Chapter 50: Far Away is Resentful

"Value, value, value! Professor Nie, you just go to class well, why are you so excited? Nie Guangyi put down the coffee in his hand, just in time to cool down, and drank the last sip.

"Big head, Dad is not excited, it's been so many years, if this is a meaningless thing, then Dad's regret will only increase day by day, you know, Dad......" Nie Tianqin couldn't say any more.

"It's all gone......"

"Big head, Dad still owes you a word of sorry in person."

"Again! Is that how you want to come to Italy? Although Nie Guangyi was asking rhetorically, his tone was a little compromised, and he asked out loud: "Have you finished your classes this semester?" ”

"It's still summer vacation, big head!"

"Alright then, you can come if you want. You see when you can buy tickets. Nie Guangyi paused: "It's best to wait for two days, I'm going to entertain a friend in the next two days." ”

"What friend? Male or female? ”

"Female."

"Woman? Good girl! Nie Tianqin was very happy.

He is not a doctoral supervisor or a professor at this time, just an old father with a bit of gossip.

"What's wrong with a woman? Don't you know that only women and villains are difficult to raise? If it is near, it is not inferior, and if it is far away, it is resentful! "Nie Guangyi should not have anything to do with women.

"It's Dad who didn't set a good example." Nie Tianqin was a little speechless and stopped.

This topic cannot be explored in depth.

Once you get deeper, there will be some problems that you can't get over.

Nie Guangyi didn't know what to say.

If his mother was still alive, he would definitely complain with Professor Nie now.

From the fear of being dominated by tiger mothers when I was a child, to growing up slowly......

Mom didn't see him as an adult......

Professor Nie actually didn't have a ......

Family affection is often the most difficult emotion to describe in words.

Distance will make most love thin, but it can deepen the understanding of family affection to a certain extent.

Nie Guangyi thought that after fourteen years of emotional disconnection, if he was in China at this time, there might be a lot of hesitation.

There is a lot to say that cannot be spoken.

After being so far away, I feel that it is normal to say anything.

Nie Tianqin said he didn't set a good example.

There is no doubt about it.

Nie's father and Nie's mother's marriage was originally a mistake.

Nie's father is actually similar to him now, a celibate.

The label of "Ominous Person" is the most fundamental reason for Nie Tianqin's idea.

Nie Tianqin was only three years old when he was sent away.

When Grandpa Qiu and Grandma Qiu gave him away, they said that such a young child still doesn't remember, and when he grows up, he will only adopt his father and mother.

But Nie Tianqin actually has perception and memory.

And, he always knew he was adopted.

Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie didn't deliberately say it, nor did they deliberately hide it.

Nie Tianqin's heart is very insecure.

He would always wake up in his sleep.

He craves recognition and is afraid of making mistakes.

Even if he went all the way, from a doctor to a doctorate, from a doctor to a doctoral supervisor.

There is still a piece of missing in his heart.

In that era when everyone got married very early, Nie Tianqin waited until he was thirty-eight years old to get married.

What made him willing to enter the marriage hall was not love, but Grandpa Nie Grandma Nie gave a death order, hoping to hold a grandson in his lifetime.

Nie Tianqin is filial.

His resistance to marriage is that he feels that there is something wrong with him.

In addition to not wanting to get married, he is almost obedient to Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie.

With the passage of time, Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie were terminally ill one after another.

Nie Tianqin's scales also shifted.

Nie's mother, just at this time, walked into his life.

Mother Nie is not a heinous person, Tiger Mother is everywhere, and there are not many of her.

The problem is that her expectations for Nie Tianqin exceed what Nie Tianqin can give.

Within two months of getting married, she became pregnant.

Grandpa Nie and Grandma Nie were still alive at the time.

Although they were not Nie Tianqin's biological parents, they gave him the best training and left all their property to him.

When he was dying, the second elder also asked Nie Tianqin to go back to Changqiao Village to have a look.

At that time, Nie's mother was still a very gentle and well-informed person.

She held her pregnant belly and went back to Changqiao Village with Nie Tianqin.

Brought a lot of stuff.

The disagreement between the couple began when Nie Tianqin decided to unconditionally support all the grandchildren of the Qiu family, all the way to college graduation (as long as they can be admitted).

Nie Tianqin's decision made Nie's mother feel that he didn't put his heart on his home at all.

And that's how it goes.

Nie's mother also suffered from postpartum depression because of this.

But at that time, there weren't that much to say about depression of all kinds.

In short, Nie's mother has changed her temperament and hysteria since she was confined.

She later pinned almost all her hopes on Nie Guangyi.

Such mothers are usually difficult to come out of depression.

Nie's mother was lucky, because she gave birth to a genius and came out.

Since childhood, he has been extremely good in many aspects.

No matter what kind of expectations she has, Nie Guangyi can always exceed her expectations.

Gradually, Nie's mother also has her own hobby - making money.

Nie's mother is a whole round younger than Nie's father.

When she got married at that time, many people thought that she was aiming for the Nie family's money and house.

Nie's mother proved herself with practical actions.

Her clothing fabric business is quite successful.

At that time, there were not so many luxury brands of menswear entering China.

From the beginning of the domestic suits and fabrics, they were a little backward.

Many of the fabrics introduced by Nie's mother have never entered the domestic suit market.

Many big brands in domestic suits also began to rise from that time.

The quality and version are passable, and the price is not cheap at all.

Nie Guangyi's meticulous dressing, to a certain extent, also stems from Nie's mother's "demands" since she was a child.

Looking back, he was also greatly influenced by his mother.

Whether it is the attention to dress or the cleanliness in life, I have to say that it comes from the true biography of Nie's mother.

It's super stressful to live under a mother who has a habit of cleanliness, a habit of storage, and treats her son's grades as if she were showing off her capital.

Fortunately, he also has a father who has discussed everything with him since he was a child.

Counting up, Nie Guangyi used his IQ far beyond his peers to win a relatively less depressing childhood for himself.

He is already the first in the whole grade, and all kinds of hobbies, from calligraphy and Go, to piano marimba, are all "open hanging" where he goes.

Mother Nie really doesn't have anything to pick bones in the egg.

You can't use the reason that it will take up your study time and don't let him go out to play during the winter and summer vacations.

Thinking of his mother, Nie Guangyi doesn't have many good memories.

It is precisely because I don't have it that I feel guilty after my mother dies.

If he listened to his mother for everything, if he didn't make a model of those wooden arch bridges.

He may have gone to Tsinghua University, and his mother may still be proud of him.

The state is not good, first half a chapter, the plot later, let me think about it first.

(End of chapter)