682 The Meaning of Marriage
Gong Li didn't say anything, but everyone knew that she was in a bad mood and unhappy.
In short, if you hit each other's pain points, there is really no good fruit to eat.
Even Gong Jiawen, who is now relying on the extra piece of meat in her stomach, doesn't dare to make a sound, and is quietly waiting for Gong Li to go crazy.
Gong Li was very angry at first, but after thinking about it again, she couldn't help but feel sad, she also met a scumbag, Gong Jiawen was young, so she quickly adjusted her mentality.
But Tao Shan is different, she is a little older, even if she starts arranging blind dates again, but can she be good?
The previous ones have already mobilized a lot of people, and only then did they find out high-quality men like national treasures, of course, they all have a lot of water.
It turned out that there was still a problem, although they did not meet, but the news more or less spread out, after all, the circle of the medical system said that it was not big.
"Did someone say something in front of you?" Gong Li began to wonder who would have said something in Tao Shan's ear.
Of course, Tao Shan heard a thing or two, for example, she didn't look at her situation, although she was far away from there, someone would always inquire.
Although I don't know what those people found out about it, what I can know is that it must be bad for her.
Tao Shan didn't deny it, "They are actually right, let me pick others, and others pick me."
"I think I'm fine, but they think I'm old."
"I was thinking, why do you get married?"
"For the sake of companionship? But more couples are making trouble, and then they will ask the woman to back down, and they will let the woman be in charge."
"Or maybe it's to have a baby, and then when you're old, someone can take care of it?" Tao Shan has really been thinking about it a lot these days.
Gong Li's words to Tao Shan were calm, her mouth moved, she didn't know what to say, could it be that when she got old, the child left home to develop, and the old couple depended on each other.
But she really can't say this, when she meets a selfish man, she expects you to take care of him, and as for him taking care of you, don't think about it.
Or you will encounter tricky in-laws and family affairs, and if you handle them well, you should handle them well, and if you don't handle them well, that's a big problem.
Thinking of this, let's think about what Tao Shan mentioned before, whether marriage is just to have children.
If this is the case, Gong Li feels that there is really no need to get married, "Raise a child, and when you are old, someone can take care of you."
"And you're not out of money right now." Although Gong Li doesn't know how much money Tao Shan can make a month, she has a house and a shop under her name, and she can't afford to raise a child.
"Don't you go and serve your in-laws?" The more Gong Li thought about it, the more she felt that this proposal was very good.
"I'll discuss it with your dad, you say, if your dad agrees, will you find one for you from your dad?"
Tao Shan knew that this was normal, "Yes, but I have to pick one or two."
"After all, I'm just one child, and I won't raise a second one in my life."
"If I could, I would raise someone who was healthy and intellectually sound."
Tao Shan was really worried, Tao Zeming helped her choose a child who was not in good health or had a bad brain.
There is no way, who makes Tao Da leader sometimes like this, "I don't dislike them."
"But how to say that, after all, it is also what I will rely on when I get old."
"If the other person is not in good health, walk ahead of me, who will take care of whom."
"If you don't have a good brain, you won't be able to take care of me."
"As for children who are not in good health, I can contribute money to support one or two." Tao Shan also knew that she was a little selfish, but there was no way.
She has already thought that she will not get married and have children in this life, so for the only child, it must be better cultivated.
Tao Shan's request is really not too much in Gong Jiawen's eyes, "I think this request is normal."
Gong Li smiled, "This is how uneasy your father is."
"Don't worry,
I'll keep an eye on your dad's side, and your dad won't let you jump into the pit."
"I know I'll be relieved to have you here." Tao Shan is in a good mood.
"I'm going to raise a girl too."
"Okay, grow up with Ping'an." Gong Jiawen knew that if she adopted a child, she might want to raise a girl, and she thought it was good.
"It would be better if it could be as big as peace." The four of them, Health and Tuanzi, will definitely be good for Ping'an, but they are much bigger than Ping'an after all.
Not to mention that they are going to study abroad, and how they can take care of peace.
If Tao Shan adopts a child, it is a good thing, so that both children can grow up together, especially Tao Shan will definitely adopt a girl.
Tao Shan couldn't help nodding, "Yes, yes, I also think it's good."
Gong Li looked at the two of them who had a lot of discussion, and she was also speechless, "Yes, I'll talk to your father."
"But I'm telling you, how busy you are at work, if you know, since you are already planning to raise your own children, you have to be a mother in earnest."
"Don't always expect me to help you raise your children." Gong Li is not the kind of ruthless mother, but she is really worried about Tao Shan's idea on a whim.
When the time comes, the child will be brought home, and then after being with them for a few days, they will directly let the old couple take the child.
It's not that they can't take care of their children, but they take care of their children, and when the children grow up, can they still be good to Tao Shan?
Tao Shan doesn't have a lot of affection for adopted children, and if they can't stay together often, their feelings can catch up with strangers.
Tao Shan didn't understand, the child hadn't been adopted yet, but Gong Li would think of her like this, she really didn't understand, why the child hadn't arrived home yet, so she decided that she would be irresponsible.
"I'll hire a nanny when the time comes, and the doctor and husband can take care of the children, so can I."
"I can't promise how much time and effort I'll put into this kid, but at least I won't leave it alone."
"I'll bring the kids back when I'm free." Tao Shan paused, "I thought about it, are there some children adopted by Dad's side who can't change their names?"
Gong Li hummed, "After all, you have to leave some thoughts for people, of course, if you mind, you can also raise children who can change their names."
"I don't care." Tao Shan didn't care, and waved his hand, "If I get married, the child I give birth to will not be my surname."
"Only when the man I marry is the child's last name."
"It's just that after the child is born, we will be separated because of a bad relationship."
Tao Shan's answer made Gong Jiawen couldn't help laughing, she is really a person with ideas, but this is Tao Shan.
can't help but think of Tao Shan's official match in his previous life, where he is, and whether he is married and has children.
Although she really wanted to remember one or two, but there was no way, at that time, she didn't know the situation of Gong Li's family, so she knew that Tao Shan and Tao Yu were looking for their peers.
People of this age, there should not be many people who are over thirty and do not get married, and it is estimated that Tao Shan's official partner should be married.
Although Tao Shan is not married, as she said, marriage is not just to have a child, and when she is old, someone can rely on one or two.
She just skipped the step of getting married and having children, and directly became the child's mother, and there was no problem when she thought of it.