"You're twenty-three years old. Started a blind date so early? Chang Lei asked casually. It can be seen that he has not found a good topic either.

"My mom let me go on a blind date. She was a little anxious. Yang Yueyue said truthfully.

Chang Lei nodded and said with deep feelings: "Parents are more anxious about this matter. ”

"Hmm." Yang Yueyue wanted to start a new topic, but she didn't know what to say. Ask him about starting a business, and it will be considered as wanting to inquire about his financial situation. Ask him about his family, would it be a little too private.

I have to say that she didn't know much about this stranger on the other side, and she didn't want to know either.

"You're on a blind date for the first time?" Chang Lei saw Yang Yueyue's rustiness and crampedness.

"It's not. It's the second time. Yang Yueyue didn't hide it.

"That's pretty much the same, just started a blind date, right? Haven't been in a relationship before? He asked, with a sense of certainty in his tone.

Yang Yueyue felt that the situation was completely under Chang Lei's control, so she asked, "What about you?" You should have been on a blind date many times, right? ”

"Nope. I went on a blind date for the first time today. I used to talk about it myself. Now I want to get married. But there is no suitable candidate, and there is no mental strength to experience love, I just want to find a suitable person to marry. After all, I'm old too. Chang Lei said what was in his heart openly.

"Honest enough." Yang Yueyue couldn't think of anything else.

The waiter brought the coffee over, and Chang Lei took it politely. "Thank you."

"You're welcome." The waiter said flatteredly.

"What do you think about getting married?" Chang Lei's style of speaking suddenly changed.

Yang Yueyue instantly felt that she was not on a blind date, but an interview. She frowned slightly, she had to do such an embarrassing quiz question on the big weekend.

"Marriage is two people living together, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, which is a kind of cooperation to help each other, face and serve the difficulties in life together." Yang Yueyue applied Sister Zhao's idea.

Chang Lei nodded, indicating understanding.

"What will you give up for marriage in the future? Are you willing to pay for marriage? If you get married, what are your plans for your marriage? Chang Lei looked at Yang Yueyue, waiting for the answer from above.

Yang Yueyue immediately felt uncomfortable in her heart. Is she on a blind date or an interview? I see my boss at work, and I have to meet someone else's boss on the weekend. Do the bosses talk like this? Bring one character to a variety of roles in life. At first, Yang Yueyue felt that she had met a normal person today. Now it seems that she is overthinking. This Chang Lei is not a normal person.

Yang Yueyue straightened her waist and didn't let herself fall behind in form. Based on the experience of the last blind date, Yang Yueyue decided to be angry on the spot and never keep her anger.

"Why are you asking me these questions? Marriage is also not a one-person thing. Have you asked yourself these questions? What's your answer? Yang Yueyue looked directly into Chang Lei's eyes fearlessly. She could already see the answer in his eyes. Chang Lei just wants to find a housewife who revolves around him.

Chang Lei said bluntly: "I will give up my freedom for marriage and give time and money." I hope that my other half will be a hard-working, kind, knowledgeable, and good wife who teaches her husband and children at home. ”

"So you want your future wife to give up her career and focus on the family. Have you ever wondered why? Why do you ask so much of others? Yang Yueyue asked directly.

Chang Lei said conceitedly: "Because I earn a lot." ”

"Okay. It seems that we are not suitable. Words are not speculative for more than half a sentence. Yang Yueyue said helplessly. This Chang Lei is selfish and conceited. Why should a girl be a full-time nanny at home, there is no treatment and respect. Who can guarantee that the future will be like this? To cling to others is to surrender one's fate to others, humbly kneeling to survive. She didn't want to live a life of looking at other people's faces.

Chang Lei is tired of it, and she can change to a full-time nanny at any time, but she herself doesn't have any choice. Yang Yueyue thought that most people should not choose this way now. It's still convenient to spend your own money, and you can spend it with peace of mind, even if it's a little less.

"I think you're misleading. I mean, men and women have different divisions of labor in marriage. I don't underestimate or ignore women's contributions. Chang Lei explained stiffly.

