"It's just that this matter is very important, and our husband and wife attach great importance to it, and want to discuss etiquette with An Minbo and his wife as soon as possible, so they took the liberty to come to the door like this."

He Chengye and Lu were extremely humble in their words, and they also showed respect and courtesy in their gestures.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu Shi had only seen He Yanxiu before, and they thought that he was very good in appearance, talent, and life, but now that they saw his parents, they immediately understood why He Yanxiu was so good.

Parents and tutors are like this, and He Yanxiu is naturally the same.

It can be seen that the style of the He family is upright.

For a woman, getting married is not just about falling in love, the most important thing is to look at the family background of the in-laws, the style of the family, and the relationship between the concubines.

He Chengye and the Lu family are like this, Mrs. He loves Su Yujin very much, and the younger brother-in-law He Yanzhou is still young, and it is said that he is also smart, lively and sensible......

It can be said that this marriage is a match made in heaven, and there is nothing unsuitable.

Su Shaoyuan and the Lu family were happy in their hearts, and they talked very happily with He Chengye and the Lu family about the six rites.

The two families even sat together at noon and had a happy lunch, and talked until the sun was in the west, and He Chengye and Lu said goodbye.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu went out to see each other.

Before leaving, the Lu family took Lu's hand and said with a smile, "Our two parents' families have not met for a long time, and logically speaking, the focus of everything should be placed on the marriage of Yujin and Yan Xiu at this time." ”

"It's just that my grandson and I come to the capital a limited number of times a year, and the time is even tighter, so I thought about telling Mrs. He about it, and Mrs. He might as well help me keep an eye on it."

"As Mrs. said, our two families are already in-laws, and we have a great relationship, so just say anything directly." Lu also smiled.

"Mrs. He also saw it, I am Yujin's aunt, I also have a son and a daughter, my son is a big-minded person, he makes his own decisions in everything, and he has his plans for marriage, I can't talk to my grandson, so I can only let him go."

Lu Shi said, "I also think about what kind of relatives he finds by himself, I, who will be a mother-in-law in the future, will treat other girls' girls well in the future, which is not a big deal." ”

"It's just that my youngest daughter, who has also reached the age of marriage, has not found a suitable marriage for a long time, my grandson and I are thinking about Shao Yuan serving in the capital in the future, and Yujin is also in the capital, if Ruo Ruo can also find a suitable husband in the capital, the three brothers and sisters can take care of each other, which is quite good."

"So I rashly opened my mouth to Mrs. and asked Mrs. to help me pay attention to one or two to see if there is a suitable person to help me look at each other."

When Lu heard this, the smile on his face became even stronger, "I asked my wife to help me do something, it turned out to be this matter, although Mrs. can rest assured, just leave this matter to me, if there is a suitable person, I will tell Mrs." ”

Seeing that the Lu family agreed happily, the Lu family thanked again and again, "Thank you Mrs. He so much." ”

"The family doesn't have to say kind words."

Lu laughed as he quickly went through in his mind some people he knew who were of the right age and had never been married, and whose conduct was okay.

Su Yunruo is good-looking, hearty and free-spirited, and has a bit of the demeanor of the daughter of the general.

But Su Yunruo knitted female red, but she did not fall into anything, and she also had the dignified and virtuous lady of everyone's ladies, such a girl did not worry about finding her mother-in-law's house.

But even if you don't have to worry, you have to find a suitable one.

Su Yunruo is Su Yujin's cousin, and this is a relative of the He family, no matter what, he can't be sloppy, he needs to choose carefully.

But even if it is selected, you have to let the other party know that there is such a Su Yunruo.

After all, according to the situation of this dynasty, most of them are still men who come to the door to propose marriage......

Lu thought for a while, and felt that instead of going to see each other after screening, it was better to encounter various banquets, and directly took Su Yunruo out to the banquet.

Cast nets everywhere and focus on catching fish!

Very good!

After Lu finished thinking about this matter, he began to ask the official media.

The matchmaker will go to the woman to propose marriage, which is the first step of the six rites.

And this gift when Nacai was going to the woman's house to propose marriage that day was also solemn and did not violate the rules.

In addition to some auspicious things in the rituals, Lu is thinking about adding some more, so as to show his attention.

But what should I add?

Lu searched in the library for a long time, and felt that he really couldn't pick out the good ones, so he simply opened his private library and chose one or two from them.

After picking out the things in his private library, the Lu family still felt insufficient, and after thinking about it, he went to Mrs. He's courtyard in the afternoon of this day.

Mrs. He woke up from a nap, and she hadn't come back to her senses yet, so she yawned, "Why did you come here at this time?" ”

"I was preparing for the Nacai ceremony, but seeing that the weather was hot today, I cooked rock sugar mung bean and lily soup, and specially brought it to my mother to relieve the heat."

Lu smiled very doggedly, "I also report to my mother what my daughter-in-law has prepared in the past two days, this is a gift list, do you want to see it?" ”

The Lu family was very safe, and Mrs. He was originally very relieved, but this was about the marriage between He Yanxiu and Su Yujin, and Mrs. He still took it over and looked at it carefully.

"It's all good." Old Madam He nodded slightly, "Why is there so much empty in the back?" ”

"The daughter-in-law originally wanted to add more, but she didn't know what to add, so she came to ask her mother for an idea......

Hearing what Lu said this, Old Madam He immediately understood the key, and reached out and nodded Lu's forehead, "You, is it okay to say something clearly?" ”

After that, he instructed the maid next to him to get the key to the treasury, "You go and pick the best one, remember, you have to pick the best!" ”

The Lu family has been married to the He family for so many years, and there is nothing to ask her for in Su Ri, and now that she has come to her for her granddaughter-in-law, she can do whatever she wants.

"Thank you, Mother." Lu smiled and thanked him, but said, "My daughter-in-law picked the good ones to get them, but the best ones don't have to ......."

The best thing has to be left for a while, and then it is better to have a good scenery when the bride price is given.

"It's okay." Old Madam He waved her hand indifferently, "You just do what I say, I know what you're thinking about, when the bride price is given, I will go to the emperor and the concubine Niangniang to ask for some rewards." ”

Luke, "......"

The old lady is indeed the old lady.

It's better than her calculations!

……

The gift of Nacai was delivered to Su Yujin's home on an auspicious day of the zodiac

It's a ceremony, everything is a formality, and the process is easy.

It's just that as soon as the Nacai ceremony is over, the marriage will be contracted, and Su Yujin will enter the stage of preparing for the marriage.

There are usually three things that a woman needs to do while she is getting married.