Chapter 095 The Origin of the Three Generations Mentions Old Things Mid-Autumn Day and Night Give New Words
"You said it earlier." As soon as Uncle Zhang's words were finished, An Ji's grandfather He Zhenhua clapped his hands violently and opened his mouth with a little arrogance, "If you had said it earlier, I would have known where to buy it." ”
"yes, that's good!" The daughter and son-in-law are both abroad, and they can't be filial piety by their side, but they don't send less money to Uncle Zhang, plus the latter's pension, the family is much richer than He Zhenhua's family, "My girl doesn't like it, I can always buy a few meters to make a dress from the tailor." ”
"I can't help it, I couldn't find a place to buy it at that time, those time-honored brands were sold very old-fashioned, where is it suitable for girls who want to get married......"
Speaking of this, Uncle Zhang's sigh in his heart was not only that he failed to buy a piece of cloth for his daughter as a dowry according to custom, but also because his daughter was married to a wife and was thousands of miles away from him.
If you study it more carefully, you may not be able to compare your aging with the decline of Hangluo, so that in the end, you are only left with sorrow and helplessness for yourself and these old things that have been left behind by the times.
"Well, you and I are asking the right person!" He Zhenhua looked at his granddaughter with a smile on his face, "Isn't my granddaughter a doctor?" Before designing clothing, I found a factory in Hangluo, and I went to learn weaving. ”
Uncle Zhang responded when he heard this: "That's really good." ”
"There aren't many kids who like these old things now, and you're such a granddaughter." The elders chatted, and most of the time they had to praise the children of others, "It's not like the girl in my family, hey...... I think it's an international brand, and I sent it home before the so-called big-brand luxury goods. ”
"When I looked at the clothes, they were made of chemical fiber, and they were uncomfortable to wear, and it was inconvenient to move, not to mention, it was hot, and it was sweating!"
"Let's talk about the so-called brand-name bags and watches, which are not even skins, what are they...... Imitation leather! ”
The older generation of people still can't accept the so-called international luxury goods - in addition to the brand and some designs that do not meet the aesthetics of the Chinese people, the material is not the material, and it is not as good as the plastic bag in the supermarket!
Therefore, even if the conditions at home are much stronger than He Zhenhua's family, there is no shortage of money to buy things, and the so-called cost performance can not be considered, Uncle Zhang still doesn't look down on the things that his daughter sent back from abroad.
"If you want me to say, you still know how to educate your children, so that your family Yan Qing can teach such a good girl!" He Yanqing didn't expect that there had not been too many intersections for many years, at most it was to meet and say hello, and Uncle Zhang still remembered his name.
"What's this, now the children have different ideas, in addition to thinking about it, we have to move forward on our own. Go in front of everyone's eyes. ”
"Besides, maybe it's a family inheritance." He Zhenhua knew that he was modest at this time, when he boasted about his granddaughter just now, he didn't restrain himself for half a point, and when others praised him, he had to lead the topic elsewhere.
"I am also an old employee who retired from the textile factory, and I was still on the job when Hangluo earned foreign exchange abroad."
When He Zhenhua said this, An Ji's eyes moved away from his mobile phone and went straight to his grandfather. It's a pity that the rest of the people are still full of envy except for Uncle Zhang, and they are only speechless.
He Yanqing knew that if he continued to talk about it, he would definitely have to say something that shouldn't be said, and his daughter might not know how to react when the time came.
Although it is not appropriate to interject as a junior, in order to avoid things from going off the track, He Yanqing still took the teapot on the side to the two old men, and then spoke: "It's all in the past, finally this Mid-Autumn Festival, let's talk about something else." ”
'Hey, it's okay, how much our generation has gone, it's hard to meet, and let's talk about the past. When my grandfather didn't know that He Yanqing was hiding some things from his granddaughter for the sake of the elders', he naturally remembered what to say.
"It's just right for An Ji to listen to it, listen to the stories back then, maybe it will be her idea to do the design at that time."
has said this, He Yanqing also knows that if he stops it again today, he may not know what his father will think. After a moment of silence, He Yanqing chose to go with the flow.
