Chapter 353 Sufficient food and clothing to know shame

Ellili's question made Yan Xin feel a little weak.

The more weak the heart, the more calm you must be.

hugged Arily and said softly, "Don't worry, I will never be the same as him." ”

He won't be the same as Chen Li, that's because he is already doing more than Chen Li now.

So strictly speaking, there is nothing wrong with his words.

Alily buried her head in his arms and said, "I'm really afraid that one day you'll be like this." ”

"No, absolutely not." Yan Xin could only try his best to comfort.

As he spoke, he patted her on the back with his hand.

But I regretted it in my heart: "I knew that drinking would cause so many things, I shouldn't have let them drink at that time, and it was best not to eat together." ”

Even Chen Li was a little dissatisfied: "I got involved in this, and I was implicated." ”

Just thinking about it, I suddenly heard the crying voice of Alili in my arms and said: "During the time you left, I had several nightmares, dreaming that you had another woman, dreaming that you were dumped by you, during this time, you chatted with me less, and the tone was very perfunctory, I was really scared......"

Yan Xin's body stiffened.

He was already a little strange, and felt that Allyly had overreacted a little today.

Normally, when a friend encounters something like that, he can sympathize with or even hate the other party, but not to the point of making himself so sad.

Now I understand that it turned out that it was with Feng Xi during this time that he snubbed her and gave her a sense of crisis.

The pessimism that has accumulated during this period of time has now been triggered because of what happened to Liang Wei.

At this moment, her sadness is related to Liang Wei, but more of it is for herself.

Thinking of this, he felt even more guilty.

But he didn't know what to do other than continue to cajole Arilyβ€”or he knew what was the right thing to do, but he wasn't prepared to do it.

I can only coax Alili, saying that I am not that kind of person, and apologize for snubbing her for this period of time, and explain that there are too many things at work, and I really don't have time to chat with her, and then because I was too busy, I didn't find her emotions, and I apologized deeply for this, and promised that I would never do it again next time.

But he knew that such a guarantee had no credibility because he couldn't.

Something like this will definitely happen in the future, and it will happen more than once - as long as this concealment continues.

coaxed for a long time, which stabilized Ellily's mood, and then said to him embarrassedly with tears:

"I'm sorry, I was a little out of shape just now, I didn't control myself, and I was angry with you."

Yan Xin couldn't get angry, and said with a smile: "It's true that I didn't do well and made you insecure." ”

"It's not your problem, it's that Chen Li's problem, it's that he is too ruthless and unrighteous to Xiaowei." Arily said.

Yan Xin followed her words and said: "He also has problems, but his problems are his problems, and I must admit my own problems." ”

"You're okay, I'm thinking about it." Arily said.

I didn't control myself in the excitement, but after I stabilized and reviewed what happened, I felt that I was too unreasonable.

For fear that such behavior would arouse Yan Xin's disgust.

looked at him blankly and said, "Husband, I doubted you like that just now...... You...... You're not angry, are you? ”

"I'm not angry," Yan Xin said with a smile, "How can I be angry?" I wasn't angry at all. ”

Arily had some disbelief: "Are you really not angry?" Husband! ”

"It's really not lifeless."

Yan Xin was a little weak-hearted, thinking in his heart:

"I'm a scumbag, I did such a bad thing, where did I get my face angry?"

His heart flashed across his face and fell into Arily's eyes, making her misunderstood.

She felt that this was a manifestation of Yan Xin's anger, she was obviously angry, and she felt that her sincerity was not trusted, but because she wanted to coax her, she could only force a smile and say that she was not angry.

Thinking about it like this, she felt even more sorry for Yan Xin for saying those words just now, and let him live up to his true feelings for herself.

said: "Husband, I'm sorry, I shouldn't doubt your feelings for me." ”

This made Yan Xin a little unnatural, obviously he was a rotten person, but in turn he asked the family to apologize, which was a little too bad.

smiled: "I'm not angry when I said it, don't think nonsense." ”

The unnaturalness on his face fell on Ellili's eyes, which made her feel that he was at the same time.

There was no way to make up for her mistake with a verbal apology, and she decided to make up for it in action.

So, she slowly slid her body down until the whole person slipped into the bed.

Yan Xin shuddered.

Originally, I wanted to explain to Alily that she was really not angry, so that she should not get me wrong.

But seeing the way she apologizes now, I thought again, if you misunderstand, you will misunderstand, men and women get along, and a little misunderstanding is inevitable, as long as it is not a principled contradiction.

- People are so sincere that they want to apologize, and it seems unnecessary to prevent others from apologizing, so they acquiesce to Arily's apology.

I looked at the time, and it was already after midnight.

They slept late that night.

Liang Wei was in the car at 0:40, and after she got in the car, Alili also sent her a message to confirm that she got in the car, and then she fell asleep with peace of mind.

In more than ten hours, Liang Wei will return to her hometown.

