Chapter 168: The Helplessness of Marrying Far Away
When you get married, you just want to be able to stay with the person you love, without hesitation, and give everything you have, and you only have the man you love with your heart.
After getting married, I found that marriage is not just as simple as loving each other with my lover.
When you fall in love sweetly, there is only each other in the world, and you can only think of each other and see each other.
But after getting married, everything was different.
After getting married, every day is faced with the repetitive and tedious days of firewood, rice, oil and salt, as well as the other family members of her husband's family.
The sister-in-law is an excellent person to get along with, and the eldest brother is a little cold, but not the kind of indifferent coldness, and takes good care of her and Ah Yi.
If she can live with her eldest brother and sister-in-law all the time, she doesn't have to worry about anything, and she is even very happy. After all, the sister-in-law took care of the family's expenses to eat and drink, and she was very tolerant and generous to their little couple.
From now on, my mother-in-law and two sisters-in-law will also move to Yucheng.
The suite, which was originally quite spacious, was squeezed in by three adults at once, and it was instantly cramped.
She didn't dare to face her sister-in-law and mother-in-law, because they only engraved the words "disgust" and "contempt" on the door of their heads, either ignoring them, or sneering, and even refused to even look at her most of the time.
It seems that in their eyes, they are like an outsider.
Although they didn't agree before, she had already married into the Gu family's family and married Ah Yi, I don't know how long they want to treat her like this?
If my mother's house was right in front of me, as close as my sister-in-law, and I could go back to live for a day or two from time to time, how nice it would be!
The people of the in-laws bully themselves, and they can run home at any time to live for a few days to relax, and change the environment, which can somewhat relieve the boredom in their hearts.
But her mother's home is too far away, it takes more than half a month to make a telegram, the phone call cannot be connected from time to time, and her parents have to walk at least two hours to answer the post office.
Even if she has grievances in her heart and wants to talk to her mother's family to solve them, she has nothing to do, after all, every word on the telegram has to be counted as money, and one or two more sentences of nonsense will cost several cents.
In this way, even if she doesn't have a good life, she can only swallow it, just because even if her parents have the heart to help her, they can't help, so it's better not to let them know and save them from worrying.
In addition, the sister-in-law's maiden family is financially rich, and she has a very rich fourth brother, who has built houses for her brothers and sisters-in-law, and even the sister who married out has a share!
is also a daughter, she is also a daughter loved by her parents, but the gap is not ordinarily big.
The first reaction of the parents was to build two houses for their sons, and did not leave any of them for her.
In the eyes of the family and the villagers, the water spilled by the married daughter, everything in the family belongs to the son, and the daughter has no part at all.
Not only that, but the bride money for the daughter to marry must belong to the family.
When her mother-in-law asked her if she had any dowry, she didn't dare to answer, and finally shook her head in shame.
She will always remember how terrifying her mother-in-law's fierce and disgusting eyes were at that time!
I also remember that at that time, she ridiculed and said that even if it was not good to marry her sister-in-law, the in-laws would not confiscate the dowry, but she could still convert it all into a dowry and send it back, and finally added a gold ring.
She can see that whether the mother's family is greedy or not, and whether the mother's family is generous to her daughter, affects her daughter's status and importance in her mother-in-law's family.
Fortunately, Ah Yi had lived in the mountains and understood that it was okay to live there for self-sufficiency, but it was too difficult to make some money, so she quietly agreed to send her five or ten yuan home in two months.
He also told his mother that he must not let his mother know about this matter, otherwise the family will definitely quarrel.
The sister-in-law's mother-in-law not only didn't want her money, but also sent her things every once in a while, and even was so arrogant - send her to the homestead to repair the house!
It was a very spacious place, as wide as six houses, with a yard in front and an open space on the side, and the best place was just a short walk from the shipyard!
At that time, the sister-in-law wants to live with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and she can move out at any time if she doesn't want to live.
