The next day, Yan Xin and Alili got up early in the morning, and Alili took Yan Xin to run in the morning.

This area is more familiar to Ellili, and knows which places are suitable for morning jogging, and which places are too polluted to go for running.

They live on the edge of the city, and not far from there, they are in the countryside, where they are farmland, the air is better, and the concrete road is built for running.

I walked to the area, then slowly trotted up.

It was almost eight o'clock when the two of them went back.

Alili also took Yan Xin to deliberately go around in a circle, ran to a restaurant, and ordered a few breakfasts to take home.

Ai Jing cooks at home, but she only cooks lunch and dinner, not breakfast, and she can't get up that early.

Breakfast was all eaten outside.

The breakfast in this restaurant is more to her liking, and the store is relatively clean, so she can rest assured that her breakfast is basically served by this restaurant.

There are many types of breakfast served in this restaurant, and Alili ordered a few, spent more than 100 yuan, and brought it back with Yan Xin.

This also made Yan Xin sigh that the life of rich people is different, and a breakfast costs so much money.

He lives in Yangcheng, and eating breakfast outside is usually a few yuan, and when he is most luxurious, it is only a dozen yuan.

When she returned home with breakfast, it was only then that Ellilie called her mother to get up and eat.

During the meal, Yan Xin told Alili that she wanted to go to Fengxiang City to have a look, and asked her if she would like to go with her.

Arily hesitated, but still refused: "I don't want to go to that place for the time being, you can go alone." ”

Yan Xin has a good impression of this community, but Alili doesn't think so.

For her, this community carries too many unpleasant memories, working there for a long time, and being scolded by the owner every day, scolding her a little doubtful of life.

At this stage, she is not prepared to go over.

Yan Xin was not reluctant, so he decided to go there alone in the morning to have a look.

Without bringing the beautiful Elili over, the effect of returning home would be greatly reduced, but it was impossible for him to force Elili to go.

After breakfast, he drove his Mercedes-Benz to Fengxiang City.

Arily really wanted to accompany him, but now she really didn't want to go to Fengxiang City to face those faces she didn't like, so she could only stay at home.

After Yan Xin drove away, Ai Jing asked her, "Why don't you follow him?" ”

"I don't want to go there, a lot of people have scolded me, it's ugly, and when I see those people, if they don't know I've resigned, maybe they'll scold me." Arily said.

She knew that those owners scolded her not because of how bad she was doing, but because she was the assistant director of the management office, and she was the actual person in charge of the property in the community for a long time, and people scolded her for that position.

Knowing that she has resigned, there is a high probability that she will not scold, and she will not dare to scold her.

But if those owners don't know that she has resigned, and when they see her, they may scold her.

She's not a person who scolds back, so there's no need to lose her good attitude.

I can't explain that I've quit my job when I see someone, it's like a psychopath.

When Ai Jing heard her say that, she felt a little reluctant to go - because Alili had never been willing to go to work in Fengxiang Property, and she forced her to go.

At that time, what she wanted was the company Fengxiang Property, to be able to get this company into her hands, and to have a source of income for a year, even if Cai Qixiang was no longer there, she could rely on it in the future.

said: "If I knew that you were being bullied so much there, I shouldn't have let you go there to work." ”

Arily glanced at her, a little surprised.

Surprisingly, this mother will admit her mistakes, this is simply the first time in the world.

It made her feel as if her status in this family had improved a little.

Said: "That's nothing, it's all over anyway, it's all in the past, it can be regarded as a tempering for me, it will help me grow, but I don't want to accept this kind of tempering in the future." ”

"In fact, women's families don't have to care so much about their careers, and it's not that important if they are sharpened or not."

Ai Jing felt that she should take advantage of this time to teach her daughter a good lesson, and threw out her theory in a timely manner:

"Working hard for a career, that's a man's business, the most important thing for us women is to choose an excellent man, serve him well, and his career will become your own career, which is much stronger than working hard outside."

Allylie was not pleased with this.

She knew that her mother's words were not entirely unreasonable, and it was obviously much easier to marry an excellent man than to work her own.

But isn't this a matter of being dependent on someone else's life?

Although she also knew that her job was obtained by Yan Xin, and she herself did not have the strength to become the general manager of Starlight Entertainment, at least she could do this job well and live with her own efforts.

