Yan Xin will return to Yangcheng tomorrow, and he doesn't have so much time to deal with this matter slowly.

What Bai Xiaoling said in the morning also made him feel the same way, for his father, he would be old in a few years, and he didn't have much time to grind, so he had to make a decision earlier.

This decision doesn't mean that you are going to get married soon, it's really too child's play, and no matter how anxious you are, you can't do that.

However, you need to decide whether you want to deal with it or not.

If you want to find a partner, try to get along so that you have a chance to understand whether the other person is suitable or not.

If you can't even make this determination, then forget it, there is no need to delay others.

So he asked the question directly.

This question made Yan's father stunned.

After a long while, he said, "What are you asking for?" ”

"I just want to know what you think, and whether it is necessary to get to know her mother and her." Yan Xin said.

Yan's father actually thought about this last night.

Finding a companion has the benefits of finding one, but it can also have some troubles.

After Yan Xin persuaded him yesterday, he also felt that in the next few decades, it would be really difficult to live alone, and there would be a lot of misery.

Finding a companion seems to solve a lot of problems.

The original knot has been put down, and now the main thing I am struggling with is not sure whether the companion I can find is a person who makes my future life more comfortable, or someone who makes my life more troublesome.

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Based on what he has seen and heard over the years, there are a lot of troubles in forming a family, and there are all kinds of nonsense.

There are such families in the village, and there are also neighboring villages, but they are not as good as they imagined.

When you meet a virtuous woman, it can indeed make your life more comfortable in the future.

But the odds aren't high.

Just like a woman wants to meet a good man, the odds are just as low.

In reality, the vast majority of people are selfish, and the difference is how selfish they are.

Some still have a face, and some don't have a face at all.

There are also many problems with the children of both parties.

Thinking that those troubles might befall him, Yan's father didn't want to talk about it anymore.

However, when I think of getting old, I feel quite scared to live alone in the countryside.

- Actually, it doesn't have to be when he's old, even now, sometimes he feels quite lonely.

However, asking him to go to the city to live with his son will make him feel that he is a useless person, a burden to his son, and the thought of such a life makes him feel even more terrifying—in his mind, it is even more terrible than living alone in the countryside.

At least this village is a place he is familiar with, and his neighbors are also acquaintances, and he can support himself here.

Going to the city and thinking of the cars coming and going on the street gave him a sense of fear.

The enclosed house in the concrete forest made him feel like a prison cell.

There is another fear in my heart - if I become a useless person, a person who can only rely on my son to support him, will my son still recognize him as a father at that time?

Although his son is now behaving very well and is very filial, but since he was a child, he has seen so many sons who are not filial to their parents and do not want to provide for the elderly, and he is really a little afraid in his heart.

He knows how humble and frightened some old people are in front of their sons and daughters-in-law when they are old.

Yan Xin has been able to make a lot of money, he is still working hard, using his own labor in exchange for a meager income, and there is also a little idea that he hopes that he has the ability to support himself, so that the life of old age will be more dignified.

Don't blame him for thinking too much, at this age, he has seen so many things, and he has suffered so much, and he thinks more than young people, and more than those who have been living in happiness, and he is really not optimistic about the future.

The feeling is that no matter how you choose, there are advantages and disadvantages.

Whether it was more good or more disadvantageous, he didn't make a decision for a while.

If you meet a virtuous woman, you can save a lot of trouble.

But he doubted that he, who had been miserable all his life, could have such good luck?

Yan Xin asked his opinion now, and he didn't know how to answer.

There was silence for a while before he said, "I'm going to think about it." ”

"Dad, you've been thinking about it for a few months," Yan Xin said with a wry smile, "People also have their own lives, if you don't have that awareness, people may have to find the next one." Maybe by the time you've thought about it, you've decided to talk to her, and then she's already someone else's family. ”

Yan's father said in a low voice: "That's nothing......"

is not his woman, he has never talked to him, and becoming someone else's woman will naturally not cause any ripples in his heart.

Yan Xin said: "Actually, I think Bai Xiaoling's mother is quite good, she has a similar experience as you, and she is not a person who likes to cause trouble, and she is also diligent and thrifty, if you can be with her and rely on each other, I can rest assured outside." ”

Father Yan nodded: "She is a good woman, but her life is not good." ”

Suddenly, he sighed.

