Chapter 434: Sister-in-law's Problem
"Chiai, why do you look so nervous? Don't be nervous, you're just right here, and I'm short of someone to talk to." Lin Qingya sat next to Mei Qianai, pulled one of Mei Qianai's jade hands and said.
Although Lin Qingya has seen and knows Mei Qianai, and knows that she is Mei Qianxue's sister, she is even less familiar with it and doesn't know Mei Qianai's problem, but this will, she also sees something, so she wants to relieve Mei Qianai's nervousness.
Huang Bai also felt that he didn't talk to Mei Qianai like an interrogation, and said, "Well, then you talk, I'll make you tea, by the way, do you want to have supper?"
"If I want, I like to eat your food, as if I haven't eaten what you cooked in a long time." Lin Qingya said for the first time.
It's true that she hasn't eaten a meal made by Cork for a long time, who told her to deliberately alienate herself in the first place? If she had become her own woman, she wouldn't have known how many blessings she had enjoyed.
Huang Bai walked over to check the refrigerator to see if there was anything else to cook and eat, naturally he wouldn't cook rice for supper, but he would still cook noodles or something.
Huang Bai first boiled water to make tea, and then started to cook noodles.
Because Mei Qianai unexpectedly appeared in her house, it was not easy for Huang Bai to tease Lin Qingya, and if she wanted to take the bamboo shoots, she was afraid that she would have to find another time.
Lin Qingya whispered to Mei Qianai, laughing a few times from time to time, and she didn't know what she was talking about with Mei Qianai.
But Mei Qianai was obviously relieved and not so nervous.
After making the supper, Huang Bai was not hungry, so he asked them to eat first, but he saw that Mei Qianai had eaten it quickly, and she wanted to drink the noodle soup.
The things made by cork are naturally delicious, and Lin Qingya is also full of praise, but if it is delicious, it will not drink all the noodle soup.
Huang Bai felt that she might be really hungry.
He stopped her, pushed his bowl in front of her, and said to her, "What's so good about noodle soup? Here's a bowl for you, eat it quickly."
"No, no, I'm full." Mei Qianai's face flushed in an instant.
"Full fart, I don't think you even had dinner. I took a look, and the kitchen hasn't been touched, and there are no take-out lunch boxes in the garbage bar, so you can eat it."
Huang Bai glared at her and said.
"Oh......"
Mei Qianai lowered her head in response, almost lowering her head into the noodle bowl.
"What's the fierce, Qianai, eat slowly, don't worry about her." Lin Qingya also glared at Huang Bai and said.
"Hmm......" Mei Qianai replied timidly.
Huang Bai looked at it and really felt a little speechless.
Huang Bai really didn't notice that Mei Qianai's problem was so serious earlier, it is estimated that she has autism, right?
She has such a temperament, and she is fortunate to have brought her to Baihua City, otherwise, if her oothy father Mei Lao Liu, under the rich child who can't let Mei Qianxue marry her, "marry" her to the rich child, then I'm afraid she will really suffer it.
Huang Bai also felt that he had to face up to her problem, after all, she was also his sister-in-law. She is like this, if something happens, it must be Mei Qianxue who is sad.
Now, Huang Bai feels that he needs to understand her inner world first, and see why she always seems to be so timid and timid.
A woman in her twenties is almost as timid as a little girl, which is really a bit abnormal.
"Qianai, you eat first, let's have a good talk when you're done." Wong Cork Road.
Mei Qianai seemed to have the courage to push the noodle bowl back in front of Huang Bai, and whispered as if a little aggrieved: "I, I have dinner, I really eat, you should eat."
"Dizzy, are you still polite to me? It's just a bowl of noodles."
"I—I really can't eat it. When I came, I bought some small cakes by the way, and I really ate them. If you don't believe me, I'll pick up the bag and show you."
"Uh...... No, no, you've eaten it, what are you going to do with the garbage bag? I saw that you had to drink all the noodle soup before I gave you more to eat. Sit down, let's have a good chat and talk, lift
Look up and look at me. I'm not going to eat people."
"I, I......"
Mei Qianai raised her head, but there were tears in the corners of her eyes.
"Oops, why are you crying?" Huang Bai couldn't see the tears of a woman the most, and suddenly felt a headache.
"What's wrong? Qianai, leave this guy alone, that's how he is." Lin Qingya finished eating her noodles, and just put down her chopsticks, just when she saw Mei Qianai's tears in the corners of her eyes, she hurriedly helped her speak.
"I—I'm used to eating noodles and drinking up the noodle soup......" Mei Qianai said aggrievedly.
Huang Bai also wanted to cry, just such a trivial matter, why did she look like she had been wronged a lot? This wants Mei Qianxue to know, and she thinks she bullied her.
"Habits? Why do you have such a habit?" Lin Qingya asked.
"Because ......" Mei Qianai opened her mouth, but closed it as if she didn't want to speak.