"Then we are not suitable, I will not give up my career for marriage. I didn't know it well, so I won't say anything politely. I've already paid for my own coffee. Your coffee is at your own expense. Yang Yueyue picked up her bag and stood up to leave.

The psychological shadow left by the last blind date on Yang Yueyue. To each his own, clear and straightforward. She won't take advantage of others, and she won't let others take advantage of her.

Chang Lei also stood up and said without giving up: "You missed a good opportunity." If you regret it, you can always come back to me. ”

Yang Yueyue said disdainfully: "You just missed a good opportunity." But you'll never get a chance. She didn't believe that anyone could stand Chang Lei's arrogance and rudeness. Who will be idle and have nothing to do to make themselves angry.

She left in style without looking back, but fortunately she didn't let herself suffer this time.

Chang Lei looked at Yang Yueyue's back and said helplessly: "The little girl now is getting harder and harder to deceive." ”

The waiter in the coffee shop was shocked when he heard Chang Lei's words. What kind of bastard logic is this.

Originally, the good mood brought by not having to go to work on weekends was consumed by Chang Lei. Yang Yueyue had fun for herself and went shopping. She walked towards the nearby commercial center.

Because of the weekend, the commercial center is very lively, and many parents bring their children to finish. Rare and idle workplace social animals also come to have fun, eat and drink to make themselves happy, and buy something to go back by the way.

She went to the clothing store to see the new clothes, went to the mobile phone store to play with the electronic products she tried out, and went to the souvenir spot to see all kinds of strange little things...... If you see the right one and like it, you will take it in your pocket, and when you are tired of shopping, you will go to the snack bar for a snack.

The sun went down and she went home.

Mom and Dad are cooking and waiting for her to come home for dinner.

Smelling the familiar and attractive fragrance, Yang Yueyue was hungry again. She threw her purchases on the couch and went to eat.

"Dad, Mom, you guys should come over for dinner." Yang Yueyue served three bowls of rice.

Li Li and Yang Tianqing secretly exchanged glances. Through observation, they all felt that Yang Yueyue's blind date should be good. I came back so late and bought so many big bags and small bags, I must have gone out shopping with my blind date. But the two of them are still not sure what the specific situation is.

Li Li asked Yang Tianqing to ask.

Yang Tianqing also made a look at Li Li to ask. The two of them were humble and didn't like to talk, and they were afraid that they would annoy their daughter by asking too many questions.

Li Li couldn't shirk it, so she had to ask: "Yueyue, how about your blind date in the West District today?" Is the other party okay? ”

Yang Yueyue sighed, the joy just now was gone, replaced by a sad face.

Yang Tianqing and Li Li sighed in their hearts, and they knew that this situation was not good at a glance.

"What's wrong? Why are you still sighing? Li Li asked with concern.

"That person is not looking for a daughter-in-law, but for an employee, who wants me to grovel, be a cow and a horse, and work hard. is high-minded, domineering, and acts as if he is the richest man in the world. Yang Yueyue complained to her heart's content.

"Well, that's not going to work." Yang Tianqing said in agreement, with a heavy face.

"Dad, don't worry. I didn't lose this time. I went back on the spot. What upsets me, I upset him. I don't wronged myself to fulfill others. Yang Yueyue proudly showed off. Who are these people? If the relatives don't get along, people can get sick.

Yang Tianqing raised his hands in support. "They don't think you're going to get angry when they say that, and you really don't have to think about their feelings. You just don't marry someone for the rest of your life, and you can't marry this kind of person. "He taught his daughter so well, not to make her angry, nor to let her suffer belittling and personal attacks for no reason.

In the past, they had been teaching Yang Yueyue to be tolerant, and now they should teach Yang Yueyue to fight back bravely.

Yang Yueyue nodded heavily and said sonorously, "Well, I will." "People don't get angry with her, she doesn't get angry with people. If people are angry with her, then don't blame her for being rude.

"It's been a day of running, and you're tired. Let's eat. Don't talk about these worries. Li Li said.

This meal, the whole family ate heavily.

After eating, Yang Yueyue went back to her room to pack up the things she bought today.

Li Li washes dishes in the kitchen.

Yang Tianqing was on the phone on the balcony.

