Chapter 626: The Greatest Luck in My Life
Even if the whole world says that Qian Duoduo is not good and is a bad woman, but in his mind, she is a good woman who is good everywhere.
When Jiang Jiayi returned to the village, the confinement was almost done, and within a few days of returning to the village, the confinement was completely completed, and the children's full moon wine they still didn't do much, so they invited acquaintances to eat at home, and just do a small thing.
To do wine, you have to borrow a table and borrow tableware, so Zhou Ping's house is vigorously lively, everything is ready, and the day of full moon wine has arrived.
Aunt Li just experienced the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person, and her eldest daughter-in-law Xu Xinlan also made a mistake and was taken away, so it can be said that the Li family may not have good luck this year!
Zhou Ping was afraid that Aunt Li would feel uncomfortable when she saw the festive appearance of his family, so he didn't invite Aunt Li to come over to help prepare the banquet for the full moon banquet, and it was Qian Xuefen who brought Qian Fangxia and Qian Luxia over to help.
Because Jiang Jiayi came to Song Xi's house to play, Song Xi's family had no place to live, she lived in Qian Xuefen's house, and Qian Xuefeng was the matchmaker between her and Zhou Ping, so it was right to invite her if she had something.
Song Xi and Zhou Yi came to Zhou Ping's house with the gifts they had prepared before, Song Xi handed the gift to Jiang Jiayi, and said with a smile, "Sister Jiayi, this is a gift for the baby, you are not allowed to refuse!" ”
"Okay, I won't refuse, and when I prepare a gift for you in the future, you won't refuse!" Jiang Jiayi took the gift with a smile and put it on the table next to the bed, then hugged Zhou Yiyue and came to Song Xi.
Song Xi gently tapped Zhou Yiyue's cheek with his fingertips, and said with a smile, "The little guy has no teeth but wants to laugh, it's really cute, but Sister Jiayi, I have to remind you, you have a son now, you can't ignore the daughter in front of you, the son and daughter are your children, you have to treat everyone equally, do you know?" ”
"A girl living in a patriarchal family is particularly unhappy, unhappy all her life, and this unhappiness is not material, but spiritual, and has a great impact on her whole life."
In the previous life, in such a wealthy era, there were still people who preferred sons over daughters, and daughters were tools to serve their sons.
For example, the family property will be given to the son.
But when he was sick and hospitalized and needed money and companionship, his son became invisible, and his daughter had to contribute both money and effort, and in the end, his parents still liked his son.
Of course, as a child, you do need to support your parents, but a bowl of water is constantly leveling, and it will also make people feel chilling! After a hundred years of parents, the relationship will not be good if they leave their children.
Many parents have two or more children, the purpose is to hope that when they are old, the children can help each other and support each other, but their attitude destroys the relationship between siblings, how can they help each other and support each other?
Jiang Jiayi nodded in agreement, "I live in a patriarchal family, I was wronged a lot when I was a child, if it wasn't for my grandparents to protect me, I don't know if I can grow up healthy." ”
"Even the job of a salesperson that I finally got was forced by my grandparents to give it to my relatives, I am my own granddaughter, and in their eyes I am not as good as my relatives."
"My mother and I, in this family, are like nannies serving them, I have lived such a hard life myself, and I will definitely not let my daughter live such a hard life."
"Two children, I will treat them equally, on the contrary, I will pay more attention to my daughter, because I feel that a woman's life is much more difficult than a man's."
"Even if you marry well, you will be worried about whether you can have a son, whether you can stabilize your status, if you marry badly, it is like a cow and a horse, the husband doesn't like it, and the mother-in-law bullies ......"
Song Xi held Jiang Jiayi's hand and said seriously, "Sister Jiayi, don't worry like this, because Zhou Ping will not become like this, even if he gets older in the future, he will not be good to you, but what about me, just look for me and follow me, I will definitely let you live a different life." ”
"Xiaoxi, thank you, the biggest luck in my life is not to marry Zhou Ping, but to know you." Jiang Jiayi held Song Xi's hand back and said gratefully.
For a married woman, under normal circumstances, her mother's family is her confidence and courage to face the unknown life, but there is no one to maintain her mother's family, and Song Xi is her confidence.
With Song Xi's words, what else is Jiang Jiayi worried about?
Just take care of the children, nurture them, and live happily.
When it was almost noon, Zhou Ping took Jiang Jiayi's grandparents over, their older generation thought like this, they were afraid that their granddaughter would not give birth to a son and their status would not be guaranteed, and now seeing that Jiang Jiayi had a son, they were no longer worried.
In rich families, lesbians want their mothers to be expensive with their sons, and lesbians from ordinary families want to improve their status with their sons, which is a common thing in this era.
Even in the last life, there are many married women who wish to have a boy on the Internet, and the 'pick up boy' in the comment area is all about wanting to have a boy, those who have a daughter want a boy, and those who have a boy want a girl, everyone wants to make a 'good', so these are all normal things.
Grandma Jiang sat on the edge of Jiang Jiayi's bed and said, "Your mother has been asking where you live, and I have been tight-lipped until now, and I haven't revealed anything, at least wait for a year or two to confirm that she has indeed improved, and then tell her, otherwise she will easily become a tool for the Jiang family to hurt you again." ”
"Grandma, you can arrange it, anyway, I will stay in Ping'an Village to take care of the children for a while in the future, and there should be no chance to meet her." Jiang Jiayi is really angry with her mother, I hope her personality and behavior can really change in the future.
If she was still trained by the Jiang family before, then she would definitely toss her and Zhou Ping for the benefit of the Jiang family.
Jiang Jiayi now just wants to live a good life with Zhou Ping in Ping'an Village, as for finding a job, when the children are older and can get out, it is good to find a job in the village.
To be honest, there are really a lot of jobs in Ping'an Village now.
"By the way, grandma, Zhou Ping and I bought a small house for my mother, you let my mother move over! This will also prevent your uncle and aunt from falling out with you. Jiang Jiayi took out the house book and the key to the house from under the pillow and handed it to Grandma Jiang, "There is a detailed address in the house book, just let my mother find it herself, the lock on the door has been replaced by a new one before, and ordinary people really can't pry it open." ”