10, Zhao Jinchan's love turmoil
Sister-in-law Shui Jing has been busy with Zhang Luo's daughter's affairs recently, and she has not had time to take a break from her work in the store for a while. She is still working as a son and daughter-in-law, and next she wants to put the household registration of her daughter Zhao Chunmei's son into the name of her son and daughter-in-law. Sister-in-law Shui Jing issued a fake birth certificate in the hospital through the relationship of acquaintances, and filled in the names of Zhao Jian and Huang Lulu in the column of her parents. Zhao Jian is the son of Shui Jing's sister-in-law, and Huang Lulu is the daughter-in-law. Sister-in-law Shui Jing took the birth certificate to the household registration department of the police station to register, and easily registered the child's household registration.
Zhao Jian said to his mother: "Mom, now you put my little sister's child's household registration in the name of our husband and wife, what if we have a child ourselves in the future?" โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said angrily: "What are you worried about, it won't be registered at that time, it's a big deal, let's let the government fine some money." โ
What else did the son want to say, but Huang Lulu stopped him with her eyes and said, "Zhao Jian, why are you always like this?" Now that my little sister is in difficulty, didn't my mother discuss it with us a long time ago, my little sister's child's household registration is temporarily under our name, and the two of us have agreed, so you can't have any objections to this issue. โ
Zhao Jian said: "At first, I didn't think about it so thoughtfully, but now that I think about it carefully, I feel that there are still many sequelae." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing poked her son's head and scolded: "Chunmei is your own sister, you heartless thing, you promised others in advance, and you have to endure the most grievances." โ
Zhao Jian knew that his mother was impatient, so he didn't distinguish anymore. Huang Lulu took her husband's hand and entered the room and closed the door and said, "Zhao Jian, is there something wrong with your brain, Mom's transfer of the child's household registration to our name today is something we can't ask for, why are you still annoying your mother about this?" โ
Zhao Jian said: "Lulu, you only know one but don't know the other, I'm afraid that we won't be able to register if we have children in the future?" โ
Huang Lulu said: "In the future, who can say what will happen in the future, you are afraid that you will not be able to get a household registration if you have a child in the future, I am not worried about this, in the future, maybe the policy will change, and the household registration policy will be liberalized." โ
Zhao Jian sneered: "You are a fool talking in a dream, don't you know that the family planning policy is so strict now?" โ
Huang Lulu didn't want to quarrel with Zhao Jian about this, but she had a fire in her heart: Don't you know how many catties and taels you have, and whether you will have children or not, don't you still have a number in your heart? Although I think so, I can't say it, now it's hard for someone to put the child's household registration under his own name without spending his own money, which is a good thing that can't be sought, and Huang Lulu is happy in her heart.
Zhao Chunmei is still secretly breastfeeding the child by herself, and Sister-in-law Shui Jing and Jin Quancai discussed it, and felt that Zhao Chunmei had to hand over her child to Huang Lulu as soon as possible to raise. Zhao Chunmei has a different opinion on her mother's suggestion, she believes that she has enough milk now, and the child needs her own breast milk to feed, and it is most beneficial for the child to wait until the child is over one year old to transfer it to her sister-in-law to feed. Because breast milk is beneficial to the healthy growth of children, children are not the same as milk powder. Sister-in-law Shui Jing persuaded her daughter not to be so stubborn, long pain is better than short pain, she also knows that breastfeeding and milk powder feeding will have a great impact on the child, but for the safety of each other, she has to endure the pain of cutting love.
Zhao Chunmei insisted that she was not wrong: "Mom, how can you treat your grandson like this, since you also know the importance of breastfeeding your child, why do you want to deprive me of my right to feed." Sister-in-law Shui Jing patiently explained to Zhao Chunmei: "Chunmei, you have to understand the importance of taking care of the overall situation, Mom will not lie to you, in case our matter is reported by others, not only will the government hold us accountable and issue a huge fine, but it will be a big deal to fire your husband from public office, and you also know that Miao Gen values his work more important than his life." โ
When Zhao Chunmei heard this, she hugged the child and cried silently: "Mom, I know this, but I really can't bear to let my baby son suffer and be wronged." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said with a smile: "Chunmei, think about it, isn't your child the child of our Zhao family, you give him to Lulu to raise, Lulu will not treat him badly, can't you still come over to visit him at any time, don't be too stubborn, Chunmei, your father-in-law has been urging me to let you hand over this child to Huang Lulu as soon as possible, he has already prepared the milk powder money." โ
Huang Lulu naturally stayed out of people's sight early, which was a very important part of Shui Jingsao and Jin Quancai's plan, and Zhao Chunmei hid in Feng Qing's orchard to wait for production to proceed simultaneously. When someone asked, Sister-in-law Shui Jing always said to everyone with a smile: "My family Lulu her, since she was pregnant, she has been doing nothing, just raising her body at home, waiting for childbirth." Sure enough, half a year later, when Huang Lu appeared in front of people's eyes, she was holding a white and chubby baby in her hand.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing has finished these things, and more than a month has passed. After she arranged the affairs of the family, she had the heart to put her energy into her own store. Because Xiaoli found a partner, she resigned and went out with her object. Shui Jing's sister-in-law needed to recruit a new waiter, and Xiao Yang introduced one of his friends to Shui Jing's sister-in-law. Because Sister-in-law Shui Jing admired Xiao Yang's ability, she didn't review the girls recommended by Xiao Yang too much, so she asked Xiao Yang to notify her friend to come to work. Xiao Yang's friend is called Wang Limei, she is smart, tall, very beautiful and sweet-mouthed, and Shui Jing's sister-in-law began to like her. Xiaowen felt that Xiao Yang and Xiao Wang were originally friends, and now that Sister-in-law Shui Jing began to pay attention to Wang Limei again, she was very worried that she would be marginalized by the three of them in the future. Xiaowen's worries about herself are justified, and they are not groundless. I remember one time, one of Xiaowen's old customers who had been in charge of receiving Xiaowen in the past, but I don't know why, this time the old customer came directly to Xiao Wang to contact. Xiaowen came over to say hello, and the old customer only nodded politely, but he didn't show too much enthusiasm and was willing to talk to Xiaowen about business. After the guests left, Xiaowen asked Xiao Wang what was going on? Xiao Wang said, Sister Xiaowen, don't ask me more, I just do things according to the rules, I didn't deliberately rob your customers. Xiaowen went to ask Shui Jing's sister-in-law, and Shui Jing's sister-in-law said: "Xiaowen, this time this customer is indeed I asked Xiao Wang to contact, I think Xiao Wang needs to get acquainted with the business as soon as possible, no practical experience is definitely not good, no matter what Xiao Wang does to your old customers, the profit share is still recorded in your account, you don't have to worry about this, because there is no impact on your performance, therefore, I did not greet you in advance." โ
Xiaowen felt that there must be a possibility that Xiao Yang was behind it. Because it is impossible for Shui Jing's sister-in-law to recommend her old customers to others to contact without greeting herself, this is impossible, but now Shui Jing's sister-in-law also admits that this is her own idea, which is clearly a compromise method for Shui Jing's sister-in-law to settle the matter. Maybe Shui Jing doesn't know the whole story of this matter, Shui Jing's sister is a very adaptable person, and it is entirely possible that she is carrying the bag for them.
