They borrowed money, and when it came time to pay it back, there was no news. They asked the girl for money, but they were blocked. This is the case for several people in the group. Only a few people asked a few words about the situation, and the others didn't know if they didn't see it, or if they were looking at the screen like Yang Yueyue.

She wanted to send a message about her situation, but she was afraid of hurting the feelings of the deceived classmates, so she didn't do anything. She didn't know if the girl had been stolen or if she was deliberately cheating. She just feels that this society is so complicated. When kindness becomes the cause of bullying. And how do we deal with kindness? When she first left school, she was also dedicated to kindness, but now she doesn't want to be so kind, and she begins to think about protecting herself rather than helping others. She could feel herself slowly becoming apathetic, but she didn't know how to do it. She doesn't want to hurt others, but when others hurt her, she doesn't want to let herself endure pain with useless kindness.

"What are you looking at? Time to eat. Every day you are either looking at the computer or looking at the phone, be careful with your eyes. Li Li chattered.

"Well, here we are." Yang Yueyue put down her phone and went to the dining table to sit down. It's good to be at home. She is an adult, and she is still taken care of by her parents to open her mouth.

Mom gave her the first bowl of rice, and Dad gave her the first bowl of soup. After such a while, she has a complete meal, which is more intimate than eating in a restaurant.

To go out is to suffer.

"Haven't you been busy lately?" Mom asked pretending to be normal. The ill-will on his face was palpable.

Yang Yueyue hurriedly put a piece of fragrant braised pork back into the bowl that was brought to her mouth, and hurriedly explained: "No." It's been a busy one lately. Today is a coincidence. My boss didn't assign me a new assignment before I got off work. ”

After saying that, she vigilantly observed her parents' reaction. Since her mother decided to let her go on a blind date, she didn't dare to say that she wasn't busy.

My mother said a little worriedly: "You don't have much pay for this job, and you work a lot of overtime." ”

Yang Yueyue hurriedly followed her mother's words and led to words that were beneficial to herself.

She nodded in agreement, and cried out miserably: "That's right." It's hard to find a job right now. A lot of people are not looking for a job. The boss also pressed the salary. The same work, the same hard work, but the salary is different. At the beginning, the recruitment information said that the salary was negotiable, but I had no experience, and I said 5,000 during the interview. As a result, after turning positive, he really gave me 5,000. I'm so busy every day, how can I have time to fall in love and get married! I don't get enough sleep every day! I finally got married, if I have another baby, how can I have time to take care of it? But a child is a life! If you don't want it, you can't throw it away, and it's too late to regret it. When a child is born, it's all a thing! There are places to worry about and spend money everywhere! It's hard for me to support myself with my meager salary, let alone someone who can spend money in particular. Alas...... It's not easy for young people now. ”

Yang Yueyue was sincere, expressed her weakness in a reasonable and well-founded manner, and listed her predicament with affection.

My mother was also sighed again and again by Yang Yueyue. After a while, he realized that he was surrounded by Yang Yueyue.

"It's not that you want to raise your own children, isn't it your husband? Isn't there me and your dad? We're sure we'll help you. Li Li argued and persuaded.

Yang Yueyue said anxiously: "Mom, why are you still counting on my shadowless husband?" Who knows who he is! Judging from my two blind dates, men really can't count on it. You all have your own jobs, so how can you have time to take care of the baby. Children have to watch 24 hours a day. ”

Yang Yueyue tried her best to scare her mother, trying to make her mother retreat. She really didn't want to have children herself. She went to college for 19 years, starting in kindergarten and going to college. I finally graduated from college, no longer have to go to school, and I started working life seamlessly. She just wanted to enjoy life when she was about to be urged to get married. Not married, her life is still a little of her own. Married and had children, her life was not her own at all. She still knows about her family's background. There is a little savings at home, but it's really not much.

She didn't want to use the little money she had saved, and she definitely didn't want to spend it on a little guy who suddenly appeared.

Dad said emotionally, "You don't have to worry about that. Your mom and I will give you our full support. When the time comes, you will be asked to resign and take care of the children at home, and I will help take care of them after work. That's how we brought you up. ”

Yang Yueyue was only moved for a moment, and then she was deeply helpless and distressed.

"Dad, Mom, what are you doing here? I was raised with hard work, and finally I grew up. You will have to bring me the child again, and repeat the old fatigue and pain. Aren't you tired? Yang Yueyue said bitterly. I really can't help it. Mom and Dad are too stubborn, and they don't eat oil and salt.

