Chapter 46: 125 Days of Long-Distance Relationship Memoirs (27)

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β˜… During the 125 days with Cangxi, Gong Yi learned to do self-media, and the small essays published in XHS have now been deleted.

β˜… [18] How can we enrich our spiritual world? It's enough to stick to these three things(2022.7.28)

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Lin Huiyin said that a person's good luck is not determined by having a good face and exquisite external image, but by his spiritual realm.

How can I enrich my spiritual world? Frankness, generosity, sincerity, kindness and kindness. Mentality is the best feng shui, and character is the best luck.

(1) Fall in love with yourself unconditionally

When I started to really love myself, I stopped dwelling on the past, I stopped worrying about tomorrow, now I just live in the moment where everything is happening, today, I live in the here and now, day after day. It's called "perfection." --Chaplin, "When I Began to Love Myself"

We are the universe is unique, and without us, the universe will naturally be a little less bright, but a little more dim.

We close our eyes and feel the breath of every inch of our body, and we feel the miracle of being alive with our empty minds. Take a deep breath, huh...... Fall in love with yourself unconditionally, you are the only one in the universe, and it's good to be alive.

Through meditation, we can deepen our understanding of our core consciousness and gradually reach the self-satisfaction that I am my own spiritual pillar.

(2) Do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and maintain kindness

Good deeds have the benefit of ennoting the soul and enabling it to perform better deeds. --Lu Ling

Be kind to yourself as you would be kind to others. Stay kind, do more good deeds, and every dime, dust, and sand count. Doing good deeds enables us to achieve spiritual maturity and fulfillment.

Doing good can change destiny. "The Four Disciplines of Lifan" is a well-known book of persuasion in China, which mainly tells the personal story of the author Yuan Lifan himself through continuous good deeds and accumulation of virtue, and finally completely rewrote his bad fate.

We should practice the present moment with compassion in mind, and through enough patience to follow the same steps, we will eventually be virtuous, accumulate good fortune, and have good fortune.

(3) Be positive and optimistic in the face of the ups and downs of life

Optimistic people see opportunities in every crisis, and pessimistic people see crises in every opportunity. --Churchill

We need to constantly strengthen our inner drive, suggesting that we need to be optimistic and open-minded in the face of life's ubiquitous "flowers blooming and falling", "clouds and sunny days". If you don't like things and don't feel sorry for yourself, there will naturally be more surprises, and happiness will come faster.

With a positive and optimistic life, we can start from fitness and lose fat on our bodies.

According to the United States. A new study reported by the Huffington Post shows that when the test takers' weight gains about 10%, their negative emotions and pessimism are significantly enhanced, they are easily angry, contradict others, have a bad mood, and look haggard.

Therefore, maintaining a healthy weight, losing weight appropriately, and doing more exercise are conducive to us having an optimistic attitude, calmly facing the changes in life, and actively looking towards the future.

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β˜… During the 125 days with Cangxi, Gong Yi learned to do self-media, and the small essays published in XHS have now been deleted.

β˜… [19] A good relationship and love can reduce human suffering by 50% (2022.7.30)

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Zhengyuan really doesn't need to be pursued, there is no need to compete, and it can be cultivated logically to achieve positive results. There is no need for a time test, because time has already judged.

Positive fate is not impulsive, there is no need to weigh the pros and cons, it is purely to have love together and go with the flow to the end of this life.

A good relationship and love can reduce human suffering by 50%.

You and I share weal and woe together, without fear of all kinds of ups and downs brought by life, enjoy the firewood, rice, oil and salt of the world, no longer live independently of each other, and support each other forever.

What a blessing it is to fall in love with you deeply, and to be loved deeply. May you and I love each other affectionately for the rest of our lives, and we can be healthy and happy with each other.

Decades later, when we sat in a rocking chair with gray hair, telling our children and grandchildren about yesterday's past in front of a photo album, the family was warmly bathed in warmth, enjoying the warmth, enjoying the love, and enjoying the family fun of warmth.

What I think, I follow.

In this life, you and I are attracted to each other.

At a glance, the honey is thick.

Fate gathers and never leaves.

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β˜… During the 125 days with Cangxi, Gong Yi learned to do self-media, and the small essays published in XHS have now been deleted.

β˜… [20] Gains and losses, hidden and explicit are all scenery and customs(2022.7.31)

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In life, we can't have everything that happens, we can only experience it. Those who know this well will understand that it doesn't matter, that loss is just a pass, and that failure is just an experience. Look at everything in life with a browsing heart, gains and losses, hidden and explicit, all of which are scenery and customs. ---- Tashi Dom

Life is in a hurry, decades of time, life does not bring, death does not take away, and all the scenery in front of you is unphased. Life is no longer meaningful? I don't think so.