If she lived on someone else, even if that person was the man she loved the most, it would make her feel uncomfortable and feel like a shameful parasite.

The education she received in school since she was a child did not allow her to be so depraved.

She didn't want to quarrel with her mother, but she still expressed her attitude: "I think it's better for women to have their own careers." ”

"A woman's greatest career is a man."

Ai Jing insisted on her opinion and said,

"Don't be poisoned in textbooks, countless facts have proved that men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men, this is a gender difference, we have to admit this fact, not follow this fact. If you can't recognize this fact, you're going to have to run into a bloody head in the future. ”

Alili said: "I still want to give it a try, I think I can do something, even if I can't achieve my own career, I can also help Yan Xin and relieve him of pressure." ”

She speaks softly, but her attitude is very resolute, she still doesn't want to be a housewife who can only rely on men, she hopes to have some achievements in her career.

Ai Jing sighed: "You, you seem to be more obedient than anyone else, but in fact, you are stubborn, and you can't listen to anyone." ”

"Not like that." Arily could only whisper her defense.

Ai Jing said: "You have your own ideas, and I won't fight with you, but you must know that no matter how successful a woman's career is, if she loses the favor of a man, it will also be a failure." ”

Arily thought to herself, "But I haven't seen you please a man." ”

As if knowing what she was thinking, Ai Jing said again: "My fate is not good, when I meet a man like your father, he must rely on the power of his wife's family to do business, and it is impossible to divorce her, otherwise, I would have stepped on the yellow-faced woman to take the throne, and I would not be as light as the mouse in the gutter now." ”

said this depressedly, and then boasted again:

"However, even if I have a yellow-faced woman with such a strong mother's power, your father still hasn't given up on me, and would rather take the risk to maintain the current relationship with me, rather than send some money to break off the relationship like the rest of his women and become my long-term meal ticket, which is also my ability, which other fox spirits can't learn."

Arily thought to herself, "Even if you are the most powerful vixen, what about it? It's not that you can't see the light, you can only live a sneaky life. ”

She was very dismissive of her mother's shameless mentality, thinking that this was a manifestation of self-love.

But as a child, it's not easy to reprimand him directly, so he can only say: "I'm not as powerful as your mother." ”

"You can learn this," Ai Jing said, "No one is born with those things, and I slowly realized them step by step, if I hadn't learned these and captured your father's heart, where would I be today?" My mother and daughter didn't know where we were poor. ”

Alily thought to herself, "I'd rather be poor than live like that." ”

When this thought was born, I inexplicably thought of the people I saw in Huaxi Park yesterday sleeping in the park, and thought to myself: "If I am poor to that extent, am I willing to do it?" ”

Suddenly there was some confusion.

She couldn't understand such a poor life, and she didn't know how to live in that environment.

Ai Jing said again: "Don't look down on those ways to please men, even if you want to have a career, you must also catch your man, otherwise there are so many temptations outside, you have no means at all, your man will become someone else's man, and when the time comes, if you have a career, without a man, there is no place to cry." ”

Alili said: "Yan Xin is not that kind of person, he will not betray me." ”

Ai Jing sneered: "He is a man, and there is nothing that a man does not steal, unless the conditions do not allow." You see that he is handsome, so rich, and so young, I don't know how many young and beautiful women will pounce on him in the future, do you think he can resist such temptation? ”

"He can resist." Ellily said with certainty.

Ai Jing didn't know where her confidence came from, and said, "Even if he can resist now, what about the future?" People always change, especially rich men. Now that you are young and beautiful, he can put his whole heart on you, but in a few years or ten years, you will not be so young and beautiful, at that time there were countless young and beautiful women dangling in front of him, using various methods to tempt him, are you sure he will still put his heart on you? ”

Arily was very confident, but she was a little unconfident by what she said.

When facing Yan Xin, she has two inferiority complexes, one is her identity as an illegitimate daughter, and the other is that she is a few years older than Yan Xin.

Now she is still very young, and the difference in how many years there is not much to come.

But in a few years, that will not be the case.

As the saying goes, men have forty-one flowers, and women have forty tofu dregs.

A forty-year-old man is still very attractive, and with the blessing of wealth and experience, he is even more attractive than a young man.

But a forty-year-old woman is already a beauty in the twilight.

What's more, when Yan Xin was forty years old, she was already forty-five.

