Chapter 129: It's all their own people
Hearing this, Xie Wan was a little surprised.
Although she has accepted the fact that the womb wore ancient times, and has begun to accept the ancient dogma setting, it is still beyond her acceptability to let her half-sister marry her husband and give him a child.
She looked at Sun Mei and said, "What does Sister Sun think?" ”
Sun Mei smiled bitterly: "I see that Sister Xie is also a temperamental, so I don't say those high-sounding words to you." From my own selfish point of view, I don't want to. But I can't be unwilling, I can't cut off the incense of the British mayor's house because of my own selfishness, and I can't ruin the relationship between the two families because of my own selfishness. ”
"Not to mention ......"
She sighed: "If I can't give birth to him, he will still have to take a concubine after all." ”
Xie Wan felt a little sad when she heard this, sad for Sun Mei, and sad for the women of this era.
She hesitated for a moment and said, "Sister Sun, have you ever thought that not being able to have a child may not be your problem?" It may not even be your problem with the son. ”
Both men and women may have fertility disorders, and even if there are no fertility disorders, some are not fateful, and even some are genetically incompatible and have difficult children.
"I still know that."
Sun Mei looked at her and said, "When the envoy of the Liu Yuan came to diagnose and treat, he also looked at it for her husband, and he said that we have no problem, but fate has not yet arrived." However, unfilial piety is great, and his husband doesn't say it, and he is also anxious, not to mention his in-laws. ”
"I haven't had any children, and I can't even lift my head when they are outside."
Xie Wan sighed when she heard this: "What about you, Sister Sun?" Have you ever thought about yourself? If a real maid enters the door and has a child, how do you deal with yourself? Would you really like to look at ......"
She didn't finish her words, not because she didn't want to say it, but because it wasn't necessary.
Because of the different concepts, the things she cares about are the most normal things in this era.
Seeing that she was halfway through her speech, Sun Mei couldn't help asking: "Sister Xie has something to say, I will tell you this most secret thing, that is, I really regard you as a trustworthy person." ”
Hearing this, Xie Wan hesitated for a moment before she spoke: "I'...... I grew up in the mountains......"
I have to say, this excuse is so easy to use, it is simply tried and tested.
"I grew up in the mountains, and Taoism is about doing things as I please, so from my heart, it's actually hard for me to understand this."
Xie Wan looked at Sun Mei and said, "I'm not Sister Sun, I may not be able to look at this matter from your perspective and position, I can only say that if it were me, what would I do." ”
Sun Mei sighed: "Sister Xie doesn't have to be so cautious, you just say it." ”
"Then I'll be blunt."
Xie Wan looked at her and said, "If I am an older sister, I will ask Chen Shizi if he really has any plans to take a concubine, and ask him if he really can't do it if he doesn't have children, and if he can't pass on?" If he is hesitant, even if he says that he must have a son of his own, then I have two paths. ”
Sun Yiyi hurriedly asked, "Which two roads?" ”
Xie Wan glanced at Sun Mei and said: "My thoughts are very different from yours, in my opinion, there are two kinds of marriage, one is to be happy with each other, and the other is simply interests. If it is for love, I will choose to leave, because I am a selfish person, and if I treat you wholeheartedly, you will want to treat me like this. ”
"If the love is no longer there, I would rather choose to reconcile and leave, lest I obviously mind him taking a concubine, mind him being happy with others, and pretend to be generous, and even raise him and others' children. Instead of embarrassing yourself, it is better to gather and disperse, not to delay him, and not to wronged yourself. ”
Hearing this, Sun Yiyi and Sun Mei's eyes widened, obviously what she said was beyond their cognition.
Xie Wan didn't pay attention to the exclamation in their hearts that subverted the three views, and continued: "If it is for profit to get married, then I will guard my heart, I will not be disappointed if I have no hope, correct my attitude, and only treat him as a partner, who he wants to accept and who he wants to have sex with, and I have nothing to do with it." ”
"I just need to hold the money and silver in my hand, so that I have the confidence to be confident whenever and where, and grasp the power in the house, so that he is jealous of me, no one in the house dares to disobey me, everything is in my hands. As for him......"
Xie Wan pouted: "Don't bother me, anyway, I have to have the same money, power and feelings." ”
Sun Yiyi opened her mouth and didn't close her chin for a long time.
And Sun Mei had a thoughtful look.
Xie Wan didn't speak again, only picked up the teacup and took a sip, quietly waiting for Sun Mei to figure it out.
In her opinion, Sun Mei is actually an open-minded and sensible woman, otherwise when she was in the Ma Guo Mansion, she would not have scolded Sun Yiyi from the beginning and turned to herself. Not even so, because a little hope will come to find you.
After all, in this era, women's fame is greater, and even if Sun Mei is a little sick and rushes to the doctor, she will not be so eager, and she will not be so anxious without any consideration.
Sun Mei didn't think about it for a long time, she was silent for a while, and asked, "If you are ...... and leave?"
"Big sister!" Sun Yiyi was immediately anxious when she heard this, and hurriedly interrupted her: "What do you want?" If you are reconciled, won't everyone know that you are jealous and stingy? ”
Sun Mei frowned: "What if you know?" ”
"yes, so what?" Xie Wan looked at Sun Yiyi: "We are originally jealous and stingy." ”
Sun Yiyi: ......
She looked at Sun Mei a little speechlessly, and then looked at Xie Wan: "You have always felt that I am not normal, but now I can see that I am the most normal one among the three of us!" ”
Hearing this, Xie Wan immediately smiled, she turned her eyes to look at Sun Mei and said: "Sister Sun doesn't have to be so pessimistic, my thoughts are just my thoughts, after all, my parents died early, and the Yongyu Hou Mansion is like this, I only need to be responsible for myself and my younger brother, and I don't need to care about others." ”
"But Sister Sun is different, Sister Sun still thinks twice."
Sun Mei nodded: "I will." ”
Xie Wan snorted: "My medical skills are not very good, if Sister Sun doesn't mind, I can take my sister's pulse first, if I can't see the reason, I can repair a book, Sister Sun took my letter to find my master, but the master and her old man may not have that certainty." ”
Sun Mei was overjoyed when she heard this, and immediately stretched out her hand and said, "If I mind, I won't tell you this, even if you diagnose and treat, tell the truth." ”
Xie Wan hummed, reached out and took her pulse, carefully checked it for a moment, looked at her face again, and also looked at her tongue coating and so on.
After looking carefully and hearing the question, she had a number in her heart, and said: "Liu Yuan's medical skills are superb, in my opinion, my sister is really just fate has not arrived." Because according to her sister's face, there will be three sons and one daughter in her fate, and the heirs will be worry-free. ”