No phase is a scene, and there is a phase is color. The scenery is beautiful, there are scenery and colors, everything comes with fate, and everything is born for the heart. There is a relationship with the heart, and the relationship is born from the heart, and this is the case.

Whether life is meaningful or not depends not on the scenery, but on the color. Color is emptiness, and emptiness is color. The so-called emptiness is not false and non-existent, but that there is no substance, no reality. Emptiness is tolerance, understanding, and love.

The first sentence of the Heart Sutra talks about the view. Generation. When the Bodhisattva entered deep meditation, he discovered the origin of all things, that is, "the five aggregates are empty." It is precisely because we are aware of the emptiness of the aggregates that we are able to get rid of all suffering. What are the aggregates? It is to see, to receive, to think, to act, and to know.

The meaning of life, "the five aggregates are empty", this is the essence. It means that all the phenomena we see, all the objective world outside, all the feelings we perceive, all our thoughts, all our thoughts, all the ideas and concepts formed in our hearts, and all other consciousnesses, are actually empty.

Our hearts give meaning to life and meaning to all things in the world. Do you feel happy when you see today's scene?

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β˜… During the 125 days with Cangxi, Gong Yi learned to do self-media, and the small essays published in XHS have now been deleted.

β˜… [21] Surprisingly similar! The Four Laws of Life and the Law of Attraction (2022.8.3)

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The Four Laws of Life:

(1) The Law of Belief: When you have 100% faith in something, it will eventually become a fact.

(2) The Law of Expectation: When there is a very strong expectation of something, the expected thing will appear.

(3) The law of cause and effect: everything that happens has its antecedents, and the result of today's status quo is the cause planted in the past.

(4) The law of inertia: as long as anything can be continuously strengthened, it will eventually become a habitual attraction.

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Law of Attraction:

(1) You believe that you can get what you can get. I believe that I am who I am. This is the process of placing an order for the universe yourself.

(2) The more you expect things to happen, the more you secretly poke at your expectations, the faster things will come true. This is after I firmly placed an order for the universe, I live every day in a state of life where I fantasize that the order has been realized.

(3) Everything comes with fate. Ten thousand experiences, the cycle of cause and effect. Believe in cause and effect, believe in good fortune, believe in universal love, immerse yourself in high energy density at any time, and be a happy and kind person. If you bloom, the breeze will come.

(4) Perseverance is the only way to form habits. The way of life of the Universal Law of Attraction is integrated into one's own life force, seeking attention and embracing the vast universe through daily meditation and gratitude.

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β˜… During the 125 days with Cangxi, Gong Yi learned to do self-media, and the small essays published in XHS have now been deleted.

β˜… 【22】You are the best version of yourself (2022.8.5)

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You became who you are today because something happened. They may be big or small, but they will surely leave an imprint on your memory. And then many things that happened, whether mournful, grand, or creepy, can find their original source in these imprints. β€”β€”Zhang Haochen "You are the best self"

Be grateful for everything, passing by the people and things around me. They are like sunny days, cloudy days, rainy days, fog, typhoons, hail, heavy snow, etc., so that I always adjust my pace, do my own counterattack, do not be a dependent person, do not be a dog licker, and do not be a selfish person.

Thinking in a different position and understanding their various "weather" for themselves are all cause and effect. Because it is me, and the effect is you. I didn't have a thorough understanding and reflection, so I could only constantly review and correct my mistakes, and make up for my life map, or erase it, and make up for the bad habits that should be abandoned, and continue to do this in vain.

I am grateful to all the people and things around me who have built me into a stronger and stronger core. My edges and corners are like the thorns of a hedgehog, and it hurts to pull them out, so let me pull them out...... Try your best...... If you're done pulling it out, it's not a hedgehog. So am I still me? Is that kind of counterattack still my original path? I asked myself if I like to walk this way?

Now, they all want to make me, a hedgehog, another species. I was like a clown's self-deprecation, they couldn't see my sadness; I'm like an experiment on the operating table, going through a Resident Evil. I'm really just a female hedgehog, who understands me? Who cherishes me? Who feels sorry for me?

Thanks to all the people and things around me, I finally found someone who understands me, cherishes me, and feels sorry for me. The Buddha said, "Whoever you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, and it is no accident that he will definitely teach you something." "I finally reached the phoenix nirvana, and finally counterattacked and bloomed.

In the future, let me take the road of the second half of my life smoothly with the heart of transformation, full of self-confidence, no longer suffer from gains and losses, do not lose direction, live a prosperous life, and build myself into a truly complete person.