This is thought of yourself.

His life is not good either.

"Why don't you think about it?" Yan Xin asked with a smile.

"What are you doing in such a hurry?" Yan's father was a little embarrassed.

"If you're not in a hurry, others may be the first to get there," Yan Xin took out Bai Xiaoling's words to scare him and scare his father, "In the past, because she wanted to support Bai Xiaoling to study, others didn't dare to talk to her, but now that Bai Xiaoling has graduated from high school, without this burden, there will be a lot of people who want it." How many divorced men and unmarried old bachelors are there on our side, you don't know, people like her, as long as there is no burden, a lot of people rob you, you think about it late, and there is no business for you. ”

Dad Yan hesitated a little.

He didn't have any ideas, but when Yan Xin said that, he felt that it was okay to form a family with Bai Xiaoling and her mother, and over the years, he had never heard any bad rumors about that woman, and a woman supporting a family was really good.

Now it's not easy for a man to find a partner, but it's quite easy for a woman to find a partner.

Missing this woman, maybe he couldn't find a more suitable one.

- His world is small, mainly this village.

And in this village, if you think about it carefully, it seems that there is only one suitable one.

Reach out and get to know it, it seems that it is okay.

But the previous refusal was so simple, and now I agree, it's quite shameless.

Even in front of his son, he felt that it was shameless to change his words like this.

Seeing him hesitate, Yan Xin said with a smile: "If you have no opinion, I'll go to the matchmaker in the afternoon and ask her to help talk about it?" ”

Yan's father was embarrassed: "Where is there a matter of finding a matchmaker for a son to be a father?" ”

"There's no rule that says you can't do that." Yan Xin said.

Father Yan didn't speak.

"And that's what I did?" Yan Xin asked again.

Father Yan was a little embarrassed, waved his hand, and said impatiently: "You can do whatever you want." ”

"Okay, that's it." Yan Xin said.

If you don't object, that's what you agree.

This does not mean that it has been successful, but it is at least a step in the direction of success.

- If you don't make contact, you'll never succeed.

At the lunch meal, Yan Xin ate quite happily.

Before eating, he also took a few photos on purpose.

This is a table of food that I have taken care of, and I must take a picture of it.

If two people eat eight dishes, they will definitely not be able to eat them, and the rest will be put in the refrigerator.

After eating, take a half-hour break.

Taking out his mobile phone, Feng Xi and Ellili both sent him messages.

Arily had already arrived home and told him that her mother had asked him why he hadn't come with her for the holidays, and then explained how she had explained it.

Her mother also asked her to bring him over the following weekend, and she asked Yan Xin if she could agree to the request.

Yan Xin was disgusted with her mother, but he had no way to refuse such a request - after the physical derailment, he felt very guilty about Ellili and had a strong desire to compensate her.

So I readily agreed.

And the message Feng Xi sent to him was to complain that her mother would let her work as soon as she got home, let her do everything about killing chickens and fish, and she would also do the cooking, and she had to sacrifice two ears to listen to her mother's nagging.

She said that she was very annoyed, and said that she had known that she would not come back for the holidays, so she would forget it in the county seat.

also said that she originally wanted to go to Yan Xin in the afternoon, and then her mother arranged something for her, so that she would go to the cotton field to hoe in the afternoon, which made her so depressed that she didn't want it.

Yan Xin comforted her while chatting with Arili.

The mood is much more relaxed - Feng Xi can't come in the afternoon, so he doesn't have to worry about his phone being checked, and he can chat with Ellili with confidence.

However, the chat with these two girls didn't last long, because he still had something to do in the afternoon.

Half an hour later, I ended the chat and went about my business.

That is, to go to the matchmaker Wang who came to talk to Bai Xiaoling's mother and his father last year, and asked her to restart the project.

He didn't go empty-handed, but brought a pair of wines.

Mrs. Wang's family lives in another group, and it looks like it's only two or three miles away.

When Yan Xin passed, Mrs. Wang was very surprised and didn't know what his intention was.

