Chapter 388: Cycle of Violence
"And how did he answer?" I asked Li Changfeng.
"And then he said he wasn't trying to hurt me on purpose, he loved me."
"He loves you, doesn't that matter to you?"
"Yes, very important." I nodded at him, "Did you do anything to your brother during this time?" ”
When I asked about this topic, I was extremely nervous.
Because I haven't communicated with him about this before, and I don't know what his answer looks like, but I had a conference call with Lu Changyou and An Kangsheng.
An Kangsheng tells us that when a person is violated and insecure, he is a victim of violence, then it is very likely that he will also commit violence against weak people.
This Ankang Sheng said, psychologically speaking, is called a cycle of violence.
If it is said that according to his analysis, Li Changfeng also committed violence against Li Yutang, which cannot be denied.
That's why I'm going to ask him such a question now, but I'm afraid that under such emotions, he will be completely unbearable.
But it's an important point.
It is only when a person is subjected to violence that he will find a way to vent this vent and revert to violence.
"Oh my God." Li Changfeng touched his face and rubbed it hard with both hands, even his hands and face were red, it seemed that he used a lot of force.
It should be the same as we guessed. He had done too much to his brother, and if he hadn't done that, he wouldn't have had this expression.
And I can also see that not only Li Yutang, who was on the side, was also in tears at this time, and he didn't ask him, but when he asked his brother, it also reminded him of those painful things.
"I took him into the woods, and I got a toothbrush."
Speaking of this, Li Changfeng finally couldn't speak, and began to cry there silently, rubbing his face with his own hands.
The cycle went on for five or six minutes, and no one disturbed her, just because we all felt sorry for this child, and what he said should be true, and in this state, if he was interrupting, then it would not be good.
And then. Then I said the same thing to him. Everyone in the room gasped, including those in the back seat.
None of them are stupid, and I'm sure they can see what's going on.
"Oh my God, I'm sorry! Brother, I'm really sorry, I, I'm sorry, I'm sorry for you. She said several times in one breath, sorry, and her expression seemed to be relieved, when he said these things, he probably didn't ask for a forgiveness for himself, but he could say it, which already made him feel a lot better.
Li Yutang, who was on the side, just nodded at him, and didn't say much else.
Now Li Changfeng's mood is not very good, and I have one last question for him.
"Have you ever told anyone about it?"
It took almost two minutes for Li Changfeng's expression to be a little normal, he nodded at me, and said, "I once went to my mother and told him that my father still touched my bottom and did that kind of thing to me, I don't want to." ”
"And what did your mother say?" I asked nervously at Li Changfeng.
This thing must be told by him, this kind of uncovering the scar and then cutting it hard is very cruel, I know it myself, but we can't help it.
"My mother told me that that kind of behavior was just punishing me, and that fathers should punish their children, and that is the case with all fathers."
"So you always think that it is the right thing for a father to do such a thing for his own children, right?" I looked at Li Changfeng's eyes, and I was trying to encourage him with my own eyes, if I didn't encourage him again, it was estimated that he would collapse.
Li Changfeng nodded at me, "Yes, I always thought that this thing was normal when I was a child, and I knew that when I was 16 years old, I came into contact with the Internet, and I vented my own problems on the Internet. This is not a normal behavior. ”
Li Changfeng didn't say anything after saying this, and we didn't need him to say it, because all these things were too clear.
However, I was afraid that some stupid people, especially some stupid judges, would not understand this matter, so I continued to ask Li Yutang, "Li Yutang, I wonder if you can talk to us?" ”
Li Yutang nodded, "What am I going to say to you?" ”
"Can you tell us if you have told anyone else about these things?" Li Yutang nodded, "I also told others about this matter, and like my brother, it was my mother who first asked for help. ”
"And what did your mother say about it?" I thought about Li Yutang and asked.
As I asked, I was thinking about why Chen Dong and the judge didn't make trouble for us now, and when Li Yutang hadn't answered yet, I thought about the two of them looking over.
found that the eyes of the two of them were also focused on Li Yutang and Li Changfeng, and it seemed that they were also interested in this matter and wanted to know what this answer was.
The two of them are now starting to listen to the story.
"I found my mother at the time, and I told him that my father had been violating me and that I was feeling a lot of pain and I wanted him to stop."
When he said this, Li Yutang's expression fell into memory, it was that kind of deep expression, his eyes looked into the distance, and it was so deep that it even made people feel a little scared.
"What's your mother's reaction like?" I asked Li Yutang.
"He said that what I said was extremely exaggerated and unrealistic, and that I was just thinking too much, and then he pushed me back to my room to rest."
"And did your father do anything else to you?" I asked Li Yutang.
"Of course." Li Yutang rubbed his face and began to recall.
"I remember it was a watershed moment when I was 12 years old." Li Yutang said slowly.
"When I was 12 years old, did anything change before or after 12 years old?"
"After I was 11 years old, he started to behave a little bit more directly at me."
I nodded at him, indicating that I knew what those actions were.
Li Yutang continued, "But after I was 12 years old, everything was different, before I told him that I was in pain, I didn't want to do this, he would stop, but after the age of 12, he not only didn't stop, but also made me feel physically abused. ”
"What did he do to you?"