Life has made it difficult for me. I should face it bravely and try to solve it.

Before I went to bed yesterday, I was thinking about not complaining, but making myself comfortable. I fell asleep in a daze, but my hands were numb all night. Because I typed those 3,000 words half-sitting on the bed, I thought it hurt my fragile and pitiful cervical spine. Because of the inappropriate bending and stretching angle, the cervical fibrous ring is estimated to be deformed again, so the nerve cord naughtily ran out to find the object.

Well, I've seen one such propaganda article with a cartoon. Talking about the lumbar spine, thoracic spine and cervical spine, saying that they live in a high-rise building, the residents of each building are, the father (bone joint) hugging the mother (fibrous ring), the mother hugging the child (nerves), the upstairs and downstairs neighbors are like this, everyone has been living like this. The building is not stable, and it changes various postures from time to time with various movements of the human body, but everyone is used to it.

One day, the owner of the building made some fixed movements of bending over or stretching his neck for a long time, so the children in the building took the opportunity to break free from their mother's arms because their mother was too tired and stretched out to take a look. So in the screams of the owner of the building, he saw that the neighbor on the opposite floor had a beautiful daughter.

Through the landlord's various treatments, although the mother tried her best to pull the child back, the child who had opened her eyes began to talk to her mother: Mom, I want to go out and see.

Mom said: No, child, you don't want to go out.

The child is silent. However, he was always looking for opportunities day and night. Waiting for a long or sudden action from the owner of the building one day changed the structure of the building, giving him a chance to sneak out and take another look at the neighbor's daughter.

I think this manga is particularly funny.

After the comics, there is also a popular science, let's not sit for a long time, stand, keep a posture for too long, or suddenly do a strong action to hurt your vertebrae, when bending down to lift things, you should squat down and then slowly lift up, instead of bending down to lift directly brute force, which will cause strong damage to the waist, don't keep your head down when looking at mobile phones and computers, it will cause aging and deformation of the cervical spine to the fibrous annulus of the vertebral body, resulting in nerve cord prolapse or squeezing resulting in pain and paralysis and so on.

If there are more interesting popular science articles like this, we will probably be more interested in the mysteries of the human body, so that we will be more willing to understand and pay attention to them, right?

Well, I'm not here to tell a story. I'm going to come and train people. I wanted to lecture him so much that I didn't want to talk to a real person, so I woke up at half past six and couldn't wait to turn over and think about the bed, and after washing, I sat in my daughter's room and turned on the computer to prepare for the thoughts.

I want to train Mufumiko.

Mubunko. Come.

Do you know what you did yesterday that made you sad yesterday?

One. As a junior, you don't respect the elderly.

That's my mom, your mother-in-law. She was born in 51 years and is in her seventies. What was your attitude like yesterday? What is your tone of voice when you rebuke and rebuke on the balcony? She's your elder, do you have a little respect? Who do you think you are? Who are you talking about? The elderly man in his seventies has such a healthy body, is sane and moves quickly, and I think I am especially grateful to God for protecting us. Who are you to rebuke? You're not afraid of thunder?

Did you know there's a word called cynicism?

This word is used for enemies and enemies! It's not for your family! When used on the family, it will only make people feel cold.

Second, as a man, you are not considerate of your wife and daughter.

I worked so hard yesterday that my feet were numb from being tired, not only did I not get the slightest greeting from you, but I turned a blind eye to everything, and everything was taken for granted.

(Wash your hands and make soup for someone who takes everything for granted and should naturally be ungrateful?) Well, I know. Dream on. Of course, I won't say that. I write here, silently buried in my heart. Luckily, I'm not a good eater. Light tea and light rice, simple clothes and vegetarian food, can keep warm without hunger, I feel that it is a gift from God and my happiness. This is also a profound concept that I have gained from studying traditional culture and classics. If you don't want to, you're at peace. This desire refers to not only the five colors, the five tones, the five flavors, but also the seven emotions and six desires. At my current age, I have passed the age of boiling blood, and I am no longer full of longing for love in the world. Because you have experienced it, you can calm down and look at yourself and others. can clearly see their goals, can knock some unrealistic infatuations down to the sky, and turn to face life calmly and calmly. If you are lucky with an accident, you will feel surprised and grateful. When I see injustice, I will feel sad and silently cheer for the person concerned. Life is never smooth, we face ruggedness, although we walk tearfully, staggering, but as long as we do not fall, even if we crawl forward, as long as we are still working towards the goal, then we are not a failure. We will finally be able to finish this uneven road. Even if you don't enter the world you want in the end, you can still live up to everyone who works hard. ）