If the father himself is willing to speak, he does not need to consider the privacy and face of the elders. Recalling the conversation with Mr. Wang that day, He Yanqing knew that the matter had come to this point: how An Ji would make a decision at that time, and whether his grandfather would stop him, might be the best choice and arrangement.
"Good workers, the cornerstone of the country!" Uncle Zhang is regarded as an intellectuals of the older generation, and he said in a crepe, "Rejuvenating the country with science and technology, strengthening the country with culture and education, and the workers and peasants are the ones who can truly solve the country's worries......"
"Hahaha, it's not about it, it's just making a living." Hearing this, He Zhenhua smiled heartily, "It's also helpless to say that, back then, our factories became more and more quantitative than quality." ”
"Our people's homes are all kept with those good quality old things, which are not of high quality and low price, of course, they will be eliminated by the times."
"In the end, we people will be laid off and have no jobs." Now when it comes to the helplessness and suffering of the year, He Zhenhua just smiled, "It's good now, the country's economic development has not forgotten our people, the treatment is getting better and better year by year, and the policy is getting better and better." ”
Uncle Zhang nodded and said: "Those of us who retire are also raising our salaries every year, and my girls are always afraid that I will not spend enough money to give me back from abroad, so I will tell her that my pension is enough now!" ”
Seeing his mother's cautiousness, and listening to these old things told by his grandfather, An Ji suddenly understood his mother He Yanqing's resistance to Hang Luo - if his grandfather chose to learn other skills back then, whether it was a pension or the conditions of his mother's family when he was a child, it would be better.
As many people say now, what you lacked when you were a child can't be made up for in your lifetime. My mother lived in poverty when she was a child, so even now, she always puts reality in front of her, and doesn't want anyone in her family to encounter everything she did when she was a child.
At that time, He Yanqing was still young, so of course he put the source of everything on Hangluo. naively thought that without Hangluo, my father might have to do other jobs, and my mother wouldn't need to sleep all night to support the family......
An Ji completely understood why her mother wanted to hide it at this moment, and she also completely understood the sadness and helplessness behind her mother's repeated obstructions.
It's just that the times are changing, the times are creating heroes, and China in the new era is no longer the time when food and clothing for hundreds of millions of people are a problem. In the current era, the needs of the people are changing, and the value of Hangluo is no longer a simple matter of livelihood and fashion.
In front of outsiders, An Ji knew that now was the time when he could not speak anything, but when the stars and moon were blocked by the curtains and the lights in the house should be rested, Uncle Zhang finally resigned from everyone's retention and returned to his house with more fruits than when he came.
sent people to the door, He Yanqing wanted to send them again, but was stopped by Uncle Zhang, and in desperation, the former did not lack words.
"Uncle will come to visit often in the future, I usually don't have much time to accompany my parents, you are of the same age, you can talk a lot, you also have a companion for each other, and it is good to go out and walk together."
"Okay, good, it's rare to have a good conversation, as long as Zhenhua doesn't dislike it, I will definitely come to bother me often."
Uncle Zhang's daughter is abroad, his wife has long since passed away, and now he lives alone, and he is also in this land where he has lived for decades, otherwise he doesn't know what his daily life will become.
Although they are old neighbors, in fact, Uncle Zhang and the He family do not know each other deeply, and the working conditions and living conditions are not the same.
"I'm alone at home, and if I say something unpleasant, if I die one day, no one knows...... When my daughter called, I was afraid that it would be rotten and smelly! ”
Although Uncle Zhang's family has lived far better than He Zhenhua's family from beginning to end, neither the companionship of the family nor the care for the elderly are far inferior to the latter...... In many cases, money is not everything, and the weight of the economy is difficult to bear the weight of thought.
Seeing off Uncle Zhang, He Yanqing was also touched in his heart. Money and achievements are very realistic, but it seems that they are never realistic. Just like many families, when they are poor, their brothers and sisters are close to each other, and when they get rich, they will make trouble until the old people die.
However, even if you don't have money and achievements, you have to be stable...... I can't even wonder if I'm going to sleep on the street wrapped in a quilt the next moment, as I did when I was young.
"Dad, we ...... too" He Yanqing became more and more conflicted in his heart, is it right or wrong that he doesn't support his daughter's dream? How much can I replicate my own experience with the times and presents I have experienced?
