Chapter 118: I can't wait to make a promise
Zhu Biao stood up and talked eloquently: "This sentence comes from "Mencius: Lilou Shang", Chun Yu said: 'Men and women are not kissed, and they are courteous? Mencius said, 'Rites.' Chun Yu said: "Sister-in-law, then help her?" Mencius said: "If your sister-in-law doesn't help, she is a jackal." Men and women do not kiss, and etiquette is also; Sister-in-law, the one who helps her, the right also. ’……”
It means that Chun Yuyu asked Mencius whether it was a courtesy for men and women to give or not to kiss, and Mencius said yes. Chun Yuji asked Mencius again if his sister-in-law drowned as an uncle, could he reach out to save him, Mencius said that if his sister-in-law drowned and his uncle did not save him when he saw death, it would be a jackal's behavior. Men and women can't be too close, it's a normal etiquette, and it's a matter of urgency for a sister-in-law to drown and uncle to save people. ”
"Good!" Qin Yu nodded.
The village chief's family has a few children, and the ancient text is good.
"Who of you knows what other similar words are in the Confucian classics?" Qin Yu asked, "Han Yan'er, you stand up and answer." ”
Han Yan'er, the saint of Mingjiao, has just entered the school, has a relatively quiet personality, and rarely talks to her classmates. Qin Yu planned to exercise her guts, and at the same time test her level.
"Yes, sir." Han Yan'er stood up and said, "In the Book of Rites, it is said that men and women do not sit together, they do not use flails, and they do not teach in person. Sister-in-law doesn't lead to ......"
"Well, yes, sit down." Qin Yu said.
Han Yan'er's answer surprised him, but he didn't expect her ancient literary level to be not bad.
Han Yan'er was exiled with her mother when she was a child, and she was almost sold to the Qinglou, which caused her personality to be a little precocious, so she seemed relatively quiet. Later, Mr. Guan found her and planned to train her to become a saint, so he also taught her a lot of culture.
"Since the Book of Rites says that men and women don't sit together, why does the teacher arrange for boys and girls to sit cross-legged together?" Qin Yu asked again, "Isn't it a bit out of etiquette for the teacher to do this?" ”
The students shook their heads, or they had something to say but didn't dare to say.
"Students, you must remember." At this time, Qin Yu said earnestly, "The so-called men and women do not kiss, three from the four virtues, seven out of the rule...... It's all bad stuff that greatly restricts women. ”
These things are collectively called feudal etiquette, and we must get rid of the dross in feudal etiquette! I looked at the history and found that there is no age in this history, and the words 'benevolence, righteousness and morality' are written on each crooked leaf. I couldn't fall asleep horizontally, and after reading it carefully for half the night, I could see the words in the cracks, and there were two words written all over the book - cannibalism! ”
Han Yan'er, Zhu Yingrao, Xu Miaojin, and Lu Qingqian listened to it, and they were all excited. Mr. Qin, who is a pedantical man, is speaking for them.
They all looked at Qin Yu with adoring eyes, feeling that Qin Yu was simply their life mentor.
They have been poisoned by feudal ideology since childhood, just like living in boundless darkness, and even many women are in the darkness without knowing it.
And today, Qin Yu's words are like a ray of morning sun tearing through the darkness.
Let them see that there is still light in the world.
Especially the metaphor of 'cannibalism' that Qin Yu said made their delicate bodies tremble even more. They have been instilled with the feudal ideas of 'three obedience and four virtues' since childhood, and women are virtuous if they are not talented, so that they can live on thin ice. I don't know how many women in the people were killed by these articles. From this point of view, feudal etiquette is really dressed in the skin of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and is eating people!
At this time, Xiaoxiao, a widow who was secretly listening to the lecture outside the door, had tears welling up in her eyes. She married into Lujia Village as a child daughter-in-law when she was very young, and her husband died before she could complete the house, and now she has taken care of her blind mother-in-law for more than ten years......
The bitterness of it is known only to her.
She is also a human being, she also has her own thoughts, and she is not a tool person who is labeled as a chaste martyr.
If nothing else, her life will be ruined by the word 'chastity'.
Zhang Laodao in the guard room was also surprised when he heard it - he had never heard such remarks. "This Mr. Qin, how dare you attack the Confucian etiquette system? It's unexpected. ”
"Confucian etiquette shackles women? Interesting! No one has ever mentioned this truth about him, which is simply unprecedented. ”
Although Zhang Sanfeng was a loyal and filial piety immortal in the minds of people in several dynasties, he never thought that the Confucian etiquette system was unfair to women. Zhang Sanfeng is not only a Taoist, but a Buddhist Taoist and Confucian.
"Your village is too backward, which leads to a lot of feudal remnants in your thinking. As a volunteer teacher, the teacher must help you take off the feudal shackles of your thoughts. Qin Yu said, "Take off the feudal ideological shackles and start with the liberation of women!" ”
Bang Bang Bang!
Zhu Yingrao, Han Yan'er, Xu Miaojin, and Lu Qingqian listened to it, and couldn't help but applaud desperately.
Huang Biao and a few other boys did not applaud, they had just accepted such a point of view, and they could not fully accept it in a short period of time. Because since they were children, they also received Confucian education.
And they also showed their worries: if Mr. Qin's words today were heard by Liu Bowen and Song Lian, they would definitely look for him desperately.
In particular, Qin Yu also said that the 'etiquette system' is cannibalism! They will not tolerate it even more.
Mr. Qin is estimated to be collectively boycotted by scholars all over the world, criticized and written, and even begged the emperor to eradicate his 'heresy'.
"Why, you boys don't agree with the teacher's words?" Qin Yu asked.
"It's not ......," Zhu Biao said, "The student just thinks that Mr.'s remarks are really too shocking." ”
"Shocking?" Qin Yu smiled, "Do you all respect your mother?" ”
"Respect!" The students said.
In the eyes of Zhu Biao and Zhu Di and Zhu Yingrao, their mother, Queen Ma, is the greatest woman in the world.
"Remember, your mother, like you, has an independent personality, an independent mind. Can you bear to put these feudal dogmas, rules and regulations, around your mother's neck? ”
"Do unto others what you would not do unto yourself, and do not inflict on a woman what a man does not want to bear."
"Setting rules and regulations for women alone is oppressing women."
"What the gentleman said is so good!" At this time, Xu Miaojin said excitedly, "At this moment, I really want to shout three times and let out the suffocation in my heart." Looking at Qin Yu, I couldn't wait to make a promise.
"Mr. Qin's class today, students must let more people see it." Zhu Yingrao said.
Han Yan'er stared at Qin Yu with a pair of watery eyes, while Lu Qingqian was full of admiration.
As for the boys, they didn't speak, because they couldn't find any reason to refute Qin Yu at all.
They even felt that what Mr. Qin said was right.