When she came out, she was a working girl who had nothing, and when she went back, she had hundreds of thousands of savings and the title of a popular Internet female writer, in a sense, it can also be regarded as a return to her hometown.

When Alili and Liang Wei were chatting on QQ, Yan Xin suddenly remembered what Chen Li had said, and said to Alili:

Chen Li said that if Liang Wei has any economic requirements, he can talk to him, and he can agree to it within 500,000 yuan. Why don't you ask Liang Wei, do you need financial compensation? ”

Arily was dumbfounded: "What to compensate?" Two people are together, why do they need to be financially compensated when they break up? Chen Li: What does he mean? Is he using money to humiliate Xiaowei? ”

In her heart, it was quite a shameful thing to convert companionship into money.

Because of Ai Jing, she is more sensitive than others, and she feels that such a thing is even more shameful.

So she felt that Chen Li's proposal for such compensation was an insult to Liang Wei's character.

"This is called a breakup fee, also known as a youth loss fee," Yan Xin explained, "You search on the Internet, there are many such things." ”

Hearing that there are a lot of such things, Alili is a little angry, but she still can't understand this way of dealing with it - this is obviously very disrespectful to girls, and the spiritual core is that she thinks that the companyship of girls can be converted into money, and she is objectifying girls.

said: "Youth loss fee, it's too much to look down on girls to make such a statement, right?" ”

Yan Xin smiled bitterly: "Uh...... In general, this is requested by the woman, and it is they who ask for compensation for the breakup, not the man who takes the initiative. You must know that most of the ordinary people in our country are still relatively poor, and ordinary men will not take the initiative to pay such a so-called youth compensation. When I was in my hometown, I saw some fights over breakup fees. ”

Alili was stunned for a while, and then said depressedly: "Okay, it's because my living conditions are too good to understand these folk sufferings. ”

But she still hesitated: "Asking Xiaowei like this, will it make her angry and feel offended?" ”

Yan Xin couldn't make up his mind, so he could only speculate: "It shouldn't be, right?" Xiaowei is also from an ordinary family, so she should know something about these things, so as not to think that the breakup fee is humiliating her. ”

If it was Liang Wei who was still working as a real estate agent, Yan Xin could be sure that she would never think she was offended.

At that time, Liang Wei needed money very much and had a strong desire for money.

When she and Chen Li first got together, it was just an unspoken story of a real estate agent and a buyer, not a love story.

But whether Liang Wei will feel offended now, he really can't be sure.

Because Liang Wei has now become a well-known online writer, the manuscript fees that have been received are hundreds of thousands, and the manuscript fees for physical publication have not been settled, in total, the wealth brought to her by that book is more than one million.

And in the future, he will continue to create wealth for her.

Hundreds of thousands of dollars are no longer so important to her, it will not be related to survival, it is certainly the icing on the cake, it is not a big deal if there is not, and it will not have much impact on her quality of life.

Cang is enough to know etiquette, food and clothing are enough to know shame.

Only with a certain economic foundation can we afford to speak of decency.

And Liang Wei is more or less a decent person now, and she has the conditions to be decent at this time.

Of course, there will be some people who can be decent, but choose to be undignified.

Yan Xin didn't know what kind of person Liang Wei was.

Ellilie's insistence that breaking up in such a way is objectifying and humiliating women.

But she still mentioned this matter to Liang Wei - what if Liang Wei really needs these hundreds of thousands of yuan?

If Liang Wei loses this income because of her likes and dislikes, and then affects her life, wouldn't she become a sinner?

After sending the message, she was actually very apprehensive in her heart.

She didn't want Liang Wei to accept such breakup compensation.

If she accepted it, she would feel that Liang Wei was a bit materialistic and gave up her dignity for money.

But she also hopes that Liang Wei can live a better life alone in the future, and her material conditions can be better.

Even though she has been rich since she was a child and is a little ungrounded in life, she also knows that better material conditions can make people happier.

She hopes that Liang Wei can be happy, and hopes that the damage caused to her by this breakup can be as little as possible.

If the way to compensate for the breakup fee can make Liang Wei not so sad, this is also a good thing for Liang Wei, and she has no reason to object.

But she hopes that Liang Wei can refuse this kind of breakup compensation.

This is the behavior of an independent and self-reliant woman, and it is the most fierce slap in the face for a ruthless, unrighteous and irresponsible man like Chen Li, showing the light of women.

In the entanglement, I received Liang Wei's reply:

"Sister Lili, you can tell him that I, Liang Wei, can live well with my own ability, and I don't need his compensation!"

Seeing such a reply, Alili had a smile on her face, and then said to Yan Xin excitedly: "Xiaowei said that she doesn't want a breakup fee, she said that she can rely on herself and live well." ”

There is a sense of excitement with honor.

