"Don't dare." The four of them stood in a neat row and replied respectfully. Don't dare to have the slightest disobedience, like four meek sheep. Qin Yu even saw fear in their eyes.

It seems that this village chief Huang is a little too strict with the education of his sons! Qin Yu thought to himself.

They see their fathers like mice meet cats.

Shaking his head: such a family education is not advisable.

If the father is too strong, it will bring huge psychological pressure to the children, and even become a psychological shadow for their life.

Zhu Biao in history was originally the happiest prince of all dynasties, his parents liked him, his ministers respected him, his brothers respected him, and he was a virtuous corporal who was generous and benevolent. However, it was because of the fear of Zhu Yuanzhang for a long time that the pressure could not be released, which led to his untimely death. The pressure that Zhu Yuanzhang brought to him was invisible, and he never talked to him to relieve his pressure.

"Alright, your father is gone, don't be afraid, relax." Seeing the back of Village Chief Huang leaving, Qin Yu said to the four students, "Don't be idle, let's work with everyone first." ”

Qin Yu quietly came to Zhu Biao's side and made charcoal pens with him, giving full play to his affinity as a teacher.

Mr. Qin actually worked with the students himself? Zhu Biao turned his head to look at Qin Yu, and his heart moved, this young gentleman did not have the seriousness and rigidity of those teachers before, just like everyone's big friend.

Just a small gesture made Zhu Biao feel that he was very kind.

"What is your name?" While Qin Yu was doing the work in his hand, he took the initiative to talk to him.

"The student's name is Huang Biao." Zhu Biao immediately stood up and bowed to him as a student to meet the teacher.

"Huang Biao, you don't need to be so restrained in front of Teacher Qin." Qin Yu said, "I'm not a few years older than you, in the future, we will be both teachers and students, and friends, you can talk to the teacher if you have anything in your heart." ”

Teacher, student and friend?

Zhu Biao's heart trembled when he heard this, and he was shocked by Qin Yu's unprecedented words again. Zhu Di, Zhu Zhang, and Zhu Chun, who were working next to him, also turned their heads to look at Qin Yu when they heard this, and they were shocked in their hearts.

In the past, Confucianism attached great importance to the number of etiquette, and the number of etiquette between monarchs and ministers, fathers and sons, teachers and students, could not be exceeded at all. In the "Book of Rites", it is said that there are three books of rites, heaven and earth, and the foundation of sex. The ancestors are also the foundation of the kind. The master is also the root of the rule.

Several princes received traditional Confucian ideological education from an early age, and they were familiar with the Four Books and Five Classics. They were also taught by the great Confucians of the time, so the concept of etiquette was deeply rooted in their hearts.

And now Qin Yu actually said that they can be both teachers and students and friends, completely subverting their three views.

"This young Mr. Qin is really something I haven't seen for eternity!" The crowd thought in their hearts, "He and Liu Bowen, Song Lian, and Gao Qi, the three great Confucians of the time, have a difference between heaven and earth. ”

"It's better for students to be respectful than to obey their fate." Zhu Biao remembered that Zhu Yuanzhang had just told them that everything must be obeyed by Mr. Qin, so he said respectfully.

"Who is the eldest and the second among the brothers of the Yellow Label brothers, and what are they called?" Qin Yu saw that he was still so respectful that he couldn't change it in a short period of time, so he changed the topic.

"I'm the boss." Zhu Biao replied, pointing to the brothers next to him, "He is the second, he is the third, he is the fourth......"

Qin Yu didn't pay much attention to the names of these big boys, and talked directly to them: "You brothers, it seems that you are a little afraid of your father's ......"

The four princes looked at each other when they heard this, but they didn't dare to answer.

Zhu Biao's heart trembled even more when he heard this, why was he afraid of Zhu Yuanzhang? It's terrifying! Even many nights he woke up in nightmares, and the person who woke him up was his father.

Zhu Yuanzhang loves Zhu Biao very much, and only regards Zhu Biao and Queen Ma as family.

Because of his love, he must pass on the throne to him, and expect him to be a generation of Ming Jun in the future. If the expectations are too high, the requirements will be very strict, and Zhu Biao will do a little less than he wants, and Zhu Yuanzhang will hate iron and steel.

And Zhu Biao himself has always lived in the shadow of Zhu Yuanzhang. The father is too good, and he can't compare to the horse himself. So he worries every day that he will live up to his father's expectations in the future.

Under the long-term pressure, he often had suicidal thoughts and wanted to get rid of it.

Sometimes I don't even dare to commit suicide, because the "Book of Filial Piety" says: The parents who suffer from the body do not dare to destroy it, and filial piety is the beginning. Not destroying one's body is the most basic filial piety.

……

Through his words and looks, Qin Yu was basically able to confirm that they were all afraid of their father, Village Chief Huang. And the real situation is likely to be more serious than you think.

"When I have time someday, I will visit your house once, so that Uncle Huang will not be so strict with you." Qin Yu said, "Too strict family education is not advisable, you are all children in the rebellious period, and the most taboo thing is parental pressure." Cold violence is wrong, and beating and scolding is even more wrong, we must release our nature and guide it reasonably......"

Several people looked at each other when they heard this, and they were pleasantly surprised: Mr. Qin has such a high status in his father's heart, maybe he will really listen to him! As sons, they also want to get Zhu Yuanzhang's father's love.

"This Mr. Qin is more like our confidant brother."

"Yellow Label." Qin Yu said again, "In Teacher Qin's opinion, there is no need for you to be so afraid of your father. Even if you don't live up to your father's expectations in some areas, don't blame yourself, just be yourself and have a clear conscience. After all, everyone has their own different life path, and parents can't arrange everything for their children in advance. ”

"Children are not a tool for parents to achieve unfinished goals."

As long as you have a clear conscience!? Everyone has their own path in life!? When Zhu Biao heard this, his heart trembled violently: "I have been chasing the footsteps of my father but I can't catch up, and I have forgotten that I still have my own life." I have always lived according to my father's will, trembling and trembling, and I have never lived for myself. ”

"My father is the founding monarch, how many people in the world can compare? I don't have to look up to him. It is necessary for the founding monarch to kill decisively, and I don't need to fight the world, I don't need to kill like him, I just need to be diligent and love the people, and be a benevolent monarch in the future. There is nothing wrong with my father being ruthless with corrupt officials, and it is not wrong for me to have my family and exterminate them! ”

"I can't meet my father's requirements, but I've worked hard to do it, and I have a clear conscience!"

In an instant, the big stone that had been pressing in Zhu Biao's heart for a long time fell to the ground.

He felt more relaxed than ever before.