Chapter 604: One Journey After Another Journey
Tian Jiu pursed his lips and raised his eyes to look at Duanmu Li.
The two of them immediately stood up and walked to the side for a while.
Ni Bingyan realized that privacy might be involved, and suddenly realized that he was really abrupt just now, and hurriedly waved his hand:
"If it's inconvenient, it doesn't need to be said, I'll just ask casually."
"There's nothing bad to say, it's just that there are a lot of people, and it's a little embarrassing."
Tian Jiujiu took the water bowl off the stove, handed it to Ni Bingyan, took the one he had eaten, drank half a bowl of water in small sips, and waited until his mood was stable before telling her:
"The day before yesterday, my good friend passed away in childbirth."
Pal?
Dystocia?
Pass away?
Ni Bingyan immediately twisted his eyebrows: "Aren't you just a freshman in high school this year?" ”
Fifteen or sixteen children, died in childbirth?
This is a bit beyond Ni Bingyan's imagination.
Nowadays, even in a very remote place, even if the girl is ignorant and ignorant, her family also knows that it is legal for two people to get a certificate to get married, otherwise if there is something, it can only be a woman who suffers.
What kind of certificate do you get at this age?
Also have children.
"This sister is two years older than me."
Exactly which family's daughter, but she didn't say.
Ni Bingyan didn't interject, just twisted his eyebrows and listened quietly.
There are many parents in the world who think they are good for their children, but in fact they don't care about her wishes.
There are many people who are kind to other people's children and extremely cruel to their own children.
"My sister's grades are very good, when I was a child, I asked her questions I didn't understand, and she would always patiently tell me. Two years ago, she also told me that in the future, she would work hard to get into college, go to work in the city, find someone she liked, marry him, and live happily ever after......"
Tian Jiujiu said as he spoke, his eyes turned red.
"She was also admitted to high school, but her family was burdened, she had three older brothers and a younger brother who did not marry a daughter-in-law, her parents did not let her go to school, last spring, she married a 30-year-old widower, that person I have also seen once, I heard that drinking is very bad, drunk and beating."
In economically backward areas, it is very common to talk about marriage in eighteen or nineteen.
After doing wine, they became husband and wife under the witness of relatives and friends of both parties, and when they had children and reached their age, they went to make up for a certificate.
Or they don't have the consciousness to get a license, so they go on like that, and wait until many years later, only to find that they are still single in the legal sense.
In the past so many years of married life, it was nothing more than cohabitation.
Children are also not considered to be born in wedlock.
It's all a loss of ignorance.
"After my sister got married, she had a bad time. When I go to school, I pass by their village and sometimes I see her. She was pregnant with a child as soon as she got married, and when she bought New Year's goods during the Chinese New Year, I saw her, her belly was big, she was still carrying water, and her cheeks were all blue......"
Tian Jiujiu said as he spoke, his eyes turned red again.
"But no matter how hard she lived, she never went back to her parents' house after she got married, not once."
Tian Jiujiu couldn't help but cover his face and cry.
As long as she thinks of that good friend's dreams and the bloody reality, she can't help but feel sad.
There are still parents and brothers here!
What should she, an orphan with no family, do if this happens?
"The day before yesterday, I heard that there were no people, and I still didn't have them at home. Her parents brought someone to call her, and finally heard that they had lost a lot of money. This morning, I heard from the third uncle and mother-in-law that their family was ready to marry their second son again, and they invited the matchmaker in the village to come over last night. ”
How cheap is it to have a baby this year? Even if the township health center is very skilled, it is reluctant to send it to the hospital, so that if something happens, it can only wait for death.
Come to think of it, her mother's family doesn't pay attention to her, and her mother-in-law's family won't treat her as a green onion.
After listening to this, Ni Bingyan understood what was going on.
