Chapter 343: Love and Marriage
The bell rang for the end of class, and students poured out of the classroom one after another, rushing to the cafeteria all the way.
Chen Xingling quickly finished writing the last few words of his homework, and then stopped studyingBefore leaving the classroom, the committee member handed over the workbook.
Learn||The commissioner glanced at it and asked in disbelief, "So fast?" The teacher assigned it before class - you are all ready? ”
Chen Xingling smiled: "Yes! Hurry up and hand it in as soon as I'm done, I'll probably come a little later tomorrow morning, so turn it in early. Classmate, thank you for your hard work. ”
Actually, the so-called "tomorrow may be a little later" is - tomorrow will not come.
Learn||The commissioner didn't say anything, pouted and put the homework book into his bag.
"Okay, I can only help you carry it back to the dormitory and back again. Luckily, it's not heavy, otherwise I wouldn't have done it. You're just doing something special all day long, either first or slower. ”
"I'm sorry." Chen Xingling smiled again and again: "It's me who is not right, I am not right." If there is a late submission, please tell me. Thanks thanks! ”
As the saying goes, reach out and don't hit the smiling person, learn ||Seeing her sincere attitude and smiling face, the committee members couldn't get up.
"No thanks, that's my duty!"
Chen Xingling smiled and narrowed his eyes, took out more than a dozen milk candy from his pocket, and gave it to study||The committee members divided three or four, and the students next to them also scored one by one.
"Come, come, come! This is the toffee that my brother brought me from out of town, everyone can enjoy it and try it. ”
No one can resist the temptation of candy, especially the students who can only stay in the school canteen to eat every day, and almost their eyes are lit up when they see candy.
"Hey! I want it too, I want it too! ”
"Thank you! Thank you, Mr. Chen! ”
"Mom! Milk candy is coming! Thank you! ”
Because of the resumption of the college entrance examination, the age of the students is uneven, some are in their twenties, some are in their early twenties, and some are seventeen or eighteen years old.
Chen Xingling is neither old nor young, he is considered to be at an average level. However, only three or four classmates in the class were married, and she was the only one who was not only married but also had children.
The squad leader heard that she had a family with children, and the children were only three or four years old, considering that there were children to take care of at home, and occasionally she could turn a blind eye and should go over, and would not overly pursue the attendance problem.
Chen Xingling sent some small snacks in the classroom from time to time, like hawthorn candy toffee, which made everyone gradually change their opinion of her.
After all, in this era of material scarcity, snacks are a rarity. Students who are willing to share delicious snacks with everyone are definitely generous and enthusiastic students.
The squad leader was wiping the blackboard, but when he heard the exclamations and thanks from below, he quickly turned his head.
"Hey! Chen Xingling! You're getting candy again?! I didn't last time! Fast! Bring me two! ”
The toffee in Chen Xingling's hand had already been snatched away, and he shrugged his shoulders and gave up.
The squad leader was disappointed and aggrieved.
Unexpectedly, Chen Xingling quickly grabbed it from his pocket again and took out three or four.
The squad leader instantly smiled in surprise and pounced.
"Can't you stop being so naughty? You're the most slippery in the class! If you want two pieces of candy, you have to be made by you for a while, in the sky and on the ground! Blame will toss people! ”
Chen Xingling smiled and gave him the remaining four, teasing: "What do you know!" It's called a surprise! ”
"Okay, okay." The squad leader hurriedly ate one, and then put the remaining three into his jacket pocket with pity.
The deputy squad leader on the side quipped: "Yo! The rest is going to please the girls, right? Right? ”
The crowd giggled.
The squad leader blushed and shook his head: "...... No! Nothing! ”
The boy with good deeds shouted: "Don't admit it yet!" Who doesn't know that you like a beautiful girl in the foreign language department! Squatting downstairs in people's dormitories all day long, pretending to meet by chance, and helping others carry hot water kettles! ”
The students burst into laughter.
The squad leader was so embarrassed that he hurriedly hid back and continued to wipe the blackboard.
There are not many remaining classmates, and when there are few people, they are too scrupulous to speak.
