Chapter 346: Accustomed and Unaccustomed
Li Ying was powerless to refute, so she had to whisper: "If someone else sees it, I will make a mockery of you...... Useless...... The wife is strict. β
I don't know what the eldest son thinks!
How can a manly man do a woman's work at home!
Although his son has not been in his hometown in Shangjing for many years, he still has a lot of "legendary" praise there!
When aunts and aunts on the streets scold their children, they will come to the sentence "How smart Gu Qi is!" from time to time! What a lot! Why don't you learn a little bit? words.
The primary and secondary school teachers in Shangjing City still remember the name "Gu Qi" vividly, whether it is the admission of new students or the graduation season, the name "Gu Qi" has to appear several times to encourage new students and encourage old students.
The eldest son's talent and scenery Ji Yue didn't know how many people to continue to bend his waist, but he went home and was willing to wash his hands and make soup.
This made Li Ying unacceptable, and even secretly distressed.
Gu Qi didn't care at all: "What if others see it?" I don't steal, I don't rob, I don't take and I don't spend a penny on their family, what do they do? Life is my own, not someone else's. I'm doing well, it's none of their business. β
He doesn't care what others like to think.
But life is his own, as long as it is good for his family, good for him and Xing'er, what is there to do some housework? Neither as a traitor, nor against laws and disciplines, as for the ridicule on the line?
Amusing!
Those who laugh at men for their lack of success in housework are the most ridiculous of their own insight!
"Aren't you afraid of being scolded? Yes? Li Ying threatened: "How ugly it is to spread out!" There are so many people in the factory and so many mouths, everyone will know it immediately when they say it! Aren't you afraid? β
Gu Qi chuckled lowly and said, "Is it a nest for a man to do housework?" Who said that? You can tell people that I do housework all day at home, and I'm not afraid. Who in the factory can receive a higher salary than me, a higher professional title than me, a daughter-in-law's education level can be as high as Xing'er, and a son can be smarter than Xiaohuzi, so he is slightly qualified to come to me and laugh at me for not being able to do this, this is a nest's behavior. β
He loves his small family very much, his wife is motivated and hard-working, his son is smart and cute, and they work hard day and night to create benefits for this family, the days are full and warm, ordinary and not ordinary.
They do not violate the law or discipline, let alone violate social morality. He was happy and happy, what he did at home, what his status was - what did it matter to others!
As for the others, if they dare to laugh at him like this, then they have to ask them where they have the qualifications and confidence to laugh at him Gu Qi!
Li Ying looked helpless, and said in a muffled voice: "I won't say go!" It's not a smug thing! Shame on your mother's old face! β
"Okay." Gu Qi said: "If you think so, then there is no way." Anyway, I'm living my own life, so I think it's okay. β
The face is your own, and if you don't feel like you've lost it, you can't lose it.
If you have to feel that the old face is lost, then no one can help the old mother find it, and he can't do anything.
Li Ying was secretly depressed and whispered: "The more you spoil her and get used to her, the less she will look at me." She can do whatever she wants now, and she doesn't like to hear her when I say it...... Left ear in and right ear out. She's not respectful of me at all right nowβit's not all you're used to. β
Gu Qijun's face sank slightly: "If you want to be respected and respected by others, you must have real skills worthy of admiration by others or noble character worthy of admiration." Mom, what have you done that deserves the respect of the younger generations? Which one do you want to think about? Which ones? Well? β
Li Ying had nothing to say again, and was depressed and swallowed melon seeds.
It used to be forgotten, but since she lost so much money in gambling and had to have her eldest daughter-in-law help her with gambling debts, she always felt that she had no confidence every time she faced Chen Xingling.
Later, she was personally caught by her eldest son, and she was ruthlessly driven back to her hometown, and she was even more unconfident.
Gu Qi said lightly: "You have treated Xing'er harshly before, but she has never treated you harshly." In the past, you were in charge, and you were in charge of my salary, so you could do whatever you wanted. At the moment, she is in charge of the house, she doesn't take my salary, and she buys all the food at home. You can eat whatever you want, and you can eat as much as you want. When did she stop you? Well? β
Li Ying hung her head silently.