So He Yanqing wanted to escape, just like facing the problem with An Ji, the former's experience in his heart was that 'time will solve everything'.
But will time really solve everything? No. Otherwise, there will be no regrets for life, let alone the so-called uneasy, there will be no people who can't be forgotten for a lifetime, and there will be no things that you regret for a lifetime......
While speaking, He Yanqing had already greeted his mother with his eyes, who knew his daughter's character very well. is resolute on weekdays, the pillars of the family, and in the end, they are also people who can cry and laugh, so they will naturally be confused and helpless.
An Jianing naturally received the signal, but as a supporter of his daughter, An Jianing also wanted to try whether this coincidence started by outsiders would be an opportunity for his wife and daughter to think deeply, and whether it would be an opportunity for his dream to continue to move forward.
"Don't be in a hurry to go, sit, you all sit, I have something to say to you." He Zhenhua had a frustrated past, but now that his daughter has shown it so obviously, even if He Zhenhua intends to pretend to be stupid, he will not understand the reason.
When the family of three sat back on the sofa, when the grandmother sighed, there was no meaning to stop her: the daughter is obsessed with the past and there is nothing wrong with pursuing stability, but it is naturally not advisable to waste food because of choking.
"Yan Qing, do you think I was embarrassed to be laid off back then?" Since Uncle Zhang left, the house has not been as lively as it was just now, and at this time, He Zhenhua's words have pulled the surrounding atmosphere into a silent night.
"Naturally, I don't, Dad, why do you think that?"
Of course not, He Yanqing has never blamed his father for being laid off and having no job and a poor family. It is also because of the harmony of the family that many students envy.
Although it is indispensable to be looked down upon and ridiculed. But at that time, He Yanqing only felt that he was happy, and his mother would save a month's money to buy herself a piece of candy and an ice cream......
He Zhenhua did not respond to He Yanqing's words, and instead continued to ask the next question: "If you were asked to go back to the time when you supported Xiao An, would you still make the same choice?" ”
An Ji was stunned for a moment when she listened to her grandfather's words, and then she realized that Xiao An in her grandfather's mouth was her father. It was He Yanqing, who looked at his father with a pair of eyes, and had already handed the latter an affirmative answer.
Yes!
He Yanqing knows that even if he returns to the past with his memories now, he will still support his husband to pursue his dreams.
When he was a child, He Yanqing also had a dream of being a writer, but when he grew up, the reality was in front of him, and a stable life was He Yanqing's only dream.
At this time, there is a person standing in front of you, and the confidence in his eyes seems to tell you that even if you break your head, you will not collapse, even if you step into the coffin one day, you will have no regrets in this life......
Even a fallen star is more precious than an inconspicuous stone on the land. Even if it was short-lived, the former was with light and heat, while the latter was ...... It's just that after being squeezed and squeezed, they are forced to wrap tightly together.
"I don't know what you and An Ji are hiding from me, and what are you hiding from her, Dad hopes that the question Dad just asked you can give you the answer."
"Okay, let An Ji stay with me tonight, her grandmother and I haven't seen her for a long time, and I think about it very much." He Zhenhua left enough time for his daughter to think. "You go and do your work first, there can't be no one at home, and you will come to pick her up tomorrow."
He Yanqing understood his father's good intentions in saying this, and he no longer competed. Yes, since he won't complain about his father's frustration and helplessness, An Ji has the support of her boyfriend, and Xiao Ning's child can be trusted, so why worry about their future?
"Yan Qing, I hope you can think clearly when the time comes, you don't have to give me this answer, give it to An Ji, and give it to yourself."
He Zhenhua knew that it was impossible for his daughter to figure out what had been entangled for most of her life in just a few minutes, so she simply bombarded people home, so that the latter could calm down and think alone, and listen to An Jianing's persuasion.
He Yanqing didn't respond, but just turned his head and told An Ji not to make trouble at his grandfather and grandmother's house, and that he would come to pick up the latter early tomorrow morning, and then he only had to ask his husband to pack up his things and say goodbye to his parents and go back to his house with him.
The stars and moon outside the window do not want to accompany them, and the people who come and go have their own clear places and fronts. He Yanqing's thoughts are shuttling through the bits and pieces of the past few decades, delusionally wanting to find a way back.
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