But she is different, she and Ah Yi can only go out to rent a house, otherwise they have to see the faces of their mother-in-law and sister-in-law every day.
As soon as this suggestion was put forward, the mother-in-law scolded them, saying that they didn't know how to save money, they didn't know how much it would cost to rent a house, and they would have to buy an extra meal to live in, and they didn't know how much they would have left in their salaries!
"Alas!" Thinking of this, Zhao Xiaoxing couldn't help but sigh uncomfortably: "Sister-in-law, I really envy you." ”
Chen Xingling paused, knowing in her heart the grievances and helplessness in her heart at this time.
"You and Ah Yi can move out in advance, and I envy you even more. Remember, you will live with Ah Yi for the rest of your life, not a sister-in-law or mother-in-law. Live a good life with him, and sooner or later you will be able to free those troublesome people. ”
The sister-in-law is so old, and she will get married sooner or later in a few years. After they get married and have their own families, how can they have so much leisure to take care of their in-laws and sisters-in-law.
If the original book is developed, Gu Xuan will eventually marry far away and will not come back for a few years.
Gu Miao didn't marry too far, and at first she often ate and drank at her mother's house, but later she gave birth to one baby after another, and she was tired enough just by raising a baby.
The mother-in-law is also old, and according to the original book, she will live for more than ten years at most. Try to avoid it now, and when you can't avoid it, you will endure it, and sooner or later you will be able to get rid of it.
"Hmm." Zhao Xiaoxing nodded, but she was still worried in her heart.
Chen Xingling thought that she was worried about Gu Yi's suspension, and comforted Gu Qi to help solve it tomorrow, and there should be good news soon.
Zhao Xiaoxing's mood was better, and she rested after entering the house.
After Chen Xingling returned to the master bedroom, he first checked his son on the small bed, and saw that the little guy was sleeping very sweetly, with a trace of sweat, so he rolled the towel smaller, only covering the small belly, and then went to bed with confidence to continue sleeping.
The next morning, Gu Qi came back, his handsome face couldn't hide his tiredness, and there was an obvious blue halo under his eyes, obviously he stayed up until dawn last night.
"Big brother, how is Sister-in-law Miao?" Zhao Xiaoxing asked with concern.
Gu Qi replied lightly: "It's no big deal, the fever has subsided, and now I am still hanging the bottle, and I should be able to be discharged from the hospital in the evening." ”
Zhao Xiaoxing breathed a sigh of relief, looked at Gu Xuan and smiled.
"That's good...... It's okay. ”
Gu Xuan's face was still paralyzed as always, and he sat aside coldly, not giving her any reaction.
Zhao Xiaoxing squeezed her hands helplessly, and smiled embarrassedly.
"Big brother, I-I'll serve you porridge."
Gu Qi stopped: "No need, I've eaten it." I have to wash my face and change my clothes and go to work. What about Xiaoxing, Xing'er and Xiaohuzi? ”
Zhao Xiaoxing hurriedly replied: "My sister-in-law will go to the construction site after sending Xiaohuzi to kindergarten." Big brother, Ah Yi and his mother stay at the hospital, right? ”
"Hmm." Gu Qi nodded: "He stayed to help take care of it." ”
Gu Qi turned around and went to work.
Zhao Xiaoxing quickly cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks and wiped her hands.
"Sister-in-law Axuan, I ...... I have to go to work. There is something to eat in the kitchen, and there is hot water, and my sister-in-law and I have not been able to come back at noon, so you can make some food by yourself. ”
Gu Xuan nodded coldly.
Zhao Xiaoxing saw that she was cold all over her body, and her face was full of "don't approach", so she didn't dare to stay with her any longer, closed the door and ran downstairs.
How can the two sisters-in-law be so strange!
One is quite unreasonable, with eyes on his head; One is like a wooden man, arrogant and cold;
I'm scared, so I'd better move out early.
I hope my sister-in-law can talk about renting a house today.
"Sister-in-law...... It's all up to you! ”