I can't ask for it

Everyone creates different social value, so the benefits of winning are also different. Each individual in this society has individual differences. So, no two leaves are exactly the same.

I understand the truth.

But I still feel very uncomfortable.

Who wouldn't want to be part of the top of the pyramid?

What if not?

The world is full of living beings. Like thousands of flowers, each has its own freshness.

Such comparisons are really not interesting.

money, and just get by. More to spend, less to use.

As long as you are healthy, everything is fine.

It is a pile of money, and if you can only lie in a white ward, it is just a sad life.

At such times, you should live in the world of your ego. In a safe corner, it is good to be happy.

When you are in a peaceful and tranquil mood, your body will function normally. Health has always meant well-being.

If, in order to earn the real money in the world, you lose your body, so that your soul has nowhere to rest, wanders, and dies, this is the most unprofitable business in this world.

So, just work hard. Just have peace of mind.

Flowers, birds, insects, fish, plants and flowers, all of them are so.

Humans and animals are generally the same.

(The reason why I am a little sad is because I saw the tax refund data and accidentally knew the tax refund amount of my colleague.) As soon as you know, there is a contrast. As soon as I compared, I became the sad party...... If you have any resentment, write it down. It was like the wind blowing willows, stirring up ripples in the Yellow Court. Fortunately, it subsided in an instant. The surging of qi and blood is always unstoppable. The heart lake boating has to be controlled by yourself. )

I just happened to listen to Mr. Cheng's class. It talks about the influence of emotions on people. Let's just talk about one. Why do we have emotions?

Because people have desires.

It's normal for people to have desires. If there is no desire, that is the end.

However, it is right for people to have desires and want to fight. But

Fighting for anger should not turn into anger.

Why does anger turn into anger?

Very simple. Because I can't ask for it.

Why can't you ask for it?

That's the question to ponder.

The reason why I can't ask for it is because my ability has not yet been reached.

The reason why I can't ask for it is because the surrounding environment is too strong and people's abilities cannot be changed.

Therefore, we must be rational in the face of what we can't seek. Establish the right goals and improve methods and measures.

Only in this way can little by little turn "what you can't seek" into "what you ask for".

This is actually the process of a person's continuous efforts and improvement.

If you're frustrated, think about it. The reason why you are in pain, sad, and sad is that you can't ask for it. The reason why you can't ask for it must be because your efforts are not enough, your ability is still much worse, or the surrounding environment is too strong. You can't change it yet. The environment includes a lot of things. To put it simply, there is a physical environment and a spiritual environment. It also needs to be carefully analyzed.

All in all, if you have the trouble of not being able to get what you want, you should calm down, think carefully, clear your mind, and set a good goal for yourself.

This goal can be small at first. It is an easy goal to achieve. Then take the small goal as the step, step by step to the bigger and higher goal.

This is very simple to say, but when faced with a situation that is unwanted, how many people can pat their heads and wake up, and then start working hard?

At least I didn't realize it when I wrote the paragraph in parentheses.

It wasn't until I opened the lesson and the teacher happened to talk about it again that I suddenly understood.

I feel like I'm underpaid. That means I'm not capable enough. So I'm going to work on it.

I can start by setting a small goal, such as aiming for 100 yuan per month. When you reach this goal, slowly work your way up a little bit.

One day, I will be able to achieve something bigger.

I remembered another sentence.

Everything that is experienced in life, everyone, no matter what is good or bad, whether it is a good person or a bad person. It's all your bodhisattva.

Today, after only a few minutes of listening to the class, it made me feel like I was struggling.

This sentence can be expanded to say a lot.

More on that another day.