Although, after this incident, on the surface, Xiaowen did not affect her mood too much. Xiao Yang and Xiao Wang both talked and laughed with Xiaowen as before, but Xiaowen, who had a pimple in her heart, became more concerned and doubted everything. Therefore, from now on, Xiaowen will not be able to work as seriously as before.
After all, Sister-in-law Shui Jing was always worried about whether Huang Lulu could take Zhao Chunmei's child well. Huang Lulu has never given birth to a child so far, and Sister-in-law Shui Jing is very worried about her. Usually Huang Lulu is indeed a good girl and daughter-in-law, and Sister-in-law Shui Jing is very satisfied, but Huang Lulu is still blank in feeding her children. If Huang Lulu loses patience with feeding her child, then it will bring some hidden dangers to the healthy growth of Zhao Chunmei's child. Sister-in-law Shui Jing had to go home often to instruct Huang Lulu on how to feed her children. Huang Lulu's posture of feeding the child is very rusty, and she is a little hurried. A child's cry will make Huang Lulu anxious, Shui Jing's sister-in-law said to Huang Lulu: "Lulu, now you have a lot of problems, you may have to adapt to this hard life for a period of time in the future, it is impossible for your mother to come over every day to guide you how to do it, you must be patient to learn this skill, which is also very meaningful for you to raise your own children in the future." โ
Huang Lulu said: "Mom, you are very right, I must learn these skills, otherwise, there will be jokes with children." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "Lulu, don't worry, it's not easy to bring the child well, after a long time, practice makes perfect, at that time, the light car is familiar with the road, it is much easier, and now, it will definitely need to go through a period of training." โ
Huang Lulu said: "Mom, you are right, I will have to deal with children from now on, and I need to learn more about this knowledge, after all, I am still a blank slate in this regard." โ
The child was sucking the milk, sucking and sucking, and then began to cry again, twisting his head to the side, scratching and kicking his hands and feet. Huang Lulu stuffed the bottle into the child's mouth, and the child spit it out, still crying and waving his teeth and claws. Huang Lulu panicked to comfort the child, but the child did not appreciate it.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing took the child, gently shook her face and rubbed her face on the child's face a few times, while gently patting the child's back, and after a few times, the child began to calm down, not crying or making trouble, and fell asleep after a while. Sister-in-law Shui Jing carefully placed the child on the bed, and pulled Huang Lu out of the room, and after walking outside, Huang Lulu asked her mother-in-law with a smile: "What method do you use to make the child stop crying or making trouble immediately, I have also done this many times, the child just doesn't accept my affection, why is this?" โ
Shui Jing's sister-in-law said: "Although the child can't speak now, he has a preliminary understanding and perception of the things around him, and even a small change in the environment may cause him discomfort and fear. Most children cry suddenly because of the following problems, or they are unwell; Either hungry; Either you hurt him; There is also the possibility of either peeing and fear. Huang Lulu said: "Mom, what's the use of saying so much, it's impossible for me to test these situations one by one, right?" โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing laughed again: "Of course, you can't use the child as a test subject, but you can quickly analyze the above situation and deal with the most likely situation." For example, you need to grasp and adjust the child's meal time, peeing and sleeping time, so that you can know why the child is in a mood. โ
Huang Lulu said: "You're right, but if the child gets into trouble while eating like just now, I won't leave." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "Also, children really don't distribute their emotions according to the ideas we designed, so we have to be observant and patient as adults." โ
Zhao Jinping brought her daughter to Zhao's house for the Spring Festival. Zhang Fengxian then discussed with Zhao Jinlian, hoping that she would give up her room for her sister and mother and daughter to sleep temporarily.
Zhao Jinlian said, there are so many rooms at home, why do you want to look at my room. If my sister sleeps alone, I don't have any opinion at all, but now that my sister has brought her daughter over, it's either urine or, and the whole room stinks, how can I sleep in the future? Zhang Fengxian had no choice but to go to Zhao Jinchan again to communicate. Jin Chan said, the girl who marries out, spills out the water, and picks and chooses, and doesn't let it, why does Jin Lian sleep in a room alone, why do I have to let it out.
Zhang Fengxian had nowhere to get out of her stomach, so she came over and said to Jin Ping, let's share the shop, your two sisters are used to sleeping alone, and I'm afraid that they won't be able to join the shop for a while.
Zhao Jinping knew that her mother didn't make sense when she went to her two younger sisters, and she was afraid that her mother's body odor would affect her daughter's health, so she said that her daughter didn't sleep well, and what should she do if her mother couldn't sleep at night?
Xu Ruirong knew that Jin Ping's mother and daughter were having trouble sleeping, so he said to them: "I asked Zhao Xin to let the bed out for his aunt to sleep in, and our father and son will build a bunk." โ
Zhang Fengxian loved his grandson, so he said: "Zhao Xin is so old, it must be awkward to sleep with you, let's let him sleep alone, I'll think of another way." โ
Xu Ruirong said: "Mom, don't think about anything else, anyway, the family needs to buy a bed for backup, so I'll buy it in the afternoon." Zhang Fengxian said, that's fine, you go and buy it in the afternoon, just put it in my room.
At night, perhaps because the daughter was not used to the new environment or because of other reasons, the child kept crying and refusing to sleep all night, causing everyone to lose sleep and sleep unsteadily.
