Chapter 380 customs, you can't marry one in the same year
"What's wrong with my son? What's the matter? ”
Cheng Fang received a call from Chengxin, which was a little strange.
This kid only left in the morning, why did he call after noon?
"Hehe, Mom, it's a good thing, Su Xue and I are going to get married, let you show me that this year's National Day is a good day."
"Ah, uh, oops, this, this, this."
Cheng's mother suddenly heard that her son was about to get married, and she didn't know what to say for a while.
Hehe, this is to hear that my son in his early thirties is finally getting married, and I am so happy that I can't speak? Cheng Xin thought to himself.
However, he didn't be happy for long, and when he came back to Cheng Fang, he couldn't make Chengxin happy with one sentence.
"Son, didn't you say that Su Xue's brother got married during the May Day period? Are you planning to get married this year? ”
"Well, the National Day holiday is long, and everyone is free."
Chengxin didn't think much of replying.
If you get married, you must be lively, either during the May Day period or during the Eleventh Day.
These two long holidays, whether they are for school or work, will be closed.
"Son, that's not going to work."
Cheng Fang continued.
"No way?"
Chengxin felt that he had heard it wrong.
This urged her mother to hurry up and find a girlfriend to marry, but she actually said no?
"Son, listen to me."
Cheng Fang said again.
"Well, you say."
Cheng Xin replied, motioning to Cheng Fang and saying that he had to listen to what was going on.
"Son, the tradition of our country, don't take a second daughter-in-law in the same year, don't marry a second daughter in the same year, and don't marry a second daughter in the same year, do you know?"
"Ah~, there is still this custom?"
Chengxin was stunned.
"Yes, you can search the Internet yourself, there should be something on the Internet."
Cheng Fang was afraid that he wouldn't believe it, so he asked him to search for it on his mobile phone.
"Well, Mom, then I'll take a look, I'll call you when it comes."
After speaking, Chengxin immediately hung up the phone.
"What's wrong?"
Su Xue's voice was a little wrong.
Chengxin didn't turn on the speakerphone just now, and he didn't hear what Chengxin and his wife said, but he only heard what Chengxin said.
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"My mother said that your brother will get married this year, so we can't get married this year."
"If you don't believe me, I'll search the Internet myself, so I hung up the phone and prepared to search."
"Ah, that's it, I thought ~."
Su Xue wanted to speak and stopped.
"What do you think? My mom doesn't agree? You're thinking too much. ”
"You just need to know that you are now his own daughter, and I picked it up on the side of the road."
"Hee-hee, talk nonsense, Auntie can't tear your mouth when she hears it."
Cheng Xin's words made Su Xue laugh, and immediately forgot about the nonsense just now.
Chengxin didn't reply, took his mobile phone, and searched for a family that can't be taken and married?
When the results came out, he immediately entered one of them at six o'clock.
Marriage is a major event in life, and there are many kinds of exquisiteness.
If you don't follow these rules, you are likely to commit taboos, and your elders will be more mindful.
Is there a saying about marrying and marrying in that year? How long does it take to get married?
First, he did not marry his second daughter-in-law in the same year
There is such a custom among the people, that is, not to marry a second wife in the same year.
If there are two sons in the family, it is not suitable to have a wedding in the same year.
If two brothers marry a daughter-in-law in the same year, it means a second marriage, which is very unlucky.
2. In the same year, he did not marry his second daughter
In addition to the saying that you don't marry your second daughter-in-law in the same year, there is also a saying that you don't marry your second daughter in the same year.
It means that there are two daughters in the family, and it is not suitable to marry in the same year.
If the two daughters marry in the same year, it means remarrying, which is a bad meaning.
Three, in the same year, one marriage and one marriage
If there is a son and a daughter in the family, it is also okay to get married in the same year.
The premise is to marry a daughter first, and then a daughter-in-law.
Then there is no specific requirement for the time interval, which can be arranged according to the actual situation.
But in order to avoid a crime, it is better to wait a few months before marrying a daughter-in-law.
If the family marries a daughter-in-law first and then a daughter, it is best not to hold a wedding in the same year, which means that it is unlucky to reduce the number of dings.
If you want the marriage date of the two to be close, you can choose to marry a daughter-in-law at the end of the first year and a daughter at the beginning of the second year.
And now when they get married, both men and women have to hold a banquet, twice a year, which is not friendly to the guests.
It is equivalent to having to pay twice a year, and maybe relatives and friends will have ideas, which is not conducive to the relationship between neighbors and villagers.
Yes, after reading this long list of texts, Chengxin also knew that the idea of wanting to get married this year was in vain.
"Baby, what to do? Next year? ”
There was no way, Chengxin had no choice but to ask Su Xue.
In fact, Chengxin doesn't have to care about them, the main thing is to look at Su Xue and them.
That's the way it is, only next year.
If you're not particular, you'll be fine this year.
However, in a family like theirs, the elders should pay attention to these customs.
"That, that, then I'll call and ask."
After speaking, Su Xue got up and entered the house.
Women, still a little shy.
So Su Xue hid in the house and called Li Xueqing.
After waiting for a while, Su Xue came out after making a call
"Done? What did your mom say? ”
As soon as Su Xue came out, Chengxin immediately asked how it was to get married.
"Well, my mom said you'll have to wait until you come over this year."
"Hey, okay, just wait."
Although he knew that this would be the result, when he heard the answer, Chengxin still breathed a sigh of relief.
In the past, it was said that he would get married at the age of 30, but the result should be to cultivate more feelings and change it to 31 years old.
Now thirty-one is almost not successful.
"Then let's change it to New Year's Day?"
Su Xue saw Chengxin sighing a little disappointed, and took the initiative to change the time.
"New Year's Day? This doesn't work? Why don't you change it to next year's May Day period? ”
If you count the new calendar, a year has passed since New Year's Day.
But if it's the lunar calendar, it's not the New Year yet.
Therefore, Chengxin thinks it is better to change the May Day period.
"Well, that's fine."
Su Xue nodded.
"I, I, how do I know, or why don't we go and check to see if there's something wrong with our body?"
Su Xue couldn't care about being shy, she had also thought about these issues.
After speaking, before Su Xue could react, Chengxin got up and hugged him and entered the house.
Three days later, Chengxin followed Su Xue to the city.
I'm not here to do a check-up.
Tomorrow is May Day, when they came over, they gathered with Su Dingguo, and they flew directly to the capital tomorrow.
It wasn't until the 5th that the two returned to the village.
Suning's wedding was not lively.
There is no long list of luxury car transfers.
There aren't many people either.
Just some relatives and some like-minded contract journals.
In total, I didn't sit at ten tables.
There's no way, if you're in the government, you can't do it if you want to.
Of course, some people want to participate, but unfortunately they are not qualified.
Fortunately, when he and Su Xue get married, they don't have to think about this, whatever they do.
Get a few hundred luxury cars, and no one will say anything about one or two hundred tables of banquets.
As long as they can get so many cars and so many people to eat.