Xiao Jingshui said: "Leaving a distance is to leave a distance that makes her feel safe and comfortable, don't oppress her, don't ask her about her private affairs, and don't meddle in her private affairs, once she feels very uncomfortable with you, it will be difficult for you to get close to her." But you can't just watch from afar, because if you continue like this, you will be no different from a stranger in her eyes. ”

"So, how do you grasp this degree?" Jun Yuecheng was still at a loss.

What Xiao Jingshui said was still too broad and had no practical suggestions.

The current relationship between him and Xiao Jingshui is at most an ordinary friend, and it is difficult to go further.

"Hmm...... You can start with friends first, and get the moon first near the water. Xiao Jingshui gave intimate advice, "Give some proper care on weekdays and show understanding of her behavior." But don't care too much, slowly test her bottom line, improve her tolerance for you, and boil the frog in warm water step by step. In this way, even if we can't get together in the end, we can still be friends. ”

People who are defensive generally don't like to establish too close relationships with people, family affection is innate, and they have nothing to do. But for other controllable feelings, they will be extremely vigilant, and have a natural resistance and defense against love, partners, children, etc.

But friends are not among them.

Friends sound intimate, especially confidants and soul mates, but the relationship between friends is not bound and protected by rules. And no matter what kind of friends they are, they don't get together all year round and have enough distance from each other.

Jun Yuecheng's eyes lit up, this sounded very feasible. Now that he and Xiao Jingshui have been training together, they have a platform near the water.

"But everyone has their own personality, and what I said can only be used as a reference, how to be specific, and Yuecheng has to learn and use it."

Xiao Jingshui has not experienced it personally, and now it is just talking on paper, so in order to avoid misleading people's children, he added such a remark.

People's hearts have always been complex, and the conclusions drawn by predecessors may be reasonable, but if they want it to really play a role, they still need to be analyzed in detail on specific issues, and it will only be counterproductive.

However, Jun Yuecheng seems to be a smart person, and he won't mess up if he thinks about it.

"Thank you." Jun Yuecheng solemnly thanked her.

If Xiao Jingshui hadn't told him this, he would have been confused so far.

Xiao Jingshui smiled: "You're welcome, we're friends." ”

However, Xiao Jingshui thought of something again, sighed, and said to Jun Yuecheng: "Yuecheng, as a friend, I have to warn you of one thing, if the person you like is really defensive, then you had better give up as soon as possible." ”

Seeing Jun Yuecheng's shocked and confused face, Xiao Jingshui explained: "It's not that I want to hit you, but I have to tell you that people who are very defensive generally don't want to have feelings with others that go beyond the boundaries of friendship, and that will make them feel uneasy." So for them, friends are the most important thing. ”

So if you don't have a deep obsession, don't like such a person, while the relationship is still shallow, cut it off as soon as possible, so as not to fall into the water step by step.

Xiao Jingshui's unfinished meaning, Jun Yuecheng heard it, but he shook his head.

"There are some things that I can't give up if I want to."

There were so many things in Jun Yuecheng's voice that Xiao Jingshui couldn't tell the complexity.

The breeze swept across the roofs and ruffled their hair.

After a while, Xiao Jingshui said slowly: "That's right, emotional matters are uncontrollable and quite unreasonable." ”

Whether you like it or don't like it is never something that can be decided by simply saying it.

"I have never experienced this kind of feeling, I can't understand it very well, and I was hasty in making judgments."

Xiao Jingshui said this with relief, but there was a trace of regret in his heart.

She doesn't know Jun Yuecheng's identity now, and she doesn't know what role he will play in the future.

But it is undeniable that Jun Yuecheng's identity is very important. The slightest change in his body will be like a butterfly that can set off a hurricane. In the face of catastrophe, the fewer variables the better.

But variables are variables, they cannot be controlled by her, and they will not change by her will.

In this way, Xiao Jingshui had no choice but to comfort himself that variables are not always bad, and changes that may be good may not be good.

Jun Yuecheng smiled: "It's not because of feelings, Jingshui didn't say anything wrong, so you don't have to blame yourself." ”

When Xiao Jingshui said that he had never experienced this kind of feeling, Jun Yuecheng felt a trace of joy in his heart.

Xiao Jingshui said: "Since it's not feelings, what is it?" "I can't control emotional matters, and other things are controllable.

"It's fate."

When he said this, the sun fell gently on his face, Jun Yuecheng's expression was a little inexplicably pious, and his voice was soft:

"As fate would have it, I would fall in love with her and we would be together."

Xiao Jingshui was surprised: "Fate? ”

"Yes, fate."

Xiao Jingshui glanced at Jun Yuecheng with a strange expression: "I didn't expect you to believe in your fate." ”

Although Jun Yuecheng is well disguised on weekdays, Xiao Jingshui can feel that he is a superior person.

A qualified superior will not believe in fate, they think that their life is in their own hands.

Jun Yuecheng shook her head and smiled: "I don't believe in fate." ”

As a king, he does not always conform to fate, otherwise he can only become a puppet of fate. The real king is to let fate become his puppet.

Xiao Jingshui's eyes were dyed with a hint of interest.

"Oh?" Xiao Jingshui let out a syllable, revealing a look of willingness to hear it.

Jun Yuecheng, who had just been taught a bunch of love treasures by Xiao Jingshui, naturally would not refuse her simple wish, and told her thoughts:

"Fate is for me, I can believe it or not. If it is according to my heart, I will believe and I will fulfill it; Instead, I will fight it to the end. I will never let fate control me. ”

It is not so much that he believes in fate, but that he is willing to use fate as an excuse to do something that goes according to his heart.

When Jun Yuecheng said this, his tone was not very sonorous and powerful, but the certainty in it was convincing.

Xiao Jingshui's eyes flashed with appreciation: "The hero sees the same thing." ”

Destiny will only be accepted when it conforms to the hearts of the people, and if it is contrary to the hearts of the people, then some people want to trample it underfoot. Like her, like Jun Yuecheng.

"However, it seems that Yue Cheng also likes that fairy very much." Xiao Jingshui said softly.

Otherwise, Jun Yuecheng would not have said such a thing.

It's just that I don't know what a unique fairy it must be to make Jun Yuecheng willing.

Thanks to the drunken (^~^) ヾ Liuyunci and Jiujiu love to drink and drink two little cute tips (*)*):*)...

Thank you for drunk (^~^) ヾ Liuyun Ci, @, Jun Ru the wind and moon in the world, Mo Li and the class he chose, and he knelt to finish the monthly ticket of the five little cutes╰(*)'*)╯

Good night ╰(*)'*)╯

(End of chapter)