Chapter 374: Disagree
Li Ying cried and cried when she encountered something, and she didn't have any idea at all, seeing that Gu Qi and Gu Yi hadn't come back yet, she asked Chen Xingling what to do.
"Shall you send her money? She said she was going to buy a ticket to come back - should she be allowed to come back? β
Chen Xingling thought for a moment and asked, "What do you think?" Do you recognize Chen Erliuzi's son-in-law? β
"Uh." Li Ying was obviously asked, and hesitated: "Why do you recognize it or not?" It's already like this, what else can you say? Right? β
Chen Xingling shook his head: "You can't say that. After all, they are not officially married, and you do not officially nod. If you approve of him as a son-in-law, then you must not agree with Ah Miao to do so. β
Li Ying saw that she immediately threw the problem back to herself, and once again felt that it was difficult to do it.
"I ...... I don't disagree. It's all like this, you have to admit it if you don't recognize it, right? β
At first, she scolded Chen Erliuzi to death, but he quickly wrote to him, and he didn't forget to send money to her mother-in-law for the New Year - she was not so angry.
When her daughter is raised, she will marry sooner or later. Amyona's child is very selfish, and it is very unreliable to rely on her to support her in old age.
If she can have a husband who can make money and love her, her daughter will live well. As for marrying far away, she quickly looked down on it.
Since it can't be relied on, it doesn't matter if you marry farther and closer.
In the older generation, a few catties of millet could marry someone else's daughter. Li Ying lived in that difficult environment and didn't care too much about some so-called marriage ceremonies.
Chen Xingling analyzed: "If the family recognizes Chen Erliuzi as a son-in-law, then it shouldn't be just Ah Miao." She has already married him, and even has a child. If you agree to her coming back at this time and send her money, then Ah Miao will return to China by herself. If she comes back alone, it will have nothing to do with Chen Erliuzi. β
"That's not going to work!" Li Ying objected: "How can you come back with a big belly?!" What should I do if I encounter strong winds and waves on the road? She doesn't want Chen Erliuzi...... So why do you want to go with him? Why did you conceive a child with him! β
After all, Gu Xuan was an unmarried girl, and her cheeks blushed unconsciously when she heard it.
"Mom, don't get excited...... I still listen to my eldest brother and sister-in-law. β
Li Ying couldn't calm down at all, and paced back and forth irritably.
"This damn girl! Born to come to me! If she is asked to read, she won't listen! Don't read good books! Run to Nanyang with others, and go so far away! If nothing happens, she doesn't have a letter, and she will only think of her mother's family if she asks for money! β
In the evening, Gu Qi came back with his son.
Gu Yi followed behind them, and when he entered the door, he asked if he could eat, he was hungry.
Zhao Xiaoxing was stir-frying in the kitchen and replied, "You can eat it right away!" β
Li Ying didn't care about eating, so she pulled her two sons and hurriedly discussed what to do.
Gu Qi was silent and did not speak.
Gu Yi on the side said angrily: "Even the child is pregnant, and now I don't want Chen Erliuzi?" Why did she go earlier?! Mom, we don't even know where she isβwhere to help her! β
Li Ying cried and cried: "But she is your own sister." We...... Can't leave her alone. No matter how wrong she is, no matter how excessive she is, she is also the meat that fell from my body. β
Zhao Xiaoxing shrank her head and stroked her round lower abdomen.
"What if...... If Ah Miao's sister-in-law is five months pregnant...... You can't do without children. I heard from the doctor that the baby is older...... It is dangerous to beat it down, and it can even affect future fertility. β
Gu Yi nodded hurriedly: "That's it!" She is going to be a mother, and if she doesn't want a baby if she hates the hard work of being a mother? What's wrong with that? Sentimental! How can there be such a ruthless mother in the world? Can't get used to her! Don't get used to it at all! β
Li Ying shook her head: "I don't agree with this either." Women, sooner or later, they have to be mothers. The months are so big, how can you say don't want to. If you don't do this, you'll have two lives! How can you rely on her! β
Chen Xingling looked at Gu Qi and reminded in a low voice: "Although Chen Erliuzi is not a serious man, he is quite reliable. I wrote a letter before, sent money to my mother, and asked relatives to send us a message. Although it was wrong for them to elope, it was a fact. β
Gu Qi raised his eyebrows slightly, and suddenly understood.