Zhao Jinlian endured it all the time at first, but after late at night, she was sleepy and tired, so she rushed to her mother's room and quarreled with Jin Ping: "Sister, how did you take care of the child, she loved to cry so much, and the whole family was so sleepy that you didn't feel sleepy at all, don't you even have such a little ability to be a mother, tomorrow night is still like this, you go back to Huang's house." โ
Zhao Jinping was already in a hurry by her daughter, and her mood was extremely low, and now her sister came over to "ask the teacher for guilt" again, and there was nothing good to say. Zhao Jinping said: "Jin Lian, sister, for the sake of your young age, I don't care about you, there is a reason why my sister can't take your niece well, it's not that my sister is not patient enough, but your niece's health has not been very good, she is not feeling well, and it is normal to be noisy, you can rest assured, my sister will not live for a long time, you can take on a little more." โ
Zhao Jinlian said: "You didn't bring your daughter well, it's your own business, why can't you go to the doctor if you're not in good health, will bringing her here eliminate all kinds of diseases?" โ
The mother couldn't get used to it, so she scolded Jin Lian and said, "Jin Lian, how can you talk to your sister like this, your sister doesn't have a day and night with children, don't you talk about sisterhood at all?" โ
Zhao Jinlian retorted: "She is your baby daughter, what am I doing here, don't I even have the right to say a word?" Yes, Jin Ping gave you so many dowries and sold them for a good price, and you treat her as a treasure, and I might as well be cheap. โ
Zhang Fengxian was angry, so she went over to beat Jin Lian, and Jin Lian cried and said, you just beat me, and if you kill me, I will be excused. And he cried and made a fuss.
Xu Ruirong also got up and walked over and said to Jin Lian: "Little sister, you used to be willful, that's because you are small, and everyone thinks you are cute and interesting." But now, such willfulness is not advisable, your sister is also born by her mother, your sister is in a bad mood these days, and it is very troublesome to stay at home, so come to our house to relax, you should be generous and tolerant, give your sister a chance to repair your mood, brother-in-law can't say anything serious, brother-in-law criticizes you and hopes that you can mature early. โ
Zhao Jinlian was very angry when she heard this: "You all join forces to bully me, and I'm not afraid, since you all look down on me so much, I, Zhao Jinlian, can leave tomorrow, and from now on, the bridge will return to the bridge and the road will go their own way." โ
Zhao Jinchan didn't get up originally, but now he has to get up and speak. She pulled Jin Lian aside and said, "Jin Lian, do you feel so wronged and uncomfortable, then, sister asks you, are the four sisters in our family all born to the same parents and raised by the same parents?" โ
Jin Lian wiped her lips and said, "What do you mean by these words, do you also want to get involved in the crusade against me?" โ
Jin Chan said: "Little sister, you are willful and you make trouble, everyone thinks you are cute, but everything has to have a degree, and you can't be too selfish, so you will suffer a big loss in the future." โ
Jin Lian was unconvinced and said: "That's my business, you don't have to worry about it, you can just bully me." โ
Zhao Xin also got up, and stood at the door in a daze looking at the people in the room.
Zhao Jinlian was very good to Zhao Xin, looking at Zhao Xin's thin clothes, afraid that he would catch a cold, so she said to Zhao Xin: "Zhao Xin, it's nothing to do with you, can you go back to your room and go to sleep?" โ
Zhao Xin walked in and said to Zhao Jinlian for the first time: "Auntie, if you go back to sleep, I will go back to sleep, and if you don't sleep, I won't sleep." โ
Zhao Jinlian said: "Zhao Xin, this is not your child's business, go back to sleep quickly." โ
Zhao Xin rubbed her eyes and approached her grandmother and said, "Grandma, let them all go to sleep." โ
Zhang Fengxian pulled Zhao Xin's head and said, "Grandson, you shouldn't get up, what's wrong with a cold, you listen to your grandmother's words and go back to your room to sleep." โ
Zhao Xin went over and pulled Jinlian's hand and said, "Auntie, don't quarrel with them, I know you're in a bad mood, but aren't everyone in the same bad mood?" โ
Zhao Jinlian left with Zhao Xin, and everyone dispersed immediately.
Zhang Fengxian has known in recent years that her daughter Zhao Jinping is not living well in the Huang family. After the Huang family saw that Zhao Jinping gave birth to their daughter, they began to look at Zhao Jinping with all kinds of faces, and they didn't care about Zhao Jinping's mother and daughter. Huang Zhixiong nominally opened an electrical maintenance department in the town, but he never gave Zhao Jinping living expenses. Zhao Jinping's daughter needs to buy anything to ask her mother-in-law for it, although her mother-in-law will reluctantly take a little money out to Zhao Jinping, but she always likes to ask this question and that first to ask a clear understanding, if it is not necessary, she will not agree.
Zhang Fengxian bought some clothes for her granddaughter. Zhao Jinping said, don't spend this unjust money in the future, you can take the old clothes and let me remake them, children grow up fast, and they can afford to wear new ones. Zhang Fengxian went to the cabinet and found a lot of old clothes for Jin Ping. Jin Ping sat down to make clothes for her daughter.
Here, Huang Zhixiong sent a change of clothes, and after lunch at his mother-in-law's house, he was ready to go back. Zhao Jinlian stopped him and said: "Brother-in-law, what do you mean, she is your child, but not our Zhao family, you just slapped your ass and didn't care, now it's almost the end of the year, no one is busy and busy, you are good, come today, I thought you were picking up my sister back, it turned out that you came to drop the burden." Huang Zhixiong was speechless for a while, unable to speak, just looking at his wife in a trance.
Zhang Fengxian walked over and said, "Zhixiong, you know, your little sister-in-law is unforgiving, don't care too much." โ
Xu Ruirong sent Huang Zhixiong to the entrance of the village, and said to Huang Zhixiong in parting: "Zhixiong, don't have any thoughts about Jin Lian's words just now, Jin Lian has a mouth and no heart, and we are all like this, don't be careful." โ
Huang Zhixiong held Ruirong's hand and said, "Brother-in-law, I don't care what Jin Lian says, you have to take on the affairs of the Zhao family more, I will leave first, if there is anything, you will notify me." โ
The town people's government held a year-end summary report meeting on family planning in the Great Hall. The town's annual family planning summary report meeting was attended by the secretary of the village branch and the director of the villagers' committee, led by the members of the village branch committee, the family planning committee of the village committee, and other members of the village. The agenda of the meeting needs to be arranged for two days to make a summary report on the achievements and lessons learned by the town in the past year. While rewarding advanced villages, the focus is on the draft opinions on criticizing and rectifying the backward villages that have not fulfilled their tasks and failed to meet the standards this year. After the meeting, they will also talk and admonish these backward village cadres. The party branches and village branches of backward villages also need to sign a letter of commitment with the town for next year's lump sum commitment, carry out comprehensive rectification and repair of the family planning work in their villages next year, and focus on the implementation of the assistance work for backward family planning objects. Each village cadre in these villages must be closely linked to the people he is helping in pairs, and he must strictly persuade and persuade and closely follow up the work. At the same time, villagers who have violated the family planning policy have been persuaded and assisted, urged, and supervised many times, but still do not listen to persuasion and do not make corrections, and severely criticize and educate and support people and things who have violated the family planning policy with a bad attitude. In particular, in addition to the punishment of expulsion from the party and dismissal from office, individual party members and cadres who have violated the family planning policy have demanded that the intensity of economic punishment continue to be increased, resulting in a high-pressure situation of severe crackdowns. Encourage and reward the majority of villagers to actively adopt real-name reporting and anonymous reporting, and keep the matters reported by whistleblowers strictly confidential. Where the informant is made difficult, intimidated, retaliated against, or persecuted, the public security organs are to punish them with criticism and warnings, a letter of repentance, a fine, or public security detention, depending on the severity of the circumstances; where a crime is constituted, punishment is to be given severely, severely, and expeditiously in accordance with law. It is necessary to do the propaganda work on family planning in a meticulous, strict and down-to-earth manner. Family planning work has been the main point and focus of all our work in various townships and towns in recent years. Due to the influence of China's feudal remnants of several thousand years, and the bad ideas of having many sons and blessings, and not being filial and having three non-filial ones, are at work, some people in the rural areas are lucky, especially individual cadres, and their ideological concepts are still stuck at this level, and they have greatly affected the development and smooth progress of family planning work. If these people are not severely punished, they will do great harm, and the illegal acts of individual cadres will cause even greater harm and have a worse impact on law-abiding citizens, and they must be punished severely, quickly, and severely.