"If you're scared, try harder when you're studying! For us girls, only if we have the ability can we choose the lifestyle we want and have the final say in our own affairs. ”
As for the helplessness that is common in society, no matter how hard you try, you can't avoid it, don't tell your children.
Ni Bingyan is not a person who likes to point fingers at other people's lives.
What's more, the other party has passed away.
Besides, if it was her, what to do, it was a bit out of place.
Tian Jiujiu wiped her tears and nodded at her.
She understands the reason, she is just sad.
People always say that a girl in her prime is like a flower, and it is true.
When it is apoptosis, it is not much slower than when the flowers are gone.
She understood at a very young age that no matter how good outsiders were to her, if she wanted to live an independent, self-reliant and dignified life, she had to stand up on her own.
Let's ask, if she is a person who is lazy all day long and doesn't bother to turn over in the sun, who will be so good to her?
I'm afraid that my eyes will be dirty even if I look at her more, even if my own children walk past her, I am afraid that I will be infected with lazy disease.
Ni Bingyan's funding will not be a problem for her, even if she is an orphan.
Limited resources, of course, are the opportunities for those who are able to get up.
After comforting Tian Jiu, Ni Bingyan touched a business card again and handed it to her:
"If you have a problem that you can't solve, be sure to call me. Maybe I can help you. ”
Tian Jiujiu didn't have a mobile phone, so he couldn't exchange contact information with her.
Ni Bingyan said that when she added a WeChat friend, she was quite sorry to refuse, but she didn't expect Sister Bingbing to be so considerate.
Seeing that the time was about the same, he was afraid that the rest of the team would be worried, Ni Bingyan didn't stay long, said goodbye to Tian Jiujiu, and left with someone.
Tian Jiujiu stood at the door of his house, glanced at his humble home, looked at his chic and distant back, and straightened his waist unconsciously.
When Ni Bingyan returned to the dam, he saw that most of the team members were already drunk.
Obviously, it is not appropriate to start today, so we have to continue to stay.
According to her idea, when she wakes up tomorrow, she will be able to set off, but she didn't expect that this stay will be enough for three days.
Because young people rarely come back, there are always people in the village who have something to do at home.
It's either this life, or the daughter-in-law, everyone has invited it, and it's not good if you don't go.
On the fourth day, Ni Bingyan put the freshly dried clothes into the house, and he felt like he couldn't get out of the village.
Every day, someone invites her to eat, and whatever is good to eat, she will give her a little, and the more you owe it, the more you owe it.
At this time, Pei Jin blew his hair and rubbed his eyes, and came to find her.
"If we drink it again, I'm afraid we're going to become a wine Mengzi, and we have to leave tomorrow."
"Okay, let's go tomorrow, don't drink tonight, especially if you're driving!"
Ni Bingyan has taken the opportunity to finish taking a set of ethnic style photos in the village in the past few days, and it is time to leave.
On this day, many young people in the village have already returned to work, and the students have also gone to school, only some elderly people, guarding the old archway, sitting in the dam and basking in the sun.
While basking in the sun, I knitted straw sandals and patched them.
Ni Bingyan has been idle and bored these days, and he has even learned it.
Knowing that she was leaving, they put down their work and went home to get all kinds of things that they wanted to give to her.
Ni Bingyan said that she still had to shoot a show, and she couldn't take it on the road, and everyone felt sorry for it.
The car gradually left, and the old gate gradually disappeared at the end of the road.
Ni Bingyan felt that everything he was here was like a dream.
I hope that Tian Jiujiu can grow into a strong woman who is in charge of herself, I hope that Tian Qiushui can be admitted to a good university as she wishes, I hope that the old man can live a few more years as she wishes, watch her grandson get married, and hope that Aunt Pang's illness can get better soon......
"Reluctantly?"
"Isn't that what the journey is? One ride after another. Let's go! Let's go to the next attraction! ”
I also planted strawberries and figs, and I hope they will survive. I don't want to get results, I just want to live.
(End of chapter)