After listening to Yan Xin's explanation, he couldn't help laughing: "I've heard of a dad looking for a matchmaker to tell his son, and this is the first time I've seen a son looking for a matchmaker to be a dad." ”

Yan Xin said with a smile: "My dad is thin-skinned and embarrassed to talk about him in person, so only I, the son, are here." ”

Mrs. Wang sighed: "Other people's children don't want to have a stepmother, but you took the initiative to help your father find it, you are really a filial child." ”

Yan Xin said: "Now that the family is not so difficult, seeing that my father is still alone, I feel a little uncomfortable, I still hope that he can live better, and Aunt Wang needs help in this matter." ”

Forming a family does not have to be a matchmaker.

The main reason is that this matter was originally said by Mrs. Wang, but it was rejected by Yan's father.

In the future, if you form a family with someone else, it will be fine.

But if you combine a family with Bai Xiaoling and her mother and bypass the matchmaker, it will be very bad.

This nature is like a tenant who finds a house he likes from an agent, but tells the agent that he doesn't like it, and then bypasses the agent to sign a contract with the landlord, which is very unkind.

Let Mrs. Wang know, she will definitely make trouble.

The matchmaker promotes a marriage, and it is necessary to take benefits, not only money, but also various gifts, all of which are indispensable.

Yan Xin asked her to restart the project this time, just to avoid trouble in the future.

It was worth it for him to give up a little outside of his body and change it for peace.

He promised Mrs. Wang that if this matter was negotiated, he would give her a red envelope of 666 yuan and buy her a pair of leather shoes.

He also revealed to Mrs. Wang that both parties had that meaning, and he and Bai Xiaoling were also supportive of their children, saying that it was not difficult to have a relationship with this family.

This also made Mrs. Wang very happy, thinking that this was picking up money, and she readily agreed at that time.

After coming out of Mrs. Wang's house, Yan Xin went back to his home.

His father was working in the fields, and he also carried a hoe to the field to hoe grass with his father for an hour or two before returning home to prepare dinner.

Dinner is very simple, just take out two leftovers from noon and heat them up.

The rest will continue to be eaten tomorrow.

At dinner, Yan Xin talked to his father about what he said to Mrs. Wang in the afternoon.

has reached this point, and it is too late for Yan's father to regret it - regretting it will only make his son ugly.

Besides, he wasn't ready to go back.

Then I have to accept it.

That night, when Yan Xin and Feng Xi were chatting, they mentioned this matter.

Feng Xi is from this village, and such a thing must not be hidden from her.

Since you can't hide it, it's better to say it earlier, so as to show the importance of Feng Xi in your mind.

Feng Xi didn't object to this matter, but just replied: "This is also good, Bai Xiaoling's mother is a person who can live, if it really happens, it is not a bad thing for your father." ”

Seeing Feng Xi's reply, Yan Xin was very happy: "I think so too, it's not easy for my dad to be alone all these years." ”

Feng Xi asked another question: "If this thing happens, won't you and Bai Xiaoling become half-brothers and sisters?" ”

Yan Xin: "That's true. ”

Feng Xi became happy: "Then she has to call me sister-in-law from now on." ”

Yan Xin is a little weak - he hasn't thought about who he will marry in the future.

But at this time, he could only reply: "Yes." ”

According to the usual practice, when chatting with Feng Xi on QQ, Yan Xin was also chatting with Alili.

It's night, and it's impossible for Feng Xi to come to him to check his mobile phone, so he can chat boldly with confidence.

However, he was going to leave tomorrow morning, and he was still setting off in a car with Feng Xi, so before going to bed, Yan Xin still deleted the chat page between him and Alili.

He also did one thing before going to bed, and that was to set the alarm clock at six o'clock.

When the alarm clock rang, he didn't delay in bed, he quickly got up, went to the toilet first, then washed his face and brushed his teeth, and then went to the kitchen to make breakfast.

At this time, his father had already gone out to collect the lobsters in the cage, and he had to make breakfast by himself.

It's quite simple, just made a bowl of noodles with the yellow eel slices that he didn't finish yesterday - I don't know when his dad will come back, and the noodles are not good after a long time, so he prepared his own breakfast.