Jin Miaogen has been sleeping for two or three days, and his sleep has been seriously affected. The day before the town meeting, he knew what the meeting was about. He had to worry about his wife's illegal behavior, and Jin Miaogen really didn't have the courage to stand up and report the fact that his wife gave birth to a second child illegally. Although he shouts the slogan that family planning is a national policy every day, his wife gave birth to a second child illegally, which is ironic. The root of the pain of the golden seedling root also arises from this. To be honest, he Jin Miao himself supports the policies of the party and the people, and he also tries his best to prevent his family from doing illegal and illegal things, but after all, the attitude of the whole family is so unprecedentedly unified, unanimously targeting him, trying his best to hinder him and make him physically and mentally exhausted. Jin Miaogen may be a filial son who does not dare to resist what his parents do too much. He regretted that he had not adhered to his principles and stand, and that he had long since lost the conscience and responsibility of a Communist Party member. He lay on the bed, tossing and turning, unable to sleep. Zhao Chunmei couldn't sleep at the moment, but she was completely different from what he thought. Zhao Chunmei is also thinking at the moment: I haven't seen my son for many days, how is he now? Could he be like me and can't sleep and think about his mother? Zhao Chunmei turned over and said to Jin Miaogen: "Miaogen, what are you thinking, why don't you sleep all night, you have to go to work tomorrow, if you don't sleep, it will affect your work." โ
Jin Miaogen said: "I didn't think about anything, tomorrow the town government will hold a meeting on the summary report of family planning, I am a staff member in the town, and I have a heavy responsibility." โ
Zhao Chunmei smiled and whispered to her husband: "Miao Gen, are you very worried about your wife's affairs being exposed." โ
Jin Miaogen was frightened, and said angrily: "Chunmei, how dare you make such a joke, you join forces to harm me, I am working in fear all day long, do you know?" You are not allowed to make such jokes again. โ
Zhao Chunmei found that her husband's condition was really wrong, so she knew that this joke was too much, so she reviewed her husband and said: "I'm sorry, Miao Gen, I was wrong, I will definitely not dare to make such a joke with you in the future." โ
Jin Miaogen got up from the bed, walked outside to the living room and sat on the sofa to smoke alone. Zhao Chunmei also hurriedly got up, took out a coat and draped it on her husband and said, "Miao Gen, I see that you are in a bad mood, is there something that worries you?" โ
Jin Miaogen extinguished the cigarette and threw the cigarette butt into the ashtray: "It's nothing, you go to sleep." โ
Zhao Chunmei took out a stack of photos from the drawer and handed them to Jin Miaogen: "Miaogen, this is a photo of our child, look at it, the mouth is like me, and the face and nose are like you." โ
Jin Miaogen pretended to take the photo and looked at it, and after a while, he put him on the coffee table, and he lay on the sofa in a trance: This child is indeed a bit like me, this is not a good thing, in case someone is recognized by Zhao Jian and reports something, isn't it very troublesome?
Zhao Chunmei yawned and said: "Miao Gen, I don't sleep at three o'clock in the morning, and I can't sleep even more when the chicken crows." โ
Jin Miaogen didn't bother to open his closed eyelids and said, "You go to sleep, I'll lie here and sleep at night." โ
Zhao Chunmei then went into the house to sleep, her daughter had already kicked the quilt to the ground, Zhao Chunmei picked up the quilt and covered her daughter, and lay down herself.
Xu Ruirong bought fertilizer from the town and asked his son to pull a trolley to pull the fertilizer back. His son Zhao Xin was not happy to do this work, so he walked slowly, looking very aggrieved.
Xu Ruirong urged his son to go faster and said a few words to him. Zhao Xin simply stopped doing it, and pulled out a posture that was ready to fight with Lao Tzu. Xu Ruirong felt that he couldn't cause a conflict with his son on the road, so he swallowed his anger and took the trolley and pulled it himself. His son Zhao Xin deliberately walked more slowly, and when his father was far away, he stopped and turned around to go back to the town to play.
The fertilizer was brought home, and Xu Ruirong moved it into the house. Zhang Fengxian had already cooked a meal and was waiting for them. I didn't see Zhao Xin, so I asked Xu Ruirong, and Ruirong said that he was lost on the road. Zhang Fengxian opened his eyes wide and said: A big living person, why did he get lost in the blue sky and white day? Ruirong only cared about eating his own food and ignored Zhang Fengxian anymore.
After Xu Ruirong had eaten, he would go to the field to apply winter fertilizer to the wheat. The fat pigs at home have been killed a few days earlier to prepare for the New Year, and the pig barn has not been cleaned up properly.
Xu Ruirong tied the tailgate on the trolley with a rope, so that he could load the fertilizer dug out of the pig barn into the car, fill the car and pull it away. Then they were sent to the ground and moved down, and then came back to pull the second cart. In this afternoon, only half of the fertilizer was pulled to the ground, and the work was left to continue tomorrow.
Zhao Jinping asked her mother to hold her daughter, and she was making clothes for the Zhao family. Zhang Fengxian, Xu Ruirong, and Zhao Xin are all one person, Zhao Jinchan only asked her sister to make her a pair of pants, and the pants are now popular with tight flares and loose flares, and black high-heeled leather shoes with dark glasses are very cool. Zhao Jinlian was angry and didn't let her sister do it because of her discord with Zhao Jinping.