If you don't have compassion for me, it's fine. Without this compassion and pity, I am also very calm. I have always known that it is better to rely on my relatives and friends than on the sky. reminds me of Zheng Banqiao's limerick poem to his son: sweat yourself, eat your own food, do your own things, rely on heaven and earth and rely on your ancestors, you are not a hero. Is this really written by Jung Seop (xie)?

Suddenly I wanted to laugh. This is the story I read from a book "Story Club" when I was a child, these words are very rhyming, my mother read it and agreed very much, told me this story, and read it to me emphatically, I have always remembered, and I have begun to understand since I was a child, this is the right attitude towards life. See, how important it is to have a timely education. It planted a bud in my heart, took root and grew firmly in my heart.

But you don't have compassion for your daughter. She has been under a lot of pressure to study lately, which has caused her to have a bad stomach, and when she came back last week, I came back this week, and I asked her to carry a big bag of medicine to school. Don't you see?

Do you think that's enough? Her problem was solved? Can you sit on a recliner at home and watch videos, rest, and sleep?

When the bus arrives at school, the child in the car says, "Oh, I really don't want to go to school."

We all heard it. I silently put it in my heart. Do you have any ideas?

You must not have it. Otherwise, I wouldn't have started to accept your objections and sneers as usual when I talked about renting. said that I was not self-sufficient, and said that the school was more than ten minutes away from the nearest community. We got to work early and couldn't catch the bus at all. You just go for it.

I am certainly aware of these difficulties. I say it in the hope that someone can talk to. It can be faced and solved together.

But in addition to mocking with contemptuous expressions, like watching a play, you say that I will never live.

What else can you do?

I wish there was someone who could stand on the same front and in the trench as me, even if it was just calm and considerate, it would be very hard.

Forget it, forget it. I don't have extravagant expectations. You can't have achieved anything great. Your academic background and knowledge determine the height of your life, the angle from which you look at problems, and the way and ability to solve problems.

Speaking of which, I want to say, girls, boys, a person's academic qualifications are very important. Really, behind it, it is not only whether the person is educated or not, but also whether the person has worked hard or not. If he didn't work hard in his youth, unless he could wake up in middle age, this person would probably be inactive. Of course, we don't say about those who are unable to complete their studies due to family circumstances or other reasons. This is really a very benchmark standard for judging a person. It is no wonder that all company recruiters always have at least one academic degree to be a stepping stone. Because this academic degree can at least prove that you are not a person who is willing to work hard and can achieve certain results.

If you lie down completely, there is no problem. It's good for the children to solve their own affairs. But I don't think so. If we don't have the ability to help her, we can only let her work helplessly on her own, then that's it. But there is something we can do.

(Why did I think of myself?) I know that I have to work on my own, but I still quietly hope that someone will help me. I'm tired and magically longing for a miracle to happen. No matter what, I'm going to have that hope. It's just that I know that such a hope is very slim, so I silently work my own, like a cow pulling a cart, bowing its head and silently pulling the cart in the muddy water. But this hope for external assistance has always been a small sprout hidden deep in the heart, like a grass that has just sprouted in spring, and has never died. Never. Whenever. And, sometimes, it does happen, it happens. The moment I was helped, I think I could describe it this way: it was the spiky buds that grew into a huge lawn, green and green, very pleasing to the eyes, and there were many small red flowers blooming in the green, swaying gently in the breeze. It's beautiful. There have been many times in my life when I walked into such a large lawn. So, why isn't there this hope? ）

Everyone, in fact, needs the help of others. They are all in their hearts longing for help. The difference is only in what can be obtained and what cannot be obtained.