"Don't be tired, as long as you're doing well. We don't feel tired. Young people don't like to take care of children, and mom understands you. Li Li said sincerely.

Yang Yueyue was closed and speechless. Mom said this, which made her embarrassed to refute. The phrase "I'm doing well now" was swallowed into her stomach by a sudden =.

She had to admit that the previous generation really didn't think the same as theirs.

"Alright...... Do not say. Dine...... ...... eating," Yang Yueyue said evasively. Can't live up to this table.

Li Li and Yang Tianqing glanced at each other, and they were also very helpless. Yang Tianqing motioned to Li Li to stop talking. It's too late, now Yang Yueyue is still willing to go on a blind date, don't persuade Yang Yueyue not to go on a blind date in the end. Times are indeed different, perhaps they are falling behind.

They wanted to do everything they could for Yang Yueyue, but they found that they really couldn't help much.

When disagreements arise again, they are patiently refraining from arguing. Because they all know that the other person loves them.

Yang Yueyue didn't want to blame her parents for not understanding her suffering, but she understood her parents' suffering very well. She just hopes that the family will be safe and happy. She knew that her parents loved her in their own way. It wasn't what she wanted, but it was the only thing they had. The imprint of the times cannot be erased in a few words. Her compromise was just to reassure her parents.

After eating, in order to appease her mother, she took the initiative to show her kindness: "Mom, I'll wash the dishes today." You rest and rest. ”

Li Li snatched the bowl from Yang Yueyue's hand and firmly refused: "No." You don't brush cleanly. I'll just brush it myself. You go and do your own thing. ”

Yang Yueyue smiled bitterly and said, "Then I'm really leaving." ”

Li Li said impatiently: "Let's go, let's go." Delay my work. ”

Yang Yueyue reluctantly returned to her room to rest.

Turning on her phone, Yang Yueyue saw a message on WeChat about a friend application. She clicked on it and saw the message from the other party: Sister Yang, hello, I'm Wen Mingming.

Yang Yueyue agreed, and then went to watch the video. Wen Ming didn't send a message to bother.

Seeing Wen Mingming, Yang Yueyue will think of herself who first entered the workplace a year ago and was cramped and uneasy. She wants to help Wen Mingming, just like she used to be. In one year, she has grown a lot. Over the past year, her daily life has been very regular. I don't have time to do anything else, and sometimes I don't even notice the change of seasons.

Looking back on this year's life now, Yang Yueyue has the impression that as long as she goes to work and gets off work, she really understands what it means to be fleeting.

Suddenly, there was a laughing voice in the living room. Yang Yueyue clicked on the screen of her mobile phone, paused the playback, and listened carefully, it seemed that Aunt Sun came to visit the door. She didn't care and continued to watch the video. She didn't want to face the exhausting social interaction during the rare break. In the past few years, Yang Yueyue found that she really didn't have any topics to talk about with these mothers around her. Occasionally, when they meet and say hello, they will ask all kinds of very private questions. They weren't like that before!

"Have you eaten? Your family eats so early! Aunt Sun found the topic herself.

"Just ate it. Have you eaten? Li Li asked.

"I've eaten it too. Where's your family? Aunt Sun asked in a low voice. But she underestimated her voice, and Yang Yueyue, who was across the door, heard her words clearly.

Yang Yueyue felt that something bad was about to happen again. Why talk about her? It's okay to stay at home by yourself, can't you? She didn't understand what these elders were thinking. It's clear that they're in the same plane, but it feels like they're in two worlds.

"At home. I didn't work overtime today, and I got off work early. Li Li replied.

"How was Yueyue's last blind date? Is there a picture? Aunt Sun asked gossipingly. Curiosity took over her heart.

Li Li said sadly: "No! How can it be so fast! If only it was that fast, would I be in such a hurry? ”

Aunt Sun echoed and said, "This thing is really sad. Young people nowadays are not in a hurry. But we are in a hurry as parents. Only by taking care of the child's affairs can you feel at ease. Everyone is going to get married. If you don't get married, you can't do it! It's okay to be young now, I don't feel anything, and I think it's good not to get married, and I'm at ease. When you get older, you regret it. When the time comes, he will be lonely, and there will not even be anyone to talk to. When I was sick, I wanted to drink hot water, but no one boiled it. Alas...... Young people nowadays are too selfish and only think about themselves. ”