Zhao Jinping's costume skills were trained by Huang Caizhen, and it was a familiar thing for her to make a few clothes, and she finished all the clothes in two days. Zhang Fengxian stored the finished clothes in the box and was reluctant to wear them now, Zhao Jinchan had already put on the pants made by her sister to find a tryst with her lawyer's boyfriend, and Zhao Xin also wore it and disappeared. Xu Ruirong couldn't wear new clothes to work because he had endless farm work every day, so he asked his mother-in-law to collect it first.
Zhao Jinping pieced together the leftover pieces of cloth to make her daughter's clothes. Zhang Fengxian found out that Zhao Jinping did not leave an inch of cloth for herself. Zhang Fengxian said to Jin Ping distressedly: You, you have done it for your family, why don't you make one yourself? I'll go buy cloth for you in the afternoon, and tell me what color you like.
Zhao Jinping smiled and said: "Mom, don't be busy with this, I made so many clothes when I got married a few years ago, and I still can't wear them anymore, and my body is getting fatter and fatter, isn't it all wasted." โ
Zhang Fengxian told Ruirong about this and asked him to make a decision. Rui Rong said: "Jin Ping said this, it is nothing more than afraid that we will spend money on her, Jin Ping is indeed good, since she doesn't want to waste money on her, then, you can buy more food for your granddaughter to make up for it." โ
Zhang Fengxian went to the town to buy things according to Xu Ruirong's opinion. Zhao Jinlian saw her mother carrying a large bag of food to the house, so she came over to check to see if there was anything she liked. When he didn't find anything delicious for himself from beginning to end, he became dissatisfied with his mother: "Mom, why are you full of your granddaughter's in your head, why didn't you think about it for others, you are old like this, and you still expect your granddaughter to grow up to be a hundred years old, so that your granddaughter will grow up to honor you." โ
Zhang Fengxian rarely got angry, and when she heard her daughter's words, she couldn't get angry: "Jin Lian, your boss is not small, you have to be measured when you speak, don't always look like you don't look big, that's not good." โ
Zhao Jinlian retorted: "It's not up to you to decide whether I grow up or not, you just take care of yourself, what do you care about me?" โ
Zhao Jinping just walked in from outside, and she didn't know what the mother and daughter were arguing about, so she didn't want to interject. When Zhao Jinlian saw her sister coming in, she pointed the finger at her sister and started a fire: "Jin Ping, don't pretend to be deaf and dumb, everything is caused by you, but now you are pretending that nothing has anything to do with you, can you still convince others by doing this?" โ
Zhao Jinping has the best temper, and her sister will inevitably make things difficult for her everywhere: "Jin Lian, I really don't understand, what did my sister do wrong, making you hate my sister so much, if my sister did something wrong, you can clearly point it out, and my sister can correct it." โ
Zhao Jinlian raised her head and said: "Don't think that I didn't catch your braids, you can justifiably accuse me, I tell you, don't be cautious in front of me, I'm not as easy to talk as a mother." โ
Zhang Fengxian picked up the broom and chased after Zhao Jinlian: "How could I give birth to such an unfilial daughter as you, you can make me angry to death." โ
Zhao Jinlian didn't dare to fight back, but she couldn't let her mother's broom hit her, so she had to run out of the house quickly.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing didn't know when she was standing at the door of Zhao's house, and saw Zhao Jinlian running out of the house, followed by Zhang Fengxian who was chasing with a broom, so she quickly stopped Zhang Fengxian: "Sister-in-law, don't be so angry, if you have anything to say, sit down and talk." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing snatched Zhang Fengxian's broom and dragged her into the house with a smile. Zhang Fengxian said angrily: "Auntie, you don't know, my little daughter makes people feel uncomfortable all day long, and it really makes me angry." โ
Shui Jing said: "As the saying goes, crops like big children and love young, but my sister-in-law disobeyed the words of my ancestors, Jin Lian is the most naughty, but after all, she is still a child, don't worry too much." โ
Zhang Fengxian introduced Shui Jing's sister-in-law into the guest house, and was about to pour water. Sister-in-law Shui Jing let Zhang Fengxian sit down on a chair: "Sister-in-law, you are old, you just sit, and I will pour the water myself." โ
Zhao Jinping came out of the room with her daughter in her arms and greeted Shui Jing's sister-in-law with a smile. Sister-in-law Shui Jing came to see her daughter, Zhao Jinping said: "The child is still too young, otherwise if you heard your aunt come over, you would have called your grandmother a long time ago." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing took the child from Jin Ping's hand and hugged her, and the child was so frightened that she burst into tears. Zhao Jinping then came over to pick it up and said: "My daughter, maybe the time of birth is not right, her body has not been very good, and she is afraid of seeing the living, and she is not even allowed to hold her grandmother." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing asked Jin Ping about the child's physical condition and suggested that she go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination as soon as possible, saying that only in this way can she feel at ease. chatted with Zhang Fengxian for a long time before coming out.
Zhao Jinping asked her mother, "Does my aunt usually come to our house?" The mother said, "How can your aunt have so much time to visit the house, she has a lot of skills, and she has opened several stores, so she is busy." โ
Jin Ping didn't want to ask anything more, after all, she also respected Shui Jing's sister-in-law very much, and she also made her matchmaker. Jin Ping can't talk about being good to Huang Zhixiong or treating him badly, he lives like this, and now that he has his own daughter, he can't have other thoughts.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing came to the Zhao family for no purpose. Yesterday, Barrister Zhu called Jin Miaogen and said that Zhao Jinchan had been in a mood with him in the past few days, and the two had a very unpleasant quarrel because of some trivial matters. Jin Miaogen then called Shui Jing's sister-in-law, hoping that her mother-in-law would go to Zhao's house to learn about the situation. Sister-in-law Shui Jing came directly to Zhao's house when she came back from the county seat, and saw that Zhang Fengxian was chasing Zhao Jinlian, so it was difficult to tell Zhao Jinchan and Lawyer Zhu about the conflict, and she knew from Zhang Fengxian that Zhao Jinchan herself was not at home, so there was no need to tell Zhang Fengxian about it.
