Parents with girls just don't have the same thing. And the light has a boy who definitely thinks differently. Of course, a son and a daughter are negotiable. I'm talking about the sad generation of us in the 70s who were delayed by national policies and are now older in grades. We only have one child.

Xiaoling said that she instilled the concept of giving birth to a baby early in Duoduo early. It's good to give birth early. gave birth in her twenties, and then became a very young mother, with the help of younger old people. No one is tired.

I think so. After all, my baby is almost 18 years old. These things are really going to be on the agenda. After all, my family is a girl! It's different from a boy!

So I asked the baby very abruptly at night, how old do you plan to have a baby? If you want to have children?

The baby thought about it for a while, and said very confusedly, more than 30 years old, right?

Oh my God. It's definitely too late to be in your 30s. Fortunately, I was able to educate in advance when I asked......

I said you have to give birth as soon as possible. It's better to be in your twenties.

The baby said that how could he have a child if he was not married. I, I, I, I. I even said that having a baby is not necessarily related to marriage......

My mom knew I was going to scold me to death.

But I actually really think so......

I also told the child, first of all, you must take protective measures, and secondly, if you have it, don't beat it, you must give birth. Unless it is a medically unhealthy child.

I'm not in favor of abortion. The physical and psychological effects on the mother are not good. So, I think this kind of education is essential.

Now sitting quietly, I carefully analyze and dissect my inner thoughts.

I think there is some truth to this.

1. The baby is born early, especially if there are twins, it will solve the problem. From now on, travel lightly and fight hard for your life. No matter what goal you set, no matter what position you hold, you can do it with peace of mind. Although it can't be as easy as a man, there is no need to worry about getting pregnant in October and breastfeeding for a year. You can have peace of mind in your career. You can also make a little more money for milk powder. Provide a better living environment and growth environment for children.

2. The baby was born early, we are still relatively young, we have energy and physical strength, and grandma and grandpa can help her a lot. At least 4 or 5 years old. We can also take care of the delivery to kindergartens and elementary schools. And I especially want to cultivate children's common sense of Chinese culture. Reading classic poetry from an early age is the best! Especially medicine! I even thought that maybe we could go to live a little rural life, give our children a broad world of life, and then use the knowledge of traditional Chinese culture to edify and cultivate. Watch less TV, protect your eyesight, broaden your mind, and grow up in the countryside freely!

3. The baby is born early, the person is young, she can recover faster and better, she does not have to worry about the change of figure, and she does not have to worry about too many health problems. Because of the youth, everything can be restored faster.

4. The baby is born early, and when the baby grows up, the mother herself is young. When the child grows up, he will have more energy and time to live his or her own life.

5. Maybe I'm ahead of my time. I really don't think there's a connection between having children and getting married. At least for now, I feel like I can help my daughter. So I hope she finishes her life events sooner rather than later.

Marriage and having children are both life events. But it's different. Marriage is uncertain and changeable, but giving birth to children and raising them is another miracle of life that can be certain.

I think that if marriage can be happy for a long time, it is of course a very important thing. It's just that marriage, like career, needs to be managed and managed carefully. However, there are more uncertainties in marriage. Because even if you manage and manage it with your heart, you don't know if the other party is the same attentive and cherished. So, there is a lot of uncertainty in marriage.

But having a baby is not the same. Children are their own, and neither boys nor girls will become someone else's child. Family affection will always be there. Once born, he/she will grow up little by little very quickly. Start their own life. It's a creation and a miracle. As long as they are properly raised, children will grow up steadily. Of course, it will take a lot of energy during this period, but if you learn more about the Tao Te Ching, have a good attitude, like the older generation, have more tolerance and understanding, do not be involuted by society, and do not have too many expectations for children to become successful people, it will not be too tiring. Mindset is very important.

So, in relation to marriage and children, I think that if you decide to have one or two children in this life. Well, let's give birth early. Whether the marriage exists or not.

Think about it, when you are very young, your child is tall or very beautiful standing next to him. Like a green tree, like a beautiful narcissus. What kind of wonderful experience is this?

It's really good. Right.

I almost laughed when I thought about it.

I didn't want to miss anything, did I? For example, what are the downsides?

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