Seeing this, Huang Bai said to her, "Qianai, you know about me and your sister Qianxue. When it comes to relationships, you are actually my sister-in-law, you are Qianxue's sister, and you are also my sister. So, we're a family, and when you're with me, you don't have to be so nervous at all, just do what you want, relax, be natural, you know? Like here, you can come as you like. It's the same with the villas over there, you can go wherever you want and stay wherever you want. If you have something on your mind or something, you can also tell me, or tell Qianxue. Anyway, Qianxue and I are your closest relatives. It's closer than your unreliable mother, at least, we all really care for you, and we all want you to be happy and free."
"yes, actually...... We're all family." Lin Qingya also said, but after she finished speaking, she woke up to something, and her face couldn't help but turn red.
"I—I...... I don't know what to say."
"That means, do you really have something on your mind?"
"Uh-huh......
"Then, you can say whatever you want, and you can say whatever comes to mind. Anyway, let's just think of it as a casual conversation as a family." Huang Bai knew that he had to guide her to tell her what was in her heart, and then he could unravel her and let her change such a cowardly character.
"I—I was a kid...... I've been basically locked up at home for as long as I can remember. Alone, scared...... Later, I had a younger sister......
Mei Qianai's eyes seemed to be remembering, and she whispered.
"Mom is rarely at home, sometimes she doesn't come back all night, she comes back during the day and then she is gone, anyway, it's not fixed, sometimes she doesn't come home for two or three days...... My sister always cries, makes noise to other people's houses, and sometimes comes to knock on our door in the middle of the night...... The scolding was very bad, it was hard to hear, and he said that he was going to kill us......
"I—We're just going to eat noodles...... I can only make noodles, my sister is hungry, she eats noodles and I eat soup......
Huang Bai and Lin Qingya listened, and couldn't help but glance at each other, with pity in their eyes.
It turned out that there was a reason why she had to finish the soup after eating noodles, and the so-called habit was that she was hungry when she was a child.
Huang Bai originally thought that Mei Qianxue was not easy, but now he knows that it is really not easy, and it is this sister Mei Qianai who really suffers.
However, think about it, and it is.
Their mother is bent on giving birth to a son to get Mei Laoliu's care. But she gave birth to a daughter, which made her dislike it in the first place, and she was afraid that she wouldn't take care of the child, so it might be a difficulty to survive, in short, she wouldn't care much about this daughter. If she survives, it will really be considered Mei Qianai's life.
This situation is really not an exception, even in this Internet era, there will be some angry and sad news from time to time, that is, young mothers starved to death of their own children.
Some of them really don't know how to take care of them, and they are too playful to keep their children at home, only to remember after a few days that they still have a child at home. Individuals are really completely incapable of raising.
Anyway, there are a lot of tragedies caused by various reasons.
Mei Qianai's situation, I'm afraid it's really not much better.
Her mother, I'm afraid, really didn't do much
Loved her.
It is conceivable that after birth, there is no meal, and it is a miracle that she survived, and when she can crawl and walk, she is estimated to be alone at home, so hungry that she may be able to gnaw on everything. When I was older, I began to know how to find something to eat on my own.
It's not surprising that three-year-old children, when they are hungry, will find something to eat, like instant noodles or something, they can really get it.
By the time she was four years old, she had a younger sister.
Well, from this time on, you can really bring a baby.
Something, really instinctive, is forced out.
Of course, if the education is good, children who are three or four years old will really know how to do a lot of things. As long as you are willing to force them, you can really make them very sensible.
On such days, Mei Qianai is at least over ten years old.
Of course, by the time she was six or seven years old, she was already very sensible, and the family was afraid that she would not be able to shut her up, and she would definitely have to go to school. At that time, it was the turn of her sister Mei Qianxue to be locked up at home alone.
But even if she is in school, Mei Qianai, who has basically not had much contact with outsiders, is estimated to be very sad, and she will definitely encounter a lot of difficulties.
And by the time she was about ten years old, she had already experienced so much.
Then, she was forced by her mother to go to the bar to sing on stage and please the guests.
Huang Bai suddenly really understood a little.
At that time, Mei Qianai may have already had social phobia.
Yes, Huang Bai thinks that Mei Qianai's current situation may be social phobia.
A child who has been locked up for six or seven years has already experienced a lot of panic and fear, and when he goes to school, he will definitely be out of step with other children. She was afraid that she didn't dare to talk or communicate with others.
But her mother forced her to go on stage, and she didn't dare not go. So, while being afraid, you have to listen to your mother. It is also possible to do some of the required things, or else you will be beaten or scolded.
Also, if it's a little bigger, it's a little girl, and in that kind of chaotic bar club, verbal and physical harassment must be indispensable, being drunk and taken advantage of, being teased, and so on.
In fact, she only went to junior high school. Now she said Cork didn't know.
In this way, it may be really difficult for her to let her go to the university to audit now.
She is now in college, and she is probably a little out of place.
No wonder, before this week, she had to run here by herself.
Huang Bai and Lin Qingya listened to her talk about her own business, but in fact, she was really talking very messy, talking a little bit in the east and a little in the west. But overall, Cork still understands it.
"Okay, let's not talk about it, let's have some hot tea."
Cork made a cup of tea and handed it to her.
"I think I get it." Huang Bai said again.
"What do you understand?" Lin Qingya asked.