Zhao Jinchan is playing at her classmate Bao Yufen's house at the moment. Bao Yufen is a classmate of Zhao Jinchan's junior high school, and the two have been at the same table for three years and have a deep relationship. Bao Yufen is one year older than Zhao Jinchan, so Zhao Jinchan usually calls her 'sister'. Zhao Jincian likes to sing and dance, but Bao Yufen likes sports, running, climbing, and swimming are all her favorite sports. Unlike Zhao Jinchan's personality, Bao Yufen has a very cheerful personality and doesn't take anything to heart, so she likes her friends to hide nothing from her. Zhao Jinchan doesn't say much to others, but he has nothing to say to Bao Yufen. Just now there was a conflict with Lawyer Zhu's boyfriend, Lawyer Zhu's words hurt her self-esteem, Lawyer Zhu said to Jin Chan: "Jin Chan, if you want to become the real girlfriend of this lawyer, you must do the following: 1. You can't go to the dance hall and song hall to show your face like before; 2. Learn some basic knowledge of law from me, take a certificate or something with your heart, and be a good helper for me in the future; 3. Put aside the old concepts and outdated ideas of marrying chickens and dogs, we will gather if we are together, and divide if we don't agree, so that we can gather and disperse; Fourth, you can't spend money lavishly, you must cherish the hard-won concept of every penny, and know how to manage money. Fifth, after marriage, reasonable arrangements for production, the education of children must be comprehensive, and the combination of words and deeds and teaching according to aptitude; Sixth, it must be ยทยทยทยทยทยท. โ
Zhao Jinchan couldn't listen anymore: "Stop... Stop, you've asked me so much, what can you do yourself, why don't you tell me too? โ
Lawyer Zhu said loudly with pride: "Do you think that I am not good enough, and are you still not satisfied with the barrister of this county who is a top student of a prestigious university?" โ
Zhao Jinchan looked at him with contemptuous eyes: "You are indeed very remarkable, a famous college student, a famous barrister, and a daily gold, but what does this have to do with others?" Are you making your parents prosperous? Or did you let your relatives and friends chicken dogs ascend to heaven? Or are you a high-ranking official? Don't you sit in this law firm all day long and sort out a bunch of information, huh! It's not me Zhao Jinchan who ridiculed you, even if you are left in this world, Barrister Zhu, the people's court is still solemn, the judge is still solemn and mighty, and the condemned prisoner is still sentenced to death, do you believe it or not? โ
Zhao Jinchan's words made Lawyer Zhu's jaw drop in surprise. It turned out that Zhao Jincian was still so clever and unforgiving. But Mr. Chu could not easily admit defeat. He had to immediately assemble a powerful vocabulary to refute it.
Barrister Zhu deliberately clapped his palms heavily and said: "Wonderful, indeed very exciting, I really didn't expect that Shibei should be impressed for three days, Jin Chan, your words are sharp, the arguments are sufficient, in the eyes of others, every sentence is sharp, but it's a pity, it's a pity that the one standing in front of you is Ben Zhu, Barrister Zhu may not have other advantages and specialties, but he is a worm who gnaws words and drills words, this time, you are destined to run away." To be honest, to deal with a little illiterate like you, why bother to search your stomach and scrape your stomach to target. Jin Chan, do you really think that what you just said can calm this lawyer? Jokes, what are you knowing, legal knowledge, astronomy and geography, scientific and technological innovation, or historical allusions, customs and customs? May I ask Miss Zhao, if you can understand every subtlety of the content here, even if I lose. โ
Because they refused to give in to each other's words, they were both very unhappy in the end. Zhao Jinchan came out angrily from the office of the county lawyer Zhu, and he also wanted to go home, but it was not interesting to go home at this moment. Zhao Jinlian must be staying at home, she is most unaccustomed to Zhao Jinlian's weird rhetoric and rhetoric. Zhao Jinlian usually speaks so presumptuously is the first major factor in the discord between their sisters, the reason why Zhao Jincian runs out every day, on the one hand, is that he is in the stage of love, and his heart belongs; On the other hand, Zhao Jinlian's stubbornness is also an objective reason. Zhao Jinchan can actually talk about Zhao Jinlian, and Zhao Jinchan is usually not as weak as her sister Zhao Jinping. Zhao Jinchan and Zhao Jinlian are both very selfish, and they will intrigue for a long time for a little thing, Zhao Jinchan is in love at the moment, and some things are beginning to not worry about Zhao Jinlian. This is a real Zhao Jinchan, who knows how to 'not give an inch of land' and knows how to be magnanimous.
Zhao Jinlian is really the living treasure of the Zhao family. Not to mention that she is selfish, brutal and vicious, except for Zhao Xin, any other family members and family members are her enemies Zhao Jinlian. Zhao Jinlian has been pampered by Zhang Fengxian and Zhao Xiaoting since she was a child, and as long as she needs something at home, the Zhao family will change her ways to satisfy her. Zhao Jinlian didn't wear clothes and socks until she was a teenager, and her mother did all these things. If her mother was a little sluggish, Zhao Jinlian would wave her fist and hit her mother's back. The Zhao family has great respect for Xu Ruirong, but Zhao Jinlian feels that it is a waste of time to even look at him more. Zhao Jinlian doesn't know if it's because Zhao Xin is close to her age or because Zhao Xin has lacked maternal love since she was a child, so she has a sad heart, but she loves Zhao Xin very much. Zhao Xin is also very friendly to Zhao Jinlian, because Zhao Jinlian can bring him benefits anytime and anywhere, and there is no shortage of food and play. It is the nature of children to be greedy for food and play, and there is no reason to hate to provide themselves with delicious and fun partners.
Zhao Xin is also Zhang Fengxian and Zhao Xiaoting's favorite person. But after all, Zhao Xin was still pressed by Xu Ruirong, so Zhao Xin didn't dare to ask for more in front of his grandparents. Zhao Xiaoting is good to Zhao Jinlian because Zhao Jinlian has been sleeping with Zhao Xiaoting and his wife since she was a child, until Zhao Jinlian went out to study in junior high school. Zhao Jinlian didn't want to study before graduating from junior high school, Zhao Xiaoting and Zhang Fengxian also felt sorry for their baby daughter suffering outside, so they agreed that Zhao Jinlian didn't have to go to school, Xu Ruirong knew that he pulled Zhao Jinlian to finish junior high school.