Oh, yes! In any case, the rice has been cooked, the wood has been cooked, and some things have not been able to go back.
"Since Ah Miao has already chosen him and is even pregnant with a child, we shouldn't get used to her willfulness. The children are all pregnant, how can she not want them? What should I do if there is an accident along the way? Just in case, don't send her money just in time. β
ββ¦β¦ But what if she needs it urgently? Li Ying was embarrassed to ask.
Gu Qi wasn't too worried, and said: "Chen Erliuzi still has relatives to take care of, it's not that they are alone in Nanyang, so don't worry." Didn't Miao leave an address? I'll send a telegram and ask. β
"Coax Ah Miao." Chen Xingling reminded: "Tell her not to act impulsively. It is very dangerous to bump long distances with a big belly, and if you don't think about the child, you have to think about herself. β
Gu Qi nodded and agreed.
Li Ying couldn't help but whisper: "I don't know...... Is it that Chen Erliuzi is not good enough for her. β
"Not necessarily." Chen Xingling calmly analyzed: "In the letter, she said that she didn't have to work, Chen Erliuzi was busy during the day, and she had to go out before dawn." It can be seen that he is very diligent, understands her hard work with a big belly, and is reluctant to let her work. In addition, Ah Miao said that she didn't want this child, but Chen Erliuzi stopped her, saying that it was not good for her health, and she must not let it go. If he didn't care about Ah Miao, he wouldn't stop her. He was also reluctant to Ah Miao, otherwise he would have helped her buy the ferry ticket a long time ago, so why did Ah Miao write a letter to ask for money to buy a ferry ticket. β
After listening to her analysis, everyone echoed and praised her.
"That bastard boy is a bit responsible!"
"It's pretty good for my sister-in-law. A man who is truly responsible should not let his daughter-in-law suffer. β
Li Ying was finally relieved and said, "If she doesn't have children, she wants to come back...... If you really can't get along with that Chen Erliuzi, then it should be different. β
Chen Xingling suddenly heard that her mother-in-law still had other thoughts, and couldn't help but remind: "Mom, this is Yucheng, not Shangjing's hometown." There are many overseas Chinese here, and there are many people who come and go to Nanyang every year. The matter between Ah Miao and Chen Erliuzi is no longer a secret. If Chen Erliuzi didn't take responsibility, it would be reasonable. But he works hard to make money, and sooner or later he will be able to make his own career. Let's not bully young people into poverty. β
"But-" Li Ying was still a little unwilling: "Aren't they still married?" If you don't have a dowry or a wedding, you can't do it. β
Gu Qi sank his face and said lightly: "But they even have children, and they have to recognize them if they don't recognize them." He can be responsible, he can be good to Ah Miao, whether there is a wedding or a dowry or something, we can not care. A girl with a temperament like Ah Miao is not something that everyone can stand it. β
"yes!" Gu Yi couldn't help but remind: "Mom, if it is Ah Miao's own choice, no matter how bad or bad it is, she has to admit it herself, and she has to admit it if she grits her teeth." In case you go to help her make the decision, and she will not have a good life in the future, then she will have to resent you. Her and lazy look is something that most men can't stand it. I'm her second brother, and I can't even look past it. β
After Li Ying listened, she couldn't say anything more.
What kind of temperament her daughter is, it's not clear that she's a mother. And now that the rice has been cooked, and the children are pregnant, there is no condition to find other good men.
Although Chen Erliuzi is not very serious, his hometown is in Shangjing, and he can't run the temple if he can run a monk.
In addition, now that he is working hard in Nanyang, he may be able to make a name for himself in the future. Even if he barely survives an ordinary life, he can be good to Ah Miao.
The most important thing is that others heard that the Gu family also has a Nanyang son-in-law, even if it is not really good, it sounds good in reputation.
That's it, the son and daughter-in-law are reasonable, so let's listen to them.