Yang Yueyue heard her father say angrily: "Why do you introduce everyone to Yueyue?" I am your brother, and Yueyue is your niece. If she marries a bad person and lives a miserable life, can you, as an aunt, have a good conscience? ”

She was curious to see what her aunt would say, so she cautiously walked behind the door, opened it, and listened with her ears pricked up. Dad has bad ears and the volume of his phone is turned up very high. Yang Yueyue could hear her aunt's voice: "Brother, you misunderstood me." Chang Lei, this child is young and promising, has an economic foundation, and bought a house and a car at a young age. In the future, if you marry every month, you will live a good life and enjoy blessings. Isn't that bad? That kid is a little flawed, proud and complacent, and speaks straight, but at his age, isn't it normal to be a little arrogant to achieve such an achievement as he is now? Chang Lei told me that he didn't have a very pleasant chat with Yueyue today. But he really didn't mean anything. Yueyue may have misunderstood him. He just didn't want his wife to go out and work hard, it was too hard. This hurts my daughter-in-law a lot. Where to find such a good son-in-law now! ”

Yang Tianqing gasped for breath and asked, "That's what you think?" Do you agree with what that kid did? Are you going to explain it to him again? According to what you say, it's all our fault for Yueyue? Do we still have to be considerate of him and grateful to him? What do you think about day by day? Is our family short of money? How rich is he? How much money do you have? He's the only one in the world, right? ”

Yang Yueyue listened to her father's words and looked at her father with admiration. Dad was just talking about what was in her heart. What does it matter to Chang Lei if he has money again? It's like she's a penny poor. No treachery, no business. Merchants are treacherous and insidious. I don't know if in a few years, he will sweep his daughter-in-law out of the house and leave the house. She worked hard to take care of her family, no one would care, and when the time came, she had no place to cry if she wanted to. At that time, it was difficult for her to think about work. One is that he has been away from society for too long, and the other is that he is also old, and his energy and physical strength are not comparable to those of young people.

There is no shortage of such tragic examples on television and on the news. How could she not learn her lessons. When she watched the news, she never exclaimed or sighed.

"Brother, don't be angry. That was not what I meant. Getting married is a big deal. Choose the right person to live well. If Yueyue finds a boyfriend with a bad family background, wouldn't it be harder to post it upside down every day? You two don't feel at ease. You really have to choose someone with good economic conditions to get married, otherwise you will really suffer. Life is full of places where money is used, and poor couples mourn everything. Besides, people with bad conditions do not necessarily have good character. Even if he has a good character, he wants to be good to Yueyue, but what does he do to be good to Yueyue? Brother, it's not that I hate the poor and love the rich, these are all practical problems. Yueyue is still young, she doesn't know how to think about it, you two have to think about her. My aunt didn't get angry because of Yang Tianqing's bad tone, and persuaded her bitterly.

"I couldn't find the right one. We don't look for it. I raised her. The first condition for me to find a son-in-law is to be good to my daughter, and the second is to be the right person. If it's not good for my daughter, then don't talk about it. That kid is out of play. Yang Tianqing said angrily. The daughter he grew up in the palm of his hand, how could he let her suffer. Fortunately, Yang Yueyue is not a love brain, otherwise he would have to die of distress.

My aunt said helplessly on the other end of the phone: "Brother, you are just too stubborn." ”

"Alright, don't say it. I don't want to quarrel with you either. That's it, hanging. Yang Tianqing hung up the phone as soon as he spoke.

Yang Yueyue closed the door carefully, glad that her parents understood her, supported her, and always stood on her side; I am glad that I was not born in an era when men were inferior to women; I'm glad I wasn't born into a patriarchal family.

Since the distant Paleolithic Age, after the long years of slave society and feudal society, women have been dependent on men to survive, living a life of male superiority and inferiority, and have no say in their own lives. It was not until modern times that the three industrial revolutions brought great changes to human society, changing the relations of production and social structure, and women were able to slowly move towards independence. Such independence is an unavoidable opportunity created by the times. As a woman, Yang Yueyue will not lose herself by falling in love. If love deprives her of the right to be independent, she would rather not have that ethereal love and a marriage that is cocooned and self-bound. She will clasp her hands and will never give her choice to anyone else.

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