Zhao Jinchan didn't go to Lawyer Zhu for two days, and Lawyer Zhu realized that Zhao Jinchan was really angry this time. Lawyer Zhu is not right and wrong, and Zhao Jinchan can't live his life. The reason why he had to make so many demands on Zhao Jinchan last time was not that Lawyer Zhu took a fancy to Zhao Jinchan and wanted to train Zhao Jinchan to be his real helper. Lawyer Zhu is arrogant, he thinks he is capable, his requirements for his girlfriend are getting higher and higher, and Ben and Jin Miaogen also started as a joke, but Shui Jing's sister-in-law and Jin Miaogen are very concerned about this matter out of their own considerations. So, if the fake show is really done, Zhao Jinchan will become his real girlfriend. The development of the two is a smooth thing, but as long as they get along, Barrister Zhu will be teased by others: "Barrister Zhu, do you really think that you don't feel a loss when you have a rural girl as your girlfriend?" You have a culture, an education, an identity, a status in the industry, and a city hukou, these conditions are very superior, do you really think that 'love is priceless', and any material conditions are secondary? โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing is very worried about the cold war between Zhao Jinchan and Barrister Zhu. Sister-in-law Shui Jing originally regarded the successful love history of Zhao Jincian and Barrister Zhu as her own outstanding achievements. If these two start a cold war now, it will simply be the 'life' of Sister-in-law Shuijing. Sister-in-law Shui Jing has not heard of a case of split divorce of a husband and wife introduced by herself, although after Sister-in-law Shui Jing's introduction was successful, such a marriage is no longer included in the scope of Sister-in-law Shuijing's follow-up. But Sister-in-law Shui Jing also cares about these situations from time to time. Her service is top-notch and not 'for nothing'.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing specially went to the office to find lawyer Zhu to understand the real situation of the conflict between the two. Lawyer Zhu respects and admires Shui Jing's sister-in-law, so he is also very moved by Shui Jing's sister-in-law's work for herself. He told all the unhappiness caused by Zhao Jinchan because of his jokes with Miss Zhao and his own request to Zhao Jinchan to improve her literacy. When Sister-in-law Shui Jing heard this, she echoed him and said: "You're right, who doesn't want their partner to improve, the fault of this matter lies with Jin Cicada, I will find her to criticize, to be honest, Jin Cicada is worthy of you, she has climbed high." Now it's good that she doesn't realize this layer, and it is too bad for her to her tail. Lawyer Zhu, you have a lot of adults, you can't deal with her, she can apologize to you and review it. At the same time, don't worry about her faults, as long as you continue to talk to He Meimei, my face will be bright as an aunt. โ
Lawyer Zhu naturally couldn't help but give Shui Jing's sister-in-law face, so he said: "Auntie is very right, in fact, I also love Jin Cicada very much, although she is a little willful, but it is impossible to fault her, I shouldn't make such a big joke with her, so that she carries such a heavy burden on her back, and gives her so harsh requirements, these are all my faults." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "These are all small things, okay, I'll get Miss Zhao back, you guys 'laugh and enmity'." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing came out of the office, and she felt a little confident in her heart, and now she must get Zhao Jincian back as soon as possible. This girl is really, after arguing once, she ignores others and gets up, so capricious. Don't you know that you're climbing up and not pleading with you? People are most afraid of not being able to recognize their own situation, not being able to test their pulse, and overestimating themselves will not even have time to regret it in the end.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing returned to the village again, and she was worried about Zhao Jinchan's absence for a few days. But as soon as Sister-in-law Shui Jing stepped into the threshold of the Zhao family, she immediately changed her demeanor, and she went straight to the point and asked Zhang Fengxian where Zhao Jinchan had gone. This question can stop Zhang Fengxian, yes, where has Jin Cicada died in the past few days, and she has not been seen for three days? She hurriedly brought Xu Ruirong over and asked him where Jin Cicada might go. Xu Ruirong said that he is not easy to guess this, but he will definitely not go to his relatives' houses to hide, because Zhao Jinchan has hated going to relatives' houses since he was a child, let alone when he grows up.
Zhang Fengxian was so anxious that she stomped her feet: "Then what can I do, I can't find it, and I can't find it." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing suggested that they go out to inquire first, Zhao Jinchan's traces in the past few days, maybe others may have met her in person.
Zhao Jinping brought her daughter in from outside to breastfeed, and when she saw Shui Jing's sister-in-law coming up with some ideas for her mother, she asked what was the matter. Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "Jin Ping, this is also a big thing for your Jin family, you should also think about it, where will the golden cicada go." โ
Jin Ping laughed and said: "On this matter, Jin Chan usually likes to run to Zhu Law Firm, and his feelings will not leave Lawyer Zhu this time, maybe he will hide in Lawyer Zhu's house?" โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said to Zhao Jinping solemnly: "Jin Ping, if you analyze it like this, we wouldn't be so anxious, the problem is that Lawyer Zhu is also looking for her." If Jin Chan is at Barrister Zhu's house, will Lawyer Zhu let us find someone together? โ
When Zhao Jinping heard this, she also panicked, but she couldn't make ideas for everyone for a while, so she had to go into the house to make milk powder. Zhang Fengxian didn't have anything to say for a while, so she followed up to help Jin Ping pour water.
Xu Ruirong asked Sister-in-law Shui Jing to go into the room and sit down to discuss this matter again, and Sister-in-law Shui Jing also wanted to do something for Jin Cicada in her heart, so she didn't shirk it.
Zhao Jinping put her sleeping daughter in place, and turned around to talk to everyone. Sister-in-law Shui Jing asked the family to carefully analyze whether Zhao Jinchan would run away, how likely is this?
Zhao Jinping said: "I believe that Jin Cicada will not go far at this time, because, now that the Spring Festival is approaching, everyone else is coming home for the holiday, besides, the shops are closed, the construction sites are suspended, and the schools, factories and mines are all on vacation, can she go far away at this time?" โ
Xu Ruirong also agreed with Zhao Jinping's opinion: "In my opinion, Zhao Jinchan will not go out at this time, besides, even if she has an awkward relationship with her lover, she will not be so angry." But it's really hard for him to say where to hide, and there is a possibility that his relatives will go, but he is not very sure. โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing asked Zhao Jinping: "You are her sister, you should know her hobbies and interpersonal relationships, you think about it carefully for me, where she is most likely to go, we have to find someone first, we have to find the easiest direction to find." โ
Jin Ping said that Jin Cicada usually doesn't talk to herself much, and she doesn't have many good friends, and she definitely won't hide it for so long in the same village, otherwise it is possible to hide it from her classmates.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing asked Jin Ping again: "Jin Ping, think about it carefully, who is Jin Cicada's best friend, and has he ever been to your house before?" โ
Zhang Fengxian interjected: "I seem to have heard Jin Chan talk about her at the same table before, oops, what's her name?" I can't remember it for a while, it seems to be from Lizhuang Village. โ
Zhao Jinping said: "Li Zhuang is generally surnamed Li, will she also have the surname Li, you think about it slowly." Xu Ruirong said: "Whoever said that Li Zhuang must be surnamed Li, I have a classmate who is Li Zhuang, but his surname is Bao." โ
"Yes, yes, this classmate must be surnamed Bao, I remembered, surname Bao, what is Fen's name."
"Bao What Fen, could it be Jin Fen, Shui Fen, Ying Fen or something?"