After breakfast, it was already 6:40.

Feng Xi sent him a message: "Have you left?" I'm already on my way. ”

It was still five minutes ago.

She was farther away from the side of the road, so she had to leave much earlier.

Yan Xin replied: "I'm about to leave." ”

After replying to this message, he went out the door.

The door of the house is closed, not locked, his father will not come too late, there are people in the neighborhood, so there is no need to lock the door.

He didn't even bring his bag, so he set off.

When I arrived at the commissary of the lame man's house, the shuttle bus to the county seat had not yet come.

But it didn't take long for the minibus to come over.

If you miss this train, you have to wait for it to drive to the county seat, then come back from the county seat, and then go back to the county seat.

One miss is a matter of two or three hours.

So it has to be early.

After getting in the car, Yan Xin sent a message to Feng Xi:

"I'm already in the car."

Feng Xi quickly replied: "I heard the car calling." ”

At this time, there were not many people in the car, and there were some spare seats, Yan Xin chose a position by the aisle, and there was an empty seat inside, which he left for Feng Xi.

drove out for a while before I saw Feng Xi standing on the side of the road waiting for the bus.

After Feng Xi got in the car, when he saw him, he walked towards him with a smile on his face, and then sat inside very unceremoniously, and the two of them sat side by side.

Some people in the car were surprised, but they only looked at it twice, and no one said anything.

The car started again, Feng Xi leaned on Yan Xin and asked in a low voice:

"Did you miss me?"

There were other people in the car, Yan Xin was embarrassed to say too ambiguously, but he couldn't deny it, so he could only whisper back to her:

"That's a must."

Feng Xi smiled happily.

He also said: "Your night car, go to the city and wait is more tired, why don't you get off with me in the county, stay for half a day, and then set off in the afternoon?" ”

There is a place to sell train tickets in the county, just at the Gongnong Bridge, Yan Xin bought a train ticket to Yangcheng there before going home, which is a sleeper at night, so that he can arrive the next morning after lying on the car for one night.

It takes more than an hour to go to the city by bus, so there is really no need to go so early.

Yan Xin knew that she wanted to stay with him more, and he didn't rule out staying with her for a while, so he nodded and agreed:

"That's what I thought too."

So, when the car arrived at the county seat, the two of them got off together, and then went directly to the house that was used as a dormitory.

- At this time, the employees living in the dormitory have already gone to work, and there will be no one in the dormitory.

It wasn't until four o'clock in the afternoon that Yan Xin got on the bus to the city and left the county seat.

In all fairness, he can also feel happy when he is with Feng Xi.

Seeing Feng Xi's happy appearance, he could also feel happy.

The only thing that makes him feel uncomfortable is that he has to worry about being checked by Feng Xi at all times.

That's what it's like to be a thief.

When he arrived at the dormitory, he took the opportunity to go to the toilet and looked at his mobile phone, and saw that Ellili had sent a message to himself, saying that he had already set off for Yangcheng, and asked him if he had set off and when would he arrive?

Yan Xin replied: "The car in the evening will arrive tomorrow morning." ”

Then I deleted the chat page.

It's just that before he put down his phone, he received another message from Ellili: "Okay, got it, wait for you to come back, husband." ”

Yan Xin's heart trembled when he saw this news, and he didn't dare to reply, so he hurriedly deleted it.

Fortunately, Arily didn't send another message after that.

During this period, Feng Xi also took his mobile phone to look at the photos and videos in his mobile phone, and pretended to look at the list of messages on his QQ casually, and did not find anything boring.

Get through the risk.

It wasn't until four o'clock in the afternoon that Yan Xin replied to Alili: "We will meet tomorrow morning, and I am very excited when I think of this." ”

Alilie: "Me too. ”

At this time, Yan Xin could finally chat with Alili with confidence.

At the same time, he was chatting with Feng Xi.

I got on the train in the evening, and the chat with the two girls continued, as long as there was a signal, they were chatting, and they chatted until more than ten o'clock in the evening.

However, after waking up the next morning, Yan Xin silently deleted the chat page with Feng Xi.

Now he doesn't have to worry about Feng Xi checking his phone, what he is worried about is Eli checking his phone.