Chapter 55 If you want a child, you can adopt

"That being said, according to his previous temper, he wouldn't have done these things. I should still see that Sister Ran is really angry. Su Nian said, "He's still quite interesting, otherwise Sister Ran would definitely not be so easy to dissipate today." ”

"He seems to be very patriarchal."

"It's not seeming, it's what it is." Su Nian nodded, "If Sister Ran doesn't give birth to a son, I guess their relationship will definitely be affected." ”

"Isn't his daughter his own child." Huo Jinyan didn't like the one named Meng Zhihui very much, because of this.

Su Nian smiled: "Mr. Huo, you are not patriarchal at all. No, you don't want children in the first place, so boys and girls don't matter to you. It's all the same. ”

"And what do you think of children?" Huo Jinyan asked, "Have you ever thought about having children in the future?" ”

Su Nian couldn't laugh anymore: "I can't ask for it." ”

"I don't mean to offend. Just thinking that if you really like children, there are many ways to ask for it. Such as adoption. ”

Huo Jinyan thought a lot just now.

If she insists on not having children, but Su Nian likes children very much, then this marriage itself is unfair to her.

He hadn't thought about it before, but seeing her playing happily with the children, the thought got into his mind and lingered.

Su Nian also seemed to have just reacted: "Yes, if you want a child to adopt." How I never thought of this. ”

Huo Jinyan said: "You really like children. ”

Su Nian fell into deep thought.

In fact, she hadn't thought about the child's problem before.

She is not very old, and she has only been working for a year.

I used to think that I would get married in the future and have lovely children, but as for the specifics, I didn't translate my imagination into details.

When she went to the premarital physical examination with Liang Yechao, she was given a basin of cold water, and many of her thoughts were frozen at that moment.

was reminded by Huo Jinyan, and some frozen things came alive again.

"The dish is here." The owner brought the food over.

Su Nian's thoughts were pulled back.

She found that Huo Jinyan was looking at herself, as if she had been watching since just now.

"When you talk about it, it shouldn't be just talking about this, right?" Su Nian asked.

"Let's talk about it." Huo Jinyan really didn't talk about this originally.

But if Su Nian likes children very much, having a husband and wife can no longer be on the agenda.

Because two people have no common goal of marriage, they can't talk about the foundation of marriage.

Su Nian smiled: "Then eat first, eat it while it's hot, this sauerkraut fish made by their family is delicious." ”

Huo Jinyan picked up the chopsticks.

"It's delicious, isn't it?" Su Nian looked at him and asked, looking forward to his evaluation.

"It's okay." Huo Jinyan said.

She happily bowed her head to eat.

Huo Jinyan didn't ruin her mood for eating, and didn't mention it again after that.

After eating, Huo Jinyan originally planned to accompany her home, but now she changed her mind: "You go home first, and I will go to the company to work overtime." ”

……

Next.

Huo Jinyan received a call from Mrs. Song.

"Jin Yan, you can bring Niannian back for dinner on the weekend. You've been married for a while, and I've been thinking that I should let her come and sit at home. Don't worry, Ripples has already repaired and taken care of the family's previous house, and we will eat there when the time comes, and we won't wear gangs. ”

"I'll come back to dinner by myself on the weekend."

Old Madam Song sensed that something was wrong with him: "What's wrong?" ”

"Let's talk about it when we meet."

On the weekend, he told Su Nian that he was busy and would not be at home.

Su Nian was not surprised, "You are busy with you, I also have something to do." ”

Huo Jinyan returned to the Song family.

Although there are many Song families, they are also busy, and not everyone is there every week.

For example, this week, except for my grandparents, everyone is not there.

Old Madam Song was slightly disappointed when she saw that he was the only one who came back: "You really don't want to bring anyone home?" ”

"She's busy with work." Huo Jinyan said.

"I don't think it's that simple work."

Grandpa said on the side: "Please the girl, see what she likes, and buy it for her." ”

"Buy, buy, buy, know to buy. Do you think everyone is like you, who will only buy and nothing else? Old Madam Song said angrily.

Old Man Song got up: "Okay, then you say, I'll go out for a walk." ”

"What the hell is going on?" Old Madam Song asked.

"Grandma, my marriage may have been a bad decision."

"How do you say that?" Old Madam Song was anxious, "What happened?" ”

"I found out Su Nian, she probably wanted a child. She loves children very much, and adoption is not an avenue. ”

Old Madam Song was silent for a moment: "She wants a child, what about you?" Are you really sure? ”

Huo Jinyan has lived in the Huo family since he was a child, and the Huo family's attitude towards children has long determined his life philosophy.

What's more, his mother's affairs are also unacceptable to him.

"I'm definitely not going to have children. I also can't take on the responsibility of having children. Huo Jinyan is not sensitive to the creature of children.

"Then have you talked to Su Nian, what did she say?"

Huo Jinyan said calmly: "I haven't talked about it. If so, are you forcing her to make a choice, so that she has to choose between me and having children? ”

"That's right, she's not very old, and she still has a lot of options in life. Communicating with her rashly is like forcing her to make an inevitable decision. ”

"If I open my mouth, there will be no room for manoeuvre." Huo Jinyan said.

"But if you don't speak, if you drag it out for a long time, it will also delay her life."

Old Madam Song is very open-minded, and she is also very thoughtful about Su Nian: "Girls can't stand the delay, if you really think about it, you still have to make a decision as soon as possible." ”

Huo Jinyan just hasn't made up his mind yet.

"You can't be reluctant, right?" Old Madam Song asked, it was rare to see Huo Jinyan need to think about it for so long before making a decision.

"Nothing." Huo Jinyan knew that he would not be tempted, he just had to think carefully before he could speak.

"Then don't delay until she is attracted to you, then it will be bad for her and you at that time. Other girls still have choices, you have to give others a chance. ”

Huo Jinyan seemed to have figured it out and nodded: "I'll think about it earlier." ”

"Don't stress yourself too much. Marriage is a two-way choice, and if you can't completely agree on a major event like having children, it is a delay for each other. At that time, if you really can't be together, it can only mean that fate is not enough. ”

Huo Jinyan was silent and did not speak.

Mrs. Song said again: "If you really separate, you will compensate and compensate the family at that time, and you can't let the family delay such a marriage for you for no reason." ”