Yan Xin looked at her funny, and said with emotion: "Chen Li is still vulgar, he has lived together for so long, and he doesn't really understand what kind of person Liang Wei is. ”

Alily snorted and said, "He just looks down on women, thinking that others follow him just for his money." ”

"Yes, that's too bad." Yan Xin casually agreed.

But he thought in his heart: "But Liang Wei was with him at the beginning, just for his money." ”

He hadn't told Alily about this fact before, and it was impossible for Chen Li and Liang Wei to say this, so Alili didn't know about it all along.

But he didn't want to tell Arily the truth.

The reality is too skinny, so let's let Arili, a kind woman, keep a little more beautiful fantasy of this world.

It is also a happy thing to have illusions about the world, and there is no need to puncture people's happiness.

They slept late at night and woke up late the next day.

When Alily woke up, it was already past eight o'clock in the morning, she quickly got up to clean up, and drove to work without even eating breakfast.

After arriving at the company, I called a nearby restaurant and asked them to bring a breakfast.

As for Yan Xin, the company does not have his office, he can go to work or not.

Since it was already so late, of course there was no need to go to work.

He was not as anxious as Elili, and even went to the community to run a few laps, then had breakfast, took a shower after returning home, hid in the room, turned on the air conditioner, and lay on the bed playing with his mobile phone.

Arily went to work, he was home alone, and he could talk to whoever he wanted, and he didn't have to worry about it at all.

and Feng Xi chatted for more than an hour, said a lot of earthy love words, and talked about each other's thoughts.

But it's Chen Li who talks more.

The two of them live in a community, and they could have met and chatted directly, but the weather was too hot, and lying in someone else's house was not as comfortable as lying in their own home, Yan Xin was reluctant to move, and would rather chat on QQ.

And you can chat with many people at the same time, chat with people offline, and take a mobile phone to chat with other people, which is somewhat disrespectful.

- Once in a while, forget it, the frequency is too high, it will be too unusual.

Even if he and Chen Li are very good friends, they can't be so rude.

reported Liang Wei's current situation to Chen Li, and also told Chen Li that Liang Wei did not ask for a breakup fee, and said her original words.

Chen Li didn't say much, he just said that it was okay not to, anyway, he would leave a sum of money there, and when Liang Wei needed it, he would turn it over.

Yan Xin asked him with some sourness: "Now that Liang Wei is also gone, you are single again, are you ready to be as carefree as before again, changing a woman a day?" ”

Chen Li replied honestly: "I have such thoughts. Isn't it better to change one a day, you can always get a freshness, it doesn't cost a few dollars, and you won't fall into the pit of feelings? ”

Seeing such an answer, Yan Xin rushed up angrily, feeling that Alili's evaluation of this guy was very correct, he was a bad man!

How many times others break up, they will be sad for a few days, but this guy is thinking about how to be happy, and he changes a girl every day, which is annoying to think about.

Ask him, "Don't you want to find a stable one?" ”

"I don't want to." Chen Li replied very simply.

Then I sent another one: "It's too boring to find a stable, no freshness, not to mention, and will be managed by others, and you will lose a lot of freedom." I can change one a day now, as long as my body can afford it, I can even change two or three a day, isn't it better to live like this? Why find an ancestor to provide for at home? If I have suffered a loss and make such a mistake again, then I will be a pig! ”

Yan Xin felt that his lifestyle was not good, but at the same time, he felt a little sour in his heart, and felt that he was quite happy with that lifestyle.

If you want to refute it, you don't know how to refute it.

Because if he could think of it, he himself felt a little stale.

Talking to Chen Li about the family, it's useless, people don't have a good impression of the family itself.

It's useless to talk to him about emotions, he doesn't even admit that there is such a thing as love in this world.

It was useless to tell him to be responsible, he just didn't want to take responsibility, so he decided not to get married or have children in this life.

Different values, different lifestyles, and no one can convince anyone.

If you really want to talk about it, Yan Xin even feels that he is very likely to be persuaded by this guy.

- That's a beautiful girl who can be changed every day!

- Change it every day!

- You can even change two or three a day!

It's all a generation that grew up watching educational films, who doesn't have some strange and bold ideas in their hearts?

If it weren't for Feng Xi and Alili, two women he didn't want to hurt, Yan Xin might have chosen the same lifestyle as Chen Li.

He is also young, and he also has delusions of youth.

The most important thing is that he still has that kind of conditions, and even his conditions are better than Chen Li's, and they are much better.

It's just that when I'm with Feng Xi or Alili, that kind of emotional gain is something that girls who can exchange casually can't provide.

So he chose the current way of life, even if it made him nervous.

can't convince Chen Li, so he can only respect, understand and bless.

In the chat with Chen Li, Yan Xin also revealed that Alili was very dissatisfied with him, so that he had a psychological preparation.

Chen Li was embarrassed: "I felt it yesterday, but it doesn't matter, I'm a rotten person, it's normal for Sister Lily to look down on me, I won't go to your house to eat in the future, lest she be unhappy when she sees it." ”