qing raised a light smile on his face: "You are her mother, who does she hate, and she won't hate you!" ”
Aunt Li gritted her teeth and said, "I just don't understand, how a good family is like this." ”
Sun Qing didn't want to say something unpleasant, but if he didn't say it, some people would have a reason to pretend not to understand.
"Aunt Li, raising a child is not the same as raising a dog. If you have a dog, you hang it with food, and if you want it to listen to you, it will listen to you. Children are human beings, they all have their own ideas, is it possible that you still want them to listen to them for a lifetime! If it's really that kind of child, it's either stupid or stupid, and then you should worry about what they will do for the rest of their lives. ”
Aunt Li lowered her head, and she didn't know what she was thinking.
(End of chapter)