A female classmate smiled and asked, "Chen Xingling, I heard that your children are three or four years old, so how many years have you been married to your lover?" ”
Chen Xingling, who was packing his schoolbag, replied: "Almost five years, my son is now four years old. We conceived a child shortly after we got married, and the pregnancy plus the age of the son was the time we got married. ”
"Wow! Got married at the age of fifteen or sixteen? That's fast! ”
"In ancient times, girls were twelve or thirteen years old, and they could marry at the age of fifteen. Chen Xingling, your hands and feet are also fast! ”
"We were all classmates. Her children are all four years old, and none of us want them yet! ”
Everyone giggled.
Chen Xingling threw his schoolbag on his shoulders and said, "It's not that no one wants you, you want to try to find a better one in the future." I got married at the age of eighteen, and I was considered an adult. As for me, I am married and have a baby, and this aspect of the family has been fixed, and you still have infinite possibilities. I can only seek better development in other aspects, such as studying at Chongqing University. ”
Some of the female classmates were envious, and some felt disdainful.
"If you marry someone at a young age, if you meet someone who is not ladylike...... It's too late to regret it! ”
"Make a decision too early, in case you meet someone better in the future - be in a dilemma, or even be unwilling."
A female student holding a philosophy book raised her eyes and shook the book in her hand with a smile.
"One day, Plato asked his teacher Socrates what love was. Socrates told him to go into the wheat field and pick the largest and most golden ears of wheat. The teacher also said that he could only pick it once, and he could only go forward, and he was not allowed to turn back or pick it twice. Plato did as the teacher asked him to do - guess what happened to him in the end? ”
Chen Xingling's footsteps paused slightly, and he replied with a smile: "In the end, I walked out of the wheat field empty-handed, and I couldn't pick anything." ”
The female classmate smiled and nodded: "Yes, he didn't pick anything." He said that because he could only pick it once, and he couldn't turn back, even if he saw the biggest and most golden one, he didn't pick it because he didn't know if there was a better one in front of him. The more I walked, the more I felt that it was not as good as what I saw before, and finally I missed the biggest and most golden one, so I didn't pick anything in the end. Socrates said: This is love. ”
When everyone heard this, they all fell into thought.
Chen Xingling became interested for a moment and continued: "Once, Plato asked his teacher what marriage was. The teacher told him to go into the woods and cut down the largest and most luxuriant tree, the most suitable tree to be used as a Christmas tree at home. Again, you can only cut it once, and you can only go forward, and you can't turn back. Plato feared that he would return in vain, so he returned with only an ordinary, not very lush, and not too bad tree. ”
The squad leader turned his head and asked suspiciously, "Can't he find the largest and most lush tree?" ”
Chen Xingling chuckled: "The teacher also asked him why he only brought an ordinary tree back." He said that with the experience of the last time, when I was halfway to the distance and empty-handed, I saw that the tree was not too bad, so I simply cut it down, so as not to miss it and bring nothing out of the end. Socrates told him that this was marriage. ”
All the classmates, you look at me, I look at you, and they all laugh one after another.
The class leader was a little embarrassed and asked, "Classmate Chen, your lover...... What is it for? In your eyes, he is ordinary and not too bad, is that true? ”
"Yes and no." Chen Xingling shook his head: "In my opinion, I may meet more and more outstanding men in the future, and he can only be regarded as the tree that is 'not too bad'." But in my heart, he will always be the largest and most golden ear of wheat. Since he was chosen, he should have thought so. He may not be the best in the eyes of others, but in my heart, he will always be the best. ”
"Wow! Wonderful! ”
"That's a good point!"
“bravo!”
Several students took the lead in applauding, and some even gave thumbs up.
The class leader also looked like he had benefited a lot, and took the initiative to shake hands with her, and then shook hands with the female classmates holding the philosophy book.
"Listening to your words is better than reading for ten years. Today, I finally had an eye-opener. We have to have a few more discussions like this in our class, and we can't always be as quiet as usual, the boys only play with the boys, and the girls only play with the girls. Everyone should get together more, talk about their ideas, speak freely, and express themselves bravely. ”
Several female classmates shook their heads in shame and giggled.
The squad leader pointed at Chen Xingling and said, "Look! She has always been very confident, you should learn from her, and be as generous and confident as her. ”
"I can't." Chen Xingling stopped: "I'm busy!" I don't have time for activities, and I often skip classes in class, class leader, if you don't expose me, I'm happy enough. ”