252 chats with Ma Taohong
Yuzhi listened quietly to Ma Taohong's narration, she didn't know much about Li Wangcai's family.
The dirty water I made up in my own basin is all imaginary out of thin air, and there is no real evidence.
After the two families had a quarrel, they never crossed paths again, and she didn't know anything about the family.
Listening to Ma Taohong's bloody past, I feel that the words I made up at the beginning were really gentle, and marrying a wife is not virtuous and harming three generations, which is really true.
Zhao Changfang is afraid that it is the beginning of the misfortune of three generations of this family, Ma Taohong's experience is indeed sympathetic, but some things are not so absolute.
Today's world is much better than before, and women's rights and interests can be safeguarded through policies.
Ma Taohong's children, the eldest is more than ten years old, and the younger one is seven or eight years old, basically the character has been stereotyped, and it is difficult to correct it.
The only person who can correct them is Ma Taohong, but obviously, Ma Taohong doesn't have this ability.
If she can stand up, learn to be smart, and learn to be strong, it is not hopeless.
Elm listened quietly and did not respond.
Ma Taohong seemed to be looking for someone to spit out her bitterness, and she didn't mean to respond.
After talking about his suffering, he talked about his jealousy of the elm branch.
"You didn't know what to do before, there were men who loved you, obedient children, kind mothers-in-law, but you didn't know how to be satisfied, and you had to be heaven and earth, I looked, I really think you ......"
Before the complaining was over, Ma Taohong noticed a fierce glare, so frightened that she swallowed all the rest of the words, and shrunk herself into a ball in a trembling effort.
Yuzhi didn't feel offended by these words, this is a fact, she never runs away from her past mistakes, only when she faces it sincerely, can she truly repent and learn a lesson from it.
slapped Sang Dazhuang, who had a black face, before he withdrew the cold air.
Ma Taohong hugged herself tightly and was envious again.
Look at other people's men, if someone says something unpleasant, they must protect it.
What about her man?
Oh, don't mention it.
"You say, this man, why is his life so different? I also want to live very hard, I also want harmony between husband and wife, filial piety of children, love of in-laws, and harmony and beauty of the family. ”
"I obviously want this family to be good, but everyone in this family thinks I'm not worthy, they all think that I am not the same as them, and they all want to exclude me."
"I don't understand, what am I doing wrong, what am I going to do so that they can accept me?"
"I didn't do anything hurtful, I didn't even have anyone to talk about it, I always did my duty, why did God punish me like this?"
"So, the same life, different fate, but you live better than me, I am unwilling, I am jealous, every time I suffer from tribulation, you are infinitely beautiful."
"I'm always going to have dark thoughts and keep asking why? Why do you work in heaven and earth to get a good life, I work so hard, so diligent, but I have to suffer and suffer. ”
"I wish you could fall from heaven to hell and suffer what I have suffered."
"You say, am I just jealous of a person for no reason, and maliciously slander and curse a person in my heart, that I will be punished by God?"
Yuzhi thought about it very seriously: "It shouldn't be, God is not so idle, and he is not omnipotent, what you think, he shouldn't know." ”
Yuzhi's serious answer made Ma Taohong stunned for a moment.
Then he smiled bitterly: "So, my life is cheap? Born to suffer these sufferings? ”
Yu Zhi thought about it very seriously before saying: "It shouldn't be, if there is a natural one, then according to my previous life trajectory, I should not die well." ”
Isn't it a bad end in the previous life, Yuzhi is really right.
Sang Dazhuang had a cold face: "Daughter-in-law, don't talk nonsense." ”
Yuzhi smiled and squeezed the man's hand.
Ma Taohong suddenly discovered that Yuzhi was not as delicate and vulnerable as she thought.
She seems to be very strong inside, at least she will not be like her, and she can be so calm in the face of her past mistakes.
So, she's really not useless in everyone's mouths.
Yuzhi continued: "But I have changed, so my life has also changed, and after the change, I have lived a very happy life, and I will always be happy." ”
"So, it's destined to be said, I don't think it's true, how a person is doing, it still depends on how the person lives."
Ma Taohong opened her mouth, and it took a long time to find her voice.
"So, you mean, I should change?"
Yuzhi shook his head: "I don't mean anything, I'm just answering your question." ”
"What you want to do is your business, others can't interfere, let alone make decisions for you."
"Whether you change it or not depends on whether you need it or not."
"And even if some people make changes, they don't necessarily get the results they want."
"All I can say is that I am lucky to have met my family who will always cherish me even if I don't change. I changed it, it's the icing on the cake. It will affect the ending, but it won't make it worse. ”
"You should be jealous of me, there should be no luckier person in the world than me."
As he spoke, he leaned softly towards the tall and straight man.
The man immediately took a step forward and firmly protected his little daughter-in-law in his arms, hurting in his heart.
Ma Taohong looked envious, but at this time she didn't see any jealousy.
Yes, Yuzhi is really the luckiest person in the world, to marry a man who cherishes her so much, how many people in the world can be as lucky as her.
Ma Taohong seemed to be relieved of something.
After hesitating for a long time, he asked worriedly: "If, I say if, I am divorced, will I be disgusted and pointed at the backbone?" ”
Yuzhi was quite surprised by Ma Taohong's problem, and there are not many women who can take the initiative to think of divorce these years.
Yuzhi did not answer directly, but asked suspiciously: "Why do you want to divorce?" ”
Ma Taohong smiled bitterly: "If I don't divorce and leave that home, I won't be able to live, I will be tortured to death." ”
Yuzhi suddenly realized: "So, you are afraid of death." ”
Ma Taohong originally felt that it was a shame to be afraid of death, but just now Yuzhi's calm face of her mistakes gave her courage, and she felt that she was not ashamed to face the fear of death calmly.
"Yes, I'm afraid of death, I was originally here to seek death today, but when I really want to end this life, I'm scared."
Yuzhi nodded: "It's good to be afraid of death, only by being afraid of death can you think about how to live better and longer." ”
"I think that life is only once, life is possible, and reverence for life is the attitude that everyone who lives should have."
"It's good that you're afraid of death, and I support you."
Ma Taohong was stunned for a moment, and then cried and laughed: "It's obviously a shameful thing, but after you say this, it has become an extremely noble and great thing." ”
Yuzhi asked rhetorically, "Isn't it?" The martyrs fought bloodily, died nine times and shed their blood, so that future generations could live better? ”
"If everyone tramples on life, belittles life, and ignores life, then what is the point of the contributions of the predecessors?"
"Shouldn't we cherish the hard-won things, the things that we have no regrets about?"