Nguyen doesn't remember what the full text of that post was, but she probably remembers a few bullet points.

First, textbook love does not advocate one party to completely spoil the other, a good love state is that you come and go, and your personality is independent and equal.

Second, textbook love does not mean that women's needs are higher than men's, but they are biased according to the scene and personality.

Third, textbook love will promote the mutual progress of both partners.

In the years of overcoming her own psychological problems, Ruan Shang'an read a lot of books related to emotions and psychology, Ruan Shang'an always knew nothing about this part, and in front of her she observed a relationship up close, only to find that the relationship was really amazing.

In fact, feelings are the most difficult to measure by fixed standards.

Everyone's way of loving is different.

If you only look at a certain point, for example, Teacher Pei once proposed to Tang Tang to break up, and said that Teacher Pei was heinous, which is too harsh to criticize lovers in the world.

Whether the relationship between two people is good or not, it is not because of what the conflict is, but how to continue to get along after the conflict.

I haven't had a partner when I disagree all my life, too little.

It's like, in Ruan Shang'an's impression, the relationship between his parents has always been very good, but his mother still suffers from depression and has been hiding it from his father.

After the incident, some people accused Ruan's father of not caring enough about his wife, some accused Ruan's mother of not cherishing herself and affecting her husband and children, and some people felt that Ruan Shang'an would be like Ruan's mother in the future, suffering from depression and being tortured for life......

Many feelings are just the feelings of others, and feelings are the most empathetic.

It's like a long time Ruan's father once talked to Ruan Shang'an, who was still reluctant to speak, after drinking-

"I don't feel like I'm a failed husband who doesn't care enough about the family;

I don't hate your mother either, because I know she's having a hard time too;

I can only say that the two of us are destined to be inseparable, and you are still here, which is all my sustenance for the rest of my life. ”

Ruan Shang'an didn't understand it at all, but now, she probably understands a little.

"As long as you feel more happiness than trouble, then the relationship is worth it."

Whether Mr. Pei loves Tang Tang or not, and whether he is suitable for Tang Tang, only Tang Tang himself knows best.

Ruan Shang'an gently pushed open the door of the dance studio, leaving the space outside the door to Tang Tang and Teacher Pei.

And this non-disturbance and non-interference is Ruan Shang'an-style gentleness.

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When Ruan Shang'an left, Pei Yuanye actually paid attention.

It's not that Mr. Pei didn't see Ruan Shang'an, but for ordinary players, he has an attitude towards everyone.

Except for worrying that Tang Ning lost his temper that night, he let go of Tang Ning's bedroom a little bit, but after that night, Teacher Pei was still the Pei Yuanye who kept a distance from all the opposite sex except Tang Ning.

Even Pei's mother is in this range of the opposite sex, so don't expect Teacher Pei to have a different attitude towards Ruan Shang'an in private.

As for Ruan Shang'an, Mr. Pei needs to remind Tang Ning.

"Nguyen Shang An is not stable. If you choose her, there may be a mess. ”

Teacher Pei never forgot that he had already noticed Ruan Shang'an's situation, but he didn't expect Tang Ning to suddenly include this person under his wing.

This is a move that Mr. Pei didn't think about, but Tang Ning doesn't seem to care.

"Oh, Mr. Pei, why do you want to do so much?"

"What's more, can you really think of anything?"

(End of chapter)