Gu Qi lowered his voice: "She and I are husband and wife, and we are a legal and compliant couple who have received a big marriage certificate." She has the right to dispose of the wages I earn. You have been holding my salary for so many years, what does she want to eat and use, have you ever given her freedom? You eat her now, use her, and sit in the garden she built leisurely knocking melon seeds, don't you think you should be grateful to Xing'er? β
"That ......" Li Ying said: "She-she never stopped me." I can eat whatever I want β that's true. Butβthis is yours too! You are my own son. β
Gu Qi tugged at the corners of his mouth and whispered: "But this home was built by her, and now Xing'er is shopping for vegetables, rice, and meat for three meals a day." Including the sunflower seeds in your pocket, she also bought them and stored them at home. β
Forehead?
Li Ying's action of swallowing melon seeds paused slightly, and she grabbed her hair in embarrassment.
"Actually, since I called Yucheng, I don't have any big opinions about my eldest daughter-in-law...... She's still pretty good. Before, I didn't think much of it. Later, she would make money by beating herself, and the family seemed to soar all of a sudden. Your brother has a job, you move to new houses one after another, and you buy three bicycles in a row. β
Gu Qi smiled slightly, and said lightly: "It's Xing'er's credit." I'm still on a similar salary, not much has changed. can make a leap all at once, most of them are achieved by her hard work. β
Li Ying clapped her hands slowly and rubbed her fingertips in embarrassment.
"I'm in my hometown...... I met an old friend of your dad's old friends. He said that his wife was gone, and he had a son under his knees, and he finally survived until his son got married, but his daughter-in-law didn't get pregnant for several years. He waited every day to hold his grandson, but unfortunately he couldn't get his wish after seven or eight years. He had a sad face, and said with red eyes that he didn't know if he would be able to hold his eldest grandson when he died. β
According to the funeral customs in the hometown, when the old man dies, the eldest grandson must carry the first incense burner, so most of the old people look forward to the eldest grandson growing up before he dies and can afford the incense burner.
If not, it would be a great pity.
Not only that, but occasionally even being mercilessly ridiculed by other clansmen and looked down upon.
Li Ying smiled embarrassedly and deliberately lowered her voice.
"Tian Tian gave birth to a crumpled little girl, and her mother-in-law said from time to time, 'There is only one son, I wish I could pass on the family soon', and said how important the eldest grandson is to the family. Your Aunt Cai, it was very unpleasant to listen to, and even secretly complained about Tiantian. I suddenly felt like we had a tiger...... Pretty good. Your daughter-in-law became pregnant soon after she passed the door, and she gave birth to the eldest grandson of our old Gu family at once. If your dad is still alive, he will be very happy. I am always very happy when I see our tiger now...... It's not the same as before. β
Gu Qi nodded lightly: "If you can think so, that's right." Remember, when you get along with people, look at their strengths. Be more tolerant and considerate to get along better. β
Li Ying didn't understand it at all, and it was impossible for her to do it.
"Anyway, I will only love my eldest grandson, and others still have to respect me as a mother-in-law. I am the elder, the eldest elder in this family, this is an indisputable fact! Is the dish ready? Have you cooked? It's getting dark, why haven't you come back yet? β
Gu Qi got up with the food and said, "The rice is ready, you can eat it when Xiaoxing comes back and stir-fry." β
Li Ying couldn't help frowning and asked, "Eat rice again?" Why do you eat this every day? It's been a long time since I've eaten jajangmyeon. β
"Southerners eat a lot of rice." Gu Qi explained: "The people here basically eat rice three times in the morning and evening. β
Li Ying sighed depressedly: "But I haven't eaten pasta for several days." β
"There's flour in the kitchen." Gu Qi said lightly: "If you want to eat, you can go and knead the dough by yourself." β
There is a reward to have a gain, the old mother never pays but asks a lot, he will not get used to her.
Li Ying: "......"
I'm too lazy to move, so forget it.