Mei Qianai also blinked timidly and looked at Huang Bai.
"Qianai, let me ask you, you seem a little nervous in front of us now, and, lately, are you a little afraid of seeing Qianxue? Consciously or unconsciously, you don't want to see her, you don't want to be with her?" Huang Bai asked.
"No, no......" Mei Qianai wanted to deny.
"Qianai, it really doesn't need to be like this. Indeed, you have suffered you. So, right now, you should be extremely unconfident and have a deep sense of inferiority." Huang Bai waved his hand, not allowing her to deny it, "Qianxue should be the person you feel closest to. But now, you may think that Qianxue is already a big star now, and she and you seem to be people from two worlds, so you will feel unnatural when you are in front of her. Therefore, now, even if I have time, I don't go to her villa and don't stay with her. It's because you feel that you are already a head lower than her, and you can't play with her anymore."
"It's the same with us. The inferiority complex in your heart makes her cowardly."
"I, I'm ......" Mei Qianai really seemed to be told her inner thoughts by Huang Bai, and lowered her head again, and said with a crying voice, "I don't have anything
Understand, nothing, nothing can be done. It won't help Qianxue at all."
"Fool. You and Qianxue are two sisters, the closest and dearest sisters. What if Qianxue is a big star now? Don't you have to respect your sister? She doesn't need you to know what to do, she doesn't need you to do anything, and she doesn't need you to help her. It's enough for me to help her." Huang Bai reached out and wiped away a teardrop from the corner of her eye. z.br>
"Well, wouldn't I be useless? At school, you can't understand and you can't learn anything...... My classmates laughed at ......."
"Haha, Qianxue may just want you to go to Dudujin, who said that you were asked to learn things? Well, maybe Chiyuki took it for granted. However, I can't blame her, blame me, I went abroad for so long at the beginning of this year, and now I've been back for two or three months, and I haven't had a good understanding of your situation. That's it......"
Huang Bai smiled, thought for a while, and said, "Let me ask you, do you like to work in the company? Can you do the work when you go to work? Do you understand?"
"It's okay to work in the company, and the people there will teach me, but it's too complicated for me to learn slowly." Mei Qianai is weak.
"Do you like to work?"
"I like it, it's boring not working, I don't know how to get through the day." She didn't refuse to work.
"Well, so be it, you don't have to go to school. The company, transfer you to my president's office, don't learn to do finance, learn to do management, you just follow Hu Xianyu. Then, live with me, I have a lot of people there, Hu Xianyu, Shen Xiang, Shen Lan usually live with me, you have more contact with each other, more communication, and slowly change some of your personality, at least, you will not be afraid to communicate with others."
"The most important thing is that from now on, you forget the inferiority complex in your heart. Because, you actually have nothing to be inferior, how it was in the past, we don't have to think about it anymore, after all, it's all in the past. We have to learn to look forward. Qianai, you see, you are actually very remarkable, because, your sister is a big star, and your brother-in-law is also a big star, a big boss. We are not short of money, we are not short of your expenses, you think about it, are you much better than many people? As for academic qualifications or something, these are nothing, think about it, you are the assistant to the president of my Mythical Entertainment President's Office, is this something that ordinary people can do? Graduate students and PhDs don't have the opportunity to be my decision-making assistants."
"Anyway, you're no worse than anyone else. You want money now, you have money, you don't have money to ask Qianxue for it, or ask me for it. To have an identity, to have a status. When many people see you, they have to bow their heads and greet you, and they have to be respectful. So, why should you be afraid of others? In the future, when I walk and talk, I should be louder, and in the company, if I see someone who is lazy, I will scold him loudly."
Mei Qianai was stunned when she heard this.
However, she also listened and understood.
In fact, it is indeed as Huang Bai said, if you look at the problem from another angle, she is indeed a great person now. My sister is a big star, my sister ...... Husband, also a big boss. Thinking about it this way, she did seem to have a little more look.
Lin Qingya also said: "What Huang Bai said is right, but don't scold people, don't teach bad love. But Qianai you are indeed better than many people now, and when facing others, you really don't need to be inferior. You are also such a beautiful girl, I don't know how many people are secretly admiring you, and if you want to be inferior, others are inferior. Let's add friends, and in the future, we will all play more together and get acquainted with each other, then you will know that we are actually the same, and neither of us is more noble than the other."
"Uh-huh, that's a reason. In short, you have to remember that the past, don't think about it anymore. In the future, you will play more with Qingya and the girls in the family, the main reason why you are like this is that you have not really opened your heart to accept everything in this society. As long as you have more friends, you will gradually become more confident."
"I—I listen to your ......"
Mei Qianai couldn't change her habits for a while, but she really wanted to change it
Change.
She lowered her head and peeked at Huang Bai, her eyes a little grateful and close.
"It's not early, you can have a room with Qingya tonight, you have to get used to being with friends." Huang Bai stood up and said to Lin Qingya, "She will be handed over to you, rest early after washing."
Huang Bai knew that he couldn't be with Lin Qingya tonight, and messages kept coming in from his mobile phone, so it was estimated that his other women were going to chat with him.