By that time, she already had wrinkles on her face, and Yan Xin was in her prime.

It's really hard to say whether Yan Xin's heart can be retained.

just thought so in his heart, but he didn't admit defeat in his mouth, and said: "Yan Xin is not such a superficial person, he doesn't just look at appearances, and our feelings are there, so it is not so easy to be corroded." ”

Ai Jing said: "Okay, even if what you say is true, he can always be good to you, but if you have more ways to please him, can you make him better for you?" If you put more effort into beauty and beauty, so that your youth and beauty can be retained for a longer time, will he be in a better mood when he sees you more beautiful? ”

This made Alili nod her head: "This is also true." ”

"So, you have to learn too." Ai Jing said.

Ai Jing had never discussed such a topic with her daughter before, because the blind date she arranged for her daughter was unsuccessful, and she learned the art of slaying dragons, and there was no dragon to slaughter in the world, so it was in vain.

What's more, I haven't gotten along with men, and I can't understand a lot of things when I say them, and I can't teach them.

You have to have the experience of living with men to understand what she is saying.

Later, Ellili found a man by herself, but she seemed to be a poor man, and she was angry in her heart, so naturally she would not say these things.

Later, the little white face actually trembled, and his net worth exceeded 100 million.

But there is such a big contradiction between mother and daughter, and the daughter is not left at home all the year round, and she wants to pass on her experience, but she does not have that opportunity.

Now that she has finally seized such an opportunity, she will naturally not let it go, and she wants to pass on the skills she has learned all her life to her daughter, so as to ensure the wealth of the mother and daughter in the future.

Ellilie's heart has been shaken by her words, a little worried that she will end up miserable after she is old and decrepit, and she also wants to learn something to envelop men.

As her mother said, even if Yan Xin will not change his mind in the future, it is good if he can make him have a better attitude towards himself and have deeper emotions.

It also helps to improve well-being.

Throughout the morning, Ai Jing and Alili talked about how to capture a man's heart.

Some of her views, Ellilie actually disagrees with.

For example, Ai Jing insists that men are all big carrots, and the so-called money becomes bad, but it is only with money that there is the capital to become bad.

Those who don't have money don't make flowery actions, but their hearts are also flowery.

Alili seriously disagreed with this, and gave an example to show that Yan Xin actually had beautiful women around him, even including big stars like Gu Ru who had been to the Spring Festival Gala, but he was not impressed.

However, under the large number of examples cited by Ai Jing, it gradually wavered.

She still believes that Yan Xin is not attentive now, but she is not sure whether Yan Xin will become a flowery man in the future.

What Ai Jing taught her was not how to be Yan Xin's only woman, with her understanding of men, especially rich men, she felt that it was impossible.

Forcing something like that will only make it bad.

Ai Jing taught her how to be a big woman.

She said to Arily:

"It's normal for a man to be attentive, but it's not normal if he doesn't pay attention, then there must be something wrong with his body."

"It's not a big deal to mess with flowers and grass once in a while, as long as his heart is still on you and acknowledges that you are his wife, that's fine. Tossing on other women, he is also tired, and you have nothing to lose, so there is no need to worry about it. ”

"Of course, you still have to have an attitude, you have to express that you don't like such things, you don't care about it at all, then the man will have to inch in, and when the time comes, bring women into the house, or even take your place, it's not good."

"But you can't express it too harshly, you have to leave some leeway."

"Pretend to be stupid when you should be stupid, too smart a woman, few men will like it."

"If a man lied to you, he was still a little afraid of you, so you let him deceive. If you don't even cheat, it means that you are dispensable in his heart, and he doesn't care about your reaction anymore, which is the worst. ”

"Men are socializing outside, messing with flowers and grass, this can't be avoided, you just pretend not to know."

"But if you raise a woman outside, the nature is different, and it is someone who may replace you."

"If you find a sign like that, you have to put it out sooner."

"It's too late to know, and it's already inextinguishable, so you can only learn to coexist with that woman, but don't force your man to choose one of the two, a capable man is not persecuted."

"At this time, what you need to do is to make yourself better, compare the other party, and make the man feel that you are the best one. Instead of making a big fuss, that will just make the man leave you......"

After a lot of rambling words, Elili was dumbfounded when she heard it, and felt that if the husband and wife did this, it would be too sad.

But at the same time, I feel that there seems to be a little bit of truth.