I can feel that the child's current learning state is so bad. My high school was a mess back then. I also live on campus, and then I was laughed at by my classmates because there was always a bad smell of sweat on my body. Although I am very calm now, I was very embarrassed and ashamed at that time. So I was very unhappy in high school. Very lonely. And with a deep sense of inferiority from rural children.

Of course, when I grew up and gradually regained my self-confidence, after having a child, I said to my child: This thing can actually be accepted calmly. Because you have no choice, it is brought by God. It's like some people may have a little bit of a disability, but it's not their fault. It is shameful to ridicule a disabled person. These problems are not our fault or our cause, we try to avoid inconvenience to others, we can't talk about it, we never argue, but we definitely don't have to feel inferior or burdened by it. It's not for us to decide. I'm really at ease.

At that time, I lived on campus and had neither a computer nor a TV. Life is incomparably closed. I remember that Zhang Xinzhe's songs were so popular. The classmates who live in Miluo City will bring a tape recorder to play songs, and I said, "Who is this female singer, she sings so beautifully."

Then the classmates in the city looked at me in amazement and said, Zhang Xinzhe is a man. Then she said very strangely to other classmates, she said that Zhang Xinzhe is a woman!

They can't understand that such a well-known singer is that I can't even tell whether he is a man or a woman.

There are still a lot of unhappy pasts. When I was even in high school, I was framed by a girl named Chen Yan in my dorm room, saying that I had stolen 200 yuan from her. Then, she scolded in the dormitory every night, scolding the people who stole her money for not dying well. There will be no good reward, and there will be no peace in the heart.

I didn't steal other people's money, and of course I didn't feel guilty in my heart, but she suspected me by name, shook her face, and provoked all the girls in the dormitory to look at me with strange eyes, as if I was really the thief, and everyone could make money. A person can drown a person with a mouthful of spittle. I was tortured so hard that I couldn't sleep at night, but I didn't know how to fight back, so I washed my face with tears, and on the weekend my aunt from Miluo came back and told me to go to dinner, and when she saw that I looked haggard, she asked me what was wrong. I couldn't hold back anymore, crying aggrieved at the dinner table, and telling my aunt about it.

My aunt was furious, and then taught me: You didn't steal her money, what are you afraid of? The next time she scolds out, you can scold it back. If she scolds badly, you will scold worse than her. You say, yes, whoever steals your money will really die a good death, you can't go out and be hit by a car immediately, go downstairs and fall to death, walk a night walk and be strangled to death, and that's not all, your parents at home will not die well, you will be beaten to death when you go out, you will immediately get sick and die immediately, no one even prepares the coffin board, no one even collects the corpse, and the wilderness is gnawed by wild dogs with only bones.

I'm still happy when I write like this. After so many years, that Chen Yan, she still owes me such a grievance. I can't remember the names of any of my high school classmates, except for the boys and girls I once secretly loved, only her name is her name, but I still remember it firmly. In my heart, I hope that she will suffer the same sin as I do.

So, I went back to the dormitory that night, and after the lights went out, Chen Yan really started to abuse in bed as usual, and I started scolding back as my aunt taught. She was stunned for a moment, and probably didn't expect me to talk back, so she said, if you didn't steal it, what would you say back? I said hatefully, it is precisely because I didn't steal it that I can scold so unscrupulously, scolding the person who steals the money will not die well, but will kill the whole family.

I scolded very hard, and finally let out the grievances in my heart. Since then, she has never abused in bed at night like a shrew scolding the street.

I actually regret it, I should have scolded at the time, such a casual wronged person who suspects others, just like the person who steals money, will not die well, will not be rewarded, and will not have a good death!

I'm scolding now, is it too late?

