The old lady whispered to Xu Zhixia: "You find a time to persuade your eldest brother." ”

"It's been a year since he got divorced, and he didn't talk about finding someone again, I mentioned it to him last time, and he said he wouldn't look for it."

"What kind of business, he is only in his forties, not to mention that he still has decades to live, and it is not a matter to be so lonely and alone."

"At that time, I also saw that he was divorced, and I was afraid that he would be in a bad mood, so I came over with your father, and now I am with your father, he doesn't feel lonely, and we will leave in the future, what should he do alone?"

Xu Zhixia nodded frequently.

"Xu Hao is following Li Xiaoling again, and he will definitely care about his mother in the future, and he won't be able to control your eldest brother."

"Minmin, a girl, is going to marry in the future, isn't your eldest brother going to be an old man?"

After listening to the old lady, Xu Zhixia said briskly: "Okay, I'll find a chance to talk to my eldest brother." ”

At this time, Xu Min and Susie had already walked to the backyard, Xu Min asked Susie, "Sister, when my aunt said those things just now, she said that the third uncle cheated, this is too bad, sister, you have to punish him well!" ”

She had seen this third uncle when she was very young, and she had no impression.

However, when she heard about cheating, she was very angry.

Susie laughed, "Punishment? How to punish? What power do I have to punish? ”

"The marriage law doesn't stipulate that cheating will be punished, so what can I do."

Xu Min said puzzledly: "But, aren't we all like this here, if there is a problem with the style of life, the unit will punish it." ”

"You're the leader of the third uncle!"

Susie said in her heart that Xu Min is worthy of being a child from the compound, and she really knows a lot.

She stood under the porch and patiently asked Xu Min, "Then you say first, what is the purpose of punishment?" ”

Xu Min said: "Let them learn a lesson and never make the same mistake in the future." ”

Susie smiled, "Most of the time, it's for this purpose, but the third uncle is different here. ”

"In the matter of the third uncle, it is useless to punish him and let him learn a lesson."

"He now has the identity of Hong Kong City, if I do it ruthlessly and fire him, so what, he has an identity, he still has work experience, he can find a job in Hong Kong City at any time with a monthly salary of 3,000, and he can still live with that woman."

"In this case, Duoduo and Huzi will lose their father, and a family will be scattered."

"My purpose is not to punish the third uncle, that is meaningless, but to help the two children keep the family and let the two children grow up in the company of their father."

Xu Min pursed his lips, "However, the third uncle is too bad, just let him go like this, it's so annoying." ”

Susie touched Xu Min's head, she was very pleased that her sister had such a sense of justice.

She smiled, "How to say, I rarely do things from emotions, usually from the purpose." ”

"Doing things from the emotional point of view can only vent anger, starting from the purpose of doing things, and every step goes straight to the goal."

"Therefore, I usually clarify what my goal is first, and I don't do useless emotional catharsis."

Xu Min looked at Susie and blinked, never puzzled, and slowly became thoughtful.

Susie smiled and pinched Xu Min's face, "It's not early, go to sleep." ”

Xu Min nodded and walked over to the east wing.

She lay on the bed, thinking about Susie's words over and over again, doing things from the purpose, not from the emotion.

The more she thought about it, the more she felt that this seemed to be the right way to do things.

In school, compared with her peers, she felt that she was far superior to them in terms of knowledge and mind, but compared with her sister at this time, she realized that she still had a long way to go.

Xu Min was not discouraged, but was very happy, he had a harvest today, of course he should be happy.

The next morning, Xu Min got up early, cooked a big pot of porridge with the old lady, scrambled eggs, and prepared a few side dishes.

Everyone had breakfast together in the hall, and Xu Zhixia said that she would take the two children to the capital to play around.

Xu Min said: "Auntie, I will be your guide, and I will know where to take the bus." ”

Xu Zhixia smiled, "That's great, I'm thinking about this, we don't know the road, the capital is so big, it's like a fly without a head when you go out." ”

She turned her head to look at the old lady, "Mom, do you and Dad want to go with us?" ”

The old lady waved her hand, "Your eldest brother has taken us around." ”

"I won't go out on such a hot day, in case of heat stroke, it will cause you trouble."

Susie said: "Auntie, you take Ye Ying with you, she has been here for more than a month, and she has only been to the Forbidden City once." ”

Xu Zhixia smiled again, "Okay, okay, Ye Ying's kung fu is so good, we also have a sense of security when we go out." ”

After breakfast, a large group of people went out to play.

In the afternoon, Qiao Mu also came, and the big round tables in the hall were full, and the old lady and Xu Laohan were unprecedentedly happy.

Look at this family, the children are neat and tidy, and they are angry, how can they not be pleased.

After eating, the brothers and sisters went to the backyard study to play bridge, the old lady and Xu Laohan were watching TV in the hall, Xu Zhixia saw that there was no one in the front yard, gave Xu Zhiming a look, and called him out.

The brother and sister walked to the courtyard, Xu Zhixia glanced at her brother, and under the moonlight, the eldest brother also had a lot of gray hair on his head.

Alas, the eldest brother is also old.

She asked softly, "Big brother, what are your plans for your personal problem?" ”

Xu Zhihui looked up at the sky, "I don't have any plans, it's good to live like this." ”

Those endless quarrels are gone, there are hot meals prepared by my mother when I go home, my daughter is well-behaved and sensible, and the color TV, refrigerator, washing machine, and water heater at home are complete, and I don't know how comfortable the days are.

In addition to wanting to go up in his career, for the rest, he feels that there is nothing to pursue in life.

Xu Zhixia disagreed, "Brother, it's not okay if you don't find someone, you are still young now, and your health is good, you must feel that it is nothing to live alone." But in the future, when you are old, several children will be busy with their own work, if there is a person who is sick and in pain, who will serve you? ”

"As the saying goes, a full house of children is not as good as a halfway couple, there must always be someone around you who brings you tea and water, do you say it's you."

Xu Zhihui waved his hand, "You don't have to worry about this, I believe that with Qianqian here, she will definitely arrange my old age." ”

He is very sure of this, even if Susie doesn't call him dad for the rest of his life, he will definitely not ignore him.

Xu Zhixia thought about it, the eldest brother was not worried about life, and she said: "Brother, the sister-in-law in front of me is unreliable, but there are still many good women in this world." ”

"Former sister-in-law, to be honest, the education level is still a little low, and it is unreasonable. Wouldn't it be good to find a knowledgeable and virtuous woman, who has loved and loved for the rest of her life? ”

(End of chapter)