Xu Ruirong said, I will go to Lizhuang to find it immediately, and it is convenient to find my classmates there.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said, I will go too, and when people ask, it is more convenient for me to reply to others.
The two said that they would leave, and they went to Li Zhuang. Sister-in-law Shui Jing is really anxious, and now Xu Ruirong is only angry with her sister-in-law's willfulness.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing and Xu Ruirong went to Li Zhuang, and Xu Ruirong went to find his classmate Bao Xueqing first. Bao Xueqing was not there, his wife was there, and Xu Ruirong told his wife about the matter. The classmate's wife didn't know about this person, so she found out her daughter and asked. Her daughter said that we have two girls of the same age as your sister-in-law in Lizhuang, one is Bao Yufen from the east of the village, and the other is Bao Xiaofen from the same production team as us, let me take you over.
Bao Xiaofen's house arrived soon. Bao Xueqing's daughter called Xiaofen. Her mother opened the door and asked them what they were looking for Xiaofen, and Xueqing's daughter said that they were from Zhao Village and were looking for someone. And the woman said, I have this man here and there, and look for him somewhere else. Sister-in-law Shui Jing asked her with a smile: "Eldest sister, has your daughter been a classmate with a girl named Zhao Jinchan in Zhao Village?" The woman shook her head and said, I haven't heard of it, you wait a minute, otherwise, I'll bring my daughter and ask. So the three of them waited for Bao Xiaofen at Bao Xiaofen's house. Xiao Fen followed her mother over after a while, and Xiao Fen said that there were many classmates in Zhao Village, but there was no one named Zhao Jinchan.
The three of them had to go to Bao Yufen's house at the entrance of Lizhuang Village. Bao Yufen's house is in front of you. Bao Xueqing's daughter said, the person you are looking for lives not far from the front, and you see that the four brick houses are Yufen's home.
Zhao Jincian is really at Bao Yufen's house, and today is the third day. As soon as Xu Ruirong and Shui Jing's sister-in-law walked into Bao's house, they saw Zhao Jinchan playing cards with a few people inside. Zhao Jinchan also saw them, so he put down the cards and let the three of them into the house.
Zhao Jinchan went home with Shui Jing's sister-in-law and brother-in-law, and Shui Jing's sister-in-law talked to Zhao Jincian alone. Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "Jin Chan, Auntie came to you today, it's nothing else, I'll ask you one thing, you have to tell Auntie the truth." โ
Zhao Jinchan said: "Auntie, you say, Jin Chan will definitely not tell a lie in front of her aunt." โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing nodded with satisfaction and said: "I know you believe Auntie, then I have nothing to hide from my niece, you got along very well with Lawyer Zhu some time ago, Auntie thought that the run-in period between the two of you had passed, and Auntie was secretly happy for you, but in the past few days, Auntie only knew that Auntie was too optimistic, what Auntie wants to know now is whether the two of you can continue to develop in the future, Auntie can't make decisions for either of you in this matter, Auntie just wants to know, what you say in your heart." โ
"Auntie, I don't have anything to say, if Lawyer Zhu gets along with me just out of joke, then I don't have the need to get along with him anymore, I, Zhao Jincian, am the lowest, and I always have a personality."
"You're right, there is no distinction between high and low, and if someone looks down on my niece, I won't agree."
"Auntie, I think Lawyer Zhu is very arrogant, he thinks that he is a high-achieving student and can be proud of everything with a tempting career, and he is too self-righteous."
"Auntie agrees with you, people can't be looked down upon by others." Sister-in-law Shui Jing echoed and said: "However, from what I learned from Lawyer Zhu himself this time, he should be sincere to you, at least in the days before you got along." โ
Zhao Jincian said angrily: "Auntie, you definitely don't understand how hypocritical he is, he is well disguised, I used to think that I would be happy to be able to find such an excellent man as a partner and get married, but now I have a new understanding of him." โ
"Jin Chan, tell me all about Lawyer Zhu's dissatisfaction and shortcomings, so that my aunt will have an objective understanding of Lawyer Zhu."
"What can I say about him, I think, he may think that he is a very outstanding talent, a leader in the industry, so his innate superiority leads him to be superior to others."
"Can you be specific, like ยทยทยทยทยทยท?"
"For example, look at the same object. He must first talk about the shortcomings of this thing, and in his eyes, there is no superiority or any practical value. โ
"Maybe it's a difference in aesthetics, this can't be regarded as his shortcoming, but I think he is a person with a unique vision."
"You don't agree with me in this regard, but the problem is that he also uses such a point of view when he comments on a person, which is simply unbearable."
"Maybe he's such a person, because of his excellent eloquence, even if he just says someone, he can get into the wood."
"Auntie, maybe you admire a kind of person like him, but I feel more and more that he has no talent to learn, and his spiritual thoughts are biased."
"Jin Cicada, Jin Wuzuba, no one is perfect, commenting on a person, we can only measure it with the idea of moderation, especially for our lover, we should be more tolerant of his shortcomings."
"Auntie is not wrong at all, I thought so at first, but Lawyer Zhu doesn't think so, he thinks everyone must be perfect. His criteria for choosing a mate for him are not only to have the other party's elegant appearance and generous manners, but also to the other party's sharp thinking, intelligence and virtuousness, which is not enough, but also needs superior family conditions, only in this way can he be regarded as a good match. โ
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "This is indeed a bit excessive, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, it is impossible to be perfect in everything, even if it is a high-quality jade, there is always a trace of flaw." โ
"Jin Chan, let's not talk about his shortcomings, let's talk about his personal advantages from another angle."
"I have to admit that he does have many advantages, but that is based on me as a reference, if you use someone better than him as a reference, it is estimated that he is worthless."
Sister-in-law Shui Jing secretly pondered: Don't think that this niece is easy to deceive, it seems that Jin Cicada really has some ink in her stomach.
Sister-in-law Shui Jing said: "Jin Chan, to be honest, my aunt thinks that Lawyer Zhu's advantages still outweigh his disadvantages, not to mention anything else, after all, he has read so many books, he is cultivated, educated and capable, isn't he?" The level of education is not just one or two levels higher than ours. If, I mean, if you can still accept his shortcomings, then you have to learn to appreciate his advantages, my aunt thinks that it is very difficult to find an excellent object, not to mention that the buyer can't find the seller, the same reason, the seller can't find the buyer, these truths aunt don't say, I believe you also understand. โ
"I know that my aunt has been working hard for me, and I am very grateful, okay, auntie, you let me think about it for two more days, and I will finally decide whether to continue to get along or part ways after two days."
"That's good, Auntie completely agrees with you, I'm waiting for good news."