Chapter 403: Topic
Jin Mang's brows furrowed even deeper, "What do they say, uncle, second uncle?" ”
Uncle Jin said, "What can you say?" You can't let these big men take care of the old lady, right? ”
After a pause, she said, "What your fourth uncle means is to find a nursing home with good conditions." ”
Jin Mang frowned and said, "Even if the nursing home wants to send it, it can't be sent now." ”
She knows that it is not easy to take care of Alzheimer's patients, and it is fine in the early stage, but in the later stage, the family really can't bear to take care of it. Moreover, at that time, ordinary families will not be able to take care of it, and the elderly will be lost if they are not careful.
Finding a well-equipped, humanized nursing home will far outweigh the benefits for the elderly.
But the nursing home can't be sent now, the old lady is still clear in her mind now, and if she is sent there, she will have to suffocate herself to death.
"That's what we mean, first find a nanny to take care of your grandma, install monitoring at home, and we'll come over from time to time to take a look. Wait until there is really no way, and then send the old lady to the nursing home. Uncle Jin said.
Jin Mang felt quite reasonable when he heard it, and nodded: "Then do it." ”
"And how do you calculate the cost?" Uncle Jin was a little uncomfortable and said: "We went to see whether the nursing home is good or not, mainly depends on three aspects: facilities, nurses and diet." Nursing homes with good facilities and nurses alone are about 70,000 or 80,000 a year, but if you add food, it will cost 200,000 yuan for two days a month, and 50,000 yuan more for one day more a month. If you want to maintain three meals a day, you need one or two million a year. If you eat better, you will get 35 million or even 70,000 or 80,000 a year. ”
After a pause, she said: "Your grandmother's savings are more than 2 million, and the shares and rent add up to about 200,000 a year, which is not a cup of salary at all." ”
If an ordinary nursing home is fine, an expensive nursing home is not enough for a year.
In recent years, my mother-in-law has entrusted her granddaughter's blessing and lived a life of three meals a day all year round. If she is sent to an ordinary nursing home, not to mention whether she can get used to it, I am afraid that Jin Mang will not be happy.
They don't care about the old lady's pension, but they shouldn't let them out of this extra cost, right?
Jin Mang suddenly knew the eldest aunt's plan, and said: "At that time, arrange the best nursing home for grandma, if her pension is not enough, I will make up for it." ”
Even for Jin Mang, seven or eight million a year is not a small expense. After all, most of the ingredients she sent to her grandmother in the past came from Luze, and they didn't need to spend money to buy.
However, she plans to jump directly from level 5 to level 7 for this exam, and by that time, seven or eight million is estimated to be a few days' income.
As for the eldest aunt, their calculations...... Jin Mang also felt that it was understandable.
She actually thought about whether she could take her grandmother to Zhongjing, but after a little thought, she gave up, not to mention whether her grandmother was willing, she was also busy when she went to Zhongjing, and when the time came, she either asked the nanny to come back to take care of her grandmother or sent her grandmother to a nursing home. On the contrary, she stayed here in Nancheng, and grandma could still have children and grandchildren to visit from time to time.
Uncle Although they have some careful thoughts, they are not bad people, and with them, grandma can live a better life.
And...... The memory of Alzheimer's disease is constantly regressing, and the first thing grandma forgets is probably her great-grandchildren, and then their grandchildren.
So, she is definitely not the most suitable person to take care of grandma.
Knowing that grandma and daughters-in-law don't get along well, and worried that they won't take good care of grandma before she goes to the nursing home, Jin Mang said: "I will send food from grandma's side regularly, but I will send one more, and the extra one is for the hard work of the people who take care of grandma." ”
Hearing this, Uncle Jin's eyes lit up suddenly.
Even if you don't eat your own food, you can sell it for a good price.
"Let's wait until grandma's birthday." Jin Mang said: "Before I go to Zhongjing, I will arrange things." ”
"You're going to Nakyo!?" Uncle Jin was shocked.
It took Jin Mang a lot of effort to explain that he went to Zhongjing because of a job transfer, which was decided before, not because of his grandmother's situation.
She had dinner with her grandmother before leaving, and the old lady was obviously in a good mood and had been happy during the meal.
According to the original plan, Jin Mang went to his grandmother the next day.
Thankfully, the old lady was in good health and had nothing wrong with her. But the old lady twisted her waist from square dancing yesterday, and she was lying on the sofa and asked her little daughter to put a plaster on her.
"Mom, you're really, I told you a long time ago, you're old, don't dance with the square. It's not the first time this happened, how many times have you twisted your waist? Aunt Jin counted the road while sticking it.
Grandma Jin said slowly: "I broke my bone last time I walked, so I can't stop walking in the future, right?" ”
"You!" Aunt Jin was so angry that she choked.
Jin Mang put a box of mangoes and seafood on the coffee table, frowned, and said, "Grandma, I'll hire a nanny for you." ”
In the past, when she heard this, Grandma Jin refused without thinking about it, but today she hesitated.
There's a play!
Jin Mang and Aunt Jin glanced at each other, and their eyes lit up.
"Mom, just listen to Mangmang, there is someone to take care of you, and we can rest assured." Aunt Jin said.
Jin Mang also nodded, "Yes, I'm going to Zhongjing soon, grandma, if you don't hire a nanny, I have to worry about you all day." ”
is different from Grandma Jin, although Uncle Jin and she don't live under the same roof, they are all close, and they can just shout about something. Grandma Jin really lives alone, and it is likely that she will not be able to call if something happens.
"You're going to Zhongjing?" Grandma Kim's eyes widened.
Jin Mang nodded and explained briefly.
"Then hire a babysitter." Grandma Jin spoke.
Jin Mang told her grandmother that her grandmother had been diagnosed with Alzheimer's, but she was not surprised.
"I've heard about it." She sighed and said, "Your grandmother is such a strong person, and she ended up with this kind of problem." ”
Grandma Jin quickly changed the topic again, "By the way, when will your boyfriend bring it back for me to see?" ”
Jin Mang was stunned and said helplessly: "It's already broken up." ”
"Did he bully you?" Grandma Kim's eyes immediately stood up.
In her mind, it must be that person who is not good to break up, and she must have bullied her granddaughter.
"Nope." Jin Mang sighed: "We just don't agree with each other. She gave a brief account of the situation.
As soon as she heard that she was not being bullied, Grandma Jin was immediately relieved.
As long as his granddaughter doesn't suffer, as for the rest...... Her granddaughter's conditions are so good, there are many good men waiting behind, what is the pity of breaking up.
When Grandma Jin went back to the house and lay down, her aunt sat down next to her and chatted with her.
"Mangman...... Auntie wants to ask you for something......" she said hesitantly.