When I wrote this, I still felt uncomfortable in my heart, so many years have passed. You can see how much this incident has hurt me. In fact, the thief at that time not only stole money, but also stole many blankets, beautiful pillows, light quilt covers and sheets used by students in the dormitory. How can someone who can do this be a student? So at that time, Chen Yan sued the teacher, and the teacher called all the girls out to line up, and opened their pockets in the corridor one by one to show the teacher, especially when it came to me, Chen Yan stood next to me, and the gaze was almost murderous, no matter how dull I was, I could feel that she was suspicious of me. I flipped my pocket over and showed it to the teacher. The teacher asked, do you have 200 yuan?

I said yes.

Chen Yan's eyes lit up immediately, and the teacher's eyes lit up immediately.

The teacher asked, where is the money, and I said, in the Postal Savings Bank.

There is the Postal Savings Bank on the right side of the school gate, which specializes in saving and withdrawing money for students. I have hundreds on my folds. I was very frugal in school.

The teacher shook his hand and waved me into the classroom. I saw Chen Yan's unconvinced look, and I probably wanted to check my bank passbook. I really hope the teacher will check it out. Because the passbook has a date. I didn't steal other people's money, of course I hope the teacher will check and return my innocence.

It's a pity that the teacher didn't. That's what led to the filth in the dorm room behind.

Come to think of it, I may have been lucky back then, so I was so inexplicably wronged. Live these embarrassing days.

So, my high school life was gray.

Because I have experienced it, I want my children to have a healthy high school career. There is a relatively brisk learning environment, and you can study hard, spend three years of cold window, and be admitted to an ideal university.

So, I will definitely help her in any way I can.

I often thought later that my grades from elementary school to junior high school had always been very good, and I had always been at the top. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been admitted to Miluo No. 2 Middle School with one of the only two places in our town. Originally, the score was enough for the first high school, but we were not included in the enrollment range. I remember that when I filled in the volunteers, I filled in all the first middle school, and then the homeroom teacher of the junior high school helped me change all of them to the second middle school one by one.

He told his parents helplessly, and fortunately said that fortunately, the first middle school was changed to the second middle school only to add a horizontal, and the recruitment volunteer could not be changed at will, if it was not so easy to change, he said to my mother, this child is so selfish, and there will be no books to read when the volunteer is not right.

So you can imagine how arrogant I was when I was in junior high school.

This is the arrogance of good grades.

But when I went to high school, I suddenly left home and lived in a small dark dormitory. In the face of the glamorous, beautiful, rich and wealthy classmates in the city, they will compare whose watches are better and whose clothes are famous brands. And I, when I went home on May Day, I had to go down to the ground to insert myself, and when I caught the minibus into the city at the last minute, my trouser legs had not been lowered, and my rolled up trouser legs were full of mud. Back at school, the classroom was bustling, they were listening to the most popular songs, discussing where to go for barbecue, I sat back in silence, no one knew, the trouser leg I had put down, the tube towards the skin, was full of mud, and it hadn't even dried yet.

I didn't adapt to such a sudden shift. There was no TV to watch and no one to communicate with. I don't know if I should listen to the radio or if there are any elders who can write a letter to talk about. So I was as confused as I was walking in the night. I couldn't see the road clearly, and I couldn't avoid the stones, so I was completely ignorant. Don't say anything about the goal at all. Stumbling like this, the high school coursework was also difficult, not to mention encountering a lot of additional situations.

If I had my family by my side at the time, I might have been a little better. Even if it's a little bit better, I think it will be different.

Just like when I was at a loss in the face of such slander, my aunt was like a legendary god, becoming my savior, giving me guidance, teaching me the means and methods of fighting back, and saving me from the quagmire.

Only, there is no if.

There are no ifs.

So, I now hope that as long as I can, I must create better conditions for my child and give her more ifs.

I've written so much and pulled a long way. As a result, this early morning suddenly became a little heavy.

Because of my past experience, I hope to give my child more support and help during the heavy high school stage, so as to add a little more fuel to her to realize her life dream, and prevent her from experiencing the confusion I once experienced.

If it were a boy, I might not be so concerned, but girls, in fact, in the face of such a realistic involution and cruel competition society, they need to work hard, be independent and self-reliant, and live a better life.

I want to do what I can.

I hope she works hard as always.