Aunt Sun's words really spoke to Li Li's heart. Li Li said with great approval: "That's true. Children are usually useless, they can make people angry when they are young, and they have their own ideas when they grow up, and it is very hard to raise children. But when it comes to the critical moment, it can really help. If we get sick now, the child will definitely take care of us. I don't have children, and when I get sick in the future, no one cares and no one asks. It's pitiful to imagine. ”

The more Yang Yueyue listened in the room, the more she felt that something was wrong. Their views could not convince Yang Yueyue, but made Yang Yueyue want to go out and debate with them. What's so good about getting married? If you really get married, you can get married. If you don't enjoy it, you will get married, divorced, and married eight times out of ten. What do you care about other people? Why do you always want to be overthought of other people's affairs? It only creates useless anxiety for people, but it never helps. When others encounter problems, they will stand aside and say cool things. Yang Yueyue wondered if Aunt Sun had discovered that marriage was not good, and she wanted to come over to harm others, so that others could also taste the pain she had suffered, so that she could find a little sense of balance in her heart.

There is also the idea of having children, and Yang Yueyue does not agree with it. Having a child is to prevent old age, isn't that selfish?

"The child himself doesn't know. When you're older, it's hard to find, and you'll be told by others. Maybe it will be said with those of us who are parents. The stigma of not worrying about children will definitely follow. Aunt Sun was alarmist.

Yang Yueyue breathed a sigh of relief. When she heard Aunt Sun's remarks, she was angry. Why should they talk about others? Why should they judge the lives of others by their own ideas? Why point fingers at other people's lives?

Hate people and laugh at people. No one can please them. In fact, other people's affairs have nothing to do with them. Isn't it tiring to worry about other people's things every day? Yang Yueyue couldn't understand. She can only be glad that her mother is just gossiping and does not have this distorted psychology.

Li Li didn't care and said, "What do others say? I don't care, I don't care. I just hope that Yueyue can live happily ever after. I don't usually have much friendship. ”

A reasonable person will not say much, and an unreasonable person will not be able to stop him. As long as it's not too much, Li Li doesn't care.

Yang Yueyue shook her head helplessly, and said to herself: "Mom, your requirements are really a bit high. Ever since I went to work, I didn't even know what it was like to be happy. I just want to make some money now, save some money to do something else, open a clothing store or a bubble tea shop. I don't want to be a cow or a horse for the rest of my life. ”

Aunt Sun disagreed and said, "You can't be indifferent to this." People are terrible, and the three of them become tigers. ”

Li Li agreed with it, and Yang Yueyue felt very disturbed. Because the good mood brought by not working overtime is gone. Aunt Sun came here in the name of caring to block others. Yang Yueyue didn't hear anyone say anything about her, but she heard a lot of what Aunt Sun said.

Yang Yueyue got up angrily, opened the door suddenly, and stood at the door with a stern face, looking directly at Aunt Sun.

Aunt Sun was taken aback, and hurriedly said, "Yueyue didn't sleep!" Come and talk to Aunt Sun. Aunt Sun hasn't had a good chat with you for a long time. ”

Yang Yueyue was stunned, a little confused. After reacting, she really admired Aunt Sun's calmness. Aunt Sun made her so annoying, but she was very happy.

"Say it. I went out for a walk. Yang Yueyue said in a bad tone, opened the door and walked away with an expressionless face.

Aunt Sun saw Yang Yueyue go out, so she whispered, "Yueyue, what's wrong?" Seems a little unhappy, huh? ”

Li Li said modestly: "It's okay." I guess it's been a little annoying about my work lately. ”

Aunt Sun was interested when she heard it: "Girls have to get married early and find a rich man to support themselves." It is not easy for girls to achieve something in the workplace. It's still practical to marry a rich man. My cousin's daughter just found a rich man and married well. Now enjoy the blessings at home. I don't go to work, I take care of my children at home, just one child, and a nanny to help. She has nothing to do every day just to go out to play, travel, eat, drink and have fun. The circle of friends posts photos every day. The food is as good as the art. ”

Li Li listened, and suddenly felt not so comfortable in her heart. She didn't want her daughter to find someone who was rich, but when she heard that other people's families were doing so well, she couldn't help but feel a little lost. Everyone wants a good one, when they don't compare, they are fine, and after comparing and separating the highs and lows, the people in the low position will definitely be a little uncomfortable. It is inevitable that it will be affected to make comparisons. Her moon is not bad! Why don't you even have a boyfriend? The blind date is also wonderful? Li Li felt more worried in her heart. Some of the pressure is given by others.

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